Does being an expat keep you younger in spirit and ambition?

[TonyClifton]

1 minute ago, ReMarKable said:

I have no need to try it.  I have an intelligent and beautiful wife who loves me, and I her.

Is she 24?  I have a beautiful, highly-intelligent 24-year-old woman who loves me too.

 

 

[ReMarKable]

7 minutes ago, TonyClifton said:

Is she 24?  I have a beautiful, highly-intelligent 24-year-old woman who loves me too.

 

 

Do you love her? 

[TonyClifton]

2 minutes ago, ReMarKable said:

Do you love her? 

You can bet your bippy on it.

[marcusarelus]

16 hours ago, Odysseus123 said:

Well..they were pretty common in my village-with or without foreigners.

 

But your post was a none to subtle "western" bashing exercise,was it not?

 

If you find one of those supposedly intrepid,unconventional and mind expanding free spirits in Thailand then please let me know.

 

Generally it was pensions,Brexit,Trump and those people from the middle east (you know the ones) and the price of a cup of coffee with the odd leer at a passing female.

Alexander MacDonald

 

Jim Thompson

 

William Ellwood Heinecke

 

Anthony Alexander Poshepny

 

Jack Brown

 

Andrew Biggs

 

Farang BaanNok

 

Bernard Trink

 

Dave the rave

 

Green star submission writers - google

 

I could give you a hundred more but will not because their privacy is important.

 

Too, there is your definition of mind expanding and mine.  I'm sure they are different. 

 

It is extremely difficult to rescue people in triple canopy jungle.  A friend of mine did this every day for 2 years.

I was at his funeral in Pattaya (he got killed in a bus accident) also at his funeral was a hypnotherapist who helped people stop smoking and conducted funerals both interesting people and FF (can't post name) the only guy I know to make a long term relationship with a drop dead gorgeous go go dancer work.  They have beautiful children and she is one of the most devoted wives I've ever met (he has had a number of health emergencies).  Groups that I belong to in Thailand and America are simple more stimulating in Thailand.  The people are far more interesting.  They have more fun and do more exciting things. 

 

 

 

[BritManToo]

2 hours ago, ReMarKable said:

What determines the difference? 

My English wife kicked me out, and I couldn't face a future of living in a bedsit while hoping she would let me see my kids once a week. If not for that, I'd still be there.

 

The series of Asian 20-year-olds in bed with me was just icing on the cake.

Edited September 24, 2018 by BritManToo

[HAKAPALITA]

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[kannot]

16 hours ago, tropo said:

I'm sorry you felt the need to become defensive because someone doesn't agree with your "words of wisdom".

 

Boredom is a state of mind - your mind, not mine. I never experience it - never have. There are never enough hours in a day to become bored. I don't think I've ever been in a situation where I can't think of something to do, either physically or mentally.

 

Just because someone else doesn't suffer from your affliction (boredom) doesn't mean all others do too.

 

 

Thus reminds me of when i was young and found "parties"  boring so didnt  go, always got  called boring..........rubbish imo, same with alcohol, never  liked it same response.

[CharlieH]

Bickering post stream removed.

 

If you get personal the entire conversation gets binned !

 

Persist beyond this post and holidays will follow.

[tropo]

21 minutes ago, kannot said:

Thus reminds me of when i was young and found "parties"  boring so didnt  go, always got  called boring..........rubbish imo, same with alcohol, never  liked it same response.

You and me the same. As a non-drinker, parties are not as much fun... and I was often accused of being boring. The reality is that drunks are the boring ones, but they are too drunk to realise it.

[OzMan]

My dentists told me a joke last week. A Jewish man was talking with his Rabbi.

 

Jewish man: Rabbi, I have this desire to live forever, what should I do?

Rabbi: get married

Jewish man: will that help me live forever?

Rabbi: No, but it will get rid of the desire.

 

[NanLaew]

3 hours ago, kannot said:

Thus reminds me of when i was young and found "parties"  boring so didnt  go, always got  called boring..........rubbish imo, same with alcohol, never  liked it same response.

 

[SheungWan]

2 hours ago, NanLaew said:

 

I was probably at that do in Palmers Green. In the kitchen. Talking BS. (so no change there then.....)

[Tofer]

22 hours ago, tropo said:

I get up and cook the bacon for her. If you sit around and let the lady do all your work, you're going to go downhill rapidly. Fighting laziness is a monumental task - it doesn't help if the lady does everything for you.

Interesting philosophy.

 

I think I'll take the risk though!

[rickudon]

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What ever ambitions can a retiree have? 

Obviously some young whippersnapper who thinks 50 is decrepit.

 

I left the UK for the first time in my life at the age of 22 to work in Africa, and later Australia. Returned to UK to settle down and have a family, working in mining camps and oil rigs in empty quarters of the world is pretty lonely stuff.

 

Good at first, but marriages go stale. At 57, after redundancy and a now loveless marriage, prospect was spend the next 20 years on the south coast hoping the kids will visit me in my retirement flat, or,

 

 

Go to Thailand.

 

Now have a new family, younger wife and daughter and probably got more sex in the last 10 years than the previous 30 years! Also have fishing pond and a small fish rearing facility (always wanted a fish farm). Still a few other ambitions left (catch some bigger fish, maybe a mia noi or 2, create the perfect fishing pond). May not all happen, but definitely an improvement on the alternative.

 

Yes, you have to dig yourself out of the rut you are in, but age is no impediment - in fact a pension liberates you from the NEED to work - now i do when i want to, and laze about if i don't.

 

Ha! retirees have no ambitions? lot to learn, boy.

[Tofer]

Personally I think Thailand offers an awful lot for those adventure junkies, whatever it may be that floats your boat. I firmly believe that expatriate life is more interesting, and keeps you young, at heart, at least. For me, the reduced stress and feeling more relaxed is a bonus and a veritable tonic. In UK I would get wound up if a property was vacant, now I don't give a toss, as I made sure the income was sufficient to survive on at 50% occupancy. I'm now retired in my piece of paradise with barely a care in the world, (once we're finished building the dream home!). Fortunately I'm one of those who realises when enough is enough, and that living life is more important than filling the coffers.

 

I left the comfort of family and home environment at age 18, from England to Scotland, not earth shattering international travel, but a big step for an 18 year old - new job, new home / environment, new friends etc. Then overseas, for the first time, at age 23 to the Seychelles. I have never looked back, and as my old step dad used to say, "you've nothing to come back for lad"!

 

I have lived in about 40 different properties in 7 different countries to date, every time it's an upheaval, stress and a learning curve, but I wouldn't have had it any other way, as the alternative was unthinkable.

 

As for leaving friends behind, as has been commented on previously, I quickly learned that as soon as you're gone they move on. Returning from the Seychelles I looked up my old pals on the regular lads night out,  and was bored to tears, they spent the whole evening discussing plumbing in washing machines. Not that I wanted to regale them with stories of my travels all night, but I did not get a simple "did you enjoy your spell there"? Perhaps a bit of green eyed monster!

 

Life is a tapestry, and I didn't want mine to be monochromatic.

 

Like another poster, I plan to write a book, not for publishing or profit, simply to keep the brain active and for my own personal enjoyment of recalling past experiences, and trying to keep Alzheimer's at bay.....

[ReMarKable]

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[ivor bigun]

I was probably at that do in Palmers Green. In the kitchen. Talking BS. (so no change there then.....)

You should have been in the kitchen at a party in Finchly in the 60s,telling David Bowie to stop bloody singing,little did we know.

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[The manic]

I guess it depends on the expat.  The Thai bashers and haters certainly have no youthful or adventurous mindset. The TV screen sports crowd  slavishly following 'footie' are not exactly adventurous as they just replicate a mundane western existence.  They could be anywhere. But the guys who get out, do some bar hopping, bar fine girls, travel around Thailand and engage with life here then I think they have a lot more fun and stay more youthful. 

[Rhys]

... and they are the ones you never hear about and have ..... what they want...

[spidermike007]

Many of us find the overall quality of life to be much higher in Thailand. Of course assuming you have a decent income, or savings. We live well here. For me, I find most Thai people to be delightful and lighthearted. Pleasant to be around. In the US, unless you are fortunate to be living in an area like Breckenridge, or Aspen, or Northern New Mexico, or Sonoma County, or a few other equally sublime areas, the life is not very good, in my humble opinion. Alot of angst, disappointment, division, racism, and bad mojo these days in the US. A nation on the downswing. America is definitely not becoming great again. 

 

Also, I am married to a younger woman than myself. I highly recommend that. She keeps me young. My heart goes out to the guys who are married to women their own age. For some it works. For me, it does not, on so many levels. 

[JaiLai]

On 9/23/2018 at 1:59 PM, TonyClifton said:

I'm shocked the answer isn't so readily available to you.  Love.

 

Love and of course a case of daddy issues.

 

This is the funniest post i've read today......so far!

 

Comedy gold...

[brling]

On 9/23/2018 at 1:28 PM, marcusarelus said:

Sorry.  But then why would you come on a Thai Forum and boast about not having a Thai wife?  What's that to be proud of?  I don't have a British wife but I don't feel the urge to brag about it?

Sorry. but then why would you come on a  Thai forum and want to defend / apologize for ALL things Thai with the usual reference to the UK.

[The manic]

1 hour ago, brling said:

Sorry. but then why would you come on a  Thai forum and want to defend / apologize for ALL things Thai with the usual reference to the UK.

Because he has experience of the UK?

[marcusarelus]

5 hours ago, brling said:

Sorry. but then why would you come on a  Thai forum and want to defend / apologize for ALL things Thai with the usual reference to the UK.

Because it is a Thai forum.  I live in Thailand.  I like Thailand.  I take offense if you speak negatively/untruthfully about Thailand.  

[StreetCowboy]

16 hours ago, marcusarelus said:

Because it is a Thai forum.  I live in Thailand.  I like Thailand.  I take offense if you speak negatively/untruthfully about Thailand.  

I don't think it's right when people take offence when none was offered.  That seems like stealing.

[brling]

On 9/28/2018 at 6:02 PM, The manic said:

 But the guys who get out, do some bar hopping, bar fine girls, travel around Thailand and engage with life here then I think they have a lot more fun and stay more youthful. 

 

Why do you think you have to pay greedy prostitutes to have any fun. 

[BritManToo]

53 minutes ago, brling said:

Why do you think you have to pay greedy prostitutes to have any fun. 

 

It's better than paying my (former) greedy English wife and not having any fun.

[marcusarelus]

20 hours ago, StreetCowboy said:

I don't think it's right when people take offence when none was offered.  That seems like stealing.

A guy in the post below yours wrote, " Why do you think you have to pay greedy prostitutes to have any fun."

 

Do you think that is offensive?   

 

How about anti Semitic jokes? "My dentists told me a joke last week. A Jewish man was talking with his Rabbi" Do you find those offensive? 

 

Perhaps you could quote the post I took offense at that was not offensive?  

 

I don't think it's right when people accuse others of wrongs without even telling what those wrongs are. 

 

I had a girl tell me I did something wrong at a party 30 years ago.  She couldn't remember where the party was or when it occurred or who was there.  Should I take her seriously? 

Edited September 30, 2018 by marcusarelus

[BritManToo]

1 hour ago, marcusarelus said:

I had a girl tell me I did something wrong at a party 30 years ago.  She couldn't remember where the party was or when it occurred or who was there.  Should I take her seriously?

 

Maybe, if your name is Bill Crosby.

[The manic]

4 hours ago, brling said:

 

Why do you think you have to pay greedy prostitutes to have any fun. 

Girls are part of the opportunities offered here. Great fun! But I also travel extensively in Thailand, go sight seeing, go to festivals, visit Issan,  go to concerts, go running and swimming, go drinking and dining. And sometimes go whoring. Whats wrong with that? Its part of life here. Interestingly I have noticed the expats who dont go out with girls are always the moaners and complainers .

Edited September 30, 2018 by The manic