Thai wife false accusations. Trouble ahead?

[1happykamper]

I will be travelling out of Thailand next month and my Thai wife is angry and doesn't want me to leave. 

 

She has just informed me (via email) that she has filed a police report stating that i stole some of her gold and some important documents. None of this is true. However .. is it simply my word against hers? In fact, her gold DID go missing while we were away travelling. Upon returning.. the gold was missing.. we both looked high and low and even scanned CCT in our building. Months later she is trying to stop me from leaving Thailand using this very incident!

 

She has also stated, that she has informed immigration about the gold/document theft and that she thinks I took it. We have been apart for the last 4 weeks.. so I am not sure how true any of this reporting business is.

 

This is all absolute rubbish. BUT.. can she really stop me from leaving Thailand based on a false accusation/ police report? Should I pop into my local immigration and ask about this? Thanks for any help offered. 

[cornishcarlos]

I think the police would have to request something from a court to prevent you leaving the country ? Could be wrong but pretty sure you can't be stopped on someone's complaint alone !

Only 1 way to find out... 

Plus tell her you've changed your mind and will be travelling around Thailand for a couple weeks instead... 

Let us know how you get on :)

[1happykamper]

3 minutes ago, cornishcarlos said:

I think the police would have to request something from a court to prevent you leaving the country ? Could be wrong but pretty sure you can't be stopped on someone's complaint alone !

Only 1 way to find out... 

Plus tell her you've changed your mind and will be travelling around Thailand for a couple weeks instead... 

Let us know how you get on :)

Thanks for the fast reply. Is it common in Thailand to accuse someone like this just to get your own way? False police reports are not empty threats me thinks.

 

[cornishcarlos]

If a guy who "allegedly" killed a policeman can scoot on through immigration un challenged, pretty sure you can....

She is trying her luck.. Unless she pays the police a tidy amount to get some action, they couldn't care less even if you did take the gold !!

 

[janclaes47]

3 minutes ago, cornishcarlos said:

If a guy who "allegedly" killed a policeman can scoot on through immigration un challenged, pretty sure you can....

 

The difference being the colour of his nose.

[Lamkyong]

sounds like she is talking complete B.S.     it might be a great idea to leave now  before the

 

bs has time to hit the fan big style  wife ? legally or village type ?

[jeab1980]

Instead of wasting time asking for opinion no one on here can give beacuse none of us know you or your wife. What your asking is in reality your buisness something only you and your Mrs knows. 

Go now leave the country. Instead of looking for advise as all you will get is normal wife bashing quotes. 

[benalibina]

Short while ago I stayed for 3 months in Thailand trying to salvage a familysituation which involved 3 kids. In those months I have received similar threats as you. However not related to theft. The fact that the mother of our children had the audacity to threaten, intimidate and bully me, father of our children, was quite shocking to experience. Add to that that life means nothing here, discrimination is rife and police is laughing at you when you report it, then one feels quite disheartened. As I could not change anything anymore, at the time, in relation to my kids, I left.

 

Looking back on the events I can conclude though that the threats were most likely hollow and should have been taken with a grain of salt. However ?

 

I think your missus is a woman who only likes to be in control and that at the moment she believes she loses it, starts to make threats. If I were you just leave her, she has shown her true colours and it will not get any better. Opposite in fact.

[Katia]

Trouble ahead?  I think it has already arrived.

[1happykamper]

1 hour ago, Katia said:

Trouble ahead?  I think it has already arrived.

Ha. True! Trouble HAS arrived. But will it get worse? Thanks, everyone!!

[SongSomSoda]

Close windows at night. If she is throwing a handful of yaba through it and then calls the police. Real trouble starts. stay safe. Good Luck.

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[SongSomSoda]

and please throw her away same as a used towel and never look back, she grassed you up true or not that's a "no go" no matter friend, wife , ree ruk , mia nois. At least in falang land , here it is normal.

You stole "her" gold which you paid most likely with YOUR money.

That's hilarious she sounds like fun.

Line ID ?

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[inThailand]

You landed a real winner!

 

Out file her...file for divorce.

[The Dark Lord]

6 hours ago, 1happykamper said:

Thanks for the fast reply. Is it common in Thailand to accuse someone like this just to get your own way? False police reports are not empty threats me thinks.

 

Mate, my heart goes out to you. I had a very similar incident but in the UK which ended up with me paying her fine for scurrilous use of the emergency number. 

 

Whilst i I do not know for sure, I do not think the immigration in Swampy cares two hoots about some mad accusations from an incensed wife. They know what the women can be like and frankly are not interested. 

 

My very recent experience in Swampy out immig was smooth and problem free. I even asked about the Baht 20k coming back and she said " why would you need that?" 

 

Try not to worry, I know it is not easy but don't let it get to you. The minute you go wheels up on the steam chicken to freedom, you will feel a weight lift off your shoulders. 

[tomwct]

Happy Camper you picked a Winner - No Loser! Get out of the Land of Smiles and never turn back! Plenty of other places to live!

[Amphur2000]

I wouldn't worry too much, I think at the worst case scenario if they did pick you up they would search for the gold maybe and send you on your way.

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[InMyShadow]

She is is bluffing. Next thing she will say she called interpol

 

You really think somchai will be carefully scanning your passport for any attaches minor crimes.. It's laughable!

 

[inThailand]

On a more serious note, her filing a police report against you should not be taken lightly. If it's untrue, you should file a police report against her. If this gets more nasty or leads to a divorce you want an official record of this incident. It may well come in handy later. 

 

btw... falsifying a document in LOS is considered a serious offence.

[SongSomSoda]

Yes, that's a good advice. Go to a different police station and ask the officer what you should do. You bought your wife gold , with your money , and now she says you took it back. In reality it's more likely it went to a pawn shop and then the money somewhere. Check banking transactions around the time, when the good got "stolen" , should be one lead. How much gold was it ? 25 satang "" salüm" or 8 baht?

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[samsensam]

 

sounds like you're living the dream.

 

it never ceases to amaze me how many guys let these thai women run rings round them.

 

she sounds a real catch. get smart and get out of there

[BEVUP]

12 hours ago, Lamkyong said:

sounds like she is talking complete B.S.     it might be a great idea to leave now  before the

 

bs has time to hit the fan big style  wife ? legally or village type ?

Load of rubbish maybe even a troll & you stated " CCT in in your building " so your in a condo ( no doubt an inside job on the gold ) & don't worry I know of them as a mate tracked his wifes computer 

[jacko45k]

13 hours ago, 1happykamper said:

Thanks for the fast reply. Is it common in Thailand to accuse someone like this just to get your own way? False police reports are not empty threats me thinks.

 

It is certainly not unusual for Thais or other nationals to use the courts to make problems for an ex! Defamation is used this way and all they have to do is pay a lawyer who will arrange a civil court case. As stated your ex cannot go directly to immigration and I believe a judge order and confiscation of passport would be required.

 

It is also pretty common for a spurned woman to bandy threats around!

If you were planning to 'get out of dodge' for good, git while the going is good!

[maxtingtong]

The average is that the gold has been sold and reporting to the authorities never happened, just need more chips to play cards

[Headgame]

Had a similar situation a few years ago. My lady at the time threatened to report me to the police over some BS "problem".

I said OK,. let's go right now together to the police. She immediately backed down.

Called her bluff? Yes. Is this the right response in every situation? No.

But I kicked her out the door that day and have never heard from her since.

 

Be smart and guage the response that's right for you.
However, kick her out the door.

Your relationship is over.

[Juan B Tong]

Agree.  Go to the 7-11 one day and never come back.

[jeab1980]

1 hour ago, BEVUP said:

Load of rubbish maybe even a troll & you stated " CCT in in your building " so your in a condo ( no doubt an inside job on the gold ) & don't worry I know of them as a mate tracked his wifes computer 

Cant a house have cctv then?

[KIWIBATCH]

Your ex is full of BS with her threats/accusations....so meet her halfway with some BS of your own........tell her you are not now going to leave Thailand but instead will take a break in (some place) to think things over and call her again in a few days...(all BS of course)......and then get your bum out of the country asap.....as one poster has already mentioned...if  she "plants" drugs in your apartment/clothing then calls the cops you are <deleted> big time.....likewise if she organises a hit on you.......(Yes I know I am commenting over the top here ...but better I say it than not)

 

You know doubt have been here long enough and read enough news reports to realise what a Thai person is capable of if they have been spurned/crossed/embarrassed/backed into a corner etc etc etc.

[realenglish1]

She is your wife and therefore you cannot steal from her and vise versa Community property I think

 

And you have not been summoned by the Police so I would not worry she is blowing hot air

[transam]

Whilst you and your lady were away when the gold went missing, did anyone have access to your residence. If not, when was the last time YOU saw the gold where it is kept before your trip...?

[connda]

I was in a similar situating with my first wife.  Sadly, it's time for you to get a divorce.