16 hours ago, save the frogs said:

that's one reason it might be a good idea to try to develop a deep emotional bond with another human being.

 

I do, for at least an hour when I get the urge 😍

 

Some of the rest other times I sit on the bar stool listening to all the BS and the wieners. 

 

 

16 hours ago, save the frogs said:

even as the sex drive wanes, you have someone in your life that is not just there for sex.

 

 

I'd rather be by my lonesome.

 

16 hours ago, save the frogs said:

even if you have a high sex drive, sex is only 1 hour a day at most. that still leaves 23 hours - 8 hours of sleep to fill up.

 

All that free time for me to do whatever I choose.

 

 

On 10/13/2024 at 3:12 PM, Hummin said:

Many men is pimping their wife

You is right.

4 hours ago, FriscoKid said:

I don't see anyone calling you a scumbag in this topic. I only see you referring to yourself as one. 

Give them time.

18 hours ago, madone said:

they are not spending all their time in bars, the rest of the time they are hungover and courting dementia.

i can't count the number of old alcoholics I've watched die here over 30 years

I didn't post that. It was by a different poster that I quoted. Please sort your error out. It's also against forum rules, as you abbreviated the quote to the point it lost context.

On 10/13/2024 at 4:26 PM, SAFETY FIRST said:

I like to have my gf, permanent partner. We experiment but I don't ask her to do something weird or kinky that we saw watching a porn movie together. 

There are porn VDOs for every taste. You could have found one that only had boring sex on it if you had looked.

 

I suspect that your idea of "kinky" is the norm for sexually active people that enjoy a bit of rumpty.

I am, of course, excluding fetish, rape and sadism

 

While I never got the point of sticking it in an orifice never designed for sex, it seems to be commonplace among a certain demographic, and if American porn is anything to go by, that is the one with multiple rubbish tattoos, multiple body piercings, gang bangers and rather ugly large women. American porn in the 1980s used to be quite sedate, use attractive people ( except for one exceptionally ugly, but prolific male ) not a tattoo or body piercing ( except in the ears ) in sight and never entering by the back door.

16 hours ago, 4MyEgo said:

I do, for at least an hour when I get the urge 😍

I'm with you on that. To my everlasting regret I did develop deep emotional bonds with two women, that both turned out to be rotten human beings, and the deep emotional bonds were the reason I didn't ditch them in the first year, when it would have been far less financially destructive for me.

23 hours ago, madone said:

I have managed to fit in other activities

 

necrophilia🤣

What does it mean backwards morality train?

3 minutes ago, Rampant Rabbit said:

necrophilia🤣

beats laughing at your own jokes.

On 10/13/2024 at 2:27 PM, 4MyEgo said:

 

I have been here for over a decade, and not wanting to be one to be bragging, am in my 60's, with a big sex drive, believe it or not, Sunday, Monday, Tuesday of last week, Friday, Saturday,  Sunday this week.

 

The above is rare, very rare actually, as I am usually a once or twice a week kind of guy, but the latest chick, is a nymph, is much younger than me, and told me today after a good serve this morning, no more for one week now please 😍

 

My advice, get back here and increase your Zink intake, we don't have much time left here so enjoy it while it lasts, to think I won't be able to get a boner in my 70's as other have advised, worries the cr-ap out of me, it's basically all I live for, that and a few other things of course, like eating and sleeping. 

Way back in the late 90's, early 00's I was just like you, over in Soi Cowboy every night. I was mid to late 30's then, 60 in January.

I've been living alone since 2018 and a sexual relationship doesn't really interest me at all, and I don't care that I don't care.  But, I do still have the wonderful memories of my years in Thailand.

On 10/13/2024 at 4:26 PM, FriscoKid said:

So what did you come for? The temples and the pad Thai?

I just came over to see some old buddies, and a trip down memory lane. Saw lots of changes since my last pre-COVID visit.