Thai girl trying to charge me a baby (I think)

[Skallywag]

Google why condoms break will help you in the future, Expired, left near heat source, No water based lube used, Oil based lube used, applied wrong all can cause condoms to break.  Sex 101, if woman is not aroused and producing her own lubrication, you need to provide it 

These are the things you need to be concerned about for your future to prevent pregnancy and STD's .

The woman hooks up with guys for one night stands, you provided support for her after condom broke, the rest is moot . 

[faraday]

2 hours ago, PatOngo said:

Have you given any thought as to what you might name the baby?

Maybe 'Filo' from the Spanish word for Condom.

 

Profilactico...?

 

Or Johnny...?

 

 

[ricklev]

I wonder how much you gave her for the pill.  I'm guessing 1500-2000 baht?

 

[Beggar]

I see 3 options: 

 

She forgets you and leaves you alone (best option). 

 

She scams you. I would not pay anything before the baby is born. 

 

She is really pregnant. When the baby is born insist on a DNA test. Perhaps you haven't been the only customer... If it is your child you will have to accept it. 

[marqus12]

6 hours ago, PatOngo said:

Have you given any thought as to what you might name the baby?

Until DNA testing, I suggest at least temporarily ... Somchai .

Edited October 29, 2019 by marqus12

[richard_smith237]

13 hours ago, sirineou said:

You know there are ways to find out if it is your child ,Right?

If it is not yours ,and you want, walk away.

If it is, do the right thing, otherwise how can you live with yourself for the rest of your life knowing that you abandoned YOUR  child? I capitalised 'YOUR" or does 'your" mean nothing to you? 

if you abandon your own child  IMO you are nothing but Ki Not.

Best to first find out if there is a child at all....  this is all in the Ops head. 

[neeray]

Condom breakage can cause miserable results. According to my late father, this is how I came into being. He claims that he used to "blow the end out of condoms".

[tifino]

even if OP decides to travel aback anyways... and there is no more communication... 

how will she be able to know where and when he is when he arrives? 

on top of that; there is the question as to how about does she know?

telephone number?

address at home?

passport details? 

 

just stay a needle in the haystack...

[ballpoint]

11 hours ago, faraday said:

Maybe 'Filo' from the Spanish word for Condom.

 

Profilactico...?

 

Or Johnny...?

 

 

Joholenny is better.  Johnny with a hole in the middle.

[emptypockets]

16 minutes ago, steven100 said:

Thailand =   Lie land …   the capital of scammers.

Or capital for suckers. Only suckers get scammed.

[Lacessit]

The OP should think in terms of probabilities. 1/ Probability of getting the girl pregnant after one night of sex. 2/ Probability she did not take the pill. 3/ Probability of a scammer blocking contact. 4/ Probability of her carrying any child to full term. 5/ Probability DNA testing will show any child is his.

Multiply those probabilities. The end result will be very small.

[Matzzon]

20 hours ago, AdolfoSa said:

I had many condons but It broked when I cum... She told me that she went to take the pill.

Really, you do not have to worry too much. You just met and had sex together. In my opinion, if there is a child that is yours, you should qwn up and take care as well be a part of that ones life. Let´s say that is the punishment for your foolishness.

However, you are not married, never lived together as husband and wife, which means you have no parental rights regarding the child. The same goes for her possibility to demand anything from you. The fact is that even with a DNA-test proving you are the father, there is not going to be any court room in Thailand that will judge in her favor regarding any alimoney.

[emptypockets]

1 hour ago, neeray said:

Condom breakage can cause miserable results. According to my late father, this is how I came into being. He claims that he used to "blow the end out of condoms".

So your dad was not real impressed with you?

[billd766]

On 10/28/2019 at 11:36 PM, steven100 said:

you played up …. she got pregnant ….. your the father ….. and now you don't wanna own up.

But you don't know that at all.

 

Yes it could be his baby and it could be somebody complete different.

 

A DNA test should give an answer.

[FruitPudding]

On 10/28/2019 at 4:26 PM, BritManToo said:

What, all 40bht of it?

This is exactly what happened. 100%

[Beggar]

15 hours ago, emptypockets said:

So your dad was not real impressed with you?

Imagine whenever you look at your son only the broken condom comes into your mind. 

[FruitPudding]

On 10/28/2019 at 4:17 PM, AdolfoSa said:

Should I be worried for a real, actual possibility of being ripped off? Or to be in troubles with police and court when I arrive in BKK next week? I mean, could her claim me a pension based in the night we stayed together, even if I paid for her pill and she assured me that she ate it?

Edited Monday at 04:18 PM by AdolfoSa

Ah, the good old "keep a nigga baby" scam. I'm afraid you're screwed, excuse the pun.

 

Will you be detained at the airport because of this?

 

Of course you will. They have a special division in the police force for this. They will be standing there with the ultrasound pictures, TV cameras, and someone will be pointing at you. Sorry to inform you, but you will have to re-enact the crime to be broadcasted on a breakfast TV channel.

 

I believe the courts recently changed their policy to handing this from rock, paper, scissors to "last one on's the daddy." I expect they changed this policy due to rock, paper, scissors getting a bit complicated when there are a few dozen players involved.

 

 

 

 

 

[Pravda]

On 10/28/2019 at 10:49 PM, Beggar said:

 

 

Perhaps you haven't been the only customer... If it is your child you will have to accept it. 

 

He wasn't a customer. He got laid using tinder. Very easy in Thailand. 

 

Unless you are over 60 I suggest you try it. 

[MimiKrichi]

After reading this topic, many people will decide not to use Tinder again ???? Of course, it's a joke. In general, it is better to be more careful in cas eouy are not ready to become a parent. 

[NanLaew]

On 10/28/2019 at 11:17 PM, AdolfoSa said:

Today I told her I'm going to visit BKK again and she started to ask suspicious questions: "when did we stay together? Did we went to your room?"

She doesn't know the OP from Adam.

 

Pick another Tinder partner.

 

...in Vietnam.

[CharlieH]

Reported derogatory remarks removed and responses.

[otherstuff1957]

If she has blocked you, then she has probably found a father for the baby and doesn't want the new father to see messages from some stray Farang boyfriend.

[safarimike11]

On 10/28/2019 at 11:45 PM, AdolfoSa said:

She told me that. I give her the money and then she told me she took the pill and all ok.
I'm from Spain

Recommend you use Durex in future; I've never had any breaks.