Popular Post winstonc Posted July 5, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted July 5, 2013 well interesting posts here today,,but,, indian curry over thai anyday,,,,,,mmmmmmmmm,,, 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chooka Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 This is why Thailand is pushing for the quality tourist. This sort of thing tarnishes Thailand's reputation. If these people were quality tourists they wouldn't be shopping at market stalls they would be in Major Department stores shopping for designer items (made in India & Bangladesh). This incident would not have happened. Sounds to me like you are putting down all market stall operators. I for one would like to hear the whole story. I personally find it hard to believe all those other market vendors were no longer there. It was a comment I said in jest hence the smily, wasn't attacking anyone and I am extremely sorry again for the hurt I have caused. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chooka Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 This is why Thailand is pushing for the quality tourist. This sort of thing tarnishes Thailand's reputation. If these people were quality tourists they wouldn't be shopping at market stalls they would be in Major Department stores shopping for designer items (made in India & Bangladesh). This incident would not have happened. just to say that i stayed in the mecure in hau hin and friends mine stayed at the manderin oriental we have both been the chat a chat market so are we back packers or upmarket tourist as a phycologist in market reseach yourself please let me know your opion It was a comment made in jest, and one I am being attacked from all side for. I am sincerely sorry Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnotherOneAmerican Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 (edited) - Buddha was not Indian. I agree. The that time, his birthplace was situated in India, today it is in Nepal. That simple. The most popular belief is He was born in Lumbini, in the Northern part of the Indian subcontinent. The Buddha was born in a small kingdom called Kapilavastu, where his father was the king, which was situated on both sides of today's Indian-Nepalese border. His actual birthplace, Lumbini, is today in Nepal. Many people, thus, say he was born in Nepal, even if that wasn't the name of the country at the time. He was still a 'kairk', which is what the Thais look down on. Edited July 5, 2013 by AnotherOneAmerican Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post uptheos Posted July 5, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted July 5, 2013 (edited) Nice list, Spot on! I It's easy for an avg middle income or even middle-low income Indian having all the above traits to come to Thailand. Last year in Kolkata airport when I was visiting for the first time, I was surprised even people from small areas/villages were goint tog (pattaya) like if its some other city in India! Some were going for the first time just for some night fun. I strongly agree for 1,2,6,7 points. I see even rich educated people have spiting habits. Oh don't get me wrong I sincerely believe there are lots of low class travelers from India to Pattaya.......there are lots of low class travelers from everywhere to Pattaya. Edited July 5, 2013 by uptheos 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Banzai99 Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 In any civilized society, when people start to fight. onlookers try to break it up, but mob mentality rules here,its proven time and time again. That's why you don't get large pizzed up Farangs picking on small Thai guys. Thai's will stick together, Farangs will not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sunnyk Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 (edited) Kolkata airport is flooded with low class travelers. Mostly they come to trade TV, cloths and several fancy Chinese goods. While staying in Thailand, they believe worst than in India. The way they look towards Thai women, shame on them. May be you meant "behave". Yeah, no surprises. much more beautiful ladies for Eye Popping there. Edited July 5, 2013 by sunnyk 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Payboy Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 In general terms, Thais are very prejudice with dark skin people. This kind of behavior is not unusual when you compare it to some Western countries 50...100 years ago. Thais are constantly reminded that the "lighter the skin" the better you are in the social class. One cannot help but find whiteners in shower gels, soaps, face cleansers, creams--the list goes on. Then when you see the advertisements or actors on Thai TV, they are lilly white, (whiter than I am). Hopefully in the future an open discussion in Thai media will question this attitude and the media industry will start showing dark skin people in most of the movies and television programs. True, many Indians come off in Pattaya as rude or "clueless" --but this is a cultural difference. If anyone has visited India, they would notice how one crowds around a sale counter instead of lining up, or the loudest voice gets the attention. Ones space is not a choice where you live in one of the most populated countries, so it is common for an Indian to rub right against you when in an elevator or standing. I would doubt that this Indian father and mother with their two kids were doing anything uncommon. Many times I have had to look for the clerk at a stall or even at Central in order to purchase something. We can all relate to this. For a "mob reaction" to start fighting with this visitor is unacceptable. I feel India should tell their new travelors outside their country to avoid Pattaya. Jet ski scams and negative attitudes here are not worth the hassle. The problem with our (Indian) people is; 1] Mostly our womens are dark, fat and covered. In Pattaya it's exactly opposite. No need to say EYE POPPING for Indians. (i.e. my country people.) 2] We have limited fancy goods or articles. Thailand's market is flooded with Chinese goods. Again, EYE POPPING. 3] We always try to grab attention by speaking loudly and speak with hands. This is very disguise for others. 4] We have unnecessary learn to bargain everywhere, this is annoying for others. 5] If vendor says item is not for sale, we will ask loudly, "Why"? 6] We try to check things, even though we don't want to purchase. That blocks next customer of the vendors. And indeed very annoying. 7] Spitting habit is at it's worse in India. List is very long. Govt. and travel agent must make them aware before leaving India. I too several time ask my fellow people to behave properly, and they argue with me, "What am I doing wrong"? Sorry to say this, but I'm having doubts that you are actually Indian. Or maybe a very high caste one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnotherOneAmerican Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 The Indians I have met, were always very polite. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post bluecheesefan Posted July 5, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted July 5, 2013 As an Indian, I would like to say, the way we speak or the tone we use while speaking, no matter how politely or gently we try to speak or what we are speaking is mostly rude for Thai's or for those who speak softly. I have experienced it and learn to speak softly after staying 7-8 years here. Maybe this is the clause for provocation for kicking and punching. Thank you for speaking up. I was hoping someone from India would interject something into the conversation. I find it amusing to read some of the posts people write on these topics that end up with generalizations of other cultures and people that is not their own culture (which of course is perfect in comparison). I'd like to address a few of the things people write over and over again on here and then put in my two cents on what I think is going on generally speaking with Thailand at the moment. First off - this idea that Thais are so different because if a fight does happen more than one Thai gets involved in many cases. It is a ridiculous notion that Thailand (or Asia) is the only place where this takes place. It also happens in the USA and Europe on a regular basis. Alex Rodriguez is accused of murdering someone... but oh he first called his friends to come with him and assist him in the murder. There was no "honor" in that even if he did just go on his own, but was he alone. Nope. Gangs are rampant everywhere in the world. Start a fight with a gang member and you'll probably end up getting beat by the whole gang. So stop thinking that Thailand is so different in that aspect. It is true of all cultures, races, countries. Another generalization is this whole aspect that all Thais are the same and react and act the same. All Thai guys are bad, leave there girlfriends, never work... etc. etc. It is another ridiculous notion. My girlfriend and I live outside Bangkok about an hour and a half north. It is secluded and hard to get to area without a vehicle. I live among the real people (not those that are dealing in the tourist trade) who do regular work everyday. I know of numerous young Thai men with wives and children who work hard and provide a house and a living for their family. My girlfriend's niece just married one of those guys. Her brother has been married for years to his wife. Her best friend the same. So it is time to stop painting the picture with broad strokes. Realize that in all cultures there are good and bad aspects and some things can more easily turn into bad situations than others. Which is the same all over the world. I think the story above is a very good example of someone who - at least how I read the article - has come from another country to Thailand for the first time. As the poster above stated, he learned that he had to adjust his tone/volume to come across in a non-aggressive way toward the native culture. My thought is that many of these problems stem from the wide gap of cultural misunderstandings. The same people that told the security guard that Indians should be moved along and not allowed to loiter is obviously someone that paints everyone the same within any given cultural group. It is again ridiculous to think that way and will end up biting you in the end. Thais realize that there are good and bad people in their neighborhoods. My girlfriend owns a small shop and I have caught people shoplifting and one trying to steal from the till. They shake their heads and say "mai dee" which means "not good". If I am traveling and will come home after dark and will need a taxi to get home, she has told me to not come at night. She worries that I could have a problem with a bad taxi driver or I could say something that would cause an issue whether purposefully or not. Like anywhere, she wants me to stay low key on cash and not flash it around. Common sense again for any culture. Seven years ago when I first came to Thailand the tourist business was on the decline. It was almost at the levels that was before, but each year it became worse and in 2008 of course the bottom fell out for everyone. If you don't think that Thais look at the farang that drop 1,000 baht or more in a bar drinking beer for two or three hours and think he is nuts than you must really start to view Thailand from the vantage point of the Thai and not judging by the standards of your own culture that have zero application to Thai culture. So with the drastic changes in economies and the baseline cultural differences it is not surprising that more and more of these things are happening here and everywhere that is dealing with a growing number of poor people. Most Thais have never had the opportunity to travel outside the country let alone outside their birth home community. There is no intensive training that can be provided for truly understanding another culture over night. As we are all visitors to this country, it is up to us to mold ourselves to their cultural values. If not, then you are always going to be the one that draws a crowd of angry people hitting and kicking you. Okay, said what I wanted to say. Peace. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angiud Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 Just clean a few double posts and a few answers to Chooka, who already said sorry 10 times ;-) 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kannot Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 This is why Thailand is pushing for the quality tourist. This sort of thing tarnishes Thailand's reputation. If these people were quality tourists they wouldn't be shopping at market stalls they would be in Major Department stores shopping for designer items (made in India & Bangladesh). This incident would not have happened. One of those major stores recently lost my Wifes handbag they had been repairing for 6 months(yes SIX), did they offer her the money back??? Nope they gave her some vouchers to use at their store for some real shitty bags.It had sentimental value. Lets just say " here's to you Mrs " to know which store. <deleted> service all round and a lot of chasing on the Wife's behalf. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misterphil Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 Go on Pattaya vendors, you show the tourists a good time while they are on holiday. Probably advised them to rent the jet skis too. An Indian friend of mine I used to work with said his Brother had been to Thailand and was ripped off by vendors and at a jewellery shop. He asked me if it was safe and a good place to go on holiday as he wanted to bring his wife here, but was concerned about his brothers experience. Word will get round and the tourists will stop coming. But what do the vendors care when tomorrow never comes. Pretty sad really. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lee b Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 Where ever they are from, there is no need for this....If this is all that happened, first trip to Thailand maybe something was said that was not good??? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Espinete Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 Only headline enough; Indian ...... Go back to your country and teach your fellow people how to behave. I have been living 1 year in Bangrak, in a building with 90% Indians dominating the Charoen Krung Silverware wholesales. My wife was too scared to take the elevator........ 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ayayay Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 (edited) I must say I am surprised that anyone would want to kick an Indian. Any business dealings I have had with Indians have been thoroughly professional, pleasant and fair. Uh hum! Oh god racism is alive and well. Bet you would say the same if it was an Arab. There is no reason for violence anytime no excuse unless attacked yourself or one of your loved ones. Yeah, I wonder why he had so much trouble finding a nanny who would want to work for him... Edited July 5, 2013 by ayayay Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
manxninja Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 My work brings me into contact with many nationalities. Indians are the only ones I have cash on delivery policy with. Go figure Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jingthing Posted July 5, 2013 Share Posted July 5, 2013 My work brings me into contact with many nationalities. Indians are the only ones I have cash on delivery policy with. Go figure Do you find you need to punch them and kick them though? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tolley Posted July 6, 2013 Share Posted July 6, 2013 Mention the word Indian or Russian or Arab or Iranian etc and we see all the usual racial insults and stereotypes being trotted out. The real story here is that there is an ever continuing level of violence perpetrated by Thais on foreigners for little apparent reason other than the Thais know they can beat up foreigners and not face any police action. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rimmer Posted July 6, 2013 Share Posted July 6, 2013 More off topic posts removed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Payboy Posted July 6, 2013 Share Posted July 6, 2013 My work brings me into contact with many nationalities. Indians are the only ones I have cash on delivery policy with. Go figure Still need their business eh? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keesters Posted July 6, 2013 Share Posted July 6, 2013 Talking Pattaya, mate. Pattaya ain't Thailand. It's Disney land. Last time I checked Pattaya WAS a city within the province of Chonburi, Thailand and there is NO other place in the world with that name. Disneyland is often described as "The happiest place in the entire world; life, the universe, and everything; Walt's perfect/utopian kingdom in which everyone may be happy; the last hope for goodness in the world" So perhaps they are the same place! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keesters Posted July 6, 2013 Share Posted July 6, 2013 As we are all visitors to this country, it is up to us to mold ourselves to their cultural values. And just what do you see as their cultural values? I would certainly not wish to adopt any of their values as I have my own to live by. Some may be the same but many are definitely not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Espen Posted July 6, 2013 Share Posted July 6, 2013 Talking Pattaya, mate. Pattaya ain't Thailand. It's Disney land. Last time I checked Pattaya WAS a city within the province of Chonburi, Thailand and there is NO other place in the world with that name. Disneyland is often described as "The happiest place in the entire world; life, the universe, and everything; Walt's perfect/utopian kingdom in which everyone may be happy; the last hope for goodness in the world" So perhaps they are the same place! Except Disney Land vendors don`t kick people, as far as I know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xen Posted July 6, 2013 Share Posted July 6, 2013 must asked for stupid discount Yes that's true, i used to go to Pratunam and the way they bargain either make the vendors sick or good for a laugh....price 100 baht and they bargain to 20 baht. ...or they ask to look at almost every item but not buying at the end,,,,I am not saying every Indian does it but at Pratunam most do it.. My gf was at Pratanam yesterday and she said that most of the stalls are now run by Indians (or Bangladeshi ). I have noticed this in Pantip and along lower Sukhumvit road too. It will be interesting to watch the bargining at these stalls between Indian seller and Indian customer. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somtampet Posted July 6, 2013 Share Posted July 6, 2013 This is why Thailand is pushing for the quality tourist. This sort of thing tarnishes Thailand's reputation. If these people were quality tourists they wouldn't be shopping at market stalls they would be in Major Department stores shopping for designer items (made in India & Bangladesh). This incident would not have happened. Are u serious or disturbed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misterphil Posted July 6, 2013 Share Posted July 6, 2013 According to my wife she says that in the Thai news the vendors admitted to beating the Indians because they don't want to sell to indians. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jingthing Posted July 6, 2013 Share Posted July 6, 2013 (edited) According to my wife she says that in the Thai news the vendors admitted to beating the Indians because they don't want to sell to indians. That's twisted. Does their blood not bleed the color of curry like everyone else?!? Edited July 6, 2013 by Jingthing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rimmer Posted July 6, 2013 Share Posted July 6, 2013 Racist post removed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ohio Posted July 6, 2013 Share Posted July 6, 2013 Whatever happened to cause this altercation , I would imagine they cannot wait to get back to India to Broadcast the 'welcome' they received in Pattaya the 'Family Friendly " & "Safe" holiday spot , so all their friends & relatives come pouring in to sample the joys & wonders of this "Safest" place in Asia. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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