Alex Simmonds Posted May 16, 2018 Share Posted May 16, 2018 (edited) Girl I’m with is trying to get a divorce from her ex, who is asking for 20k baht to do it. 3 years ago she got pregnant after they’d finished but they agreed to marry in order to get some kind of benefit payment. He’s jobless and a yaba addict who beats her everytime he comes to visit the son (maybe twice a year). Also keeps threatening to kill her if she doesn’t send him money. Yesterday he agreed to do it for 20k in return but has done a u-turn this morning and <deleted> off to Bangkok. What are the legal fees for a thai on thai contested divorce? Cheaper than Thai/farang one?Would this be the best way to go about it? Edited May 16, 2018 by metisdead 8) You will not post disruptive or inflammatory messages, vulgarities, obscenities or profanities. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post cornishcarlos Posted May 16, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted May 16, 2018 I have no advice to give with respect to the divorce proceedings, however, I really hope you are staying out of sight in this case ?? Don't get involved if you have any choice, it's only gonna end in tears... 14 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post poanoi Posted May 16, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted May 16, 2018 things is going to be fine as long as you arent paying anything for anything 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BobBKK Posted May 16, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted May 16, 2018 1 minute ago, cornishcarlos said: I have no advice to give with respect to the divorce proceedings, however, I really hope you are staying out of sight in this case ?? Don't get involved if you have any choice, it's only gonna end in tears... Unfortunately I agree be careful. "got pregnant after they finished" says it all? anyway dangerous as Thais have little ethics. It's her problem I'm sad to say. 5 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post MaeJoMTB Posted May 16, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted May 16, 2018 Don't get involved. Don't spend your money. What use is her divorce to you? Just as likely she is trying to scam some money off you, it could all be a setup. 16 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chrisdoc Posted May 16, 2018 Share Posted May 16, 2018 At Songkran saw a local Thai guy. During the night. Went to see his mea noi at night. Ex -husband there. Now dead with 5 stab wounds.Sent from my SM-G900I using Thailand Forum - Thaivisa mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peterw42 Posted May 16, 2018 Share Posted May 16, 2018 After a certain timeframe she can divorce him without his involvement or agreement. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Alex Simmonds Posted May 16, 2018 Author Popular Post Share Posted May 16, 2018 True, won’t get involved at let her sort it. She has a good job and earns a decent wage, never asks for a penny off me for anything, hence why I’d like to hang on to this one. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Juan B Tong Posted May 16, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted May 16, 2018 Are you trolling or just stupid? 1 1 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post OmarZaid Posted May 16, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted May 16, 2018 A case for the Equalizer 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Justfine Posted May 16, 2018 Share Posted May 16, 2018 1 hour ago, Alex Simmonds said: True, won’t get involved at let her sort it. She has a good job and earns a decent wage, never asks for a penny off me for anything, hence why I’d like to hang on to this one. 20k baht isnt much. Either pay it or don't. Offer 10k or nothing. Sometimes in life you have to make decisions. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post csabo Posted May 16, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted May 16, 2018 Give a different guy the 20k to make the ex an offer he can't refuse. Next? 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PoorSucker Posted May 16, 2018 Share Posted May 16, 2018 Troll post removed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Enoon Posted May 16, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted May 16, 2018 Do you not think it a little strange that she got pregnant after they (allegedly) split up? This is just the beginning of your nightmare. Enjoy. 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MaeJoMTB Posted May 16, 2018 Share Posted May 16, 2018 2 minutes ago, Enoon said: Do you not think it a little strange that she got pregnant after they (allegedly) split up? I think I can explain this one. Thai culture is different to western culture, one of the ladies once explained to me, once they had given a guy access, after they had broken up they would still allow access. As she said to me, "If I liked you enough to have sex with you once, why would I change my mind later?" It makes sense to me anyway. 2 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post hanuman2543 Posted May 16, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted May 16, 2018 (edited) Judging from my experience divorcing my unwilling ex pay the 20.000 Baht after he signs all papers for an uncontested divorce at the Amphoe. It took me 5 years and at least 250.000 Baht in lawyer and court fees to get divorced. And not to mention the psychological and emotional stress involved. So 20.000 or less is a bargain. Edited May 16, 2018 by hanuman2543 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samsensam Posted May 16, 2018 Share Posted May 16, 2018 if this isn't a troll post, unlikely, then, OP, you dont seem to have much experience of thailand all common sense says stay away from this. ...why are you so impressed that she doenst ask you for money? in all the years i've been in thailand i've never dated anyone who wanted money from me. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Justfine Posted May 16, 2018 Share Posted May 16, 2018 35 minutes ago, hanuman2543 said: Judging from my experience divorcing my unwilling ex pay the 20.000 Baht after he signs all papers for an uncontested divorce at the Amphoe. It took me 5 years and at least 250.000 Baht in lawyer and court fees to get divorced. And not to mention the psychological and emotional stress involved. So 20.000 or less is a bargain. So did it work out after all that? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Autonuaq Posted May 16, 2018 Share Posted May 16, 2018 Have a look at the Thai law and with 20K you are of cheap. go to the Ampur register the divorce and then pay him directly! Since the husband can claim compensation for the losses he has, I used that section when I got divorced from may Thai wife to protect my assets and fortune. and her boyfriend is till paying Western Court confirmed the Thai ruling,. interesting to know the whole case was in western court with under Thai law. You are not only gambling with you balls also with your fortune when you get involved with a person married under Thai law. good luck and for the next time be more wiser other country other habits and laws 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post PerkinsCuthbert Posted May 16, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted May 16, 2018 Do you really think a yaba-addicted ex-husband will be satisfied with twenty grand? I think he'll be back for more within weeks to feed his habit, especially if he catches the slightest scent of a farang in the wings. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blackcab Posted May 16, 2018 Share Posted May 16, 2018 She only needs a divorce if she intends to remarry. If she want's to get married again, what's wrong with a village wedding? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thingamabob Posted May 16, 2018 Share Posted May 16, 2018 Stay away. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RobFord Posted May 16, 2018 Share Posted May 16, 2018 1 hour ago, MaeJoMTB said: I think I can explain this one. Thai culture is different to western culture, one of the ladies once explained to me, once they had given a guy access, after they had broken up they would still allow access. As she said to me, "If I liked you enough to have sex with you once, why would I change my mind later?" It makes sense to me anyway. Or, she may be a slut but she’s alright with me. -Todd Rungren From the song Slut. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hanuman2543 Posted May 16, 2018 Share Posted May 16, 2018 (edited) 2 hours ago, Justfine said: So did it work out after all that? I got my divorce and 50% of the sin somros ( marital property aquired during marriage ). Edited May 16, 2018 by hanuman2543 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post falangjim Posted May 16, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted May 16, 2018 Let her sort it out. He sounds like a piece of crap, and if you stick your nose in, khun yabba somchai will have no problem offing a falang. He is an addict. Let that fact set in. He is an addict. He will forever be screwing her over for cash with or without the divorce. I'm sure he has a history of "smash and cash grab" prior to the one you describe. I've met beer bar girls with less 'baggage' than your girl. Good luck. Don't be a chump. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
taxin Posted May 16, 2018 Share Posted May 16, 2018 Why do these threads quickly turn into an opportunity for everyone (including the OP) to say their GF’s never ask for money ? I’m also wondering why the OP felt the need to state this. To the OP, the fact she doesn’t ask you for money does not imply she is telling the truth. Thai woman nearly always lie about why they broke up with the ex, they will always cry hard done by and will seek attention from the next, even if it includes making up stories about the ex being a junky and beating her. She needs your emotional support, she knows she will not get this if she tells you she was dumped for banging her ex husbands best mate. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stephenterry Posted May 16, 2018 Share Posted May 16, 2018 No way would I contemplate giving a drug addict money, as that's a recipe for more and more demands. I would also steer clear of any possible confrontation, as it is odds on you'll be attacked by said druggie who wouldn't think twice (or even once) about attempting to kill you. Regretfully, it's up to your girlfriend and her family members to resolve it, including any possible divorce actions. A very sad and volatile situation, nevertheless, while this loose cannon is alive. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Black arab Posted May 16, 2018 Share Posted May 16, 2018 My wifes cousin has been trying to get a divorce for around 8 to 10 mo ths lawyer cost 10000bht but the husband refused to sign anything.I also think the said lawyer is stalling for more money. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suradit69 Posted May 16, 2018 Share Posted May 16, 2018 11 hours ago, BobBKK said: anyway dangerous as Thais have little ethics. Compared to the morally exalted farang who come here "just to visit the temples and feed bananas to the elephants??" Sex tourists rarely can claim the moral high ground. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post MaeJoMTB Posted May 16, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted May 16, 2018 3 minutes ago, Suradit69 said: Sex tourists rarely can claim the moral high ground. 'Romance Traveller' please. 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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