48 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

you, can quickly move up to an 8 in attractiveness by the things she does as well. 

 

I am actually struck how some of the most attractive girls I've been with had very average to below average looking exes.

 

 

Great sex (into me, not just the standard menu, compatible libido) is the essential ingredient.

 

If she's a six and it's hot and she's not too wearing to be around, she will find life pretty plush in the PrubangBoy universe.

 

If she's agreeable and presents well, but it's only OK, then that's not going work. Like I said, for companionship, I'd just get a dog. 

 

My friend who moved to Brazil is closing in on a relationship, and as he succinctly put it, "the horizontal audition will decide all".

 

This explains the deep mystery of average guys with hot women or that Football coach that GInboy2 wants to give a stern lecture to.

 

They have gotten into the brain part of those women that connects to the groin. Often, there's a Dom/sub element. I can do all the sit ups I want, but if I'm not in her head, I can skip being in further down below.

 

The sex people want to be with the sex people.

 

Bummer: there are many more male sex people than female.

13 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

Great sex (into me, not just the standard menu, compatible libido) is the essential ingredient.

 

If she's a six and it's hot and she's not too wearing to be around, she will find life pretty plush in the PrubangBoy universe.

 

If she's agreeable and presents well, but it's only OK, then that's not going work. Like I said, for companionship, I'd just get a dog. 

 

My friend who moved to Brazil is closing in on a relationship, and as he succinctly put it, "the horizontal audition will decide all".

 

This explains the deep mystery of average guys with hot women or that Football coach that GInboy2 wants to give a stern lecture to.

 

They have gotten into the brain part of those women that connects to the groin. Often, there's a Dom/sub element. I can do all the sit ups I want, but if I'm not in her head, I can skip being in further down below.

 

The sex people want to be with the sex people.

 

Bummer: there are many more male sex people than female.

 

Yes, this also explains why so many men fall for bar girls and sex workers. Because they have face melting sex for the first time in their lives, so they want to marry that girl, never mind that she's a whore.

 

I have a slightly different take. As I've lived sexual bliss for decades for me sex is slightly less important now,  if sex is just good rather than great that's fine with me, provided she is loyal, honest, fun to be with, and so on, that's more important to me now. But a certain minium standard with sex is of course there.

 

The Dom/sub element is crucial, I had a girl who told me "You can do anything that you want to me", and she really meant it, she would literally do anything. Because she saw me as her best option, she allowed me to be Dom and she was subservient. This can only happen if the girl is really attracted to you, and has not happened with the majority of the other girls, needless to say. A woman who has sex with you always submits, but some women truly submit all the way, others don't go that far.

12 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

As I've lived sexual bliss for decades for me sex is slightly less important now,  if sex is just good rather than great that's fine with me, provided she is loyal, honest, fun to be with, and so on, that's more important to me now. But a certain minimum standard with sex is of course there.

 

Just like I won't eat 7/11 food no matter how hungry I get, I'm not dropping my trousers for anything less than a sexual 8, no matter how loyal she is.

 

If I guess wrong and end up treading water with a dud for a night, I'll be dropping the 'it's not you, it's me" alibi in the morning. Again, get a dog.

 

A lot of guys who come here are starving and will gorge on the sex equivalent of a 7/11 toastie sandwich. Fair enough, no judgement.

 

I reread the OP. He reminds me of me: a long term marriage that was hot, now hunting and pecking with the disadvantage of being 70+. People are "allowed" to have preferences about stuff like religion or lifestyle. So why not sex?

 

Upside: my current prospect hasn't been with a man in 5 years. I am def hoping that some pent up demand gets un-pented. As Trump says, "on both sides, on both sides".

12 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

Just like I won't eat 7/11 food no matter how hungry I get, I'm not dropping my trousers for anything less than a sexual 8, no matter how loyal she is.

 

If I guess wrong and end up treading water with a dud for a night, I'll be dropping the 'it's not you, it's me" alibi in the morning. Again, get a dog.

 

A lot of guys who come here are starving and will gorge on the sex equivalent of a 7/11 toastie sandwich. Fair enough, no judgement.

 

I reread the OP. He reminds me of me: a long term marriage that was hot, now hunting and pecking with the disadvantage of being 70+. People are "allowed" to have preferences about stuff like religion or lifestyle. So why not sex?

 

Upside: my current prospect hasn't been with a man in 5 years. I am def hoping that some pent up demand gets un-pented. As Trump says, "on both sides, on both sides".

 

5 years? You don't believe that yourself. Women lie. Especially about that. I can't imagine a woman has not been with a man for 5 years. They're never alone. If true of course you'll have a hell of a time.

 

Everyone loves great sex, of course it is preferable. I take the view that she can always learn and improve in that regard. That's why I don't mind virgins either. However, you have sex relatively little. Most of the time you spend with her interacting, and her character is more important to me than her sexual ability. Though if she is untalented or incapable of learning in that area obviously that's a major problem.

 

I should ask the one coming tonight how long she's not been with a man. She'll probably tell me the same. Lol.

12 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

Everyone loves great sex, of course it is preferable. I take the view that she can always learn and improve in that regard. That's why I don't mind virgins either. However, you have sex relatively little. Most of the time you spend with her interacting, and her character is more important to me than her sexual ability. Though if she is untalented or incapable of learning in that area obviously that's a major problem.

Every man loves sex, every time 

Women love it once or twice in their lifetimes, but I've never managed to be present at any of those events.

6 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

5 years? You don't believe that yourself. Women lie.

 

Lol.

A white woman north of 55 living in Bangkok? Very plausible. Plus very married to her NGO job etc.

 

She said she "intimidates men". I spat out my drink from laughing. Then we were cool.

2 hours ago, Prubangboy said:

A white woman north of 55 living in Bangkok? Very plausible. Plus very married to her NGO job etc.

 

She said she "intimidates men". I spat out my drink from laughing. Then we were cool.

 

Yes, I guess theoretically possible. Of course it's also theoretically possible that she banged 89 guys in the last 5 years and knows you would not like that. The truth is probably somewhere in the middle. 

True, but I'm good either way.

 

I'm looking for dinner and a shag on an ongoing. basis. Not to pick out drapes together.

3 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

True, but I'm good either way.

 

I'm looking for dinner and a shag on an ongoing. basis. Not to pick out drapes together.

 

That's how they get you. One minute you were shagging, the next you're picking out a baby alarm.

29 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

That's how they get you. One minute you were shagging, the next you're picking out a baby alarm.

Just walk away, it's not that hard.

8 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Just walk away, it's not that hard.

 

Oh but it is. After 20 years.

 

2 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

Oh but it is. After 20 years.

 

2 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

at 72, there's not going to be another 20 years. And I had a vasectomy; I'm shooting blanks.

 

Easy on the eyes, dinner, shag, some mutual support. I can't even think of fifth thing.

7 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

 

at 72, there's not going to be another 20 years. And I had a vasectomy; I'm shooting blanks.

 

Easy on the eyes, dinner, shag, some mutual support. I can't even think of fifth thing.

 

You never know, you could hit 98. Modern medicine.

 

But yah, I was talking from personal experience. Man was it hard to walk away. I did, but it cost me a Filipina.

 

She's easy on the eye at 55? For real?

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

She's easy on the eye at 55? For real?

Only because of his cateracts!

47 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

She's easy on the eye at 55? For real?

 

Time for the horizontal audition to decide. Call it two more meals as a deadline.

 

I like to have a little chat and share some interests. I need white for that. At least with my interests.

 

Many guys here are happy installing solar panels in rice paddy-land and going out for a weekly pizza. Me? No.

 

I met a retired nurse from Udon. Solid looks, very agreeable.

 

But I don't see myself making small talk out on the tilapia farm. Reading about people who do here is my favorite stuff here.

 

16 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

 

Time for the horizontal audition to decide. Call it two more meals as a deadline.

 

I like to have a little chat and share some interests. I need white for that. At least with my interests.

 

Many guys here are happy installing solar panels in rice paddy-land and going out for a weekly pizza. Me? No.

 

I met a retired nurse from Udon. Solid looks, very agreeable.

 

But I don't see myself making small talk out on the tilapia farm. Reading about people who do here is my favorite stuff here.

 

 

Well she could be easy on the eye. Elizabeth Hurley is hot at 60. And if she is warm and welcoming, that'll push her up a notch anyway.

 

I'm about to pick up the 35 year old now. Already had complaints about no luggage added and 'think I'm getting a fever'. Could be 10 days of hell.

So this 35 year old has a massive cough and sore throat. She's probably got Covid. If I die and you don't hear from me anymore, this is all Celsius' fault. Get an educated woman, he said. Get an older woman.

 

Now I'm stuck with an overweight 35 year old with Covid for 10 days. And she put up photos from 2014.

 

What a disaster.

 

Never again a 35 year old. strictly 18 to 25 from now on.

 

She's got an attitude problem on top.

"""And she put up photos from 2014"""

 

Did you ever hear of LINE ?

Its a popular VIDEO chat apk used by MANY Thai ladies of all ages and "looks".

12 hours ago, Prubangboy said:

Many guys here are happy installing solar panels in rice paddy-land and going out for a weekly pizza. Me? No.

That's me, I went 100% solar last month, 80% off grid, 20% grid tie.

Still allow 20Kwhr on the meter to make PEA happy, but I have to turn off my grid tie for 5 days to achieve that.

8 minutes ago, edwardflory said:

"""And she put up photos from 2014"""

 

Did you ever hear of LINE ?

Its a popular VIDEO chat apk used by MANY Thai ladies of all ages and "looks".

 

I did call on LINE but it only shows the face, she's got at least 15 kg on top of the photos, but video call only shows the face.

 

This is a total nightmare. She looks like 40, even at 35 and she's coughing up phlegm constantly. I won't be surprised she has Covid.

 

Just my luck. The first educated 35 year old and she's infected with a deadly disease.

 

This is a total nightmare. 9 more days of this argumentative whale in my house.

17 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

I did call on LINE but it only shows the face, she's got at least 15 kg on top of the photos, but video call only shows the face.

 

This is a total nightmare. She looks like 40, even at 35 and she's coughing up phlegm constantly. I won't be surprised she has Covid.

 

Just my luck. The first educated 35 year old and she's infected with a deadly disease.

 

This is a total nightmare. 9 more days of this argumentative whale in my house.

Well deserved I would say. Enjoy

11 hours ago, Hummin said:

Well deserved I would say. Enjoy

what the heck is that supposed to mean, Hum-an? 

This is the last time any woman over 35 enters my house, except to clean.

 

I don't know how anyone can put up with these older argumentative women. What an absolute nightmare. Never again.

 

Strictly 18 to 28 from now on.

 

27 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

what the heck is that supposed to mean, Hum-an? 

 

He's got a White Knight syndrome and doesn't like men getting it on with women.  To be fair, when I look at this 35 year old, I'm not keen on that idea.

11 hours ago, Cameroni said:

He's got a White Knight syndrome and doesn't like men getting it on with women. 

 

yeah well if you brag about your exploits on here, you will get monkeys on your back.

 

6 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

 

yeah well if you brag about your exploits on here, you will get monkeys on your back.

 

 

How am I bragging? I'm sharing my misery!

 

I have to feed the whale now. She's still in bed. With her deadly disease.

 

My God, she just slinked out in underwear to take a shower. What an unattractive overweight female. How did this specimen get past my firewall. Never, ever over 35. So bad.

17 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

How am I bragging? I'm sharing my misery!

 

I have to feed the whale now. She's still in bed. With her deadly disease.

 

My God, she just slinked out in underwear to take a shower. What an unattractive overweight female. How did this specimen get past my firewall. Never, ever over 35. So bad.

I've seen some 35+ Thai women I would love to get to know better, although not now as I have a girlfriend. they're definitely out there, but I'm guessing you might have been a little tipsy when you brought this one home? Well, now that's she there, you have two decisions. Buy a Covid test, and you have an excuse if she's positive. If not, just have fun with what she does have.. ..................I'll add this. I might have missed what you said earlier, but why 10 days?

Im attracted to a range of women. Id even do a 70yo if she's pleasant.

4 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

I've seen some 35+ Thai women I would love to get to know better, although not now as I have a girlfriend. they're definitely out there, but I'm guessing you might have been a little tipsy when you brought this one home? Well, now that's she there, you have two decisions. Buy a Covid test, or just don't kiss her. Make the best of it and enjoy her for what she does have, or play sick.

 

Tipsy? I was tricked. She put up photos from 2014. Then only showed her face on Line.

 

I asked her for her ID to book her flight. She refused. Now I know why! She's at least 7 years older than she claimed. Probably more.

 

Of course she can't help getting a virus just on the day she travels here. But she is definitely older and heavier than advertised.

 

2 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

Im attracted to a range of women. Id even do a 70yo if she's pleasant.

 

She's not pleasant. She's moaning about everything. A real complainer.

 

6 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

just don't kiss her.

 

I'm not kissing that thing. 

 

A quick pump and dump maybe, if I can stomach it. No pun intended.

Just now, Cameroni said:

 

Tipsy? I was tricked. She put up photos from 2014. Then only showed her face on Line.

 

I asked her for her ID to book her flight. She refused. Now I know why! She's at least 7 years older than she claimed. Probably more.

 

Of course she can't help getting a virus just on the day she travels here. But she is definitely older and heavier than advertised.

 

 

She's not pleasant. She's moaning about everything. A real complainer.

 

 

I'm not kissing that thing. 

 

A quick pump and dump maybe, if I can stomach it. No pun intended.

Ok, I went back and saw that. Yeah, just enjoy her for what she brought to the table. Who knows, you might fall in love after a few days. ...............Well, maybe not, as she's a complainer right off the bat.

5 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Ok, I went back and saw that. Yeah, just enjoy her for what she brought to the table. Who knows, you might fall in love after a few days. ...............Well, maybe not, as she's a complainer right off the bat.

 

She's sick, so she's constantly complaining. You know how women get when they have a small cold.

 

What a hellish 10 days I have in store. She's coughing and retching all over my living room now. And expects me to entertain her. Refuses to have breakfast and wants to go to a fancy restaurant.

 

Kill me now.