Sashasri Posted April 7, 2014 Share Posted April 7, 2014 So I've been in a relationship with a Thai lady and she decides to end it but I don't want to. At the moment I couldn't contemplate a new relationship with someone else. How do you get over the emotional pain? What is the best strategy? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post kurnell Posted April 7, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted April 7, 2014 Alcohol and soi Cowboy did it for me 27 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post transam Posted April 7, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted April 7, 2014 You must walk away, hard as it is your relationship is over. Get out there, wide eyed and see want transpires. I did it after 25 years with a lady. Go for it........... 14 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post ukrules Posted April 7, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted April 7, 2014 Just wait it out, in time she will mean nothing to you. 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post YipYipYa123 Posted April 7, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted April 7, 2014 have lots of sex with random ladies until you cant even remember her anymore -works for me 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post daveAustin Posted April 7, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted April 7, 2014 Think yourself one of the lucky ones and have a party. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Soutpeel Posted April 7, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted April 7, 2014 Easy use this never fail 4 week step by step process: Week 1 and 2 Go get a soapie Soi Cowboy Soi Nana a weekend in Pattaya 3rd week Got get a soapie Soi Cowboy Soi Nana a weekend in Pattaya Week 4 go get a soapie Soi Cowboy Soi Nana a weekend in Pattaya Result = You will be thinking what was her name again... 18 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post mauGR1 Posted April 7, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted April 7, 2014 Easy use this never fail 4 week step by step process: Week 1 and 2 Go get a soapie Soi Cowboy Soi Nana a weekend in Pattaya 3rd week Got get a soapie Soi Cowboy Soi Nana a weekend in Pattaya Week 4 go get a soapie Soi Cowboy Soi Nana a weekend in Pattaya Result = You will be thinking what was her name again... Thailand may have many flaws, but it's not the worst place to end a relationship 10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Showbags Posted April 7, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted April 7, 2014 So you're a girl right ? Cos no guys gunna sook about that kinda rubbish on a public forum... 11 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thongkorn Posted April 7, 2014 Share Posted April 7, 2014 Just take each day as it comes, find some new interests. Hard but its the way forward. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Banzai99 Posted April 7, 2014 Share Posted April 7, 2014 (edited) You must walk away, hard as it is your relationship is over. Get out there, wide eyed and see want transpires. I did it after 25 years with a lady. Go for it........... And she was so happy and wondered why you waited 24 and a half years too late..... Edited April 7, 2014 by Banzai99 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CharlieH Posted April 7, 2014 Share Posted April 7, 2014 1st post and wants relationship advice, yeah right....troll 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Banzai99 Posted April 7, 2014 Share Posted April 7, 2014 (edited) So you're a girl right ? Cos no guys gunna sook about that kinda rubbish on a public forum... Very much doubt it, it's probably just another BS thread specifically designed to put Thai people down. I'll bet I'm right. Edited April 7, 2014 by Banzai99 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Banzai99 Posted April 7, 2014 Share Posted April 7, 2014 1st post and wants relationship advice, yeah right....troll From the relationship experts ................. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Munger Posted April 7, 2014 Share Posted April 7, 2014 So you're a girl right ? Cos no guys gunna sook about that kinda rubbish on a public forum... Very much doubt it, it's probably just another BS thread specifically designed to put Thai people down. I'll bet I'm right. What a sad loser you are "Banzai99" It is YOU that wants to turn this into Thai bashing. Get a life 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post i claudius Posted April 7, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted April 7, 2014 One door closes ,onother one opens ,its life and i have done it for all of mine ,it always works ,no good sitting around moping about it ,she isn't ,harsh but true. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sashasri Posted April 7, 2014 Author Share Posted April 7, 2014 We were together for five years until I found a guy in her bed the morning after her birthday 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post LaraC Posted April 7, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted April 7, 2014 OP, contrary to others, i really think you should take time out for yourself (not delving into anything with other women). But im a woman, so maybe the advice is not right for a man.Try the no contact rule, in order to heal from it. So you're a girl right ? Cos no guys gunna sook about that kinda rubbish on a public forum... Really unhelpful...and frankly, if you look at this forum, it is FILLED with guys looking for relationship advice, yet even in the ladies forum, you have very little of it. So, think again. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MidoriApple Posted April 7, 2014 Share Posted April 7, 2014 OP, you should move on, a lot of fish in the sea.Find new interests (and should be useful) to do,I was same before after broken up with my 11.3 years of relationship with a Thai man.I packed my bag and went learn Cooking in aboard. At that time, I didn't even know how to cook rice from the rice-cooker!Made traveling to many places, knew many new different people. that was great advantage from being dumped for me.Now I just made big silly fighting with my husband, he went sleep and I am staying up here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Datebayo Posted April 7, 2014 Share Posted April 7, 2014 <deleted> is this? Are u a guy or? a.... You do still remember and realise that you are living in Thailand, don't you? Getting over a girl in Thailand? LOL... I'm sure you will get over it in just a few days meeting other ladies. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YipYipYa123 Posted April 7, 2014 Share Posted April 7, 2014 just go outside and pick a new woman .......youll be up to your nuts in guts within the hour and that will keep you distracted when she gets boring ......rinse and repeat ........ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wooloomooloo Posted April 7, 2014 Share Posted April 7, 2014 We were together for five years until I found a guy in her bed the morning after her birthday What did you give her for her birthday? You caught her in bed with another man and want to remain with her and she wants to finish it? It's usually the other way round. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarpolo Posted April 7, 2014 Share Posted April 7, 2014 why wasnt he with her on her birthday morning? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kannot Posted April 7, 2014 Share Posted April 7, 2014 Throw yourself off the troll bridge from the 20th floor.......hey it worked for me 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Lantern Posted April 7, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted April 7, 2014 Reminds me of that old country & western song. "I can't get over you until you get out from under him" 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sdanielmcev Posted April 8, 2014 Share Posted April 8, 2014 Put your big-boy pants on and take off your blinders. You'll be okay. Another will come around soon enough. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Crazy chef 1 Posted April 8, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted April 8, 2014 (edited) the comments by some posters are just just plain stupid and disgusting.we are still talking about girls/ woman and not a piece of meat at the market.just transfer some blood in the upper regions and behave like a real gentleman.sure we are in Thailand and i am not prude but i have respect to the opposite sex! Edited April 8, 2014 by Crazy chef 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YipYipYa123 Posted April 8, 2014 Share Posted April 8, 2014 sit around drinking beer listening to 80's love songs + phil colllins ............. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sashasri Posted April 8, 2014 Author Share Posted April 8, 2014 why wasnt he with her on her birthday morning? Because she told me not to come to her place. It was a red flag so I thought I'd go round her house early the next day to catch her out. My instincts were correct. I know I have to finish with her now. I would like to know how you guys handle the fallout. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarpolo Posted April 8, 2014 Share Posted April 8, 2014 why wasnt he with her on her birthday morning? Because she told me not to come to her place. It was a red flag so I thought I'd go round her house early the next day to catch her out. My instincts were correct. I know I have to finish with her now. I would like to know how you guys handle the fallout. seems like a bad scene that can only get worse. if she was that untrustworthy, you can be in grave danger, there is no time for introspection, get away from her while you can without more emotional blackmail or w/e tricks she has up her sleeve. TV is now Dear Abby, I dont understand these relationship problems Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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