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Twice I have witnessed  road accidents and been the one to respond while many other watched. One died and one lived. Something in the culture that keeps kind people from responding in an emergency.

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5 hours ago, Cake Monster said:

However, self preservation is the order of the day, and we were also instructed never to put ourselves in a situation that could be dangerous or be a threat to our own wellbeing.

Well done to the young man who stopped to help, he is a good, decent  Human Being. 

Always think before going in to help would be my serious advice to anybody in this kind of situation.

I can relate, I was an EMT on an ambulance for 12 years and our 1st instinct is to stop and help.

 

Back in the 90's (on one of my trips to Bali) I was driving around in Denpasar with an Indonesian friend of mine and we came around a corner (heavy traffic) and there was an old woman laying face down in the middle of the street.  She looked dead but I couldn't tell for sure.  Nobody stopped to help her so I immediately pulled over and my Indonesian friend had a panic attack and started yelling NO, NO! DON"T STOP!

 

What?  Why?  She needs help I said.  He said that I would be blamed for her death or injuries and that I would have "BIG problems with the police" and that there would be no witnesses to help me (other than him and the police would not believe him because he was my friend).  He said if she's dead then you cannot help her and if she's mentally disturbed she might be faking it just to get attention but if she's hurt then you could be held responsible and have to pay for everything.

 

That made me think (still nobody had stopped and numerous motorbikes and cars just by drove right around her).  She did not appear to be breathing or moving at all so I thought about it for a minute and then just took off.  

 

Had there been others stopped there before me it would not have been a problem but do to the circumstances, you're right... sometimes (not always) it's better to just drive on by.

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45 minutes ago, puukao said:

 

it was only today I saved 14 kittens from a mouth of a croc and then hunted wild buffalo to feed a family of 32 and then rescue 8 cats from a burning building while giving cpr to 23 people who almost drowned.  

ya shoved your tongue in my mouth you freak. Next time let me drown.

 

I sure know why you want to play lifeguard

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1 hour ago, MickeyDelux said:

Thank you American

Hes from NYC or nearabouts. No one else wears a Mets shirt unless they are really from NYC

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Nice to see he assisted.

Hope he has not suffered vicarious trauma, and has assistance to support him.

My respect for all Emergency workers as well

 

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10 hours ago, MeePeeMai said:

I can relate, I was an EMT on an ambulance for 12 years and our 1st instinct is to stop and help.

 

Back in the 90's (on one of my trips to Bali) I was driving around in Denpasar with an Indonesian friend of mine and we came around a corner (heavy traffic) and there was an old woman laying face down in the middle of the street.  She looked dead but I couldn't tell for sure.  Nobody stopped to help her so I immediately pulled over and my Indonesian friend had a panic attack and started yelling NO, NO! DON"T STOP!

 

What?  Why?  She needs help I said.  He said that I would be blamed for her death or injuries and that I would have "BIG problems with the police" and that there would be no witnesses to help me (other than him and the police would not believe him because he was my friend).  He said if she's dead then you cannot help her and if she's mentally disturbed she might be faking it just to get attention but if she's hurt then you could be held responsible and have to pay for everything.

 

That made me think (still nobody had stopped and numerous motorbikes and cars just by drove right around her).  She did not appear to be breathing or moving at all so I thought about it for a minute and then just took off.  

 

Had there been others stopped there before me it would not have been a problem but do to the circumstances, you're right... sometimes (not always) it's better to just drive on by.

Yes,  when I was in Indonesia in the early 80's I was told never to stop at the scene of an accident because being white (rich) I could be blamed.

Never driven in Thailand and probably never will.

 

Asia is far too uncivilised to drive in without any stress.

Back home driving is just a normal daily function, if there's an accident everyone has insurance and a fully equiped ambulance will be there asap.

Not in Asia.  Dont drive. Don't get involved although well done to the American chap. I don't know if I would help until the situation actually arises.  Maybe.

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On 4/22/2019 at 2:43 AM, Cake Monster said:

Having all the relative skills ( and more ) to deal with a situation such as this, I would never, ever use those skills here in Thailand again.

A few years ago, whilst driving in Pattaya, I witnessed a car leave the road at speed about 100M ahead of me.

There was no other vehicle involved.

Being fully qualified through MSA traIning in the UK, i pulled up to offer some assistance behind the vehicle which was on its side and 2M down in a concrete drainage channel, and badly damaged.

As I jumped down into the channel to reach the driver, a Thai guy pulled up on a Motorcycle, and started shouting and gesticulating at me.

Whats all this about I thought. Another motorist who was Thai started shouting back at this guy on the bike, who then took off at pace.

It transpired that the Guy on the Bike was accusing me of being involved in, and indeed causing the accident. It was only because the other Thai driver had also witnessed the car go off the road, and really lambasted this guy on the Bike, that I did not find myself in a very serious situation indeed.

I struggle with this in my head, as my training with the MSA taught me to respect life, and to help people that need it in a crisis. 

However, self preservation is the order of the day, and we were also instructed never to put ourselves in a situation that could be dangerous or be a threat to our own wellbeing.

Well done to the young man who stopped to help, he is a good, decent  Human Being. 

Always think before going in to help would be my serious advice to anybody in this kind of situation.

 

 

 

 

You had a "one off" situation which defused rapidly and caused no problem.

What if the witness hadn't pulled up? The guy was yelling at you, not jumping off the cycle and attacking you.

 

Mountain. Mole Hill.

 

Not worthy of being used as an excuse to suggest people not be helpful to others in need.

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On 4/22/2019 at 3:18 PM, Aussieroaming said:

Well done fella

Well done indeed!! Mae Taeng is located at the start of the notorious route 1095 to Mae Hong Son with its 1,800 or more hair pin bends and there are many accidents without summer storms.

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