2 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

So they were raping me? 

 

That is true, I never thought about it that way, when I was young and very drunk and had sex it must have been rape as well.😄

 

Right, I will have to call 911.

11 hours ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

As I have said on other such topics before, I was talking to four farangs at a restaurant a few years ago, they though it was normal to buy their Thai wife a car, a house and send money to her parents, I laughed to myself at their stupidity, it was obvious they had married bar girls, the girls were all from Isan.

 

They had just bought long time sex in effect. 

 

They seem to think all Thai women are poor as that is the only group of women they had ever mixed with, they don't seem to know many Thai women with high paid jobs or businesses have their own money and are with their husband/partner because they are happy with them. 

 

Regarding 1000+ body count, that's only possible with hookers. No way a normal guy can pick up 1000 women in one lifetime, unless you're a rock star. 

 

Women will generally not date down.

So if a woman is running a successful business and making a lot of money, maybe she will also expect you to be a high status man. So these women are not necessarily easy to get for a lot of men. 

 

Also, regarding buying long term sex. You don't necessarily need to see it in such a negative / cynical light. Another way to look at it is the man is raising the woman's standard of living. And that's her only hope. Is that such a bad thing?

 

It's only a problem is the woman feels "trapped" there and doesn't want to be with the man and is only using him or screws him over later after the house is paid. 

 

 

5 minutes ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 

   A Judge would have to decide that 

No. No charges were ever laid.

 

1000×1000 baht.

 

No wonder many don't have funds for retirement extension.

6 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

Regarding 1000+ body count, that's only possible with hookers. No way a normal guy can pick up 1000 women in one lifetime, unless you're a rock star. 

When I was doing the door in London clubs most of us were pulling 3-5 per week.

4 x 52 weeks per year= 200

5 years gets you to 1,000

it is all about where you spend your time really. 
The drug dealers used to pull similar numbers. 

4 minutes ago, Celsius said:

1000×1000 baht.

 

No wonder many don't have funds for retirement extension.

 

So now we know why you left.

20 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

 

Regarding 1000+ body count, that's only possible with hookers. No way a normal guy can pick up 1000 women in one lifetime, unless you're a rock star. 

 

Women will generally not date down.

So if a woman is running a successful business and making a lot of money, maybe she will also expect you to be a high status man. So these women are not necessarily easy to get for a lot of men. 

 

Also, regarding buying long term sex. You don't necessarily need to see it in such a negative / cynical light. Another way to look at it is the man is raising the woman's standard of living. And that's her only hope. Is that such a bad thing?

 

It's only a problem is the woman feels "trapped" there and doesn't want to be with the man and is only using him or screws him over later after the house is paid. 

 

 

"Regarding 1000+ body count, that's only possible with hookers. No way a normal guy can pick up 1000 women in one lifetime, unless you're a rock star. "

 

That was my point as well.

 

 

"Women will generally not date down."

So if a woman is running a successful business and making a lot of money, maybe she will also expect you to be a high status man. So these women are not necessarily easy to get for a lot of men."

 

That was also my point, as I said these guys never get to meet such women.

 

"Also, regarding buying long term sex. You don't necessarily need to see it in such a negative / cynical light. Another way to look at it is the man is raising the woman's standard of living. And that's her only hope. Is that such a bad thing?"

 

I know of some Thai women who came from nothing and went on to create a business and became well off, they would never have considered the bar girl route. 

 

"Is that such a bad thing?"

 

It is bad for the stupid farangs as I have seen on very many occasions after loosing their house etc, as far as I have seen  the cases involved ex-bargirl wives.

 

"It's only a problem is the woman feels "trapped" there and doesn't want to be with the man and is only using him or screws him over later after the house is paid. "

 

That is usually the point where the farang is kicked out or the house is sold while he is away overseas.

 

 

 

8 minutes ago, CallumWK said:

 

So now we know why you left.

 

I was never on retirement extension, but nice try.

32 minutes ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

 

"It can be as simple as buying a dinner to prepare the way. Or giving a woman at a dance a car ride home."

You equate that to buying a woman as in bar girls, that sounds strange to me.

 

And what happens if  woman gives us a lift home or cooks for us at their expense, does that mean they bought us?

 

"Please don't tell me women rock up to you in the street asking to get laid, my BS meter gets too much use on ASEAN already."

 

They do, they are called bar girls, it must happen to all of us unless of course we look strange or scary. 

 

But I have a long term partner and so I do not go with other women, I could but I choose not to.

 

I do find it funny though when some guys do brag about how many women they have had and then it turns out they were bars girls, as I said any of us could do that. 

 

As I have said on other such topics before, I was talking to four farangs at a restaurant a few years ago, they though it was normal to buy their Thai wife a car, a house and send money to her parents, I laughed to myself at their stupidity, it was obvious they had married bar girls, the girls were all from Isan.

 

They had just bought long time sex in effect. 

 

They seem to think all Thai women are poor as that is the only group of women they had ever mixed with, they don't seem to know many Thai women with high paid jobs or businesses have their own money and are with their husband/partner because they are happy with them. 

The number of Thai women in high paid positions who would take up with a foreigner would be miniscule.

 

Personally, I have found Thai women in general, and my long term Thai GF, to be far less expensive than the women I left in Australia.

 

 

6 hours ago, spidermike007 said:

Discretion is the better part of valor, and for those of us with a certain level of dignity this is not something we would be discussing on a public forum. 

I would strongly assume your photo is not you.  So things are really already quite anonnymised via this, aren't they?

Just now, Celsius said:

 

I was never on retirement extension, but nice try.

 

A extension based on marriage also need money in the bank, though only half of what a retirement extension requires, so looks like you couldn't even make 500 x 500 baht.

 

Nice shoot, hope the hole in your foot heals

3 hours ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 Counts twice if its a family member 

I bow to your greater experience.

1 minute ago, Lacessit said:

The number of Thai women in high paid positions who would take up with a foreigner would be miniscule.

 

Personally, I have found Thai women in general, and my long term Thai GF, to be far less expensive than the women I left in Australia.

 

 

 

The cost to me with my long time Thai partner is zero.

 

She has her own income/properties and I have mine (but mine are sensibly in the UK).

 

But I suppose a lot of guys have ex bar girls as wives/partners as they are the only ones who would go with them.

 

But I don't understand why a lot of guys say their wives etc in Australia or the UK are expensive, as far as I have seen in my lifetimes is both the male and female work thus earning money, on many instances the women earn more than men.

21 minutes ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

 

The cost to me with my long time Thai partner is zero.

 

She has her own income/properties and I have mine (but mine are sensibly in the UK).

 

But I suppose a lot of guys have ex bar girls as wives/partners as they are the only ones who would go with them.

 

But I don't understand why a lot of guys say their wives etc in Australia or the UK are expensive, as far as I have seen in my lifetimes is both the male and female work thus earning money, on many instances the women earn more than men.

You  obviously never have had any experience with the family law system in the UK or Australia.

 

The average gender pay gap between men and women in Australia is 22%. My wife never worked, my defacto there earned about 30% of what I did.

 

If I had 1000 baht for every foreigner who claimed on Asean their Thai partner costs them nothing, or paid for them, I'd be driving the latest 7 series Beemer.

46 minutes ago, CallumWK said:

 

A extension based on marriage also need money in the bank, though only half of what a retirement extension requires, so looks like you couldn't even make 500 x 500 baht.

 

Nice shoot, hope the hole in your foot heals

 

This is how butthurt poors do math and reply.

 

I remember you questioning me if my wife had a PR and if she received a 400k baht severance package after working for 1 year.

 

Thanks for playing.

40 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

You  obviously never have had any experience with the family law system in the UK or Australia.

 

The average gender pay gap between men and women in Australia is 22%. My wife never worked, my defacto there earned about 30% of what I did.

 

If I had 1000 baht for every foreigner who claimed on Asean their Thai partner costs them nothing, or paid for them, I'd be driving the latest 7 series Beemer.

 

And if I had a 1000 baht for every farang who tells me on this forum or otherwise their Thai wives costs them an arm and a leg then I would be driving a Rolls Royce I suppose.

 

There are is seem so many stupid guys on this forum and in Thailand relating to this issue, I suppose most have no choice but to pay for their wives or girlfriends otherwise they would not have one, they then claim it is the norm as they know no better. 

 

What about Thai women who have their own business and money, I suppose most farangs have never come across any of them as that type of Thai woman would never go to those sort of bars. 

 

In fact the vast majority of Thai women do not drink, but that is more than made up for by the Isan bar girls who drink like fish. 😃

 

 

 

44 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

You  obviously never have had any experience with the family law system in the UK or Australia.

 

The average gender pay gap between men and women in Australia is 22%. My wife never worked, my defacto there earned about 30% of what I did.

 

If I had 1000 baht for every foreigner who claimed on Asean their Thai partner costs them nothing, or paid for them, I'd be driving the latest 7 series Beemer.

You said: "My wife never worked"

 

That is not the norm, most women around the Western world work unless they have very young children of course, many then go back to work later.

1 hour ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

 

But I don't understand why a lot of guys say their wives etc in Australia or the UK are expensive, as far as I have seen in my lifetimes is both the male and female work thus earning money, on many instances the women earn more than men.

 

Yes, it is one of those lies continuously perpetuated by Asean Now "community". My wife took this and that from me is the usual whine. Maybe she did because you were shaking up with the same kind of losers you are dating in Thailand....lazy, uneducated and utterly useless. The only skill they probably had was one for the streets.

1 hour ago, Lacessit said:

The average gender pay gap between men and women in Australia is 22%. My wife never worked,

And what was your long term Thai girlfriends job when you met her?

Is she still working or do you “take care” of her now?

1 hour ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

Right, I will have to call 911.

And contact #metoo

17 minutes ago, Celsius said:

 

Yes, it is one of those lies continuously perpetuated by Asean Now "community". My wife took this and that from me is the usual whine. Maybe she did because you were shaking up with the same kind of losers you are dating in Thailand....lazy, uneducated and utterly useless. The only skill they probably had was one for the streets.

 

Yes, I think a lot of guys are married or have Thai ex bar girls and so to justify the fact they have to pay for them and their family they make up stories about costly ex wives in the West, and some even say buying dinner for a woman is the same as paying for her.

 

If a woman buys dinner for us does that mean we have been bought? 😄

 

And yes in my experience many guys in Thailand seem to hang around with such girls, their friends do the same so in their own circle that is what they experience and think it is the norm.

17 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

And what was your long term Thai girlfriends job when you met her?

Is she still working or do you “take care” of her now?

 

Here we go, once I answer your question I will be accused of lying, but here goes any way.

 

I met her on her birthday 25 years ago, her friends invited me to the restaurant and that is where we met.

 

She had a tour company in Phuket, selling trips to James Bond Island for example, plus many other destinations, I think back in those days her income was around 100k baht a month from commissions. She worked for many years. 

 

She bought land in Phuket 30 years ago but did not use it at the time. Later on she built five houses on it and rented them out.

 

She also built four houses in the Nakhon Si Thammarat area when she is from.

 

So no she does not work anymore and lives off the rents.

 

I do not work anymore and live off my pensions and rent from property in the UK.

 

Now let the mud slinging start. 

 

 

3 minutes ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

 

Here we go, once I answer your question I will be accused of lying, but here goes any way.

 

I met her on her birthday 25 years ago, her friends invited me to the restaurant and that is where we met.

 

She had a tour company in Phuket, selling trips to James Bond Island for example, plus many other destinations, I think back in those days her income was around 100k baht a month from commissions. She worked for many years. 

 

She bought land in Phuket 30 years ago but did not use it at the time. Later on she built five houses in it and rented them out.

 

She also built four houses in the Nakhon Si Thammarat area when she is from.

 

So no she does not work anymore and lives off the rents.

 

I do not work anymore and live off my pensions and rent from property in the UK.

 

Now let the mud slinging start. 

 

 

I was asking Laccitit

1 minute ago, MalcolmB said:

I was asking Laccitit

 

Yes, I just realised that, sorry old chap, it won't happen again. 😀

14 minutes ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

Yes, I think a lot of guys are married or have Thai ex bar girls

A recent poll on this forum revealed about 50% of members met their wives/girlfriends in bars, massage, gogos or online.

Just now, JamesPhuket10 said:

 

Yes, I just realised that, sorry old chap, it won't happen again. 😀

No problem.

Do you know her body count?

51 minutes ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

What about Thai women who have their own business and money, I suppose most farangs have never come across any of them as that type of Thai woman would never go to those sort of bars. 

It is fair to say that the only Thai women who go to these bars are prostitutes.

Thai men don’t go to the farangs style beer bars open to the street either.
They are more discreet. 

17 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

No problem.

Do you know her body count?

 

No I do not, nor does any other man in the world know the body count of their wives/partners.

 

Nor would we know the bodycount of our sisters, nieces, mothers and grand mothers, do you know any of those body counts related to your family?

 

Plus I know of course women who have had boyfriends before we met them will not be virgins.

 

But they will not have the so called bodycount of a prostitute anywhere in the world as if the prostitute had not had thousands of blokes then they are in the wrong job.

 

In fact I have never heard of bodycount before in this respect. 

 

What surprises me is if a woman can sell her body in such a way instead of getting one of the millions of other jobs in Thailand then they will not think twice about screwing the stupid farang out of his money and wring him out to dry, don't these fools realise this.

 

But  it does make me laugh.

 

Wow this is the longest ever session I have had on this blog. I am supposed to be doing some code and test for an iPhone app, but it is OK to skive now and then I suppose.

 

 

More like hooker headcount....split your paid vs normal dating lays gentlemen.

54 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

A recent poll on this forum revealed about 50% of members met their wives/girlfriends in bars, massage, gogos or online.

 

And a lot of the rest of them said their partners were only the cashier in the bar so did not count in the bar girl tally. 🙂