Nick507 Posted May 27, 2014 Share Posted May 27, 2014 My GF and I want to get married. I would like to be legally married and register officially with Thai government. She only wants to be married but not register (She says paperwork too much). She has good job and good savings in bank. She wants me to buy wedding ring for her. If we do not get legally married, will we still have the same legal benefits? If we break up, can she ask for money from me? If we break up, can I ask money from her? Can I get marriage visa, if we do not officially register with Government? What legal rights do we have if we just have agreement to marry? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post ThaidDown Posted May 27, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted May 27, 2014 Sorry but I make that four 'No' and a 'None' Not casting aspersions, but is she married already? 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post MYKTHEMIN Posted May 27, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted May 27, 2014 she already has thai husband. 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
David48 Posted May 27, 2014 Share Posted May 27, 2014 No 'marriage visa' options ... that is for sure. Sort of like ... 'the cheques in the mail' marriage option ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Langsuan Man Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 She only wants to be married but not register (She says paperwork too much) This is a red flag; if you haven't figured that out yet ! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
banglassie Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 Big no no Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marioc Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 she already has thai husband. ....99% +1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RickFarang Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 You can continue without being legally married, but you do not get a chance at the married guy's extension, but at the same time, there will be no property to split up if you two separate. If you don't know the woman and her family well, go very slowly for the next couple of years when it comes to buying big ticket things to go in your wife's name. It will take at least that long to know what you are getting into, and probably longer. I hope your relationship works out to be everything you hope it will be, but approach it cautiously. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dotpoom Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 How could you have legal rights as a married person if you are not a (legally) married person? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
patrick1968 Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 Weak UP >>> sunshine.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neilcnx Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 Could be she wants you as a "pua noi". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AhFarangJa Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 I honestly do not believe that some people can be so stupid with only one head....sorry , but do yo unot hear those warning bells....it is not a fire engine sunbeam Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
larsjohnsson Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 What's a verbal marriage? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
I Like Thai Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 If your not legally married, then you are not married. She might already be married, but doesn't want to say. Maybe she has problems getting divorced Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AhFarangJa Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 What's a verbal marriage? Probably like phone sex, a lot of talking and heavy breathing but with only a mediocre pay off at the end........oh, wait, no......that is marriage.. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ggt Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 If she is good in bed...don't sweat the small stuff...marriage is an option in Thailand...not a requirement... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnotherOneAmerican Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 She is almost certainly already married. (or doesn't like you all that much) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
desmondspencer Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 What's "too much paperwork"? Your pp and her id? On second thoughts, if you're already here on a long term visa then it might not be a bad thing after all. You Will get tired of her and move on, no strings attached, no obligations. I'd say Go For It, verbal not necessary, oral better! Remember, don't gift anything like house or vehicles and you'll do fine! Also if not legal, no need to bother with family, immediate or not.. Sent from my LG-D505 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AhFarangJa Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 What's "too much paperwork"? Your pp and her id? On second thoughts, if you're already here on a long term visa then it might not be a bad thing after all. You Will get tired of her and move on, no strings attached, no obligations. I'd say Go For It, verbal not necessary, oral better! Remember, don't gift anything like house or vehicles and you'll do fine! Also if not legal, no need to bother with family, immediate or not.. Sent from my LG-D505 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app Have to agree with you 100% there Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kovaltech Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 sorry, this must be the biggest troll ever.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transam Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 All the above is correct......Plus if you spend money you get nothing back if SHE goes her own way.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pigeonjake Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 this is a troll,, but never mind we,ll still linch and burn at the stake the thai lady,,, its gets better here every day 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Farma Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 I mentioned this in another thread not so long ago. There was a girl in our district who made a living out of village marriages to unsuspecting farangs. Her mother was the driving force behind the scam. She would meet men online and agree to marry them. A village wedding would go ahead without it being officially registered. The new Groom would end up paying sin sot, for a lavish village wedding, build a nice house and buy a car. It wasn't all that long after the wedding that a domestic argument would occur with the new groom kicked out of the relationship losing the lot. I was told she managed to pull this off 3 times. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikebike Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 How could you have legal rights as a married person if you are not a (legally) married person?In the west it is called 'common-law marriage'.Sent from my ME172V using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kovaltech Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 How could you have legal rights as a married person if you are not a (legally) married person?In the west it is called 'common-law marriage'.Sent from my ME172V using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app nope its not.... common law refers to a real marriage without any prenup agreements.... so the "common law" of the country of residence is valid. the op is trolling about an ceremonial marriage, which has no other value as being cultural and ceremonial... ( not legal recognized as marriage by law ) no marriage on paper ? no legal obligations or legal rights btw, you can not donate a house to a lady if not legal married be sure that you make any money transfer to her to be legally considered as a loan... even any monthly payments ;-) at least you'll would have the benefit to be a winner at court, but recollecting or repossessing would be less easy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kovaltech Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 this is a troll,, but never mind we,ll still linch and burn at the stake the thai lady,,, its gets better here every day lets roast the troll ? how would it taste "a troll au vin" ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beau thai Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 this is a troll,, but never mind we,ll still linch and burn at the stake the thai lady,,, its gets better here every day lets roast the troll ? how would it taste "a troll au vin" ? more like cock au vin 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikebike Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 nope its not.... common law refers to a real marriage without any prenup agreements.... Huh? Then my 14 year common-law relationship and 2 kids were just a dream!! http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Common-law_marriageSent from my ME172V using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Igor Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 Eat, drink and be "married" 'cause her husband is a Thai So, she wants you to buy a thousand bucks worth of gold and/or diamonds for her finger, then she'll probably want you to buy her a car which she and her hisband can drive off into the sunset. I'd suggest, if you really want to this lady, hire a PI to check her out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
larsjohnsson Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 If she likes a verbal marriage. Then give her a verbal wedding ring 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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