I've been dating a Thai girl close to a year, so far all is good.  She is from a small village and had a house but not completed.  I went to her village for one week to meet the family and to see the house.  After a long look at the house and taking photos I made the decision to modernize it and add a western style master bath.  So far I've invested over 15000 USD in the project with another 15K to complete.  Am I sorry?  By no means, I've made it clear to my girl that as long as she takes care of me in my old age she will be taken care of.  So my experience to those looking for a girl to care for you in your older years, stay away from those that are in there 20's and early 30's as those are the ones I classify as "still getting there grove on".  My girl when I met her was 36, I was there on her 37th birthday and now coming up on 38.   The only issue we have run into is language, she speaks English to where I understand her but she is still learning.  She has to repeat herself a few times for me to grasp what she is trying to say.  No issue with me.  All a Thai girl needs is someone that is will to care for her and her family.  The key word here is family, I enjoy helping them out as I have no one else that really cares if I live or die.

 

 

Coast is far from clear: there are plenty of Thai women in their late 30's "still getting their groove on." 

 

Before you arrived on the scene, where did the money used to begin construction on the house come from? Beginning construction without having sufficient funds to finish the house?  Might be a red flag in terms of your girlfriend's planning and money management skills. Something to consider.

 

May be unfair, but sensing it might be somewhat premature for you to start serving up Thai-farang relationship advice. But best of luck to you and your girlfriend in your new life.

 

P.S. Start studying Thai. In a small village, fluent English speakers are as scarce as hen's teeth.

 

 

A bit more detail.

A photo of the house or the name of the village.

Not that I am accusing you of trolling.

If it's got tits or wheels , it's gonna give you trouble !

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1 hour ago, DonD said:

I've been dating a Thai girl close to a year, so far all is good. 

In fact its so good---I just had to Join Thai Visa and tell you all about it.

A troll ?...oh no surely not.................

Given the reaction/responses to this post. Lets end it before the feeding frenzy begins.

 

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