..to be blunt...is it over or not....

...if everything was acquired before marriage, it belongs to you....otherwise, halfers.....

..if there was a settlement....then she has to move out....as to how....how would anyone have an intruder removed.....

...on a serious note...prolonging this may put you.....and your belongings at risk.....

...does it make sense to have someone who is 'bleeding you'....have access to your home....???

Just move another girl in and watch what happens.....

I would have thought you have a commitment by law that she is entitled to some of your funds Mate. Best to ask a lawyer on the forum to see what your commitments are.

You took her away from Hong Kong for a new life I would think she could take you to court and get some settlement from you. You should check.

If you don't move soon, we are going to read about your suicide in some sneezy hotel

in Pattaya, or from a leap out of a 16 story hotel in Bangkok. Your choice. Cut off her funds, move away

far away, like Karat, Chiang Mai, or Chang Ri. Mistake No. 1 was giving her money for her family. Once

a leech has found a host, it takes fire, and a knife to remove it. Don't get involved in any illegal activity

removing her. Find a new place to live, and don't tell her where you moved too. Just do it! Don't give the land loard

your new address.

What kinds of girls did u boys marry?

I think you are joking, but in case you're not... If she was a home maker for him for 12 years, enabling him to focus on his career - and she sacrificed her potential working career for him - what's equality got to do with that?

Just curious ....do you feel she is entitled to nothing more from you after 12 years married to each other?

In this age of equality, perhaps he could be saying the same thing.

Stay, and give us a weekly update, please.

I enjoy reading this kind of stuff as it gives me gratitude since I'm not in it.

To all the bleeding hearts that the Ex-wife is entitled to something after 12 years......give her the furniture and MOVE...start anew. Clean break. Or at the least a plane ticket back to Hong Kong.

If you don't move ...you might not be here to tell us about what you actually did to resolve your problem..

Remember ...this is Thailand...She might one day start banging her head against a wall and claim you beat her ....Jail time for you.

Worse (as another poster said)...she just might stab and kill you in the night while you're asleep ...

Is it worth it to hang around for some lousy furniture (material things)?

Again I reiterate .....MOVE

What kinds of girls did u boys marry?

sometimes you dont know until its too late

MOVE, your lucky you only rent and not own the property.

What kinds of girls did u boys marry?

sometimes you dont know until its too late

I'm on my third Thai wife now, and Hi-So or Lo-So (and/or everything in between) you never really know, except for one thing. They are all Thai.

The best bet is to find one with a good job and rich parents. Even then it's hit and miss, just like everywhere else.

I had a farang friend once who found his true Thai wife/soul mate, she was perfect. She died prematurely and suddenly. Sometimes you just can't win.

Wauw, Daniel! You must have a lot of experience with getting rid of "pesky" Thai ladies. If the OP takes your not-all-too-constructive advise, he is literally running away from his problem. Is that you approach to life in general?

To the newbies in Thailand:

1 - Thai women are generally expected to support their families

2 - If you get involved with a Thai women, make clear what you can and/or are willing to pay

3 - If you get married or commit to a long term relationship, let a lawyer draft a prenuptial.

(Thai) women are not pets you can put out in the street when you're tired of "feeding" them.

If you don't move soon, we are going to read about your suicide in some sneezy hotel

in Pattaya, or from a leap out of a 16 story hotel in Bangkok. Your choice. Cut off her funds, move away

far away, like Karat, Chiang Mai, or Chang Ri. Mistake No. 1 was giving her money for her family. Once

a leech has found a host, it takes fire, and a knife to remove it. Don't get involved in any illegal activity

removing her. Find a new place to live, and don't tell her where you moved too. Just do it! Don't give the land loard

your new address.

What kinds of girls did u boys marry?

sometimes you dont know until its too late

I'm on my third Thai wife now, and Hi-So or Lo-So (and/or everything in between) you never really know, except for one thing. They are all Thai.

The best bet is to find one with a good job and rich parents. Even then it's hit and miss, just like everywhere else.

I had a farang friend once who found his true Thai wife/soul mate, she was perfect. She died prematurely and suddenly. Sometimes you just can't win.

you must be fun on a night out!

What kinds of girls did u boys marry?

sometimes you dont know until its too late

I'm on my third Thai wife now, and Hi-So or Lo-So (and/or everything in between) you never really know, except for one thing. They are all Thai.

The best bet is to find one with a good job and rich parents. Even then it's hit and miss, just like everywhere else.

I had a farang friend once who found his true Thai wife/soul mate, she was perfect. She died prematurely and suddenly. Sometimes you just can't win.

you must be fun on a night out!

when u start searching ur 4th wife, please contact me

Washing machine and fridges etc. are replaceable......leave everything and get out........not so difficult......I've done it!

What kinds of girls did u boys marry?

Mostly Thais, unfortunately for many

Kaorop if articles upset you then do the sensible thing and not read them or take the time to post. Your life may even improve ever so small from this. Good luck

I f you have not understood by now, that moving is the bets solution you deserve what's coming.........

I don't understand Some man out there on this site tv you have to get on here and ask what to do .

Just move out all fix up , it is not as if it is the only home in thailand to rent .

So, you married a Thai lady and then she turned out to be Thai? And it sounds like you must be in the last rental house ever to be available? Go find a furnished rental somewhere… I always saw wanting to help your family as a good quality. So, you can probably disregard any advice I would give...

"we are going to read about your suicide in some sneezy hotel"

would a "sneezy" hotel be one that is not up to snuff? Ok, sorry. Couldn't help myself...

What kinds of girls did u boys marry?

sometimes you dont know until its too late

I'm on my third Thai wife now, and Hi-So or Lo-So (and/or everything in between) you never really know, except for one thing. They are all Thai.

The best bet is to find one with a good job and rich parents. Even then it's hit and miss, just like everywhere else.

I had a farang friend once who found his true Thai wife/soul mate, she was perfect. She died prematurely and suddenly. Sometimes you just can't win.

that's sad about your friend......life can be so unkind/cruel,but on a positive note he found his "love".some go through their entire life without finding this.

If i am not mistaken and you are divorced and she is not Thai were does her income come from. How does Thai imagrations let her stay in Thailand. Do not give her money and change locks on doors!

Fortunately we have two houses. Strangely still love the wife but no way am I putting up with the extended families free loading presence every day. Their antics for a freebe are a bit amusing.

move!!! you will find later that she has save some cash you dont know about anyway----- get out of there NOW

You cannot *win* when a woman chooses to not cooperate with you. The legal system is biased against you, ESPECIALLY when it comes to marriages, legal or common law. It doesn't matter if you are *right*, morally, or legally. You will not win. You will be adjudicated as being at fault by a judge or a jury if that is such an option in Thailand.

The longer you persist in cohabitation when you are in an adversarial relationship, you are at risk, financially, and in your personal safety.

You cannot *win* when a woman chooses to not cooperate with you. The legal system is biased against you, ESPECIALLY when it comes to marriages, legal or common law. It doesn't matter if you are *right*, morally, or legally. You will not win. You will be adjudicated as being at fault by a judge or a jury if that is such an option in Thailand.

The longer you persist in cohabitation when you are in an adversarial relationship, you are at risk, financially, and in your personal safety.

Aerosmith. So jaded.

You moving would almost assuredly, be healthy -- for you !

Move.

you have answered already;

you move temporarely,

or do you want get problems by her family and friends ß

It is not worrth,

But if her famiöly is close,

you should anyway run away for a long distance;

Be aware - you are in right, but you are a farong and you are in Thailand !!