On 22/11/2016 at 7:29 AM, jspill said:

 

Gogos have been short of business lately what with the mourning period and all. 

 

In general, most Thai people have a real problem admitting their faults, or taking responsibility for the problems they have created. So, of course she will deflect. You simply show her the door. Plain and simple. No big issue. Just, you are out of here, pack up your crap and go. Bye bye. I am not interested in hearing your story. Bye.

 

Man up, and do as Bond would do. 

Show her the door.  No ifs or buts.  She, as they all are here are unable to accept their failings.  Her friends will tell her the reason for her infidelity is ultimately down to you, it'll be deemed your fault.  Yes it sounds ludicrous but this is how they deal with their failings her due to a nationwide inability to look in the mirror and admit to your wrong doings, to take responsibility for their actions.

 

Get rid of her, and don't give her any money save the bus fare.

24 minutes ago, spidermike007 said:

In general, most Thai people have a real problem admitting their faults, or taking responsibility for the problems they have created. So, of course she will deflect. You simply show her the door. Plain and simple. No big issue. Just, you are out of here, pack up your crap and go. Bye bye. I am not interested in hearing your story. Bye.

 

Man up, and do as Bond would do. 

Great advice in hindsight but the thread is a couple of years old, OP is probably married and living in issan by now.

On 11/21/2016 at 4:48 PM, chiang mai said:

It goes like this and it's not restricted to just Thai girls:

 

He -"I checked up on you, you're cheating on me".

 

She - "You did what, you checked up on me because you didn't trust me, you followed me, do you not understand personal boundaries! You invaded my personal space, how dare you, if you can't respect my privacy you have no place in my life, we're finished. What that you say? It doesn't matter what I was doing, you had no right to distrust me and check up on me".

 

He - "Umm, sorry, mumble grovel, I bad".

 

why ? because they are narcissistic psychopaths with no emotions.... easy to separate love & money, guess you are there for which one ?

 

those kind of people live in a bubble and they don't want you to burst it with the truth

On 21/11/2016 at 9:33 PM, phuketpoliceman said:

Two Of them have cheated and they both reacted the same way.


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Relationships are based on mutual agreement.

Why would you wreck your life, risk jail or a beating, for another person you have been intimate with ?

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