heist666 Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 The other day I bored my girlfriend for 10 minutes talking about football before I realised I was doing it. She said it was good because we share everything. Today we had a conversation about Thai politics and I asked her which political party she supports. She wouldn't tell me, which is fine, it's her business. However it did get me wondering why.. I know it's not impolite to talk about politics with Thais. In the past I've spoken with Thai friends and they've all said straight out who they support.. I'm not going to press her about it. She's employed as a teacher so I wondered if that had something to do with it. Has anyone got any idea why this might be? Or encountered it yourself? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post benalibina Posted February 24, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted February 24, 2014 She likes football more than politics ! 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RubbaJohnny Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 Many Thai ladies are ashamed to admit they will vote for whoever pays,the chaps are more shamelss and my mother in la takes money from all sides and spoils paper 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
10Yen Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 Did you think of asking her ? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackinbkk Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 Does she wear one colour more than another and who does she boo or cheer on tv? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pineconehead Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 Many Thai ladies are ashamed to admit they will vote for whoever pays,the chaps are more shamelss and my mother in la takes money from all sides and spoils paper Good for her, but does she understand the cumulative effect ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Jingthing Posted February 24, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted February 24, 2014 Start wearing red shirts one, yellow shirts the next day, and watch for clues! 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post wym Posted February 24, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted February 24, 2014 Most likely realizes she doesn't have an informed opinion, just brainwashing by her family and friends and can't give any background reasoning for those views. Or is already aware of which way you may lean and doesn't want to get into an argument. Or just doesn't care about politics at all. All of the above may be true together. I find trying to have intellectual discussions with my bedmate to be almost as universally fatal to the relationship as chatting about my past loves. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sdanielmcev Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 My gf is kinda the same, but I think it is more because she doesn't like either party. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seastallion Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 My GF is vociferous about her dislike for "that stupid woman".. "She is STUPID!" 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skint Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 They can't discuss the real reasons much the same you can't here, just wind her up and ask her where her whistle is 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mogandave Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 You talk to your girlfriend? Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soutpeel Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 Did you think of asking her ? Maybe doesnt know the sign language for "Red shirt" or "Yellow shirt" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
simon43 Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 Perhaps she has no intererst in politics? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sustento Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 "The other day I bored my girlfriend for 10 minutes talking about football before I realised I was doing it." Then you bored her for another 10 minutes talking about politics... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeichen Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 As others have said, you might have showed your colors and she doesn't want to argue with you. If Arnold and Maria could stay married for decades without arguing about politics, then just go on and leave this one alone. Perhaps she cares less about you than politics. My initial feeling would be If your girlfriend is serious about you, then she would talk and confide in you. Perhaps she wants to keep your relationship superficial or she just isn't ready to share everything. Either be patient and ignore it or use it as a clue to what your future will be like. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jayceenik Posted February 25, 2014 Share Posted February 25, 2014 Just tell her that Yingluck is 'good' and Suthep is 'bad' (or vv). That's what I did with my TGF and got to know her side when she started praising Suthep and denigrating Yingluck. Before that she was claiming to have no side. I'm 'Thailand' she'd say ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stickylies Posted February 25, 2014 Share Posted February 25, 2014 i do the same thing when THAI ask me... my thainess is of a high level these days ;-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
h90 Posted February 25, 2014 Share Posted February 25, 2014 "The other day I bored my girlfriend for 10 minutes talking about football before I realised I was doing it." Then you bored her for another 10 minutes talking about politics... Maybe after 10 min football she didn't want to take 10 min politics and decided the best thing to shorten it is to not say anything.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
h90 Posted February 25, 2014 Share Posted February 25, 2014 Start wearing red shirts one, yellow shirts the next day, and watch for clues! But carefully about that....maybe yellow on Monday.....and red on Sunday is a good test..... Than at least you can claim that it has nothing to do with politics. Or making some remarks when watching news "at least they help the poor" and check what responds you get. helmet and safety googles are recommended.... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
realenglish1 Posted February 25, 2014 Share Posted February 25, 2014 She may be torn with both sides Supports Yinluck but also Suthip so asking here she does not know how to tell you or she is a communist in hiding waiting for her chance to overthrow everything Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ggt Posted February 25, 2014 Share Posted February 25, 2014 (edited) error in original post Edited February 25, 2014 by ggt Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ggt Posted February 25, 2014 Share Posted February 25, 2014 She is not being coy...she is being smart... You should applaud...and be proud of her brilliance... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
little mary sunshine Posted February 25, 2014 Share Posted February 25, 2014 She may feel her political beliefs are HERS and really none of your business. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Robininbkk Posted February 25, 2014 Share Posted February 25, 2014 I figured that a Thai would never (in general) tell people which political party or ''color'' they support. Even when asked. For the Thais, it is easy to see, from the clues, like the clothing, topics of conversation and attitude towards a certain political topic. On thing is for sure, regardless of what political ''color'' they support, they all support the color ''brown''. That is the color of their national 1k bill. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elzach Posted February 25, 2014 Share Posted February 25, 2014 Afraid to lose face if one party is proven more corrupt and/or incapable than the others. Tough feat in Thailand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
unanimosity Posted February 25, 2014 Share Posted February 25, 2014 She likes football more than politics ! Hahaha, great response. However, to the OP, she either knows who you support and does not share your opinion and wants to avoid confrontation, or she doesn't know who you support and doesn't wish to chance offending you because that might lead to a confrontation. Have you tried paying her to tell you? That should work. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lucjoker Posted February 25, 2014 Share Posted February 25, 2014 they dont understand the existance of politics,dont know what the word means. This is because they were forbidden to think about this in the school,it is (was) seen as unpolite to ask questions to the teacher! In the classroom only the teacher opens his mouth,children are prepared to be marionets,they learn the everything by memorization through repitition.They dont understand grammar rules,relation between words......If you miss 1 tone they dont have a clue what you are talking about, their mind is not flexible,yoo cann reet tis bu tey cant! It is slowly going to approve, the more thai-farang children in a classroom the quicker it will change. They speak at least 2 or tree languages when they are 5 y old, they took airplanes ,fast trains ,taxis.....can swimm from 2 y old..wear shoes that cost more than 300 bht ,they saw an other continent ....all things even their teacher never saw nor will see in his life. They talk about it with the friends ..... Later it will be a big bonus to find a good job,perfectly writing and reading and speaking thai ,english and his fathers language (mine is flemish and french) Never send your children to an english school unless you want them to have the same handicap as you have yourself here in thailand.(unless you can read and write and speak thai perfectly) 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brit1984 Posted February 25, 2014 Share Posted February 25, 2014 asking a Thai which of the "political" parties they prefer is like asking an African if they prefer Malaria or Aids 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soalbundy Posted February 25, 2014 Share Posted February 25, 2014 You talk to your girlfriend? Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app She probably pretends to understand. Why on earth would you want to talk about politics to your girlfriend? Shouldn't you be discovering the joys of copulation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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