Dating someone who is bi

[jacko45k]

1 hour ago, DannyCarlton said:

Read my post again, patently untrue.

You said you do not know the answer....and I presume you are not a ladyboy so you effectively cannot know some of these things with surety, that is hubris. Of course a ladyboy could be interested in a gay man... why on earth not! Not like they put signs on their heads!

[jacko45k]

1 hour ago, RJRS1301 said:

True, and from conversations with transgender women who have retained male genitalia , the "straight men" are more frequently likely to be bottoms.  Keeps their orientations secret, and continues the delusion of "heterosexuality"

 

Quite... having sat in front of MPs with a few LBs, and a beer bar or two that had the odd one.... their customers often have an appearance of, how can I put it, unlikely to be the type. Go figure. 

[Mrfox]

2 hours ago, Rookiescot said:

Dont invest any emotion in the relationship.

Just enjoy the ride ????

Probably right 

[Mrfox]

2 hours ago, DannyCarlton said:

A tom. As you say same as butch lesbian. Your "girlfriend" is a tom dee, same as lipstick lesbian. Contrary to what some posters will have you believe, a tom will run a mile from any man. Tend to strap any boobs they have up to look as male as possible and wear "non-feminine" clothes. They would absolutely die if a man saw them naked. Chances of a threesome between a tom, tom dee and yourself - zero.

Did have a 3some with the gf and her best friend, oddly the gf wasn't into it with the best friend... Is she really a Tom dee.. Sigh~~ I am confuse... 

[HuskerDo]

9 hours ago, RJRS1301 said:

"Normal" is a cycle on a washing machine or dishwasher, not a human trait . 

Many humans are very average though

 

 

 

 

 

 

Definition

 

 

 of Normal: 1.

conforming to a standard; usual, typical, or expected.

[HuskerDo]

9 hours ago, RJRS1301 said:

"Normal" is a cycle on a washing machine or dishwasher, not a human trait . 

Many humans are very average though

Since Christmas has passed I'll have to wait until next year to send you a dictionary.....

 

1.

the usual, average, or typical state or condition.

[HuskerDo]

10 hours ago, RJRS1301 said:

"Normal" is a cycle on a washing machine or dishwasher, not a human trait . 

Many humans are very average though

One more in case you still don't understand......

 

Normal is also used to describe individual behaviour that conforms to the most common behaviour in society.

 

 

 

[RJRS1301]

6 hours ago, HuskerDo said:

One more in case you still don't understand......

 

Normal is also used to describe individual behaviour that conforms to the most common behaviour in society.

 

 

 

You do not get “it”, never mind. Happy 2020

[thaibeachlovers]

On 12/29/2019 at 6:19 PM, Nakmuay887 said:

her sister is her ex boyfriend and happens to be bisexual? Am I understanding this correctly?

 

They dated, then the "sister" had a sex change to become a woman?

 

Family reunions and gatherings should be interesting, please see this through and document the entire thing for us. I need something new to read with my morning coffee 

her 'sister' turns out to be past (?) bi boyfriend (who is female). 

That is confusing!

Perhaps he means she is a Tom.

If "she" is indeed a female, ask to watch, and then join in, assuming she is actually attractive. Many men dream of something like that.

[thaibeachlovers]

14 hours ago, HuskerDo said:

 

 

 

 

 

 

Definition

 

 

 of Normal: 1.

conforming to a standard; usual, typical, or expected.

Human beings are never "normal" only conforming. In our dreams we do the things we'd never ever admit to wanting to do, which is why they are called "fantasies".

[thaibeachlovers]

23 hours ago, jacko45k said:

You said you do not know the answer....and I presume you are not a ladyboy so you effectively cannot know some of these things with surety, that is hubris. Of course a ladyboy could be interested in a gay man... why on earth not! Not like they put signs on their heads!

I'll have to go back and read your previous posts, but- a ladyboy views herself as a female, not a man that wears dresses, so as likely to be interested in a homosexual for sexual reasons as a normal women would be. Also, why would a homosexual man be interested in someone that lives as a female for sexual purposes?

[thaibeachlovers]

On 12/30/2019 at 11:41 AM, jacko45k said:

Because they are not quite as straight as they like to think.

Quite right. Every person contains within themselves the ability to do almost anything, given the circumstances. In a "normal" life, one never experiences that side of themselves eg most men that never go to Thailand would never consider having it off with a ladyboy, but in Thailand they can and do walk on the wild side.

[jacko45k]

1 hour ago, thaibeachlovers said:

I'll have to go back and read your previous posts, but- a ladyboy views herself as a female, not a man that wears dresses, so as likely to be interested in a homosexual for sexual reasons as a normal women would be. Also, why would a homosexual man be interested in someone that lives as a female for sexual purposes?

You are changing your perspective, originally claiming a Ladyboy would have no interest in a male homosexual. That is clearly incorrect.... surely Rock Hudson would appeal to any female, and those aspiring to be female. 

[HuskerDo]

20 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

Human beings are never "normal" only conforming. In our dreams we do the things we'd never ever admit to wanting to do, which is why they are called "fantasies".

Not everyone has perverted dreams. Many have a far cleaner mind.

 

Change your comment of "In our dreams" to something more realistic like "In my dreams".

[GalaxyMan]

14 minutes ago, HuskerDo said:

Not everyone has perverted dreams. Many have a far cleaner mind.

You forgot to add that this was 'in your not-so-humble-opinion. Enjoy your boring, sterile attitude, I'll take tutti-frutti any day over vanilla. ????

[RJRS1301]

8 minutes ago, GalaxyMan said:

You forgot to add that this was 'in your not-so-humble-opinion. Enjoy your boring, sterile attitude, I'll take tutti-frutti any day over vanilla. ????

What about missionary :)??

????

[HuskerDo]

1 hour ago, GalaxyMan said:

You forgot to add that this was 'in your not-so-humble-opinion. Enjoy your boring, sterile attitude, I'll take tutti-frutti any day over vanilla. ????

It's the opinion of the far larger population of "normal" human beings. Most of those who moved to LOS due to not being able to handle a relationship in their home country and looking for a "better life" with scant funds are the ones with an opinion such as yours. 

 

BTW, my "sterile attitude" as you call it is working just fine for me.  

[RJRS1301]

6 minutes ago, HuskerDo said:

It's the opinion of the far larger population of "normal" human beings. Most of those who moved to LOS due to not being able to handle a relationship in their home country and looking for a "better life" with scant funds are the ones with an opinion such as yours. 

 

BTW, my "sterile attitude" as you call it is working just fine for me.  

So many judgements and defenses, like watching tennis.

 

[HuskerDo]

8 minutes ago, RJRS1301 said:

So many judgements and defenses, like watching tennis.

 

And I'm Roger Federer. Thanks for watching.

[RJRS1301]

1 minute ago, HuskerDo said:

And I'm Roger Federer. Thanks for watching.

More like a 70 year old Margaret Court ????

[HuskerDo]

1 minute ago, RJRS1301 said:

More like a 70 year old Margaret Court ????

Opinions vary but thanks for your input.

[GalaxyMan]

2 hours ago, RJRS1301 said:

What about missionary :)??

????

I met a hot-looking lady missionary once in Egypt. I wouldn't have said no. ????

[GalaxyMan]

19 minutes ago, RJRS1301 said:

So many judgements and defenses, like watching tennis.

 

Handicapped wheelchair tennis. ????

[HuskerDo]

1 minute ago, GalaxyMan said:

I met a hot-looking lady missionary once in Egypt. I wouldn't have said no. ????

and she wouldn't have said yes.

[GalaxyMan]

28 minutes ago, HuskerDo said:

It's the opinion of the far larger population of "normal" human beings. Most of those who moved to LOS due to not being able to handle a relationship in their home country and looking for a "better life" with scant funds are the ones with an opinion such as yours.

And the basis for your assertion that this is so is what? Who did the study? What are the numbers? Scant finances doesn't apply to me, so that sort of blows that idea. Normal in quotes; does that imbue it with some special meaning that only those in the know are aware of? Ditto better life. You criticize those who don't share your narrow definition of what is or is not acceptable. You sound like a pseudo-religion; only your way is the right way.

 

Happy New Year!

 

[HuskerDo]

15 minutes ago, GalaxyMan said:

And the basis for your assertion that this is so is what? Who did the study? What are the numbers? Scant finances doesn't apply to me, so that sort of blows that idea. Normal in quotes; does that imbue it with some special meaning that only those in the know are aware of? Ditto better life. You criticize those who don't share your narrow definition of what is or is not acceptable. You sound like a pseudo-religion; only your way is the right way.

 

Happy New Year!

 

"only your way is the right way."..... thanks for agreeing. 

[HuskerDo]

29 minutes ago, RJRS1301 said:

More like a 70 year old Margaret Court ????

She was one of the greatest players ever so I must thank you for the compliment.

[RJRS1301]

2 minutes ago, HuskerDo said:

She was one of the greatest players ever so I must thank you for the compliment.

And a first class religious bigot as well

Edited January 1, 2020 by RJRS1301

[HuskerDo]

1 minute ago, RJRS1301 said:

And a first class religious bigot as well

Opinions vary.

[spidermike007]

If a guy here meets a bargirl, and decides to pursue her, the first thing I would recommend is the hiring of a private detective, to find out what her "real background" is. All of them have a story, and most of them are well coached. Getting the truth is rather difficult, if not impossible. If she had been a bargirl for 8 years, and had been past the 3,000 mark, wouldn't you want to know about that? I believe that there is a certain point beyond which there is no possibility of having a healthy relationship with a man. Too much "history". What is the breaking point? One thing that is nearly always the truth, is that whatever they tell you, there is alot more to the story. And if they say they have been working for two weeks, and she is 31 years old, be very skeptical. The lady lover would not be a big deal for me. Half the women I dated in the US went both ways. Few admitted it. 

 

Your life will be infinitely less complicated if you can find a "civilian".