Confessions of a straight(?) man.....

[homeseeker]

An interesting read:

http://www.stickmanbangkok.com/ReadersSubmissions2013/reader8448.htm

[kikoman]

Read your story half way with an open mind, not my views not my cup of tea,

actually we have nothing in common, its your life you should live it like you want, definitely not for me.

Luck be with you

Cheers

[krisb]

I agree with kikoman.

Not interesting at all really.

[davidst01]

I do wonder if this story was written by stickman himself- ie ie he the 'pretender'?? Its likely he may be looking for more promotion and 'hits' on his website.

The story doesn't sound so real to me.

[LaraC]

Its rather self-indulgent.
Ironically if you were to leave out the sex tourist bit and change the perspective, it sounds similar to something a feminist may write if she were feeling bitter about men.

As the writer stated, he wasnt able to get what he was looking for in the west, so i can hardly blame him for looking elsewhere if dissatisfied. However, sextourism isnt really the healthiest way to deal with that.
I wonder how his story will pan out by the time he hits 40.

[FiftyTwo]

"At age 22 I did not understand female nature and why women behave the way they do."

Nobody understands that, not even the females.

"I became a sex tourist because I love the feeling of being lusted after sexually by beautiful ladyboys."

This guy's an idiot, LBs are working.

[HardenedSoul]

Hats off to the bloke. If he's happy, fine but I don't share his generalisations about Western women although many on TV Forums will.

Sure there are lots like those he describes but I think the tendency for men to hook up with women like that has its roots in those mens' belief - conscious or otherwise - that men have little choice but to buy women.

[MJP]

With each paragraph the bloke gets six inches shorter.

She was passed over by richer, taller, more financially successful men . . .

He's about 3' 2" at the moment . . . still reading . . .

[khunpa]

Having tried the "wild" life for a good period of time. My personal experience was that it very quickly became a very boring and superficial life. I never understood people who can live here for many years and still find the company of prostitutes exciting.

I would at anytime prefer living with a partner that I love, who love me back and who I can share the small but great moments in life with. And I am sure, that when the guy has been through enough girls (or in his case ladyboys), then he will at some point realize just how superficial his life really is.

[MJP]

Having tried the "wild" life for a good period of time. My personal experience was that it very quickly became a very boring and superficial life. I never understood people who can live here for many years and still find the company of prostitutes exciting.

I would at anytime prefer living with a partner that I love, who love me back and who I can share the small but great moments in life with. And I am sure, that when the guy has been through enough girls (or in his case ladyboys), then he will at some point realize just how superficial his life really is.

Ladyboys? I havent read that far yet, you're spoiling the plot man!

[khunpa]

Having tried the "wild" life for a good period of time. My personal experience was that it very quickly became a very boring and superficial life. I never understood people who can live here for many years and still find the company of prostitutes exciting.

I would at anytime prefer living with a partner that I love, who love me back and who I can share the small but great moments in life with. And I am sure, that when the guy has been through enough girls (or in his case ladyboys), then he will at some point realize just how superficial his life really is.

Ladyboys? I havent read that far yet, you're spoiling the plot man!

Sorry :-)

[MJP]

Having tried the "wild" life for a good period of time. My personal experience was that it very quickly became a very boring and superficial life. I never understood people who can live here for many years and still find the company of prostitutes exciting.

I would at anytime prefer living with a partner that I love, who love me back and who I can share the small but great moments in life with. And I am sure, that when the guy has been through enough girls (or in his case ladyboys), then he will at some point realize just how superficial his life really is.

Ladyboys? I havent read that far yet, you're spoiling the plot man!

Sorry :-)

[MJP]

I became a sex tourist because for the longest time I lived with irritation – like an itch I couldn’t scratch.

That'll be the genital warts mate.

[khunpa]

I became a sex tourist because for the longest time I lived with irritation – like an itch I couldn’t scratch.

That'll be the genital warts mate.

Yes, no doubt about that :-)

[MJP]

I was wrong!

As I walked around Pattaya with a 27-year old 6'2'' tall ladyboy (my height) . . .

Just quite how tall were these richer, taller, financially successful other men back in the West?

[mogandave]

"...despite me being physically extremely fit, muscular, tall and handsome (as I have been called by many women, gay men and ladyboys especially when they see my fitness modeling photos…"

Dude has issues...

[MJP]

"...despite me being physically extremely fit, muscular, tall and handsome (as I have been called by many women, gay men and ladyboys especially when they see my fitness modeling photos…"

Dude has issues...

Dude has quite the opposite issues to me, I know that much. Especially the extremely fit and muscular bit. I have been told I'm hansum though, but only by an old woman in the village.

[mogandave]

"...despite me being physically extremely fit, muscular, tall and handsome (as I have been called by many women, gay men and ladyboys especially when they see my fitness modeling photos…"

Dude has issues...

Dude has quite the opposite issues to me, I know that much. Especially the extremely fit and muscular bit. I have been told I'm hansum though, but only by an old woman in the village.

You need to git you some fitness modeling photos and show them to the ladyboys you pay to have sex with. They'll tell you how bitchin' you is.

[aTomsLife]

"...despite me being physically extremely fit, muscular, tall and handsome (as I have been called by many women, gay men and ladyboys especially when they see my fitness modeling photos…"

Dude has issues...

Dude definitely has issues.

He says he's bisexual, but since most of his essay refers to ladyboys, he seems far more gay than straight. Still, he never mentions the possibility of having a western BF. Probably feels too much shame to come out of the closet at home. This shame is then manifesting into disdain for women. Just my armchair analysis.

[MJP]

"...despite me being physically extremely fit, muscular, tall and handsome (as I have been called by many women, gay men and ladyboys especially when they see my fitness modeling photos…"

Dude has issues...

Dude has quite the opposite issues to me, I know that much. Especially the extremely fit and muscular bit. I have been told I'm hansum though, but only by an old woman in the village.

You need to git you some fitness modeling photos and show them to the ladyboys you pay to have sex with. They'll tell you how bitchin' you is.

Our first stumbling block in your strategy Dave, is getting the "fitness modeling photos". I'll do some sit-ups tonight.

[khunpa]

Last time I visited a GoGo bar, I ended up talking to one of the "dancers" who claimed I looked very "hansum".

I asked her how old she thought I was and she looked at me for a long time... She then said: "I think you are 50!" and quickly asked for a lady drink. I said "No" and walked on to the next bar.

I am 43...

(Considering she properly took 20 years of her real guess, I must have looked like shit that night)

[MJP]

Last time I visited a GoGo bar, I ended up talking to one of the "dancers" who claimed I looked very "hansum".

I asked her how old she thought I was and she looked at me for a long time... She then said: "I think you are 50!" and quickly asked for a lady drink. I said "No" and walked on to the next bar.

I am 43...

I know Khunpa, I've had a tough paper round too.

Often get told I'm late forties and people think they're being kind.

I'm 38.

[mogandave]

"...despite me being physically extremely fit, muscular, tall and handsome (as I have been called by many women, gay men and ladyboys especially when they see my fitness modeling photos…"

Dude has issues...

Dude has quite the opposite issues to me, I know that much. Especially the extremely fit and muscular bit. I have been told I'm hansum though, but only by an old woman in the village.

You need to git you some fitness modeling photos and show them to the ladyboys you pay to have sex with. They'll tell you how bitchin' you is.

Our first stumbling block in your strategy Dave, is getting the "fitness modeling photos". I'll do some sit-ups tonight.

Photoshop...

[MJP]

^^ I'll have to get Fiddlesticks to do it, he's great with Photoshop.

He'll need to be . . .

[khunpa]

Last time I visited a GoGo bar, I ended up talking to one of the "dancers" who claimed I looked very "hansum".

I asked her how old she thought I was and she looked at me for a long time... She then said: "I think you are 50!" and quickly asked for a lady drink. I said "No" and walked on to the next bar.

I am 43...

I know Khunpa, I've had a tough paper round too.

Often get told I'm late forties and people think they're being kind.

I'm 38.

Was not a problem really... because in the next bar I was predicted to be no older than 39... One even said 34!

We all celebrated with lady drinks ;-)

[MJP]

Last time I visited a GoGo bar, I ended up talking to one of the "dancers" who claimed I looked very "hansum".

I asked her how old she thought I was and she looked at me for a long time... She then said: "I think you are 50!" and quickly asked for a lady drink. I said "No" and walked on to the next bar.

I am 43...

I know Khunpa, I've had a tough paper round too.

Often get told I'm late forties and people think they're being kind.

I'm 38.

Was not a problem really... because in the next bar I was predicted to be no older than 39... One even said 34!

We all celebrated with lady drinks ;-)

Quality!