Do Thai men get jealous we take all the hot women?

[Rimmer]

Moved to the Pub Forum

[MalcolmB]

13 minutes ago, Kinnock said:

Often, when visiting a shopping mall, when I see a woman I perceive as beautiful - 9 times out of 10, their partner is Western.

Yes, that is what I am seeing too. 
Blind Freddy can see this.

 

we take all the good ones.

[transam]

3 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

Yes, that is what I am seeing too. 
Blind Freddy can see this.

 

we take all the good ones.

You do..............

[BangkokReady]

1 hour ago, MalcolmB said:

I am aware there are many rich Thais but the average working class is on 12-20,000 baht per month. So we are much better off financially than the average Thai.

 

women are attracted to wealth, no pint denying it.

 

If this was the case, most 7/11 cashiers would be hankering after any foreigner who went inside.  This is simply not what happens.

 

Average Thais are simply not that interested in foreign men, even when poor.  There needs to be some angle of Thai men not wanting them or them to be in deep poverty to make them go looking for foreign men.

[Sandboxer]

Lol, 90+% of the Thai wives/gfs I see with their falangs look like Quasimodo.

[BangkokReady]

1 hour ago, South said:

Is this a wind up? Probably one of the most ignorant racist posts I've ever seen on this board.

 

This guy does sound kind of fake.  I wonder if it's a sock puppet account.

[ElwoodP]

1 minute ago, Sandboxer said:

Lol, 90+% of the Thai wives/gfs I see with their falangs look like Quasimodo.

Women with partners tend to lose their looks very quickly. Applies to all women in LTRs worldwide.

[MalcolmB]

1 hour ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

It’s good that we get to see such posts so we are aware such people exist - it helps us understand and be more tolerant of those who aren’t very bright.

have you got a Thai wife or girlfriend? 
 

 

[Regyai]

1 hour ago, EVENKEEL said:

Perhaps foreigners have more money than some Thais. But the way land prices are going, many of the poor Thais could be land rich. My kid tells me her friend's dad has one of those wine cellar coolers for his large selection of bottles, they drive a merc, own several homes. Alot of rich Thais around.

 

 

Hi-So Thai men  (ie at or above the wealth level of falang tourists) would find the calibre of females pursued by farangs as worthy of derision, not jealousy.

[MalcolmB]

To be clear I am not a racist at all.

Later this year I will be marrying a woman from a different race and I am living in a country where I am in the racial minority.

Hardly the lifestyle of a racist.

[ElwoodP]

Some bickering/taunting posts removed.

[OneMoreFarang]

Mostly Thais have a different taste then most of us.

 

 

 

A long time ago I thought I will check out Thai soapy massage and other places where Thai guys look for girls. I didn't see many attractive girls in those places - attractive for my mind of course.

Many farangs, including me, like petite and dusky. And most Thai guys don't like that at all. So, no competition.

 

 

 

[MalcolmB]

2 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Mostly Thais have a different taste then most of us.

 

 

 

A long time ago I thought I will check out Thai soapy massage and other places where Thai guys look for girls. I didn't see many attractive girls in those places - attractive for my mind of course.

Many farangs, including me, like petite and dusky. And most Thai guys don't like that at all. So, no competition.

 

 

 

I doubt that most Thai men would not be interested in being entertained by red bikini girl.

 

i doubt that most men would not be interested in being entertained by red bikini girl.

 

i will join her on Facebook now.

[OneMoreFarang]

1 hour ago, connda said:

Do you personally have a problem with "dark skinned" Thai women as that comment borders on overt racism.  Personally a woman's skin color isn't a factor in whether or not I consider her attractive, but then again, I'm not racist.

 

It is not racist to be attracted to this or that shade of skin color.

It is racist if we don't want to work or socialize with people from certain skin colors. That is very different from attraction.

 

 

 

 

[transam]

4 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

I doubt that most Thai men would not be interested in being entertained by red bikini girl.

 

i doubt that most men would not be interested in being entertained by red bikini girl.

 

i will join her on Facebook now.

Yeh, riiiiiiiight, but if you do, don't forget to put your teeth in...........

[MalcolmB]

https://www.reuters.com/article/idUSSP307558/

 

But in rural Thailand, finding a foreign husband is a common aspiration for young women. In the poor northeast, an influx of more than 15,000 foreign men has brought an economic windfall and a welcome alternative to back-breaking work in the paddy fields.

 

"Foreign men are not handsome, but they have more money," sums up the book.

[OneMoreFarang]

2 minutes ago, transam said:

Yeh, riiiiiiiight, but if you do, don't forget to put your teeth in...........

He will probably send her a picture like this to get her attention:

 

 

[MalcolmB]

Just now, OneMoreFarang said:

He will probably send her a picture like this to get her attention:

 

 

 

He may be old, flabby, and far from handsome, but a Western husband can bring a lifetime of happiness, according to a new book advising Thai women on how to meet and marry foreign men.

"Foreign Boyfriend, Foreign Husband," with chapters written by Thai women already married to "farang," or foreigners, sells a Cinderella-style dream to young Thai women hoping for a passport to a better life.

[transam]

2 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

https://www.reuters.com/article/idUSSP307558/

 

But in rural Thailand, finding a foreign husband is a common aspiration for young women. In the poor northeast, an influx of more than 15,000 foreign men has brought an economic windfall and a welcome alternative to back-breaking work in the paddy fields.

 

"Foreign men are not handsome, but they have more money," sums up the book.

Well, it didn't take you long to get to that, did it Goat.............

[MalcolmB]

9 minutes ago, transam said:

Yeh, riiiiiiiight, but if you do, don't forget to put your teeth in...........

Stalker is still stalking.

Haven't you got something better to do?

[BangkokReady]

1 hour ago, MalcolmB said:

Later this year I will be marrying a woman from a different race and I am living in a country where I am in the racial minority.

Hardly the lifestyle of a racist.

 

"How can I be racist?  I'm #### a brown person and I came to live in their country because of the huge wealth disparity!"

 

In case that was too subtle, you can absolutely be racist and be in a relationship with a person of a different race and live in a country that has a majority of people not of your race.  People can even be racist against their own race.

[Gottfrid]

2 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

We are taller, bigger and more handsome than the Thai males and most importantly have more money.

Which results in Thai women falling over themselves trying to get a farang. They are very open to a big age gap also.
 

Generally speaking do the Thai men get jealous of us? Or is there enough to go around? They are promiscuous.

And do Thai men usually shun women after they have been with a farang?
Personally if I knew a girl had previous had black boyfriends I would look at this as a negative.

Dude, have you found all this out during your many bar visits? Nothing is true here. Or, maybe just that you have a complex about black men, and you know what they say. maybe can´t measure up after. 🤣

[transam]

Just now, MalcolmB said:

Stalker is still stalking.

Haven't you got something better to do?

I am sort of enjoying your return here, and replying to

your same ol' cr@p..........😂

[Ralf001]

Are we talking Thai men that send their girls out to sell their flange to earn coin to buy them booze and drugs ?

 

Or

 

Are we talking bout Thai men that are handsome as feck, have great jobs and smoking hot wives ?

 

Either or

 

Nope they aint jelous !

[simon43]

3 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

We are taller, bigger and more handsome than the Thai males and most importantly have more money.

Which results in Thai women falling over themselves trying to get a farang. They are very open to a big age gap also.
 

Generally speaking do the Thai men get jealous of us? Or is there enough to go around? They are promiscuous.

And do Thai men usually shun women after they have been with a farang?
Personally if I knew a girl had previous had black boyfriends I would look at this as a negative.

Jeez, so many erroneous assumptions!  You surely must be living under a bridge!

[sqwakvfr]

Not necessarily true.  I know some very attractive and educated women who had no desire for foreign men.  I knew a bank manager in BKK a few years ago and she told me this:  She was 33, university educated, studied for a year in Austraiia, very beautiful and spoke English almost fluently. She was looking for a comparable Thai man for marriage and in no way would consider a foreign man due to the perception that she was being taken care.  She had her own apartment and car.  She was very nice and it was actually a joy to speak to her over coffee. However most of the girls working at the hotel I was staying at were very intereted in me.  Many of the hotel girls were  very attractive as well. 

[Gecko123]

44 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

To be clear I am not a racist at all.

Later this year I will be marrying a woman from a different race and I am living in a country where I am in the racial minority.

Hardly the lifestyle of a racist.

 

There is a shockingly high number of foreign men living in Thailand with their Thai spouse who harbor bigoted opinions about other racial groups (including other Thais, especially Thai men), ethnic groups (especially Muslims). The psychological dissonance required to hold these opposing views is truly remarkable, but understandable when you consider the need to get laid. The final statement in your OP, which appears to pander to your fellow ex-pats racial biases, was offensive, and suggests you think you are entitled to pass judgment on a woman's past sexual history. By the way, do you not think that in a 20+ year history of working in a massage parlor, your girlfriend/fiancee has never had a black client she has sexually serviced?

[Gecko123]

18 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

Stalker is still stalking.

Haven't you got something better to do?

You know, for someone who supposedly has recently just arrived in SE Asia, and is supposedly getting married in the near future, plans to deliver a speech in Thai at the wedding reception, plans to build a house, purchase rental properties and farm land, plans to learn Thai in the next three months, and plans to start the application process for Thai citizenship in the near future, anyone would be forgiven for asking you the same question.

[Liverpool Lou]

2 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

You know how many Thai women ask me to find them a farang. 

I'd guess that you could count them on one hand.

[Liverpool Lou]

2 hours ago, richard_smith237 said:

So, do Thai guys get upset that Mongers called Malcom scape the barrel picking up Bars Girls?…

… most are likely bemused….

"...Mongers called Malcom scape the barrel picking up Bars Girls?…"

 

"Masseuses", not bar girls!