CecilM Posted August 5, 2023 Share Posted August 5, 2023 The statistics for lasting love/successful marriage are against you. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post hotandsticky Posted August 5, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted August 5, 2023 25 minutes ago, Liverpool Lou said: Different degrees of brass, eh? I would always go for the cashiers........they don't get out much. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Liverpool Lou Posted August 5, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted August 5, 2023 33 minutes ago, bob smith said: 39 minutes ago, Keep Right said: It seems that Bob Smith touched a nerve with some of the posters on this site. dont i always? No, you don't, no need to be so full of yourself. 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Furioso Posted August 5, 2023 Share Posted August 5, 2023 (edited) This strategy might work for a guy over 30: - Pay for play - GF with child that you would like to raise as your own - Marriage with child that you would like to raise as your own Strategies that very well may not work for a guy over 30: - Marriage, no children - GF, no children Bar girls are obviously very risky, but it can work out if she's the right girl. TBH most of the ones that work out are when both the guy and girl are very plain. Even then the very plain girl often thinks she's beautiful because she worked in a bar, which screwed up her head but not so much it bothers the new boyfriend/husband. Edited August 5, 2023 by Furioso I'll never know, for sure. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Liverpool Lou Posted August 5, 2023 Share Posted August 5, 2023 34 minutes ago, bob smith said: 35 minutes ago, Liverpool Lou said: How come you didn't go that route, then? I did, Lou. No, you didn't. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Liverpool Lou Posted August 5, 2023 Share Posted August 5, 2023 (edited) 25 minutes ago, bob smith said: 27 minutes ago, Liverpool Lou said: What makes you think that there are any on this forum? with some of the replies it would seem that many are!! why you so touchy, Lou? Since when has asking a question been characterised as being "touchy"? Edited August 5, 2023 by Liverpool Lou Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bob smith Posted August 5, 2023 Author Share Posted August 5, 2023 1 minute ago, Liverpool Lou said: Is asking a question now "touchy"? 'alright mate, calm down calm down' ???? 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Liverpool Lou Posted August 5, 2023 Share Posted August 5, 2023 1 minute ago, bob smith said: 4 minutes ago, Liverpool Lou said: Is asking a question now "touchy"? 'alright mate, calm down calm down' You're very ably demonstrating that you're the touchy one who needs to calm down a bit. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bob smith Posted August 5, 2023 Author Share Posted August 5, 2023 Just now, Liverpool Lou said: You're very ably demonstrating that you're the touchy one who needs to calm down a bit. your problem is you take yourself too seriously Lou. I thought scousers had a sense of humor? Obviously not... 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Liverpool Lou Posted August 5, 2023 Share Posted August 5, 2023 2 minutes ago, bob smith said: your problem is you take yourself too seriously Lou. I thought scousers had a sense of humor? Obviously not... I'm not a scouser, sorry to disappoint you. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post owl sees all Posted August 5, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted August 5, 2023 46 minutes ago, bob smith said: they are also hyper aware of their current bank balance! When I first met my girl friend, I loved her high sex appetite and didn't care about her low bank balance. After we married, I noticed how the two had gradually changed places. 2 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
windas Posted August 5, 2023 Share Posted August 5, 2023 Hi Guys It is a problem to get love from a beautiful young western girl when one is in the late 50s and divorced. I married a Thai gal of 38 who was dumped by her Finish boyfriend. Early days a culture shock in UK. But 20 years on still good looking we are like any other couple, have our ups and downs. You can take a girl out of Thailand, but it's impossible to remove Thailand from the girl and family. Marrying any female is a challenge, pot luck really. Happy days 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post TPI Posted August 5, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted August 5, 2023 I married a Saigon bar girl 54 years ago. At the time I encouraged many of my friends to do the same. I and they are mostly still married to the same women, all have children, grand children, homes and bank accounts...some have helped their wives bring family members over to Oz! Some marriages fail, after all they are between men and women, we're all human! To judge all on the choices of the few that have failed is nonsense, remember, my friends and I married Vietnamese and Chinese women, they are not the same "culturally" as their Thai sisters? In every case, you take your chance? All of life is a gamble! 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post dingdongrb Posted August 5, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted August 5, 2023 1 hour ago, brianthainess said: "Her teeth were like stars, they come out at night'' As the saying goes: 'She has the whitest teeth I have ever cum across.' 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post flexomike Posted August 5, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted August 5, 2023 5 hours ago, bob smith said: mrs smith has always been around, do you want to see her ID card? No we want to see a picture of her with you 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotchilli Posted August 5, 2023 Share Posted August 5, 2023 6 hours ago, bob smith said: I just do not get it. But the toothless baldie does... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flexomike Posted August 5, 2023 Share Posted August 5, 2023 4 hours ago, roo860 said: I reckon it's Bobby's imaginary wife. I think it is a blow up doll 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bob smith Posted August 5, 2023 Author Share Posted August 5, 2023 20 minutes ago, TPI said: In every case, you take your chance? All of life is a gamble! why take your chance on a poor, uneducated daughter of a peasant farmer when you can have a well educated woman with a good job. I think thats the point im trying to make anyway.. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post bkk6060 Posted August 5, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted August 5, 2023 I know a dozen guys who have married or have live in bar girls. They are mostly sexy with personality. But, they all have problems as these girls seem to become addicted to their bar jobs. The attention, social media, drinking, gambling, sex, staying up til 3am. Bringing one of these girls out of their element is a huge difficult adjustment for them. Never say never, but it would be difficult. Add trust issues when away playing golf or hanging out with friends or going back home. All just seems like a huge hassle I would not want in my life at this stage. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danderman123 Posted August 5, 2023 Share Posted August 5, 2023 1 hour ago, hotandsticky said: I would always go for the cashiers........they don't get out much. You would be surprised. I often go with cashiers, and they are in high demand. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kwasaki Posted August 5, 2023 Share Posted August 5, 2023 1 hour ago, Neeranam said: Learn what? If you mean Thai, if married you don't need to speak Thai, whereas if not married, you need to pass a Thai tests. What are the benefits, I have always been under the impression and told it was too difficult to get Thai citizenship and they were selective of of they gave it to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kwasaki Posted August 5, 2023 Share Posted August 5, 2023 1 minute ago, Danderman123 said: You would be surprised. I often go with cashiers, and they are in high demand. Free lancers. ???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danderman123 Posted August 5, 2023 Share Posted August 5, 2023 1 minute ago, bkk6060 said: I know a dozen guys who have married or have live in bar girls. They are mostly sexy with personality. But, they all have problems as these girls seem to become addicted to their bar jobs. The attention, social media, drinking, gambling, sex, staying up til 3am. Bringing one of these girls out of their element is a huge difficult adjustment for them. Never say never, but it would be difficult. Add trust issues when away playing golf or hanging out with friends or going back home. All just seems like a huge hassle I would not want in my life at this stage. Don't underestimate the gambling. They work long hours and sometimes there are no customers. So, to fill time, they play slots on their phone, slmetimes racking up huge gambling debts. Between gambling and Thai boyfriends, its common to find bargirls with sponsors, many customers and no money in the bank. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Hamus Yaigh Posted August 5, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted August 5, 2023 6 hours ago, bob smith said: why on earth would a western bloke marry a bar girl? The bring the poor girl down to the western mongers level. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kwasaki Posted August 5, 2023 Share Posted August 5, 2023 1 hour ago, Felton Jarvis said: How is the air conditioning over there in the “Ignore Zone”? I have only 2 members on ignore. Aircon fine have them cleaned every 6month at 400 baht each a time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bob smith Posted August 5, 2023 Author Share Posted August 5, 2023 4 minutes ago, Kwasaki said: What are the benefits, I have always been under the impression and told it was too difficult to get Thai citizenship and they were selective of of they gave it to. They arent selective at all. If you are married and pay tax then as long as you arent a criminal in your home country its basically a forgone conclusion that you will, eventually become a Thai citizen. Bear in mind that the process could take months or even years from start to finish. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kwasaki Posted August 5, 2023 Share Posted August 5, 2023 1 hour ago, CecilM said: The statistics for lasting love/successful marriage are against you. 20 years married to my Thai wife this year didn’t think that would be possible, wouldn't like to be on my own. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neeranam Posted August 5, 2023 Share Posted August 5, 2023 10 minutes ago, Kwasaki said: What are the benefits, I have always been under the impression and told it was too difficult to get Thai citizenship and they were selective of of they gave it to. Bar stool myth, since 2012, they changed the laws. Buy property. Cheap golf Never need to go to immigration Work any job Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kwasaki Posted August 5, 2023 Share Posted August 5, 2023 4 minutes ago, bob smith said: They arent selective at all. If you are married and pay tax then as long as you arent a criminal in your home country its basically a forgone conclusion that you will, eventually become a Thai citizen. Bear in mind that the process could take months or even years from start to finish. Thanks but I wouldn't bother now just wanted to know the benefit of others doing it, probably better for younger men who want to stay living in Thailand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kwasaki Posted August 5, 2023 Share Posted August 5, 2023 2 minutes ago, Neeranam said: Bar stool myth, since 2012, they changed the laws. Buy property. Cheap golf Never need to go to immigration Work any job Thanks well I wouldn't bother now and only handy thing would be not having to go immigration for me especially when it was trips to Maesot. Sukhothai immigration office 14 kilos away and nice people in and out in 30mins for marriage extension. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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