Why do so many Thai prostitutes marry their customers?

[BritManToo]

On 11/17/2024 at 1:46 PM, MalcolmB said:

They seem to have chosen a life where they have to spend most of their time with men they don’t really like. An underlying tension that comes out when they are drunk?

You've just describe nearly all married women.

Even if the guys are billionaires (Bezos), famous actors (Depp), pop stars (McCartney) or government leaders (Trump).

 

There's just no pleasing women!

[zhounan]

Only Charles Bukowski could have given a satisfactory answer.

Anyway, I think they are very funny as friends , they dare do everything, don't care how other people look them. But I won't trust them in a relationship.

[thrilled]

The customers are gullible. They live with her for a short time. She turns them every way but loose. She keeps them drained. They have never been with a woman like this before. I mean things happen. When your spoiled a lot you figure she’s the best thing since sliced bread

[darbie-foos]

better than marrying their brother to get a visa much like ilhan Omar fraudulently did.

Edited yesterday at 11:19 AM by darbie-foos

[ross163103]

To get a better life.....simple really!

[kingstonkid]

On 11/17/2024 at 1:46 PM, MalcolmB said:

I went to a friend of a friend’s wedding on Friday night in Pattaya. 
 

Nearly everyone attending was a farang with a thai wife or girlfriend. A few kids.

 

Everyone was reasonably well behaved until the booze started flowing when things started getting messy and the women’s true colors started showing up. 
 

It was fairly obvious that nearly every one of them was a former bar girl, most were tattooed, they got sleazier and louder as the night wore on both verbally and physically.

 

It was a fun night. 
 

I was thinking about half of them were not showing much or any respect to their husbands. It appeared the more drunk some of them got the less they liked their husbands and were not even pretending to like them.
Almost like they were trying to start trouble with their husbands/boyfriends which put me on edge a bit. Very touchy feely.
 

They seem to have chosen a life where they have to spend most of their time with men they don’t really like. An underlying tension that comes out when they are drunk?

 

Why is it that so many prostitutes in Thailand marry their customers? There are prostitutes in probably every country in the world, but I have never seen this before, it seems a uniquely Thai phenomenon. There must be thousands of them. 
 

Why is it so different in Thailand?

 

ps. The dowry was 200,000 and some gold. The wife was a stunner. An oldie, but a goodie. Nice big set of bolt-ons.
 

 

 

 

Hey the bar girls are not all stupid.  Most of the young ones do it for the money and to see if they can snag a rich farang to look after them.  The middle-aged ones realize that they can't do this for the rest of their lives and need something else.  So they find a boyfriend or husband.

 

I had one girl tell me that she would be mine and look after me, but she wanted 20k a month.  

Edited yesterday at 01:38 PM by kingstonkid

[ryxyz]

On 11/17/2024 at 3:44 AM, saakura said:

Why do they not end up in marraige with customers from other race or countries (I am talking in general, there could be exceptions) like Africans, Arabs, Chinese, Indians, Etc.? Why the fatal attraction between elderly white men and Thai women from the lower economic strata?

They do. You probably haven't noticed. The once who love sex and are really gullible, and believe in tall stories, end up with French speaking Africans, while others end up with the others in your list.

[thaibeachlovers]

On 11/19/2024 at 2:09 PM, Walker88 said:

I come to threads like this for the oozing and unctuous sanctimony. Luscious! I'm late to the game here, but what the heck....I'll post.

Snipped for brevity, but agree with almost all of that very long post.

[thaibeachlovers]

13 hours ago, BritManToo said:

You've just describe nearly all married women.

Even if the guys are billionaires (Bezos), famous actors (Depp), pop stars (McCartney) or government leaders (Trump).

 

There's just no pleasing women!

More correctly, a really rich man is just as stupid when it comes to relationships as any farang trawling Pattaya bars.

[thaibeachlovers]

18 hours ago, Hummin said:

He read it somewhere, he doesnt have any real life experiences, and ask about everything everywhere same as he do here at this forum. Something else with those who read all of the Bangkok Books, and have their regular seat at their favorite bar in Pattaya, they almost lived all of what you read here. They have read and heard so much during their time, that they now think they did experience all of it themselves, or at least have a friend who have a friend who experienced it. 

 

or their regular bar is in soi 6, then they know everything there is to know,  first hand

The only things I post about bars are what I experienced myself. If it's hearsay or what I read, I'll say that.

I don't remember how many I went with over many decades, but over a couple hundred at least. However I wasn't drunk when I chose, and I took my time to choose, so perhaps that is why the bad ones were less than fingers on one hand.

I cringe when I read some of the claims posted about BGs on AN, as it's such BS.

Also about how non BG "good" Thai women are out there just waiting for some non Thai speaking farang to bang her. The ones that are not working, are probably on the game.

[Hummin]

11 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

More correctly, a really rich man is just as stupid when it comes to relationships as any farang trawling Pattaya bars.

There is a difference between some individuals rich or poor, those who invest everything they have on one bad card, and those who don't.

 

How many times are we going to listen to those who lost everything and their hate speeches against women/prostitutes 

 

Seems many here who constantly bringing up bar ladies and their qualities, have some kind of fixation about them in a negative way.

 

Often same members with new nicknames. 

 

Afteraall, it is not their business what others do or not, but still it seems occupying their minds. 

 

 

[Hummin]

6 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

The only things I post about bars are what I experienced myself. If it's hearsay or what I read, I'll say that.

I don't remember how many I went with over many decades, but over a couple hundred at least. However I wasn't drunk when I chose, and I took my time to choose, so perhaps that is why the bad ones were less than fingers on one hand.

I cringe when I read some of the claims posted about BGs on AN, as it's such BS.

Also about how non BG "good" Thai women are out there just waiting for some non Thai speaking farang to bang her. The ones that are not working, are probably on the game.

 

The thing is, you can't give grown up men advise, they will do exactly what they want, and not listening to others. Live and learn, 

 

Common sense is either something you bring with, not something you learn. 

[thaibeachlovers]

9 minutes ago, Hummin said:

How many times are we going to listen to those who lost everything and their hate speeches against women/prostitutes 

I don't hate prostitutes. The ones I knew well were nicer than the non prostitutes I know well ( in many cases ).

I don't even hate women- they can't be blamed for obeying their genetic imperatives. Most men are controlled by their genetic imperatives, which are contradictory to female ones.

My problem was that I didn't learn early enough that being in a romantic relationship was a very bad idea.

 

I'm grateful to the prostitutes in my life. They did what they were paid to do and went away after- no romance involved.

[thaibeachlovers]

13 minutes ago, Hummin said:

The thing is, you can't give grown up men advise, they will do exactly what they want, and not listening to others. Live and learn, 

The force of the small head is strong.

[BritManToo]

45 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

The only things I post about bars are what I experienced myself. If it's hearsay or what I read, I'll say that.

I don't remember how many I went with over many decades, but over a couple hundred at least. However I wasn't drunk when I chose, and I took my time to choose, so perhaps that is why the bad ones were less than fingers on one hand.

I cringe when I read some of the claims posted about BGs on AN, as it's such BS.

Also about how non BG "good" Thai women are out there just waiting for some non Thai speaking farang to bang her. The ones that are not working, are probably on the game.

Agree,

I've hired a bit less than you, was often drunk when selecting, and always had a great time.

They were all way more loving and affectionate than my former Brit wife.

[Hummin]

20 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

I don't hate prostitutes. The ones I knew well were nicer than the non prostitutes I know well ( in many cases ).

I don't even hate women- they can't be blamed for obeying their genetic imperatives. Most men are controlled by their genetic imperatives, which are contradictory to female ones.

My problem was that I didn't learn early enough that being in a romantic relationship was a very bad idea.

 

I'm grateful to the prostitutes in my life. They did what they were paid to do and went away after- no romance involved.

I didn't claim you where, I know you very well from this forum and many of your posts, but general many do on this forum. They seems to despise bar girls, but happy to use their services. 

 

Quite  a few times random guys who advised me (somehow took me for being a newbie) how to use bar girls, and Thai women for that sake. Smartasses is everywhere 

[MalcolmB]

12 hours ago, Hummin said:

They seems to despise bar girls, but happy to use their services. 

Well it is a love hate relationship going both ways.

We love all the rough sex, but hate paying for it.

That hate the sex with us, but love the money.

[MalcolmB]

23 hours ago, kingstonkid said:

Hey the bar girls are not all stupid.  Most of the young ones do it for the money and to see if they can snag a rich farang to look after them.  The middle-aged ones realize that they can't do this for the rest of their lives and need something else.  So they find a boyfriend or husband.

 

I had one girl tell me that she would be mine and look after me, but she wanted 20k a month.  

It would make more sense to have 20 different ones in a month for that price.

 

It would be 20,000 in her pocket and probably at least another 10,000 for feeding, clothing her etc

[MalcolmB]

On 11/20/2024 at 12:04 PM, bradiston said:

You might ask why do so many men marry a prostitute? I'm woke so I don't like the word. Isn't there a better one? Sex worker? Isn't that a better description? The p word has all sorts of ugly connotations.

Hooker, whore, lady of the night.

The Thais have many words for them.

[hotandsticky]

1 minute ago, MalcolmB said:

Hooker, whore, lady of the night.

The Thais have many words for them.

 

 

You are confusing Thais with Westerners

[kingstonkid]

15 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

It would make more sense to have 20 different ones in a month for that price.

 

It would be 20,000 in her pocket and probably at least another 10,000 for feeding, clothing her etc

Where do you shop.  I have never in 15 years seen girls that are 1000-1500 for long time

 

As to the 20 k, it depends on how you look at it and what is included.  You also have to remember that these girls realize that we old guys will die before them so they need money to save for the future.

 

Next time you are on Suk, ask one of the girls how much for a week.  I think you will be surprised.

 

 

[Bday Prang]

On 11/17/2024 at 2:06 PM, GypsyT said:

They make good wives.

- They speak better English than any out of Thai University

- They are not like dead fish in bed

- They can handle money well, some time the flow is one way - to her

- They have great self confidence

- They are not specially intelligent but very street smart. No need to look after in any place or country.

- If needed, they can get money in any place quickly

- They are FUN!

I took one to EU and she was the best travel partner man can wish. Marry her? Hell NO!

 

You have listed the reasons why western men are prepared to marry them, however the OP didn't ask that ,he  asked why Thai women are prepared to marry western men , and the answer is simply   "because they can".  its a no brainer

[Bday Prang]

On 11/18/2024 at 10:01 PM, Celsius said:

 

No, she is Chinese with MBA and a great job 🥰

 

Go ahead with the Batman slap meme which will make you really intelligent among your barstool crew, handing out wisdom like it's free puss

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

never ceases to amaze me why you, with your highly educated and ultra successful wife have to blow your own trumpet on every thread about ex bargirls, Its about time you realised that absolutely nobody is impressed one iota.   What drives you to comment on a subject you obviously know nothing about?    You think you are bigging yourself up, you are sadly mistaken.

I am neither triggered, nor jealous nor awestruck  I just think its sad to be honest, akin to how I feel about those who wear fake rolexes or change their I phones annually,  making sure everybody knows.   Nobody cares 

 

[Celsius]

30 minutes ago, Bday Prang said:

never ceases to amaze me why you, with your highly educated and ultra successful wife have to blow your own trumpet on every thread about ex bargirls, Its about time you realised that absolutely nobody is impressed one iota.

 

Because I'm bored, I thought it was obvious.

 

That's the thing tho....no one should be really impressed by the fact that some Serb marries a salaried woman.... yet many whinge and whine yours is different when mentioning this fact.

 

 

Funny.

 

 

[novacova]

49 minutes ago, Bday Prang said:

never ceases to amaze me why you, with your highly educated and ultra successful wife have to blow your own trumpet on every thread about ex bargirls, Its about time you realised that absolutely nobody is impressed one iota.   What drives you to comment on a subject you obviously know nothing about?    You think you are bigging yourself up, you are sadly mistaken.

I am neither triggered, nor jealous nor awestruck  I just think its sad to be honest, akin to how I feel about those who wear fake rolexes or change their I phones annually,  making sure everybody knows.   Nobody cares 

 

Obviously the above poster was triggered enough to take the time to respond being in awestruck to express his jealousy 

[bradiston]

1 hour ago, MalcolmB said:

Hooker, whore, lady of the night.

The Thais have many words for them.

Such as?