You can take the girl out of the bar, but can you take the bar out of the girl?

[BritManToo]

1 minute ago, transam said:

And you are waaaaaaay different, I suppose.........................????

I look much the same shape and size as I was 40 years back (183cm, 76Kg, 32" waist, full hair).

Letting yourself go is just a sign of disrespect for your partner.

Still cycle 25Km 2x a week.

[transam]

Just now, BritManToo said:

I look much the same shape and size as I was 40 years back (183cm, 76Kg, 32" waist, full hair).

Letting yourself go is just a sign of disrespect for your partner.

Still cycle 25Km 2x a week.

Of course, you do, but with all that medication you take, who knows........????

[nauseus]

22 hours ago, proton said:

Looks. nice probably the brain of a goldfish with nothing in common with her customers, and has probably had hundreds through her, not a prospect for a successful marriage.

Well nobodies perfect! Bwahahah.

[Sqoop]

You might get them out of the bar and obtain a sweet and attentive partner. The problem will arise when you take them to a western country and they befriend local feminists. After a decade or two you could have a partner who is bad tempered and self entitled. Keep them in Thailand ...

[Sqoop]

22 hours ago, Jack1988 said:

Honestly, this is not my favourite type of thai girl. Too skinny, I prefer with more meat

And often when they have had two many partners they can no longer pair bond. They find it hard to reach  orgasm no matter what you do for them. Find a sweet girl who really get excited in bed. Heaven. 

[scubascuba3]

16 minutes ago, Sqoop said:

You might get them out of the bar and obtain a sweet and attentive partner. The problem will arise when you take them to a western country and they befriend local feminists. After a decade or two you could have a partner who is bad tempered and self entitled. Keep them in Thailand ...

Anyone taking their Thai partner to farangland is crazy, they will find someone else sooner or later

[BangkokReady]

35 minutes ago, proton said:

He was in a relationship, and she was a child, how was that not taking advantage of a minor? Child abuse it seems will always have the odd supporter on here. Those against child abuse will always be accused of being sanctimonious of course, to deflect from the exploitation of children, which is vile and abusive.

So what do you think about the age of consent being 16 in the UK?

 

What about a 16 year old having sex with another 16 year old? Or an 18 year old having sex with a 16 year old? Still child abuse?

[OneMoreFarang]

Just now, BangkokReady said:

Still child abuse?

I think his biggest problem is his definition of children.

 

These are children:

 

These are teenages:

 

[Kenny202]

1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

I would say the exact opposite,

The weaker and more accommodating you are, the less they like you.

Selfish and thuggish is the way to attract women.

 

I see you're still a mug, just do what's right for you is the lesson you need to learn.

I was referring to my kids

[BangkokReady]

4 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

I think his biggest problem is his definition of children.

Some people apparently need to label someone having sex with anyone under 18 as being the same as raping an 8 year old.

 

I don't condone either (although i think in most places 16 is legal), but I feel everyone has the right to have their actions represented fairly and accurately.

 

It's a shame the user cannot focus a little more on what has happened and less on what they think they can make it sound like happened in order to make accusations.

[NextG]

1 hour ago, proton said:

No just not a child abuser, for those wondering-

 

Child prostitution in Thailand is a controversial topic, and children who are a part of this trade are being compensated by various laws. An act passed in 1996 states that "it is prohibited to engage in sexual intercourse or sexual acts in a 'prostitution establishment' with a person under 18 years of age, regardless of consent".

How is this relevant?

It refers to a ‘prostitution establishment’. 
You have got yourself into such a twist about this, that you have lost sight of all reason. 
Seventeen years of age is within ‘legal’ and moral boundaries in likely any jurisdiction you can name. 
He is not holding nor coercing her against her will as far as we know. So what exactly is your objection? You are upset that a late teenager chooses to have an older partner and vice versa?

Happens all over the world in varied guises. Might not be your nor my first choice, but we aren’t all the same. I know women in their thirties who have the emotional maturity of a three year old. Conversely meet women in their early twenties who seem like wise men in comparison. 

 

[CharlieH]

Conspiracy nonsense and responses to it removed.

[Hummin]

4 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

I received more than enough attention with my sexy young girlfriend some time ago. Did I care? No. Because I am sure most guys would be happy to be with a sexy girl. And obviously most women don't like competition.

Do you really think about what other people think or point at when you select the girl you want to go out with? If you really do that then, IMHO, grow some balls. 

 

 

Hehe, hugh Hefner now, from David Bowie to all kind of other famous people and their girls appears often her. 

 

Hugh Hefner was a joke and an abuser! 

[OneMoreFarang]

2 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Hugh Hefner was a joke and an abuser! 

I never met him. How about you?

 

I used that picture as an example of old guy with sexy girl. As far as I see it there are basically two groups of guys: 

a) Guys who like sexy girls and are not too shy to be seen with them.

b) Guys who like sexy girls but pretend they don't. Some of them repeated that often enough that they believe it themselves. 

 

[BritManToo]

23 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Hugh Hefner was a joke and an abuser! 

Don't you bad mouth the great man Hugh Hefner!

[Hummin]

4 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

I never met him. How about you?

 

I used that picture as an example of old guy with sexy girl. As far as I see it there are basically two groups of guys: 

a) Guys who like sexy girls and are not too shy to be seen with them.

b) Guys who like sexy girls but pretend they don't. Some of them repeated that often enough that they believe it themselves. 

 

Sexy girls, really? Who decide what a sexy girl is? Think about it, what is sexy? 

 

Never found a girl below 20 sexy since I was at that age myself. 

[BritManToo]

19 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

I never met him. How about you?

 

I used that picture as an example of old guy with sexy girl. As far as I see it there are basically two groups of guys: 

a) Guys who like sexy girls and are not too shy to be seen with them.

b) Guys who like sexy girls but pretend they don't. Some of them repeated that often enough that they believe it themselves. 

 

I think there's a fair few guys posting on this forum that don't have interest in women of any kind.

[Hummin]

1 minute ago, BritManToo said:

Don't you bad mouth the great man Hugh Hefner!

I'm speaking the truth as many do these days, and I'm sure my truth is not the popular one on this fora, but I can live with it.

 

The Emperor's New Clothes comes to mind

[Hummin]

5 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I think there's a fair few guys posting on this forum that don't have interest in women of any kind.

Think about it, the sexy model and ideal of women, is in majority made by gay men.  The fashion industry created the opposite ideal of women what real men like, so who is talking about brainwashing? 

 

Quite shallow if you ask me

[BangkokReady]

6 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Never found a girl below 20 sexy since I was at that age myself. 

Once you turned 20 you never found any 19 year old girl sexually attractive?

[Hummin]

1 minute ago, BangkokReady said:

Once you turned 20 you never found any 19 year old girl sexually attractive?

Have to admit one of my longer relationships was with a 19 when I was 28. But she had the maturity and IQ very few could compare with. In my experience, very few so young girls do turn me on emotionally, nice to look at, thats all. When it comes to sex my preference is above 30 up to 50. Some of my greater experiences have been with olde women than me when I was younger, and I guess that was the trigger experience I wanted to repeat. 

 

How to evolve sexually? You need someone with experience to guide you, and also willing to do the extra with confidence and pleasure, not just because someone requires it. 

[OneMoreFarang]

44 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Sexy girls, really? Who decide what a sexy girl is? Think about it, what is sexy? 

 

Never found a girl below 20 sexy since I was at that age myself. 

Obviously we all have different tastes. And it seems the beauty standards are different all over the world.

But let's stay in Thailand. Go in any bar and look which girls the guys pick first. Here is a hint: They don't choose first the old and ugly women. 

 

For me personally I don't find all girls below 20 sexy. Some are, some not. And the same is the true for girls over 20. Some are sexy, some not. But somewhere maybe above 30 there are only very few which I would call sexy.

 

[OneMoreFarang]

46 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Think about it, the sexy model and ideal of women, is in majority made by gay men.  The fashion industry created the opposite ideal of women what real men like, so who is talking about brainwashing? 

 

Quite shallow if you ask me

As far as I know, not too many men like super thin fashion models.

Victoria's Secret Angles are pretty much according to the taste of many men - and they have little to do with ordinary fashion models.

 

 

[OneMoreFarang]

39 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Have to admit one of my longer relationships was with a 19 when I was 28. But she had the maturity and IQ very few could compare with. In my experience, very few so young girls do turn me on emotionally, nice to look at, thats all. When it comes to sex my preference is above 30 up to 50. Some of my greater experiences have been with olde women than me when I was younger, and I guess that was the trigger experience I wanted to repeat. 

 

How to evolve sexually? You need someone with experience to guide you, and also willing to do the extra with confidence and pleasure, not just because someone requires it. 

IMHO there is a big difference between sexy (looking) girls and girls or women who are sexually experienced. Of course, a girl with 20 is less experienced than a woman with 30. But there are few 30 year old women who look hot like their younger sisters. 

[Hummin]

29 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Go in any bar and look which girls the guys pick first. Here is a hint: They don't choose first the old and ugly women. 

 

 

 

Obviously, a bar is a perfect playground for those who seek out younger girls, and much younger girls than themselves, because they are available for take out for little money, and no complications or consequences. If any, very few even if your gf/wife finds out who now is older, but is kind of locked in your grip, because she have no other options than stay or go back where she came from.

 

Thats why many thai wife accept it, or maybe even happy to se the  man go elsewhere out of good reasons, she doesnt need to perform for him to often if ever anymore.

 

 Im happy where I am and also feel good about my choice of woman, and even her appearance changes by time, I will still love her, and I know she will become older, so do I, right? Why ruin a good life, a good woman calling out the women you love for ugly, and want to change her out? 

 

Its all in your brain, and sometimes brainwashing is a good thing to for good reasons.

Edited April 6, 2023 by Hummin

[Hummin]

6 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

IMHO there is a big difference between sexy (looking) girls and girls or women who are sexually experienced. Of course, a girl with 20 is less experienced than a woman with 30. But there are few 30 year old women who look hot like their younger sisters. 

Again, thats your opinion and your fix that makes you going, but it will keep you in the bar forever, continuous searching, because no woman will be able to pleasure you in the long term

[Goat]

4 hours ago, transam said:

my UK wife was 16 when we met

You are real romantic type. Married your first girlfriend in the UK, then did it again in Thailand.

So lovely.

[transam]

1 minute ago, Goat said:

You are real romantic type. Married your first girlfriend in the UK, then did it again in Thailand.

So lovely.

You are guessing yet again, and came up with the wrong info, yet again...????

Now Goat, you really are making yourself look a bit foolish with all your daily assumptions about me, I would suggest moving to a different pen, fool around with a few nannies, the change in herd will do you a world of good....... ????

[CharlieH]

A number of posts and responses removed.

 

Play nice please ! Keep it civil or the topic will be closed.

[Goat]

34 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Obviously, a bar is a perfect playground for those who seek out younger girls, and much younger girls than themselves, because they are available for take out for little money, and no complications or consequences. If any, very few even if your gf/wife finds out who now is older, but is kind of locked in your grip, because she have no other options than stay or go back where she came from.

 

Thats why many thai wife accept it, or maybe even happy to se the  man go elsewhere out of good reasons, she doesnt need to perform for him to often if ever anymore.

 

 Im happy where I am and also feel good about my choice of woman, and even her appearance changes by time, I will still love her, and I know she will become older, so do I, right? Why ruin a good life, a good woman calling out the women you love for ugly, and want to change her out? 

 

Its all in your brain, and sometimes brainwashing is a good thing to for good reasons.

I do see some mongers who have settled down with very ordinary looking prositutes. 

I always think to myself they really should have spent their money better.