Single Guys, Any Advice On Chiang Mai Women?

[josephdeka]

Ok, I'm 27, single, no kids, coming here to chiang mai to learn to be a good stand up fighter, study, and have fun. I'll be here a couple of years, and would love to find a nice girlfriend while I'm there?

Ideally, I'd like a relationship where I pay for everthing, but she is eager and willing to massage, everyday...I found a muay thai school there, and I guess it's 8-10 hours a day, no pads, no gloves...I'm gonna need worked over nice everyday...just to have fun. I'm a starving college student, so I'm not looking for the nice girl who caters to my needs in exchange for me sending money to her family every month, at least not until I'm in the states again working and earning money. I intend to live in squalor and poverty while in Chiang Mai myself.

Anyway, what about the women? How are they different? How do we approach them different? What to look for, what to expect? Where do I meet the good ones? Do they like American, do they not? Any observations? Private emails are welcome, but I think this post will be more fun left open for EVERYONE to read, but I do enjoy private emails on these types of things.

[britmaveric]

Thapae Gate is the area you need to go to find a good lady!

[The Dan Sai Kid]

troll

[ThaiPauly]

Try Spotlight Bar

I am sure that they will have just what you are looking for at the right price.

Any Tuk Tuk driver knows where it is.

[mcgriffith]

Yeah Spotlight...what the man sez

[Octaviousbp]

8-10 hours a day?!? Where is this? Do you box already?

[josephdeka]

8-10 hours a day?!? Where is this? Do you box already?

No, I don't box allready. I've wrestled, done some jiu-jitsu, mostly groundgame stuff. Oh, I know, 8-10 hours is going to be brutal, painful, and i'm going to wish I was dead. But, thats ok. I'll get the hang of it-or die. I know the guys name, and I know its in CM, i've read a couple articles about him. I don't have the address of the gym yet. I'm of course looking forward to having that while I find a place to live.

[chiang mai]

Oh come on, for goodness sake - can't the Thai Immigration Dept. help with this problem.

Edited April 24, 2007 by chiang mai

[markiv]

You say you intend to pay for everything but intend to live in a squalor and poverty. All I can say is be prepared for a big bust up when your ATM card runs out!!! Good luck!!

[Blinky Bill]

Ok, I'm 27, single, no kids, coming here to chiang mai to learn to be a good stand up fighter, study, and have fun. I'll be here a couple of years, and would love to find a nice girlfriend while I'm there?

Ideally, I'd like a relationship where I pay for everthing, but she is eager and willing to massage, everyday...I found a muay thai school there, and I guess it's 8-10 hours a day, no pads, no gloves...I'm gonna need worked over nice everyday...just to have fun. I'm a starving college student, so I'm not looking for the nice girl who caters to my needs in exchange for me sending money to her family every month, at least not until I'm in the states again working and earning money. I intend to live in squalor and poverty while in Chiang Mai myself.

Anyway, what about the women? How are they different? How do we approach them different? What to look for, what to expect? Where do I meet the good ones? Do they like American, do they not? Any observations? Private emails are welcome, but I think this post will be more fun left open for EVERYONE to read, but I do enjoy private emails on these types of things.

Yeah right!! Are you a Master Fitness Trainer as well?

Edited April 24, 2007 by Blinky Bill

[colino]

me things been watching to many movies

[endure]

Thapae Gate is the area you need to go to find a good lady!

Or a bad one if you're really lucky

(For some strange reason, the first time I read your post I was sure it said 'ladyboy' and not 'lady' )

[britmaveric]

Thapae Gate is the area you need to go to find a good lady!

Or a bad one if you're really lucky

(For some strange reason, the first time I read your post I was sure it said 'ladyboy' and not 'lady' )

Dunno, spot comes highly recommended by Butterfy. I thought we should help the young lad out, least we can do.

[Ta22]

You don't need a woman in your life , you are just young and in some way trying to have a adventure .

what i suggest is a simple . go find some pimp and get over it paying .

if you can't afford one . you can alway try using your charm . at some local disco . like spicy or hotshot . which i clal it a meat market .

but do the math ..

you end up spending as much and got to pay for the hotel after paying some ripper tutu driver to send you there at 2am in the morning .

so ..

back to square one ..

go to one of the local bars or ah go go meat market .

the bright side is you have no attachment .

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if you seriously looking for a relationship -

i suggest use your heart not your dick and brain .

.

i wonder where did our MASTER trainer went ?

everyone looking for a place to rest their heart at a discount rate .and best it come with a lucky draw that we will win .

sometime while we think about what we can get from our future wife . is also good to think what we can offer .

woman are more practical animal .

that is why you get alot of old guy with young chick around in chaingmai.

get yourself a car , a nice phone and some nice cloth and go clubbing you might be lucky

good luck .. and be safe don't be cheapo alway by a comdom .

the cheapest you can alway get it for 10 baht at the local petrol station . or club .

[OlRedEyes]

don't be cheapo alway by a comdom .

the cheapest you can alway get it for 10 baht at the local petrol station . or club .

:D

Puts a whole new perspective on 'cheap'.

Especially after:

get yourself a car , a nice phone and some nice cloth and go clubbing

Priceless.

Edited April 25, 2007 by OlRedEyes

[Rasseru]

As always, I am awed by Tatutu's no-nonsense practicality.

[p1p]

Ok, I'm 27, single, no kids, coming here to chiang mai to learn to be a good stand up fighter, study, and have fun. I'll be here a couple of years, and would love to find a nice girlfriend while I'm there?

Ideally, I'd like a relationship where I pay for everthing, but she is eager and willing to massage, everyday...I found a muay thai school there, and I guess it's 8-10 hours a day, no pads, no gloves...I'm gonna need worked over nice everyday...just to have fun. I'm a starving college student, so I'm not looking for the nice girl who caters to my needs in exchange for me sending money to her family every month, at least not until I'm in the states again working and earning money. I intend to live in squalor and poverty while in Chiang Mai myself.

Anyway, what about the women? How are they different? How do we approach them different? What to look for, what to expect? Where do I meet the good ones? Do they like American, do they not? Any observations? Private emails are welcome, but I think this post will be more fun left open for EVERYONE to read, but I do enjoy private emails on these types of things.

I fear the OP is showing symptoms of somewhat advanced NPD. Perhaps he should look for treatment prior to his journey here.

You can arrange daily massages at any one of a number of TTM places around town. I am sure most would be very happy to give you a special rate if you pay for a month in advance. You are not going to find a personal slave girl to dirty her hands on your sweaty body.

Regarding Thai, or any other women. They are not chattels, nor some differrent species to be classed together as one might a herd of cattle. You are coming from entirely the wrong angle. If you want a genuine girlfriend, a "decent" girl, you need to look at yourself and ask yourself "What do I have to offer?" If we judge from your post, next to nothing, so don't expect very much unless you simply want a business arrangement. In which case you put your hand in your pocket and buy a girl out from her place of business for a short time. (Note: Discussion of such places of business is against forum rules. So be warned.)

Now, I am very concerned about this thread. Please keep it on topic without trolling or flaming. I understand it is open to such, but let's keep it decent, Okay!

[Ulysses G.]

If you want a genuine girlfriend, a "decent" girl, you need to look at yourself and ask yourself "What do I have to offer?" If we judge from your post, next to nothing

[britmaveric]

UG - show the lad the ropes!!!!

[Ulysses G.]

Some of Chiang Mai's most lovely ladies are to be found nightly wandering around on Loi Kroh road near the sign for the Number One Bar.

They will massage you, do your cleaning and take care of you for almost nothing. All you have to do is ignore their funny voices and any extra appendages that you might run across.

[Wolfie]

any extra appendages that you might run across.

I always go for the ones with three arms, comes in useful sometimes!

[cdnvic]

Some of Chiang Mai's most lovely ladies are to be found nightly wandering around on Loi Kroh road near the sign for the Number One Bar.

They will massage you, do your cleaning and take care of you for almost nothing. All you have to do is ignore their funny voices and any extra appendages that you might run across.

That's a rather rude way to speak of the Burmese.

[Ulysses G.]

Some of Chiang Mai's most lovely ladies are to be found nightly wandering around on Loi Kroh road near the sign for the Number One Bar.

They will massage you, do your cleaning and take care of you for almost nothing. All you have to do is ignore their funny voices and any extra appendages that you might run across.

That's a rather rude way to speak of the Burmese.

Burmese?

[wolfmanjack]

Ok, I'm 27, single, no kids, coming here to chiang mai to learn to be a good stand up fighter, study, and have fun.

Can we assume that you want to join in the UFC or some similar sport ? If so then learning Muay Thai is a good idea. I watched fight science and it had a muay thai fighter that broke a baseball bat by kicking it with his shin bone. It also measured his knee kick to be about the same as a 60 kilometer per hour head on crash.

I'll be here a couple of years, and would love to find a nice girlfriend while I'm there?

Good luck!! Many have tried and many have failed. A few lucky ones succeed.

If you are serious about learning Muay Thai and have no previous experience in any stand up fighting then you will be too sore to worry about a girl in the first few months. You can get a massage for 70 baht per hour or maybe less. There should be plenty of places around the school. For sex, the place mentioned by others is probably too expensive for a starving college student. Look on other newsgroups for a list of cheap sex places or ask the other fighters. By the way how are you going to pay for 2 years in thailand ? You can not maintain a fighters stamina on rice and even that cost money.

Ideally, I'd like a relationship where I pay for everything, but she is eager and willing to massage, everyday...I found a muay thai school there, and I guess it's 8-10 hours a day, no pads, no gloves...I'm gonna need worked over nice everyday...just to have fun. I'm a starving college student, so I'm not looking for the nice girl who caters to my needs in exchange for me sending money to her family every month, at least not until I'm in the states again working and earning money. I intend to live in squalor and poverty while in Chiang Mai myself.

What is your definition of a nice girl anyway? A "nice" girl in Thailand will not spend time with you without an escort until you are engaged and a massage would be out of the question.

Anyway, what about the women? How are they different? How do we approach them different? What to look for, what to expect? Where do I meet the good ones? Do they like American, do they not? Any observations? Private emails are welcome, but I think this post will be more fun left open for EVERYONE to read, but I do enjoy private emails on these types of things.

Approach then with politeness and respect. Just go with the flow and do not go on a quest for a girl. If you are a nice guy then you will meet someone though your contacts at the school or by being around the neighbor hood.

[wolfmanjack]

any extra appendages that you might run across.

I always go for the ones with three arms, comes in useful sometimes!

Especially for the massage.

[chanchao]

I always go for the ones with three arms, comes in useful sometimes!

It's the ones with three legs you have to watch out for.

Anyway, welcome to Chiang Mai, Joseph!! Absolutely any guy who still has a pulse finds himself a lady here within weeks if not days, I'm sure you'll fit right in.

Cheers,

Chanchao

[Gonzo the Face]

I always go for the ones with three arms, comes in useful sometimes!

It's the ones with three legs you have to watch out for.

Anyway, welcome to Chiang Mai, Joseph!! Absolutely any guy who still has a pulse finds himself a lady here within weeks if not days, I'm sure you'll fit right in.

Cheers,

Chanchao

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[Ta22]

What i would suggest one bird with two stone is go stay near some local WAT - maybe out of town that teaches massage .

usually for free or for exchange of your working in tha wat . Heard of some but never seen one yet .

there you can learn massage and be massage.

UFC . - when a person trty to attack you with a kick . the force is reduce when you are closer .

keep yourself in motion , like a boxer . will help you to move out of attack .

Lock is better then attack .

A painful arm or leg lock , any lock . which out break off yuor attacker hand , leg , is good , in a real fight your break them .. without thinking twice . there is no fair fight . so i suggest learn any kinda of fight , with a lighter mind .

as and art to imporve your balance and health . but waiting to go fight someone and win .

in thailand you end up . dying for under 10 baht cos that what bullet cost .

if you had not been to chaingmai and is coming . then . i suggest you go phuket .

you get better luck . with woman and there is alot of showboat muay thai school there . and alot of beef up macho farang trying tio proof something in their life there also , so is koh samui .

we are alway the result of what we eat , think , say and do .

many years ago i know a french man who fight for money in bangok .

he is about 30 , and he told me .. fight proof notthing . is the ability to walk away from a fight and not endangerous the one you love ,

maybe ui am kinda hard on you. but io can't help to think many - at your rate you end up with a professional . and then in a few years she will dump you . after yiou get her houses and gold chian .

you may say , i am too smart for this . but trust me when i say love is blind . especailly to young guy . i see far too many sample . -

the statement that many had try and one some success . is really suggestive .

that would depend where you try .

trying at the local bar is as good as feeding the tiger with your hand . thinking you can tame the wild

while some find true love in the bar , who would want to live poor , and got to massage her guy every night , when he hardly spend time with her and the whole day he would be at the gym . hm... i can't help to think you had too much confident of your charm or cos you feel that being a great fighter you be thie kinda power on woman . who will go crazy at you and willing to be your house maid and free massager . while you feed her peanut .

you feed peanut you get monkey .

good luck . get yourself settle down , and then think of woman .

and like i said . go find a local pimp and be his best friend

don't rush fate cos fate only come to you when you are ready . you can pay for needs , but not love

just be yourself . - the circle you hang out will alway be greatly affecting your outcome .

[cdnvic]

Some of Chiang Mai's most lovely ladies are to be found nightly wandering around on Loi Kroh road near the sign for the Number One Bar.

They will massage you, do your cleaning and take care of you for almost nothing. All you have to do is ignore their funny voices and any extra appendages that you might run across.

That's a rather rude way to speak of the Burmese.

Burmese?

It was actually a quip about how many illegal Burmese maids seem to be working in the city

[BossHogg]

Joseph ,mate, i could be wrong but i get the impression this will be your first time to Thailand.If this is the case, spend a bit of time, now learning a little bit of language and cultural differences.You may find it quite a culture shock when you first get here.

Just chill out when you arrive and get a feel for the place and the people before you rush into anything.You will learn to be patient pretty quickly, the Thais will make sure of that.

Have a wonder around, try different bars , restaurants , clubs etc and get a feel for the way things work out here.Dont worry about finding a girl, that will happen and you will soon work out that side of life in Thailand.

Many people from the western world come here for the first time guns blazing and ready to go. Its very easy to (and many do ) make a complete **** of yourself . Like i say, chill out when your here, learn a bit about the people and culture before you fly then relax and let your adventure unfold. good luck to you mate