maybe you dont read my words correct
i said, without details one could easily assume......
i am making a point, just like you assume there must be some other option
and to me you injected your negativity into others comments
you see one guy commented
implying she would not have to be alone and sad
another
meaning, live for today and enjoy the now while you can
and last
and this one is obviously referring to the fact the guy has just gone home and left her to fend for herself,
long distance relationships are possible even at 88 and clearly the guy is not in a position to continue to support her financially so the poor lady may be better off finacially with someone else.
you are assuming the guy is a saint, i dont see any toxicity in those comments