You are even more confused than I thought.
Man I don't even know where to start. Definitely if you have to ask on this forum you don't have it. My wife is middle class, not hiso and she has plenty of connections. Most of those were made when she was studying at the university here in Bangkok. I don't want to "brag" what connections and from where, but they would get me out of jail or more. However, you must be under some grand delusion that these connections are "free". Another delusion is that you think for some reason that woman with such connection would marry a no name Farang. Hint number 2. Why do you think famous actresses and models often marry a police officer or military here even though they earn much less than them?
OMG, I must be a victim of a troll.