Stop Insulting And Judging Ppls If You Dont Know Them

[bannok society]

first of all apologize my english is not so good hope its enough to speak my mind

like everywhere in the world , theres good and bad out there but for you guys who really got nothing to do in your life please stop the manner of keep judging ppls just because of their looks

it seem like to be a very small little issue but trust me its not for me and not for anyone who face this problem 

imagine if this happend with your mother or sister 

if someone saying they re a bar-girl or that kind of girl just because she have very dark tan skin , just because she wearing shorts , just because she from issan , just because she dont have that fake surgical nose etc...

am always aware myself and have a very respect how to dress it right for the certain place , still got some of retards saying something behind my back when walking pass with my husband and ofcourse he's not thai 

for some of you who been living here in thailand for a few yrs and acting like "Im Mr. know best, know everything here" and keeps judging every girl from issan with dark tan skin who walk with the foriegners as prostitute , only chinese white skin with fake LV bag they ve got the certain good job works in office   ....oh boy

open your stupid narrow mind that for those dark girl not just a bar girl job here they got !! , they probably a teacher , engineering , lawyer , financial manager , cleaner , maid and so many things they can be , or even if they re a prostitue it still have nothing to do with you ! , they rob or hurt you ??? No, they dont 

if you can't say something nice then better not say it at all

we appreciate you - all of the foriegners that you love thailand , love weahter and food , love to travel here , love to have holiday here 

we treat you kind , we do respect you , some of you even live here , some of you have family here , 

why cant you just respsect our woman and treat them same as you treat your woman 

enough said and very boring topic i know , but some of you really deserved it

[HeavyDrinker]

Am I to believe this is a Thai having a rant about racial stereotyping?

[Chicog]

Don't worry we insult slappers in our own countries as well. You should take a walk down Tynemouth high street one day, it's like something from Animal Planet, they hunt in packs and only take the weak, the old and the young.

[David48]

Thank you for sharing ...

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[mauGR1]

Am I to believe this is a Thai having a rant about racial stereotyping?

Uhm..I would bet 1 Satang that he is not a she and he is not Thai either...But i agree with what he says

[Tywais]

Inappropriate comment removed. Can understand why the OP is having a rant with comments like that one. Keep it civil though I have reservations of the shelf life of this topic.

[bermondburi]

the OP is right.

[Valentine]

I always though it was mainly Thai people making nasty comments about Thai girls who are with farangs.

[I Like Thai]

I find that Thais are far more discriminating against dark skinned Thais than Farang are. In fact many Farangs prefer dark skinned Thais to whiter skinned Thais.

[MacChine]

So it's OK for you to insult indiscriminately;

"still got some of retards saying something behind my back when walking pass with my husband and ofcourse he's not thai. "

Of course ? Why, would no Thai man have you ?

I agree w comments that Thais are far more discriminatory regarding skin hues. Notice how no one on TV or in ads is less than bright white.

I think with the preponderance of Thai women in relationships with foreigners caring about nothing but securing a sugar daddy, you have to put up with the stigma.

Edited November 10, 2012 by MacChine

[uptheos]

Am I to believe this is a Thai having a rant about racial stereotyping?

Uhm..I would bet 1 Satang that he is not a she and he is not Thai either...But i agree with what he says

1 satang?? Don't you know a certainty when you see one.....put your life savings on it!!

[smokie36]

I love weekends....and girls....and almost everything else too.

[phuturatica]

You tell em!

[transam]

Hmmm, first post from it seems a misses angry ''today''. Seems you have been lurking here a while to make your point. May l point out that we all have our own perceptions about stuff and a forum is where we discuss it. May l add that my mrs is Isaan and l have been here a while..

[Rob8891]

Inappropriate comment removed. Can understand why the OP is having a rant with comments like that one. Keep it civil though I have reservations of the shelf life of this topic.

Good observation..... definitely past it's sell by date. ....and since you mentioned "civil", might one suggest that thisthread is yet another civil engineering project??

[giddyup]

"if you can't say something nice then better not say it at all"

That's going to make for some very short topics.

[theblether]

If we started being nice to each other it would be the end for the General Forum.

[krisb]

Ohh I think someone needs a big big hug!....goooort kan

Now doesnt that feel better!

[Rob8891]

On a positive note ( ), how refreshing it is to see this sort of topic trotted out yet again, but this time NOT in the usual impeccable English we usually see. Hmmmmm

[Semper]

Am I to believe this is a Thai having a rant about racial stereotyping?

Yes.

[Semper]

@ bannok society

they rob or hurt you ??? No, they dont

It's not unheard of.

[mogandave]

That's good, that's real good, now put him in the cornfield!

[loong]

So they say something behind your back, but you don't reveal to us what they are saying.

Does that mean that you don't know?

If you are an 18 year old and your husband is 90, or you look like a ladyboy, that may draw a few comments.

I think that it is probably paranoia on your part as most farangs are really not interested in you and your husband.

Oh and if you are somewhere like Pattaya, probably 99.9% of Thai girls walking with farangs are prostitutes. Certainly so common that nobody would bother to comment on it.

[bannok society]

my husband will laughing if he know am doing this

i didnt mean to be rude or making enemies here , just dont know where else to post - found this should be the main foriengners-communities in bkk

am work hard to have a long nice vacation , we went to the very nice beach but turn out that one day ive heard some foreigners saying something bad abt me when we walked pass , my husband said just forget it but its not that easy for me - i think its not for me or anyone, no one deserve this insulting

in uk you ll get into he trouble immediately if u said someone is fat

you will feel bad the same if i say " YOU RE A FARANG KEE NOK, LOOKS CHEAP n FAT" just right after you walk pass

tell your freinds , family , brother , sister please do not say something bad like that to any thai girl , whether she can hear it or not , or if you really want to do it or making a joke to have stupid fun with your friends please make sure she walk passed far enough to cannot hear that

trust me , its really hurt to hear that - at least for me

i do agreed , it can be another way around for some of thai ppls just not nice and taking advantage from the tourists

it took me forever to write in english so if any of you have a thai gf who can read in thai it will be nice and more easier to understand me right ,

<< Thai script removed, this is an English language forum. If you wish to post in Thai, you can do so on the Thai Language forum. >>

Edited November 11, 2012 by metisdead

[HeavyDrinker]

Personally I when I fire off random insults off to perfect strangers I stick to old Lancashire and Nottinghamshire dialects so no Thai (and few westerners) would understand them anyway.

[h90]

It isn't the dark skin or being from Isaan. It is the clothes, how they act, the age difference.

I recognize the difference of say a Russian (or any other European) woman who just married a German guy, and a Russian woman who is with a German guy for the money.

So my guess is that Thais can do the same with Thai women.

[Lukjaa]

Mr. Toad...I sent you a PM so maybe you could follow these instructions? Is that something you can do for me? Good...

[Lukjaa]

The reason people have to comment on other peoples' appearances or differences is because it makes them feel better about themselves to put down another person. Normal, well adjusted people confident in themselves don't notice these things like tatoos, skin colour or age differences....and they certainly don't feel the need to say anything about it to another person.

It says far more about the person making the comment than you walking past them.

[Several]

I became a monk about two years ago. One of our rules is Right Speech. We cannot say anything that might cause suffering and really should try to speak positively about people. Now, I'm originally from England and it wasn't until I had to follow Right Speech that it became glaringly obvious just how ingrained it is in our culture to insult and belittle just about everyone and everything. Finding positive comments to make about my fellow humans does not come naturally. Give it a go. Just spend one hour trying to be complimentary and positive, saying nothing insulting or harmful. We are programmed to be negative and we don't even remember how or when it happened. I'm betting very, very few of you will even consider trying.

@Bannok Society; the Japanese killed over 100,000 Thais in WW2. The insults we throw are nothing by comparison. You cannot change a culture that doesn't want to change, you can only change yourself.

[arthurwait]

How did you learn the very offensive, belittling, judgemental term - retard ?