Everything is ultimately "you", not "me".
The wild card is the people. Take people out and it's mostly just landscape. It's not "just me".
I don't like being around Thai people much, so that made me not enjoy Pattaya. Relocate me to New York and it becomes Ok.
The other wild card is money. Can afford to relocate or not?
That makes Pattaya a net negative for me, not you. You are playing "word salad" with me here. Nothing I say is true for everybody. Also, I don't like Kenny G. I'm into hard metal, so that concert worked for you, not me.