12 minutes ago, NokNokJoke said:

20 days ago, I had enough of my gfs refusing to talk about important issues, among other things.(no, not climate change...but relationship stuff)

You think too much!

Relationships happen, driven by sex and pheromones, talking about them is pointless and usually only happens at the end when it's already over.

Edited September 29, 20196 yr by BritManToo

Several respondents have already given you the advice you need, even if it's not the advice you want: assuming you have your passport, just consider it a loss and chalk it up to experience...move on. It's not your country...you can't win. And I would add to this a second piece of advice: stop trying to get into romantic relationships with sex workers. You're welcome.

10 hours ago, jvs said:

I learned the same in the SNS.

I learned the same in the Scouts..

Baden-Powell always recommended 4 safe houses,a cache of Mr T commercials,a life time membership on ThaiVisa..and a spare woggle.

6 minutes ago, Chou Anou said:

Several respondents have already given you the advice you need, even if it's not the advice you want: assuming you have your passport, just consider it a loss and chalk it up to experience...move on. It's not your country...you can't win. And I would add to this a second piece of advice: stop trying to get into romantic relationships with sex workers. You're welcome.

I think you are wrongly assuming things,did you actually read anything that was said?

I dont think the op will be thanking you.

3 hours ago, Chou Anou said:

Several respondents have already given you the advice you need, even if it's not the advice you want: assuming you have your passport, just consider it a loss and chalk it up to experience...move on. It's not your country...you can't win. And I would add to this a second piece of advice: stop trying to get into romantic relationships with sex workers. You're welcome.

It was a 4 year relationship with a bank teller, not a sex worker. 
I got back most of my stuff via the police 
I have since moved out and looking for a new place, hotel hopping as we speak. 

20 minutes ago, ExpatLife said:

It was a 4 year relationship with a bank teller, not a sex worker. 
I got back most of my stuff via the police 
I have since moved out and looking for a new place, hotel hopping as we speak. 

congratulations on actually hooking up with a bank teller. based on some of the comments i think that this is the #1 fantasy here on TV followed 7/11 cashier.

 

Edited September 29, 20196 yr by NCC1701A

24 minutes ago, ExpatLife said:

It was a 4 year relationship with a bank teller, not a sex worker. 
I got back most of my stuff via the police 
I have since moved out and looking for a new place, hotel hopping as we speak. 

Amazing, isn't it. 

 

If it's a sex worker, you get shot down for being stupid.

 

But if it's a bank teller for 4 years ... you are getting shot down, too, for being stupid.

 

No worries man, you got most of your stuff back and move on. I really wish you all the best!

Just don't give in, when she comes back before end of the month, when the rent needs to get paid again.

 

Stand your ground and move on!

 

 

 

 

 

Edited September 29, 20196 yr by RedPill

3 minutes ago, NCC1701A said:

congratulations on actually hooking up with a bank teller. based on some of the comments i think that is the #1 fantasy here on TV followed 7/11 cashier.

 

lol, yes, that is amazing, not really something you see often. 

 

I never had bank teller as a girl friend ... only the ones telling my own money in my own wallet 5555

 

 

Edited September 29, 20196 yr by RedPill

3 hours ago, Chou Anou said:

Several respondents have already given you the advice you need, even if it's not the advice you want: assuming you have your passport, just consider it a loss and chalk it up to experience...move on. It's not your country...you can't win. And I would add to this a second piece of advice: stop trying to get into romantic relationships with sex workers. You're welcome.

It's scary the number of people jumping into a thread without having read previous messages ????

i see this often on the forum, but i still do not understand why people do this.

28 minutes ago, ExpatLife said:

It was a 4 year relationship with a bank teller, not a sex worker. 

There's no difference, apart from the sex worker being more skilled in bed.

10 minutes ago, FredGallaher said:

I vote to call this thread a scam

1) he said he lost everything

2) he said he got most back

3) he got it all back

All within a day or so. Tell me a young attractive (my assumption) bank teller who wants to shack up with a guy whose sole possessions seem to be a laptop (Macbook - I have two Macbooks,plus a PC, a desktop and IPad). Plus a camera. I think most bank tellers are smarter than this.

Fred, come on, it's a relationship + dramas, especially with the Thai girls here.

 

You never had this before, or never seen this?

 

I would not be surprised they get back tomorrow again and try again ... I don't really think that's a good idea, but I've seen this happening here over and over again.

 

... the OP just wanted to share and get some response to it.

There is nothing malicious about it.

 

Show some compassion and give the correct advise ????

 

 

Edited September 29, 20196 yr by RedPill

13 minutes ago, FredGallaher said:

I vote to call this thread a scam

1) he said he lost everything

2) he said he got most back

3) he got it all back

All within a day or so. Tell me a young attractive (my assumption) bank teller who wants to shack up with a guy whose sole possessions seem to be a laptop (Macbook - I have two Macbooks,plus a PC, a desktop and IPad). Plus a camera. I think most bank tellers are smarter than this.

All the story is probably true

this stuff happens all the time here

and it's an endless source of intertainment

 

TIT

Edited September 29, 20196 yr by kingofthemountain

11 minutes ago, kingofthemountain said:

All the story is probably true

this stuff happens all the time here

and it's an endless source of intertainment

 

TIT

That's what I meant before in a different thread. 

 

It doesn't matter what someone posts on here ... he will always get labeled immediately either a troll or a scam or whatever, not very helpful comments.

 

It's not a positive forum for someone to post something not thinking it through entirely ... he will always get shot down.

I think it's a horrible attitude from fellow Farangs.

 

There is no compassion!

 

Edited September 29, 20196 yr by RedPill

1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

There's no difference, apart from the sex worker being more skilled in bed.

Alpha for <deleted> ...

Beta for bucks ...

 

This forum is full of beta's, at the end of their (retirement) stage of life, providing and passing on only the bucks to their Thai wife's.

 

They can't keep a real discussion up and all go to bed at 10pm, wake up at 6am, counting their leafs falling down in the garden next morning, and pick it up. The highlight of the day.

 

And everyone, the younger guys, who are doing something else, are in earlier relationships, which they 'ALSO' did, when they were young, including all the stupid things and mistakes! 

 

... they will all get shot down ???? As scam, without giving any proper advise.

 

I always had a lot of respect for older people back in the West ... after a few years living here, I lost it somewhere. 

 

I don't see much understanding, they are completely stubborn, they don't show any compassion. At the same time, they are living together with wife's/girls who are only together with them for the money only.

 

Only they and their little perfect lives ... everyone else is 'utter nonsense', a scam or a troll.

 

Thanks very much, it doesn't reflect reality living in Thailand and all the things which can happen and people just post about it, in a non-malicious way. Well, I correct myself, actually, it does! 

 

Boring and stubborn old people! ????

 

 

 

 

Edited September 29, 20196 yr by RedPill

1 hour ago, FredGallaher said:

All within a day or so. Tell me a young attractive (my assumption) bank teller who wants to shack up with a guy whose sole possessions seem to be a laptop

btw ... my grandma is turning 104 years very soon. I will fly out and see and congratulate her.

 

Meanwhile, you stay cool and take care you don't get a heart attack yourself, when you read on a forum that someone (you don't know) is posting he wants his laptop back, ok ????

 

 

Obviously, your biggest mistake was not removing everything first and then breaking up with her. She obviously views you as an ATM machine. So, either you try to get back together with her briefly, remove all of your stuff when she is not there, and then break it off. Or you pay the police to help you with your endeavor. Remember one thing. It is never about the law, when it comes to the police. It is always about money. They are not law enforcement. They are franchisees. So, offer a policeman with some rank 10,000 baht, and he will give you all the help you will need. 

58 minutes ago, RedPill said:

At the same time, they are living together with wife's/girls who are only together with them for the money only.

That's the only game in town.

Your god Roosh, only managed to bang women I wouldn't even consider, then he hit 40, couldn't bang anyone for free, and had to find religion.

Redpill isn't reality, it's just another meme created by an aging pick-up artist and centred around his fantasy for white Christian teenage virgins.

Edited September 29, 20196 yr by BritManToo

On 9/28/2019 at 6:02 AM, jastheace said:

90% of us been there, done that, moved on

so move on

Doubt it, speak for yourself!

On 9/28/2019 at 7:00 AM, Fex Bluse said:

@ExpatLife

 

Where did you meet this girl and what line of work is she in?

What's that got to do with anything?

On 9/28/2019 at 8:41 AM, gk10002000 said:

File a police report saying your stuff is stolen, and you are confident it is in her house.  Having stolen property is a lot different than her simply not letting you into her house.  Sometimes repackaging things gets better results

That would have been a false report as she didn't steal anything, he left the stuff in her house, big difference.

Edited September 29, 20196 yr by Just Weird

1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

That's the only game in town.

Your god Roosh, only managed to bang women I wouldn't even consider, then he hit 40, couldn't bang anyone for free, and had to find religion.

Redpill isn't reality, it's just another meme created by an aging pick-up artist and centred around his fantasy for white Christian teenage virgins.

I know that. Actually, I accidentally used your initial quote and replied direct to you, just because it was so perfect.

Without really addressing you, it was more to make an overall point. 

 

I forgot to mention that. All of your posts I have read so far, you got your head screwed on correctly, as far as I'm concerned.

 

Give the local police 10k , and they will take care of it quickly, and you save 70k (ransom)  

2 hours ago, FredGallaher said:

I'm cool with it. I just call it BS, like it is or maybe trolling. Take your pick. Be careful dismounting your bar stool. Your bones are probably brittle.

Ok, but if you are really 'cool' with it ... why call it BS, Trolling, a Scam?

 

And not just give some good advise from your own history, and pass it on to the OP, in a nice way? Doesn't matter how stupid or silly it was?

Don't knock them down for just posting a feeling they just had at that moment!

 

I'm not talking from a barstool. I avoid Farang bar stool talk, for many years. The only I get is here.

 

I live a very simple life ... going to the beach 3-4 times a day, jumping into the pool, getting some food.

And sometimes, responding to TV posts, as I see and feel it.

 

Yesterday, too. OP is posting something, I can relate, Happened to me, too. In a different way, still the same topic.

 

He said 'Thanks', we exchange some advise, wish each other the best going forward and everything is ok!

 

You jump in, at page 12, call it all a scam and BS ... and complain about the waste of space in your life?

 

Why is that? You are not as 'cool' as you say you are.

 

I'll fly back to visit my grandma, 104 years old ... and will sit in the airplane, not wondering about the Thai's, but more about 

the Farangs I have met here or have to read about. You guys really lost something living here, I don't what it is, but my 

feeling is ... compassion and commons sense and understand of things, which you also did, when you were young! 

 

 

 

Edited September 29, 20196 yr by RedPill

To be true, living in Thailand and look at the old people around me, makes me very scared to become the same as them later ... when you get to that kind of a shallow mind set at the end later, and have to switch off your brain to be happy, and lose all or your values and common sense you grew up with ... I don't want it!

 

I always said in discussions I respect that when you get older ... but in direct discussions with them, the older guys only give you <deleted>. So what!

 

Edited September 29, 20196 yr by RedPill

3 minutes ago, FredGallaher said:

Red, You are really obsessed with this subject. Unfortunately I clicked on follow so you keep showing up. My advice would be to get a life and move on. You say a lot of things that just don't connect for me. Are you really that unhappy or do you crave attention? As for me I just unclicked "notify me of replies". Enough!

Ok, so then you start to respect other people and not start to talk bull about 'non sense' on page 12 talking with the wrong guy about an electric bill ... it all goes hand in hand. I also have to read your bull on the forum, ok, it goes both ways. Day in day out.

 

Edited September 29, 20196 yr by RedPill

Did u pay any rent while staying in her house?

Ask her to lower the price and see it a as rental fee.

45 minutes ago, FredGallaher said:

You say a lot of things that just don't connect for me

Of course you don't do. That's what I'm saying. Seeing people like you, without any open mind set left anymore, which you got and received from your parents when you grew up. Or any more ambitions in life. Just dropped it all.

 

That's not where I want to end up with later.

 

So yeah, I don't want to retire in Thailand, I had plans, but looking around me and guys like you ... that changed my mind!

 

Not the Thai people, or visa or anything like that  ... just by looking at the Farangs around me, like you ... I can't have a normal conversation about something anymore. I have to switch half of my brain off to only be happy and listen to the birds in the garden.

 

 

 

 

 

Edited September 29, 20196 yr by RedPill

1 hour ago, RedPill said:

To be true, living in Thailand and look at the old people around me, makes me very scared to become the same as them later .

If you're really lucky you might die before then.

I stopped having 'normal' conversations 10 odd years back when I realised the 'work hard, save for a future, behave decently and honestly' western work ethic was all a scam to transfer money from hard working men to lazy, selfish trollops.

Edited September 29, 20196 yr by BritManToo

21 minutes ago, Destiny1990 said:

Did u pay any rent while staying in her house?

Ask her to lower the price and see it a as rental fee.

Can i recommend you to read the thread and not only the title before posting?

 

1 hour ago, balo said:

Give the local police 10k , and they will take care of it quickly, and you save 70k (ransom)  

Can i recommend you to read the thread and not only the title before posting?