Bar girl girlfriend, this is wierd

[jasonzmurrell]

I went to soi cowboy the other night and took a girl from one of the bars. She appeared nice enough, went to a market on the way home. She bought herself Some new shoes. I am usually very strict about not letting them stay too long, but this girl seemed to be really interested in me. I can speak and read Thai. She was still there in the morning. She begins going on at me about how she loves me and she wants me to be her boyfriend(this might turn out to mean pimp), she doesn't want money. She wants me to move to her room and she will pay for everything. Later we go out she pays the taxis, food, buys shit for my room and some new trainers. Then I take her to her place on my bike. We go to the temple again she pays for everything(this is getting strange). Then I take her to soi cowboy for work and go.

She keeps texting and ringing me, then when she's earned her money I go get her. She orders food and we, eventually, sleep. The next day she's still trying to name my price with offers of a life of leasure and hedonistic joy. When she leaves, she passes me a 1000baht note, signals for me not to speak and walks off.

Later she calls me, I try to avoid talking to her and make the excuse that I need credit. So she asks how much do I need. 100baht I said and she says ok I will take care of it. A few minutes later a SMS informs me I have 300baht credit. She then calls me later at 6, saying "ï miss you, I want to <deleted> you, take me to my room now, I have two hours before my next customer". This I refuse. But opinions? This girl is being honest(with me at least), do I want to be a pet? She doesn't want my money. Which is fortunate as I am quite broke 70% of the time.

I will try to provide updates on this story.

[wooloomooloo]

I will try to provide updates on this story.

You don't have to, really. Jeez.

[redandyellow]

Please keep us informed. You may have found the diamond in the rough, the one in a thousand.

However, a long testing period is in order, if you are prudent and proactive.

Signed,

The Pre-emptive Strike

[Crossy]

This forum is FOR ladies in Thailand not ABOUT ladies in Thailand.

Off to The Pub you go.

To our OP, have you ever heard of a "loss leader"?

[MAJIC]

Sighhhh... no offence to the OP but I can't help feeling sorry for this desperate young women!

[ExPratt]

Run.........Run Away Normally when they are like that they turn into a Bunny Boiler and that's not just Thai women

[davethailand]

Jackanory.

[Likener1]

Exactly the same thing happened to me 32 times last week alone

[Roadman]

Bar girl's home boy?

[Berkshire]

Most likely a troll thread, but that's ok. Occasionally, a BG may actually be genuinely interested in a customer. Usually happens with a BG who's well past her prime. Because if she was still young and hot, she would have a Thai BF waiting in the wings.

[Soutpeel]

Run.........Run Away Normally when they are like that they turn into a Bunny Boiler and that's not just Thai women

if not a troll post, very controlling and most certainly a bunny boiler in the making..

[Songhua]

Face it, you're a stud.

[brewsterbudgen]

Many bargirls cultivate possible long-term sponsors. Nothing new there, although, if not a troll, the OP would be wise to steer very clear.

[2fishin2]

Handsome fellow

[umbanda]

I hope she is buying the best condoms for you too.

[iancnx]

First time poster.... Stud. We are all very impressed. I bet she has a friend right? And this is going to turn into a wonderful threesome. Or maybe her Thai BF wants to join in with insatiable admiration of just how big you are. She needs to be careful you don't run off with him I guess. Ohhhhhh young love....ain't it just sooooooo sweet.

[mrtoad]

whereustay?

[ScarpoFongness4U]

I'm just waiting for the update where she takes him up country, and while roaming alone in her family farmhouse he finds under a cover in the barn

an old Harley Davidson from the forties completely pristine with the key in it

Edited February 25, 2015 by ScarpoFongness4U

[WitawatWatawit]

Does this kind of thing happen all the time in Thailand? Wow! I'm packing my bags and catching the next plane out.

[Gordy Gambino]

Then the OP woke up.

Bar girl paying HIM...whahahahahaha

Oh yair that's as believable as that troll that is an alco saying his doctor told him to start drinking again.

More drivel.

[Songhua]

Does this kind of thing happen all the time in Thailand? Wow! I'm packing my bags and catching the next plane out.

It seems to happen to that special few all the time .. but to the majority (the lesser folk), well, never.

[iancnx]

I'm just waiting for the update where she takes him up country, and while roaming alone in her family farmhouse he finds under a cover in the barn

an old Harley Davidson from the forties completely pristine with the key in it

That's only going to work for me is she poses reclined on the Harley semi naked in a wet tee shirt.......

[iancnx]

Does this kind of thing happen all the time in Thailand? Wow! I'm packing my bags and catching the next plane out.

Be sure to pick up a copy of Stephen Leather's Private Dancer to read on the plane. A life saving read! OP you should get a copy quick, there is still time for you to be saved.

[tonytigerbkk]

whereustay?

IstayinLancasterGate.

Whydoyouask?

[siampolee]

Nuff said.O.P.

[Cpkt8]

OP must be good looking. But to live on a woman furthermore a bargirl... isn't that abit too disturbing? Btw, beware of contracting some sexual diseases.

[mrtoad]

OP must be good looking. But to live on a woman furthermore a bargirl... isn't that abit too disturbing? Btw, beware of contracting some sexual diseases.

He is more likely to develop RSI and blisters on his palms than an STD

[tonytigerbkk]

OP must be good looking. But to live on a woman furthermore a bargirl... isn't that abit too disturbing? Btw, beware of contracting some sexual diseases.

He is more likely to develop RSI and blisters on his palms than an STD

TCI have an app for that.

[siampolee]

Songhua post # 21.

It seems to happen to that special few all the time .. but to the majority (the lesser folk), well, never.

,Perhaps he is an old Brit ,trouble is he is still thinking old money.. L.S.D.

Or is it Timothy Leary L.S.D. at work I wonder?

[DLock]

It's really quite obvious.

She feels sorry for you.

If a bargirl asks you to move to her room, you know your room is really sad. Have you ever seen a bargirl's room?

If she buys you new shoes, you know your old shoes are well past their "worn-by" date.

If a bargirl turns tricks to give you food and money, then you know you have hit rock bottom...

...but you speak and read Thai, so not all is lost.

Carry on kid, your life may have just taken a turn for the better.