I've left my girl in Pattaya. She was completely off the wall.

[Blue Muton]

Well I had a great night in Pattaya last night, was walking past a restaurant when a girl rushes out and bumps into me. We got chatting and then went to a bar, one thing led to another and she dragged me to a hotel and, well, being a gentleman I won't go into too much detail but suffice it to say that the minbar wasn't the only thing that took a bashing. And best of all, she paid for everything, she must have spent about 15,000 Baht!

[DaRoadrunner]

The babe is an obvious pain in the <deleted> type, of which there are far too many among the Thais, so why take her anywhere? No fool like an old fool. Hasta la vista babe.

[Scott]

A troll post has been reported and removed.

 

[White Christmas13]

2 hours ago, Blue Muton said:

Well I had a great night in Pattaya last night, was walking past a restaurant when a girl rushes out and bumps into me. We got chatting and then went to a bar, one thing led to another and she dragged me to a hotel and, well, being a gentleman I won't go into too much detail but suffice it to say that the minbar wasn't the only thing that took a bashing. And best of all, she paid for everything, she must have spent about 15,000 Baht!

[PingRoundTheWorld]

13 hours ago, kellersphuket said:

she can pay with the 15,000 spending money I gave her!!

Why on earth would you take a girl you don't know across the country and give her 15,000 baht?!? Of course she's being a bitch - she's already been paid - no incentive to be nice anymore and you leaving early is just added benefit. 15k and a free trip to Pattaya, score for her.

[PingRoundTheWorld]

13 hours ago, BritManToo said:

I hope you learned not to take girls to Pattaya, there are plenty there already.

I've actually done that a few times. Needless to say all the OTHER times when I came without a girl were.....better.

[fusion58]

14 hours ago, Dmaxdan said:

Poor girl, You've probably put her off Farangs for life ????

Which is to say he did the rest of us a solid.

[wisperone]

What's wrong...no like pay for play? You were responsible for paying for the meal. I think you should make good on it. 

[jastheace]

11 hours ago, bkk6060 said:

You pay them to leave, not at the beginning of a trip.

Sounds like you learned a few lessons on this one.

Hopefully..

no, he hasn't learnt anything. check out his past posts. he's going home/another country 2 months ago anyway. looking forward to his book, ''the life and times of KP in Thailand-why I wanted to leave but couldn't be ass'd''

hopefully in paperback so at least I hope use it to 'wipe'

[1FinickyOne]

7 hours ago, AAArdvark said:

Does it matter?

obviously matters to you - - or you wouldn't have commented...

 

and to the OP who threw out this part of his life in a post on a public forum... 

 

but generally, in 100 years nobody will even remember any of us ever existed, so, no it doesn't matter in the long run... like everything else here... 

[Moonlover]

Did anyone notice the possessive pronoun in the subject header?

 

'I left my girl in Pattaya'. Just how arrogant can this poster be?

[Fex Bluse]

The girls are usually quietly seething with anger at having to be seen with and cavort with Farang men their grandfathers' age.

 

So they 'go off' and explode at the slightest inconvenience.

 

Solution:

Stop treating bar girls as dates and girlfriends and wives. They are prostitutes, hookers, often drug abusers and often have serious, sad, psychological trauma as one would expect.

 

Get a real girl.

Edited September 23, 2019 by Fex Bluse

[MJKT2014]

19 hours ago, kellersphuket said:

she threw my beer all over me and told me that farang should always be polite to thai girl.

That must have been the ultimate insult for all the booze you knock back each day.

[Moonlover]

20 hours ago, Nyezhov said:

21 hours ago, kellersphuket said:

no thanks dude.

not going there.

more trouble than it's worth!

 

20 hours ago, Nyezhov said:

everywhere you go and everything you seem to do is more trouble than its worth. Have you considered maybe its you?

Reminds me of a quote about a well known former American stateman.

 

'A bull that carries his own china shop with him.'

[Mitkof Island]

2 hours ago, Fex Bluse said:

The girls are usually quietly seething with anger at having to be seen with and cavort with Farang men their grandfathers' age.

 

So they 'go off' and explode at the slightest inconvenience.

 

Solution:

Stop treating bar girls as dates and girlfriends and wives. They are prostitutes, hookers, often drug abusers and often have serious, sad, psychological trauma as one would expect.

 

Get a real girl.

Great advice ! Now if 98% of the foreign tourists and expats would listen there would be 98% fewer Thai bashers,  and moaners on Thaivisa. Not good for business i guess but would attract a higher quality foreigner to the site. The bar girls and massage shops who hate the drop off in stupid foreigners. But don,t worry there are plane loads of suckers arriving hourly and the rest who continue to repeat the same mistake over and over and over again deserve everything they get. sorry no sympathy for idiots with no common sense. Learn to speak basic Thai or just avoid Thai women altogether. Otherwise you are just wasting your time.

[Fex Bluse]

13 minutes ago, Mitkof Island said:

Great advice ! Now if 98% of the foreign tourists and expats would listen there would be 98% fewer Thai bashers,  and moaners on Thaivisa. Not good for business i guess but would attract a higher quality foreigner to the site. The bar girls and massage shops who hate the drop off in stupid foreigners. But don,t worry there are plane loads of suckers arriving hourly and the rest who continue to repeat the same mistake over and over and over again deserve everything they get. sorry no sympathy for idiots with no common sense. Learn to speak basic Thai or just avoid Thai women altogether. Otherwise you are just wasting your time.

I agree partially. 

 

Most of the Thai bashers would be gone, but some, like me, would remain as my issues are with the culture more broadly. 

 

But, yes, we agree on the prostitutes. 

 

I don't know of a single western friend/colleague/acquaintance who would take a hooker out for a date or openly date one back in Farangland. 

 

Yet, so many guys here in Thailand treat these prostitutes like they are normal girls. 

 

It's wild. 

[thaiguzzi]

21 minutes ago, Fex Bluse said:

Most of the Thai bashers would be gone, but some, like me, would remain as my issues are with the culture more broadly. 

So why are still here then?

To bash the culture more broadly?

22 minutes ago, Fex Bluse said:

Yet, so many guys here in Thailand treat these prostitutes like they are normal girls

So they are not "normal" girls then?

Are they aliens from outer space on subhumans from a festering garbage dump?

Or are they actually human beings too, just like you and me?

[BritManToo]

6 minutes ago, thaiguzzi said:

Or are they actually human beings too, just like you and me?

I've never hired out my sex organs, so not like me at all.

Don't have much sympathy for those too lazy to work in proper employment either.

Edited September 23, 2019 by BritManToo

[Fex Bluse]

10 minutes ago, thaiguzzi said:

So why are still here then?

To bash the culture more broadly?

So they are not "normal" girls then?

Are they aliens from outer space on subhumans from a festering garbage dump?

Or are they actually human beings too, just like you and me?

Come on. 

 

I won't answer the 'why are you here then?' queries anymore. Too boring. 

 

As for the girls, surely you are clever enough to understand that even when girls enter the trade of their own volition, which MANY do not, prostitution often results in severe psychological damage. 

 

If you don't think so, try whoring out your body to be abused by hundreds or thousands of men/women most of whom make you sick to your stomach to even look at. Then report back. 

[fhickson]

why would you take your daughter to pattaya and not expect a problem?

[Mitkof Island]

1 hour ago, Fex Bluse said:

I agree partially. 

 

Most of the Thai bashers would be gone, but some, like me, would remain as my issues are with the culture more broadly. 

 

But, yes, we agree on the prostitutes. 

 

I don't know of a single western friend/colleague/acquaintance who would take a hooker out for a date or openly date one back in Farangland. 

 

Yet, so many guys here in Thailand treat these prostitutes like they are normal girls. 

 

It's wild. 

It's wild ? No just plain dumb in my opinion

[Mitkof Island]

49 minutes ago, Fex Bluse said:

Come on. 

 

I won't answer the 'why are you here then?' queries anymore. Too boring. 

 

As for the girls, surely you are clever enough to understand that even when girls enter the trade of their own volition, which MANY do not, prostitution often results in severe psychological damage. 

 

If you don't think so, try whoring out your body to be abused by hundreds or thousands of men/women most of whom make you sick to your stomach to even look at. Then report back. 

I agree some of the foreigners they have to deal with both men and women i sometimes ask the girl where they found them. Not sure who i feel more sorry for but i tend to lean towards the Thai women. I saw a German woman once that had found herself a young Thai guy. She had to be over sixty over weight and nasty looking. The Thai guy looked like a beaten puppy. Still have very mixed feelings about prostitution it tends to attract a very high number of guys that look like they crawled out of a dumpster.

[Skallywag]

1 hour ago, Fex Bluse said:

Yet, so many guys here in Thailand treat these prostitutes like they are normal girls.

 

1 hour ago, Fex Bluse said:

surely you are clever enough to understand that even when girls enter the trade of their own volition, which MANY do not, prostitution often results in severe psychological damage. 

And normal girls never act crazy and selfish as the one referenced in the OP? 

I like the idea that a sex-worker could claim PTSD and get on some type of disability for it.   

Just life itself can cause psychological damage, according to psychologists.  haha

Edited September 23, 2019 by Skallywag

[Fex Bluse]

41 minutes ago, Skallywag said:

 

And normal girls never act crazy and selfish as the one referenced in the OP? 

I like the idea that a sex-worker could claim PTSD and get on some type of disability for it.   

Just life itself can cause psychological damage, according to psychologists.  haha

True haha

[theonetrueaussie]

3 hours ago, Skallywag said:

 

And normal girls never act crazy and selfish as the one referenced in the OP? 

I like the idea that a sex-worker could claim PTSD and get on some type of disability for it.   

Just life itself can cause psychological damage, according to psychologists.  haha

I have dated many normal girls here....They just as crazy as bar girls...Now I only date foreigners!!

[jastheace]

5 hours ago, Skallywag said:

 

And normal girls never act crazy and selfish as the one referenced in the OP? 

I like the idea that a sex-worker could claim PTSD and get on some type of disability for it.   

Just life itself can cause psychological damage, according to psychologists.  haha

If I spent 3 hours in the company of KP the 'OP', I would suffer PTSD too I reckon

 

[Blue Muton]

36 minutes ago, jastheace said:

If I spent 3 hours in the company of KP the 'OP', I would suffer PTSD too I reckon

 

It was four days.

[jastheace]

16 minutes ago, Blue Muton said:

It was four days.

then I would need the men in white coats

and a lobotomy

then I would be fine

[bwpage3]

Sounds like your are the one that learned a lesson.

 

Maybe you should be more careful who you chose to take on a trip with you.

 

Sounds like a bar girl.

[norfolkandchance]

11 hours ago, Moonlover said:

Did anyone notice the possessive pronoun in the subject header?

 

'I left my girl in Pattaya'. Just how arrogant can this poster be?

Are you a teacher.