How can I get free time away from my girlfriend

[Jan0]

Im living with my girlfriend right now for allmost 2 months, I have been talking to her for more then 6 months online from facebook she is 31 and I am 23 and its hard to get free time for my self because she just stays with me all the time and never leaves me thus making it really hard to get free time for my self

 

I have tried to indirectly tell her that I want alone and free time for myself, but I think she did not understand it....

 

She has asked me to make a child with her, I know that if I made a baby with her I would have NO LIFE what so ever so I respectfully advised her of my financial situation by giving proof that I am not that wealthy and that I change jobs allmost somewhat every 3 months, but that did not stop her from continous asking

 

There is no way I am willing to have a baby because I would have difficulty funding and no time formyself

 

Maybe she wants to have a child with me to only get my visa, but i dont know or neither care.. 

 

I just want free time and want to enjoy myself and doing anything I can being a free person

 

I just want some free time but I dont know how to tell her that???

[transam]

At your age, you should be doing what you want.....????

[Hummin]

Move on, she wants a future with a baby as security, you are not there.

 

For some Asian woman being 24/7 with you, is their way of controlling you. Get used to it, or leave her. 

 

I let my gf go, then after two weeks took her back, and she got the message. Not nice, but necessary.

 

Now she let me go touring on my motorbike alone, or a friend without complaining. Also by time she learned to trust me.

[KhunLA]

Time to utilize that 'go' bag ... 

[ThailandRyan]

Hit the road Jack and never look back, plenty of birds in the ocean here in Thailand...

[BangkokReady]

21 minutes ago, Jan0 said:

she is 31 and I am 23

Did you get the ages the wrong way round?

 

You should be 30 something looking for a 20 something to have a family with, not the other way round.

[ThailandRyan]

5 minutes ago, BangkokReady said:

Did you get the ages the wrong way round?

 

You should be 30 something looking for a 20 something to have a family with, not the other way round.

He's into the <deleted>s apparently. Instead of the lady being into <deleted>s.

Edited April 17, 2022 by metisdead
Profane acronyms removed.

[Sparktrader]

3 minutes ago, BangkokReady said:

Did you get the ages the wrong way round?

 

You should be 30 something looking for a 20 something to have a family with, not the other way round.

Age not key. I dated 42 in my 20s.

 

She want visa

Medicare

Doll

 

She dont want him.

 

 

[Sparktrader]

4 minutes ago, ThailandRyan said:

He's into the <deleted>s apparently. Instead of the lady being into <deleted>s.

What do they mean

[JeffersLos]

She wants a baby because she is 31.

 

Let her go, straight away, better for both parties.

[Sparktrader]

Easy way to get rid of her. Bring another woman home while she is there. 

[KannikaP]

3 minutes ago, Sparktrader said:

Easy way to get rid of her. Bring another woman home while she is there. 

Hey no, she may be into that sort of thing. Then you're stuck with TWO!

[Sparktrader]

2 minutes ago, KannikaP said:

Hey no, she may be into that sort of thing. Then you're stuck with TWO!

Cool

[bkk6060]

Sorry OP, you sound like another scared weak dude that is infected with weak western male syndrome.  You are young and probably haven't figured things out.

Man up and live your life as you want don't let a female control you and make you afraid to do so.

 

39 minutes ago, Jan0 said:

I just want some free time but I dont know how to tell her that???

 

[Jan0]

21 minutes ago, BangkokReady said:

Did you get the ages the wrong way round?

 

You should be 30 something looking for a 20 something to have a family with, not the other way round.

Im 23, and your right... oops

Edited April 17, 2022 by Jan0

[Sparktrader]

5 minutes ago, bkk6060 said:

Sorry OP, you sound like another scared weak dude that is infected with weak western male syndrome.  You are young and probably haven't figured things out.

Man up and live your life as you want don't let a female control you and make you afraid to do so.

 

 

Not so easy. I want to sleep with 3 women at a time but life not so easy.

 

You have to pick one. 

[Jan0]

20 minutes ago, Sparktrader said:

Easy way to get rid of her. Bring another woman home while she is there. 

Does it work???

[Sparktrader]

Just now, Jan0 said:

Does it work???

Try it

Report back

[Jan0]

26 minutes ago, JeffersLos said:

She wants a baby because she is 31.

 

Let her go, straight away, better for both parties.

How? What do I do??

[Sparktrader]

1 minute ago, Jan0 said:

How? What do I do??

It sounds like you have never had a gf before. Tell her you want her to go find someone else that wants a baby. You dont. Pretty simple.

[richard_smith237]

9 minutes ago, Jan0 said:

30 minutes ago, Sparktrader said:

Easy way to get rid of her. Bring another woman home while she is there. 

Does it work???

He's probably about 70 years old and dreaming...  so no, ‘it’ probably doesn’t work any more !! ????

[Hummin]

14 minutes ago, Jan0 said:

Im 23, and your right... oops

I always had older girls women at your age to for fun, but not for relationship. At once baby question popped, I was out. 

 

What would you do if she let you loose in your own? Find women right?

[Hummin]

1 minute ago, richard_smith237 said:

He's probably about 70 years old and dreaming...  so no, ‘it’ probably doesn’t work any more !! ????

A keyboard story maker and a dreamer!

[richard_smith237]

What does she do ?   

i.e. in the day time?... does she have work or is she just around at your place all the time ?

 

If she doesn’t have work, who’s supporting her? if its you, there’s your answer, she wants to ‘lock in’ the security. 

 

Did you agree to ‘live together’ or did she just kind of stay the night and never leave ?

 

At that age, she wants kids and security / at your age you don’t. 

 

Everyone else is right...  you’re going to have to be tough. 

 

 

[Lucky Bones]

Jano is having a laff.

[Sparktrader]

5 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

He's probably about 70 years old and dreaming...  so no, ‘it’ probably doesn’t work any more !! ????

48yo.

 

You?

 

Yes it can work but she might break things too

 

 

[Jan0]

5 minutes ago, Sparktrader said:

It sounds like you have never had a gf before. Tell her you want her to go find someone else that wants a baby. You dont. Pretty simple.

I told her it would be a better option if she looked for a westerner her age and more wealthier in a respectful way, but she starts crying and asks for another chance

[Jan0]

14 minutes ago, Hummin said:

A keyboard story maker and a dreamer!

Im 23 with and have id

Edited April 17, 2022 by Jan0

[Sparktrader]

6 minutes ago, Hummin said:

I always had older girls women at your age to for fun, but not for relationship. At once baby question popped, I was out. 

 

What would you do if she let you loose in your own? Find women right?

Whose dreaming now 

[Sparktrader]

Just now, Jan0 said:

If I was 70 I would be expecting myself to be rich

Everyone does 5% make it.