10 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

I think about what kind of superwoman would be able to convince me that I sell my house so that she can build a house so I can live with her - after I met her on a dating app.

I don't think such a woman exists in this world.

yes they do in Thailand millions of em

"There's a new world somewhere they call the promised land and we'll be there someday if you will hold my hand"

(Opening line of a 1960s pop song)

7 hours ago, riverhigh said:

Yes he is a complete idiot and an arrogant one at that. Thinks he's smart by trying to blackmail her with an ethical imvestigatiion. Has a Thai girlfriennd in Nettherlands and one in Thailand, give me a break. Aren't we the clever one? Next!

Its seems logical to me to bring it before the public . What other “ drastic”recourse would he have.

Sure he’s gonna catch holy hell for being so naive but the notoriety may further  investigations.

 

 

5 hours ago, renaissanc said:

Obviously, Peter made a big mistake. He knows that now. Perhaps posters can show some and feel empathy for him instead of saying how foolish he is. He is probably feeling awful every hour or every day. We all make foolish mistakes.

 age speaks to experience in comparison to a younger person’s limited life experiences.

In other words most people would know better at his age.

9 hours ago, Artisi said:

Don’t want to run the poor guy down, but sounds like he shouldn't be allowed to dress himself each morning. 

Maybe she promised him she would not only remove his Pants every evening but put them back on in the morning !!

11 hours ago, Captain Monday said:

Is this guy a complete idiot?

Clearly.  He also appears to be a dishonest philanderer.

Edited January 31, 20233 yr by Liverpool Lou

Phineas T Barnum said it best: "There's one born every minute"!

11 hours ago, riclag said:

and he’s claiming he lost 5 mill.

No, in the OP it says 'almost 4 million'

12 hours ago, itsari said:

Peter has been a victim of fraud . The alleged fraudster has a lot of explaining to do if the money transfers can be documented . 

The man has been foolish to trust a person that he has not met before , but maybe he put faith in her as the accused is a  civil servant .

 

Yes you are right it's like what are the odds of finding the only dishonest civil servant in the whole of Thailand and not even had a chance to play hide the sausage with her or him

We have a saying in the UK and this guy is the epitome of it..........'One born every minute'

I will await further facts before commenting.  

So exactly how does this put the Thai gf in Dutchland in a bad way? 

Honey you got to move out tomorrow, I've sold the house and I'm going to live with my gf in Thailand. 

Edited January 31, 20233 yr by Elkski

It’s lucky for this civil servant his girlfriend maybe ex is not the jealous one from Phuket who had a few stern words for massage girl.Oh my Buddha I would not want to tell her I’ve sold the house we live in to give to my new online lady

1 minute ago, Dave0206 said:

It’s lucky for this civil servant his girlfriend maybe ex is not the jealous one from Phuket who had a few stern words for massage girl.Oh my Buddha I would not want to tell her I’ve sold the house we live in to give to my new online lady

Sorry about repeating same post did not realize first time already sent

Read the link, people. and many of the questions posed here will be answered for you ????

Is there a video?

3 hours ago, Dave0206 said:

Yes you are right it's like what are the odds of finding the only dishonest civil servant in the whole of Thailand and not even had a chance to play hide the sausage with her or him

Having sex at a cost of 4 million baht is unsustainable for most individuals .

The only civil servant to be dishonest in Thailand ?? That is your statement not mine . 

Hide the sausage with her or him ???? 

Sad statement 

Seems hard to imagine there has been a crime.   Gal and guy  fall in love online  plan to build a house in her name.  She changes her mind.  How is this different because he never met her ( I infer this)  than the stories of guys who married and got kicked out?  Expensive line sex.

On 1/30/2023 at 9:57 PM, geisha said:

Well, he sure was a silly billy. Who does things like that ? Although, if what he says is true, it will all be proven through bank transfers . If she took the money , there must be proof. 

There could well be proof of a money transfer, the hard part to prove is, was it fraud or a gift. 

Edited January 31, 20233 yr by Dazkkk

On 1/30/2023 at 3:27 PM, EVENKEEL said:

This guy goes against all stereotypes of the Dutch being tight with their money.

But does certainly reflect too many Farang and their goofy ways.

Haha... Karma is a bitch, isn't it?
The average property price in Holland (2021) was 387,000 euros.
4 Million THB is just over THB 100,000 euros.
Ehhh.... 555+++

On 1/31/2023 at 4:34 AM, hellohello123 said:

Is that him receiving  a "certificate of being a doughnut"

Haven't heard that expression before, but I think I like it.????????

We used to refer to these people as "Charlie tuna qualified!

On 1/30/2023 at 10:03 PM, ignore it said:

Obviously the Nigerians have overlooked the Dutch market.

Maybe the Thai civil servant is Nigerian....Classic!

On 1/31/2023 at 6:02 AM, Boomer6969 said:

the promised land", obvious polygamy, must be some Mormon. 

Just wondering did you get the spelling correct?

3 hours ago, Jimjim1 said:

Just wondering did you get the spelling correct?

Never sure about that "m" in the middle, but either way.