hellohello123 Posted March 31, 2014 Share Posted March 31, 2014 I see so many profiles that have "I want someone to take care of me", and people who say this in person too, what exactly does it mean? as ive heard so many different variations. is it "I want some rich guy to pay for everything so I can not work and sit on my butt and buy my family stuff" or "Im just looking for a caring partner" or "im writing this because every one else is writing it, and I have no idea what it means" 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Seastallion Posted March 31, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted March 31, 2014 All the variations you've mentioned, as well as "I want a bread winner and I will be a good home-maker" It depends on the person. There is no one single interpretation. 11 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Soutpeel Posted March 31, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted March 31, 2014 I would say in almost all cases the intention of the phase implies the first one you list 14 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Ulysses G. Posted March 31, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted March 31, 2014 (edited) If a woman says it, it usually means "I want some rich guy to pay for everything so I can not work and sit on my butt and buy my family stuff". If a foreign man says it, it usually means, "I want some poor girl to work like a slave for rice and water, let me screw around on the side and renounce her family completely." Edited March 31, 2014 by Ulysses G. 30 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rucus7 Posted March 31, 2014 Share Posted March 31, 2014 Perhaps you should be asking those that post they want to be taken care of. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Somtamnication Posted March 31, 2014 Share Posted March 31, 2014 It means that you must be a buffalo farmer. You will feed them, bathe them, and pay for their lottery tickets. And as we all know about buffaloes, when you are in need, they don't understand English! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post hanno Posted March 31, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted March 31, 2014 It means tha in a country where there is no social security net, no pension, and little money they want a stable future with enough disposable income for the kids. No different from anywhere in the world really. 23 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sdanielmcev Posted March 31, 2014 Share Posted March 31, 2014 Ask them, heart, brain or wallet? Or all 3. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Morakot Posted March 31, 2014 Share Posted March 31, 2014 What does "I want someone to take care of me" mean? To provide emotional stability, especially in form of a relationship where the role of each partner are not equal. It can also imply being financially provided for, but does not necessarily so. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Jingthing Posted March 31, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted March 31, 2014 It's code for seeking Sugar Daddy. 15 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post ste860 Posted March 31, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted March 31, 2014 im pretty sure it means im going to sit on my arse and file my nails while watching thai soaps and talking on my phone during advert breaks ,while you spend all your hard earned money on me and my extended family and you s[t there pretending you are happy wondering how you got in this mess 18 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post kannot Posted March 31, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted March 31, 2014 And it works both ways...... my Wife takes care of me financially. Also you have the old guys who in their 70's+ want a woman just to "be there" and take care of them until they die with the financial side taken care of by the old man. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Costas2008 Posted March 31, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted March 31, 2014 (edited) Op, that's exactly what my ex wife used to tell me when we were courting. I want you to take care of me. After taking care of her for 25 years, she left me for someone else, leaving me with nothing. So, I came to Thailand and met a girl, that said to me, let's get together and take care of each other. I grabbed the opportunity and I am happy ever after. Saying that, nobody knows what the future can bring. Edited March 31, 2014 by Costas2008 16 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kannot Posted March 31, 2014 Share Posted March 31, 2014 im pretty sure it means im going to sit on my arse and file my nails while watching thai soaps and talking on my phone during advert breaks ,while you spend all your hard earned money on me and my extended family and you s[t there pretending you are happy wondering how you got in this mess Maybe for those who dont have the insight to chose carefully. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Scottythai Posted March 31, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted March 31, 2014 Troll post. lolz Drop a bomb like this then sit back and watch people go at each other. I wish for the most part there was a 100+ post count minimum before you can make threads. These are getting tired. I want some one to take care of me = exactly what it sounds like..... 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Evilbaz Posted March 31, 2014 Share Posted March 31, 2014 "Old blokes in their 70s" deserve a bit of "loving " too - as well as special needs. We are still "prospects" because (on average) we are closer to death 555! But - "You never know - up to Buddha" ... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hanno Posted March 31, 2014 Share Posted March 31, 2014 im pretty sure it means im going to sit on my arse and file my nails while watching thai soaps and talking on my phone during advert breaks ,while you spend all your hard earned money on me and my extended family and you s[t there pretending you are happy wondering how you got in this mess Maybe you are hanging out in the wrong places? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wym Posted March 31, 2014 Share Posted March 31, 2014 It's code for seeking Sugar Daddy. ^^ This Nailed it. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ABCer Posted March 31, 2014 Share Posted March 31, 2014 I was asking myself almost the same questions in the post here "The Meaning Of Life On TLL". Tried to make fun, but my sense of humour is not appreciated by some. Could it be that too many TV members take it seriously? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eldragon Posted March 31, 2014 Share Posted March 31, 2014 Depends on what kind of girl you're dealing with. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LaraC Posted March 31, 2014 Share Posted March 31, 2014 ask her 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Jingthing Posted March 31, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted March 31, 2014 ask her Direct questions. Edgy! 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post fatdrunkandstupid Posted March 31, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted March 31, 2014 I wish you buggers would learn to use Google translate... 11 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
choochoo Posted March 31, 2014 Share Posted March 31, 2014 If a woman says it, it usually means "I want some rich guy to pay for everything so I can not work and sit on my butt and buy my family stuff". If a foreign man says it, it usually means, "I want some poor girl to work like a slave for rice and water, let me screw around on the side and renounce her family completely." Why guys make everything so hard. Thai girl say to farang it means lets share YOUR money. If a girl want love she use word LOVE when it comes to farangs. Thai girls can seperate take care and love why cant the guys do same same. Just like girls know difference between customer and LOVER while man cannot! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fookhaht Posted March 31, 2014 Share Posted March 31, 2014 "what exactly does it mean? as ive heard so many different variations. is it "I want some rich guy to pay for everything so I can not work and sit on my butt and buy my family stuff" or "Im just looking for a caring partner" or "im writing this because every one else is writing it, and I have no idea what it means" ------------------------------- A pretty good summary of the meanings. It can mean any of the above. You have sift and sort every request. As in my case "taking care of someone else" isn't so bad if there is satisfying reciprocity. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MobileContent Posted March 31, 2014 Share Posted March 31, 2014 Its not only in the farang slang. I have heard all the time with Thais that do not have any relation with a farang. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
up-country_sinclair Posted March 31, 2014 Share Posted March 31, 2014 What does "I want someone to take care of me" mean? it means someone is looking for a free ride. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neeeko Posted March 31, 2014 Share Posted March 31, 2014 im pretty sure it means im going to sit on my arse and file my nails while watching thai soaps and talking on my phone during advert breaks ,while you spend all your hard earned money on me and my extended family and you s[t there pretending you are happy wondering how you got in this mess Couldn't of put it better myself! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pmhmaster Posted March 31, 2014 Share Posted March 31, 2014 (edited) IMO: During promotion period she would offer cutting your nails and really do it then 2-3 times. Thats how she takes care. And he is expected to take care by holding up and conribute to a face saving image, that includes $$,$$$/month. Until forever. < Thai language removed> 55555 Edited March 31, 2014 by metisdead Thai language edited out of post. This is an English language forum, English is the only acceptable language, except in the Thai language forum where Thai language is allowed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cylon Posted March 31, 2014 Share Posted March 31, 2014 Ive taken CARE of 3 wives,who are all very wealthy women now. To many girlfriends to count. Its same same as owning a big yacht, its a hole in the water you pour money into. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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