Optician shop - REALLY BAD

[fredwiggy]

Just now, NowNow said:

 

I have a real girlfriend. No need to buy my company and to call that a girlfriend. She's not your girlfriend mate. You are her Sugar Daddy. Keep it real.

You aren't too bright assuming you know what others here are doing in their personal lives, unless they specifically tell you. I'm thinking you're also paying for things for your girlfriend to have her stick around, because if you aren't, she will find someone that's not so cheap very easily here. Or can you agree that what you have is a transactional relationship, whereas some here have a relational relationship, where both are givers? What makes his a sugar daddy and not yours?

[NowNow]

10 minutes ago, Dan O said:

Is it really your place to decide to relocate someone? Based on some of the posts you've made I think giving someone an opinion is about as far as you should go. I think the decision to change someone's life that drastically should be left up to them to decide.

 

I think he's more Dan than you are 😊

[NowNow]

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

You aren't too bright assuming you know what others here are doing in their personal lives, unless they specifically tell you. I'm thinking you're also paying for things for your girlfriend to have her stick around, because if you aren't, she will find someone that's not so cheap very easily here. Or can you agree that what you have is a transactional relationship, whereas some here have a relational relationship, where both are givers? What makes his a sugar daddy and not yours?

 

He specifically told us, so no need for long winded waffle. 😊

Added to that, the irony of your claiming that I assume, when that is exactly what you have just done.

The difference is that mine are not assumptions, but comments on the information posted.

I didn't give any information on providing and paying, so you just made it up.

 

I don't give girlfriends money, other than perhaps birthdays and Christmas.

Your 'relationships' IMHO are just concubinage.

Edited 3 hours ago by NowNow

[fredwiggy]

Just now, NowNow said:

 

She didn't lose. She got rid of you.

I understand the concept, but this woman is neither your wife nor the mother of your children. You are just paying out for your company. Dress it up however you like it.

Actually, again, you're assuming. I divorced her to get my child back home, after she kidnapped her 4 times, which is illegal in most developed countries and not here, mainly because the care they have for children here doesn't come close to matching the care we have in western countries. To this day, yesterday in fact, she wants to come back, and my daughter said this in front of her. It's hard to explain to a 7 year old, but I'm feeling that now also, that one does not go back to someone you can't trust, no matter how good looking they are, because your own sanity is worth more than the torment a covert narcissist can give you through years together.

 

My girlfriend now also looks at foreigners the same way as most Thai women do, but in the almost 4 years we have been together, with her knowing good English and being a very smart lady, she's understood that a man's worth isn't how much money he has but how he treats his loved ones. She knows I treat her better than her husband did, and from what she hears from her friends here, better than how they are treated by their men. I help her because I want to, not because I have to, and she also does the same. Not a transaction like most here. More like being comfortable together.

[NowNow]

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

Actually, again, you're assuming. I divorced her to get my child back home, after she kidnapped her 4 times, which is illegal in most developed countries and not here, mainly because the care they have for children here doesn't come close to matching the care we have in western countries. To this day, yesterday in fact, she wants to come back, and my daughter said this in front of her. It's hard to explain to a 7 year old, but I'm feeling that now also, that one does not go back to someone you can't trust, no matter how good looking they are, because your own sanity is worth more than the torment a covert narcissist can give you through years together.

 

My girlfriend now also looks at foreigners the same way as most Thai women do, but in the almost 4 years we have been together, with her knowing good English and being a very smart lady, she's understood that a man's worth isn't how much money he has but how he treats his loved ones. She knows I treat her better than her husband did, and from what she hears from her friends here, better than how they are treated by their men. I help her because I want to, not because I have to, and she also does the same. Not a transaction like most here. More like being comfortable together.

 

No more comment, as I want to keep it general, rather than too personal.

[fredwiggy]

Just now, NowNow said:

 

He specifically told us, so no need for long winded waffle. 😊

Added to that, the irony of your claiming that I assume, when that is exactly what you have just done.

The difference is that mine are not assumptions, but comments on the information posted.

I didn't give any information on providing and paying, so you just made it up.

 

I don't give girlfriends money, other than perhaps birthdays and Christmas.

Your 'relationships' IMHO are just concubinage.

I'm thinking your problem is really the inability to comprehend what's written, and a desire to twist things around to feed your ego. You did this in other topis, thinking you're a pizza expert because you had pizza in Italy, and I only said that NYC pizza was SOME of the best worldwide, which it is. You troll, just to argue, not understanding you aren't doing anything besides assuming, because with what little information you are receiving from us, you again, form your own conclusion without knowing or understanding the facts. My relationships are real, and most of them have been. Some ,like my ex here, were transactional, even though there was attraction on both sides. I could say your girlfriend is a concubine, but I'm not that dense, thinking I actually know what's going on in your life from just a few words typed on a forum. You're missing the point of all of this. Not all relationships are transactional, even here. Most here probably are, but again, unlike you, I don't assume.

[SAFETY FIRST]

21 minutes ago, NowNow said:

I have a real girlfriend

Do you spend any quality time with her? 

 

You always seem to be on these forums wanting a discussion, annoying and arguing with someone, bouncing around from thread to thread. 

 

 

Edited 2 hours ago by SAFETY FIRST

[NowNow]

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

I'm thinking your problem is really the inability to comprehend what's written, and a desire to twist things around to feed your ego. You did this in other topis, thinking you're a pizza expert because you had pizza in Italy, and I only said that NYC pizza was SOME of the best worldwide, which it is. You troll, just to argue, not understanding you aren't doing anything besides assuming, because with what little information you are receiving from us, you again, form your own conclusion without knowing or understanding the facts. My relationships are real, and most of them have been. Some ,like my ex here, were transactional, even though there was attraction on both sides. I could say your girlfriend is a concubine, but I'm not that dense, thinking I actually know what's going on in your life from just a few words typed on a forum. You're missing the point of all of this. Not all relationships are transactional, even here. Most here probably are, but again, unlike you, I don't assume.

 

You are rambling again....

[fredwiggy]

Just now, NowNow said:

 

No more comment, as I want to keep it general, rather than too personal.

You can't be personal. You know nothing about anyone on this forum, even if you've met them in real life. Only a fraction maybe,because most people don't tell anyone but just a smidgen of their lives to anyone besides their closest friends, and even there. Only a coward tries to be personal here about someone's family or girlfriends, because they aren't brave enough to say things in person.

[NowNow]

3 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

You can't be personal. You know nothing about anyone on this forum, even if you've met them in real life. Only a fraction maybe,because most people don't tell anyone but just a smidgen of their lives to anyone besides their closest friends, and even there. Only a coward tries to be personal here about someone's family or girlfriends, because they aren't brave enough to say things in person.

 

But people take things personally all the same... see yourself.

So I prefer to just outline what I mean, without getting into too much detail.

[ElwoodP]

This is getting too personal.

Please stop while you all still retain your ability to post.

Polite and civil is the best policy.

 

3 off topic posts just removed.

[georgegeorgia]

8 minutes ago, ElwoodP said:

This is getting too personal.

Please stop while you all still retain your ability to post.

Polite and civil is the best policy.

Yes sadly everyone has forgotten selfishly about Old Ted the old lonely guy in the Flybird Condo 

 

For those following the saga which probably won't be many now as the thread gas been hijacked by people not concerned with Old Ted but I'm arranging his flights next week to the Philippines to Duamagette, hopefully he will meet a lovely Filipino lady 

 

[NowNow]

8 minutes ago, georgegeorgia said:

Yes sadly everyone has forgotten selfishly about Old Ted the old lonely guy in the Flybird Condo 

 

For those following the saga which probably won't be many now as the thread gas been hijacked by people not concerned with Old Ted but I'm arranging his flights next week to the Philippines to Duamagette, hopefully he will meet a lovely Filipino lady 

 

 

Have you organised some accommodation for him?

[ElwoodP]

Topic title, "finding true love"

If your post is gone, you were probably off topic.