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Thai dating apps just escorts?

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12 minutes ago, freedomnow said:

Pay anything beyond the flight and time they are there ?

Be honest now....

 

Girls who come here can expect a free flight, return, money for travel, ie food and taxi. Then when they're here of course we go to a market and if she wants a 150 baht ring, sure, a 250 baht dress, sure, but now I'm more circumspect after I had a virgin who insisted on pierced ears, earrings, salon treatment, shoes and so forth, without giving it up in the bedroom. As you can imainge now I'm more strict about what's spent during the time here.

 

Obviuosly i cover 60 baht noodle breakfast when she's here. Then it depends. If the girl is a really serious prospect looks, behaviour, character and otherwise then she may get a good restaurant, if she's clearly not, eg forgot to mention she has a child (this actually happened once), then 200 baht lunch it is,  

 

I have been hit up with "can you pay my back rent" "I need 10K for tuition" and of course the answer is always no.

 

Depending where she's from the flights cost 2000 or 4000 baht. Two days market, restaurant are about 18000 baht, sometimes a bit more. 

 

But of course if they are real standouts and make it into the Cameroni roster full time, then, yes, if they need help with rent, food, or other things, i may send 2000 or 4000 baht, up to 9000 a month. But this is only for girls who are meant to stay in the rotation and have proven their worth. For example one Filipina is a virgin who's only had me, and she's proven great potential in the bedroom. I will soon fly her in, despite having to get an Affidavit of Support notarised in Bangkok, flying to BGC, over all the cost will be 16000 Baht at least, probably more. But this is only for this girl.

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8 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Girls who come here can expect a free flight, return, money for travel, ie food and taxi. Then when they're here of course we go to a market and if she wants a 150 baht ring, sure, a 250 baht dress, sure, but now I'm more circumspect after I had a virgin who insisted on pierced ears, earrings, salon treatment, shoes and so forth, without giving it up in the bedroom. As you can imainge now I'm more strict about what's spent during the time here.

 

Obviuosly i cover 60 baht noodle breakfast when she's here. Then it depends. If the girl is a really serious prospect looks, behaviour, character and otherwise then she may get a good restaurant, if she's clearly not, eg forgot to mention she has a child (this actually happened once), then 200 baht lunch it is,  

 

I have been hit up with "can you pay my back rent" "I need 10K for tuition" and of course the answer is always no.

 

Depending where she's from the flights cost 2000 or 4000 baht. Two days market, restaurant are about 18000 baht, sometimes a bit more. 

 

But of course if they are real standouts and make it into the Cameroni roster full time, then, yes, if they need help with rent, food, or other things, i may send 2000 or 4000 baht, up to 9000 a month. But this is only for girls who are meant to stay in the rotation and have proven their worth. For example one Filipina is a virgin who's only had me, and she's proven great potential in the bedroom. I will soon fly her in, despite having to get an Affidavit of Support notarised in Bangkok, flying to BGC, over all the cost will be 16000 Baht at least, probably more. But this is only for this girl.

 

I wonder with all that shagging, taking them to the market, restaurants and shops, how you still find the time to post on this forum 24/7

3 minutes ago, CallumWK said:

 

I wonder with all that shagging, taking them to the market, restaurants and shops, how you still find the time to post on this forum 24/7

 

Well, obviously when I'm working and have to be at the laptop. It's how I pass the downtime.

 

 

1 hour ago, Prubangboy said:

They def love Chiang Mai tho. It will be an event they remember forever.

 

The nice part about CM is also that, since it's a holiday destination, I've met Russian and Chinese girls.

 

I'm hoping for a Korean soon.

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Some rite porkers in here. 

 

Next they'll be saying the women pay them. 

34 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

 

 

I'm hoping for a Korean soon.

That's a steep mountain to climb. Good luck.

 

If you're investing $600 a month for fly ins, and consistently coming up dry, it's either them or you.

 

I say both. Lower your standards (as I have -to no avail).

 

On the other hand, for $600, you get to live a spicy little movie with an unpredictable outcome. Your dream is my nightmare.

17 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

If you're investing $600 a month for fly ins, and consistently coming up dry, it's either them or you.

 

It happens more often than I would like. It's consternating how often an initially stellar looking prospect turns into someone less than ideal. 

 

Really, you have to sift through mud to get to diamonds. There is no other way. And boy, there's a lot of mud.

 

You know I did lower my standards, briefly, even flew in an over 30s gal and it was a total disaster. So from now on I'm sticking to ICP strictly.

 

Indeed outcome is uncertain. But you really never can tell with girls. I'm quite curious who will rise to the top from the four that are in the running now.

@ThreeCardMonte Are you still butthurt about having to P4P? I guess if you have nothing else to offer, you need to coerce them with money.

To be honest, I don't go for the Asian girls at all, but strictly European/Russian/Ukranian....24 to 35 years old. 

I like to have normal conversations, rather than to be stuck with a girl with whom I can barely communicate and have little to nothing in common.

Plus I don't need to impress. They either like me or they do not. So we'll go for local meals or eat in. I don't need to pay for their flights. Though saying that, one did ask me to buy her a flight so she could come to me. I declined to do so. Hotter than anything @Cameroni has paid for, I'm sure. But I said no. I already met her once and whilst she is a stunner, I felt that she was also a bit strange. She forgot my birthday. I wasn't impressed. I think I spent a total of 100 baht on a shared mango and sticky rice. We ate from the same plate. 

Money really doesn't enter the equation. But for yourself and @Cameroni, it seems an integral part of the deal. Just paying to have a companion. 

I have not ever used a dating app nor am I particularly interested in the local women. I like a woman with breasts and some curves.

So, I'll bow out since this isn't the thread for me. Enjoy.

3 hours ago, ThreeCardMonte said:

 Bought a new Louis Vuitton wallet today.  My third one.

 

Because I can.  Don’t hate me.  

Yes,but copies are very very cheap in Thailand.

1 hour ago, DonniePeverley said:

Some rite porkers in here. 

 

Next they'll be saying the women pay them. 

Is that your current photo or an old one ? How old are you approximately ?

@JackGats What?

Without wanting to get personal...it's very clear that certain characters are simply not attractive...at all. I'm not talking about looks, but their views and ways of communicating verge on the repugnant. This on a personal level. Yet these males imagine that they are attractive to women, perhaps due to a lifestyle based on the finance they can provide. No...these people are just repugnant. Only supported by equally repugnant characters.  I cannot overstate this. These are not likeable people. Not to man, woman nor beast.

Money and BS is the only thing they can use to attract a certain kind of woman and because of this, they imagine all women are the same. 

Perhaps just my opinion...

@ThreeCardMonte In answer to your question of whether I borrow money from my girls... The truth is that I rarely carry any money at all when we go out. Perhaps a few hundred baht. They usually pay for everything. I reimburse them afterwards, Often they'll say it's their treat to me, but I send it back to them anyway. It's the thought that counts.

I needed 75k the other day and since I don't even have an ATM card, a girl sent it to me.

The women you know don't give a 💩 about you. You are just a money tree to them. 

Mine are real relationships. Give and take, Free flowing and full trust. Yours seems just a sponsorship, a one way street.

You lot seem totally dysfunctional and out of touch with humanity.

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3 hours ago, JakeC said:

@ThreeCardMonte Are you still butthurt about having to P4P? I guess if you have nothing else to offer, you need to coerce them with money.

To be honest, I don't go for the Asian girls at all, but strictly European/Russian/Ukranian....24 to 35 years old. 

I like to have normal conversations, rather than to be stuck with a girl with whom I can barely communicate and have little to nothing in common.

Plus I don't need to impress. They either like me or they do not. So we'll go for local meals or eat in. I don't need to pay for their flights. Though saying that, one did ask me to buy her a flight so she could come to me. I declined to do so. Hotter than anything @Cameroni has paid for, I'm sure. But I said no. I already met her once and whilst she is a stunner, I felt that she was also a bit strange. She forgot my birthday. I wasn't impressed. I think I spent a total of 100 baht on a shared mango and sticky rice. We ate from the same plate. 

Money really doesn't enter the equation. But for yourself and @Cameroni, it seems an integral part of the deal. Just paying to have a companion. 

I have not ever used a dating app nor am I particularly interested in the local women. I like a woman with breasts and some curves.

So, I'll bow out since this isn't the thread for me. Enjoy.


WTF!  Did PEA turn off your electricity to your fan room for lack of payment?

 

None of your ladies offered you a loan?  
 

Hate to see a grown man sweat to death so let me know if you need a loan.  I will need some collateral though.  Any man who mooches off a TG can’t be trusted.

 

Do you own a motorbike in your name? That may work. Hopefully you paid for that yourself.

 

Keep your long winded but void of any substance posts coming.  You’re entertaining.

3 hours ago, theshu25 said:

Yes,but copies are very very cheap in Thailand.


That’s nice.  Shop till you drop .

On 8/24/2025 at 11:28 PM, Lorry said:

I know a girl who makes about 100,000 monthly.  Her American boyfriend lives off her. When he needed a heart operation, she got the bank loan of 1m to pay for it - he was "self-insured" i.e. not insured. 

 

Another girl I know pays for her German guy. Yes, they have been married for 20 or 30 years - she is the breadwinner.

Yes... 
There are also flying fish, but they're not the majority of the species. 
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2 hours ago, JakeC said:

@ThreeCardMonte In answer to your question of whether I borrow money from my girls... The truth is that I rarely carry any money at all when we go out. Perhaps a few hundred baht. They usually pay for everything. I reimburse them afterwards, Often they'll say it's their treat to me, but I send it back to them anyway. It's the thought that counts.

I needed 75k the other day and since I don't even have an ATM card, a girl sent it to me.

The women you know don't give a 💩 about you. You are just a money tree to them. 

Mine are real relationships. Give and take, Free flowing and full trust. Yours seems just a sponsorship, a one way street.

You lot seem totally dysfunctional and out of touch with humanity.


You only carry a hundred baht because that’s all you got.  A sign of a broke loser 


I’ll give you credit on one characteristic. You’re a good CON.    Telemarketing sales your background aka BOILER ROOMS?  The profession of a loser.
 

You don’t have 75k baht to your name or even access to an ATM card?   Why are you always broke and need to borrow of off  Thai women?   The sign of a broke loser.


You didn’t save or invest during your Boiler Room days let alone build tenure for any type of a pension.  Drifting from one dead end job to the next.  If you worked at all.

 I suspect you have been a recipient of welfare or the dole most of your life  The sign of a loser.

 

It’s crystal clear now why you’re jealous of me and others with a few quid /bucks to spend.  

 

Top of the line sunglasses, clothing/ business class airfare/ residences in several countries.   But most of all we don’t have to mooch money off of Thais women.  

 

Meanwhile you have to “borrow “. money off Thais.  Most likely you never pay them back.  Keep wearing your sweat stained worn out clothing from the clearance rack at Mikes Mall and mooching for your 80 baht bowl street food.

 

You must be an overstayer to boot.


The only dysfunctional loser I see is YOU.

 

 


 

 

 

 

10 hours ago, ThreeCardMonte said:


Are/were you offended?

Not at all. Just take it as free education.

The sad thing is dating has become like sales. It's all about numbes and pipeline.

 

I used to be the same as everyone else, just have one woman at a time. But if you were to do that in today's dating environment, focus on dating one woman you'd really be a fool. That's certainly not what the girls are doing.

 

And the girls are the masters of dating. We need to learn from them. What they do is have several guys on the go at the same time. They build pipeline. They have back up plans. 

 

Given that girls who seemed initially hyper enthusiastic can turn out to be bad prospects for a variety of reasons means that even if you are looking for just one good partner,  you effectively have to become a slut, like the girls.

 

If you don't look at the numbers, if you don't build pipeline, you'll never win this game.

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9 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

The sad thing is dating has become like sales. It's all about numbes and pipeline.

 

I used to be the same as everyone else, just have one woman at a time. But if you were to do that in today's dating environment, focus on dating one woman you'd really be a fool. That's certainly not what the girls are doing.

 

And the girls are the masters of dating. We need to learn from them. What they do is have several guys on the go at the same time. They build pipeline. They have back up plans. 

 

Given that girls who seemed initially hyper enthusiastic can turn out to be bad prospects for a variety of reasons means that even if you are looking for just one good partner,  you effectively have to become a slut, like the girls.

 

If you don't look at the numbers, if you don't build pipeline, you'll never win this game.

The online dating is now really in a world of its own. Far more likely to find a good relationship just meeting someone in public. My current observation is that the pool online to choose from isnt that big. Its just the same girls that everyone else has used

@ThreeCardMonte 

My posts contain reality. Your posts are totally made up or just full of ugly statements, that obviously match with your character.

 

Thanks for confirming that you don't have a woman who actually loves you or even likes you. Likely no one can. Thai dating apps... for life's misfits😊 

9 minutes ago, angryguy said:

The online dating is now really in a world of its own. Far more likely to find a good relationship just meeting someone in public. My current observation is that the pool online to choose from isnt that big. Its just the same girls that everyone else has used

 

Indeed online dating suggests an ocean of potential mates, which is clearly not the case. It creates a false impression. Particularly for a man, you will never have the optionality a woman enjoys, no matter how rich, good looking or even famous you are.

 

Even if you were to meet a woman offline, she would still enjoy this optionality and would probably have several men on the go at the same time, if she's dating. That's how women date. It was a shock to find out, but women's promiscuity is real. They just have all the options.

14 minutes ago, JakeC said:

@ThreeCardMonte 

My posts contain reality. Your posts are totally made up or just full of ugly statements, that obviously match with your character.

 

Thanks for confirming that you don't have a woman who actually loves you or even likes you. Likely no one can. Thai dating apps... for life's misfits😊 


My posts contain reality”

 

I agree.  You’re broke/skint.  
 

You need to have Thai women pay for your meals.


You don’t have 75k baht to your name.  You have to borrow from a Thai woman.  Pathetic.

 

Past your prime and no way to generate more income for yourself so there is NO NEED to be dependent on a Thai woman for money.


And you act like it’s bragging rights.  
 

For any newcomers coming to Thailand, JakeC life is not the lifestyle to follow.

 

On 8/24/2025 at 10:55 PM, ThreeCardMonte said:


legit woman" does not accept money”

 

Who are you trying to fool.

 

They ALL accept money.

 

Hookers:  Up front.  You know exactly what the conditions are.

 

Legit women:  Marriage.  The Long Con.

 

They all accept money 

I actually know some foreigners whose rich gf pay their rent and bills. So obviously those ones aren't looking for money. And these foreign guys don't have much future financial prospects but their girlfriends are interested in marrying them. It appears to be mainly because wealthy professional women in their 30s find it difficult to find a guy willing to settle down with them and start a family. 

9 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

 

 

Indeed outcome is uncertain. But you really never can tell with girls. I'm quite curious who will rise to the top from the four that are in the running now.

Yeah, this was me on Tinder. I always had one at the top who I was hoping for, one in the middle who had no texting game and was sliding down the pole, and then two at the bottom who I should just delete, but liked seeing their smiling faces in my inbox.

 

The juice, the squeeze, not worth it.

43 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

I That's how women date. It was a shock to find out, but women's promiscuity is real. They just have all the options.

Would you be any diff if the luck was more on your side? If I had more options, I too would be more picky. I am picky anyway. 

 

I get about a 50% match rate to anyone I swipe right on (in the less popular 58+ cohort). So call it 50 left swipes a day and maybe 2 right swipes a day.

 

That means about 8 to text with for a while in a given week. 4 will just be non english speaking dead wood. 2 will ghost. One I will be moderately into enough to suggest a pub meal.  The other one will be someone that I just can't talk myself into.

 

What is the qualification process to get that plane ticket? For a pub green curry, they only have to be able to converse a bit, not just toss back their own interview questions.

 

I accept that 3/4's of the dates are going to a one and done. So that means about a year spent to cruise through a dozen possible pre-vetted candidates, which would likely yield up a reasonable partner.

 

It's too much work and psychic energy. And I want to travel and do self-development. And I like my life.

 

But I have 2 friends who viewed it as job like above and are in love in decent relationships. Mutual attraction is always hard to come by, and no guarantee of anything.

 

And the pace inherent in apps dating means you have to decide fast. I realized I don't  want to do that process. Which  is a shame, because it really is the only game in town these days.

On 8/24/2025 at 9:13 PM, ThreeCardMonte said:


You looking for love, get a 🐕 dog

 

 

All these apps have one thing in common you can select what you want and eliminate ladyboys and lady looking for another lady.

 

As t them all prostitutes i will assume you are dealing with a younger age group I think you might want to rething what you are posting.

 

I have talked to a lot of ladies on sites and they all say the same thing.  

 

I am tired of guys that are looking for holiday girl or looking for ONS.  I also hate the guys that send me dick pics.

 

I have met a lot of great people on sites none of them prostitutes.  However, like any person if you are expecting them to leave their jobs or stop working then they will need money to pay rent.

 

Check what you are posting.  

 

 

37 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

Would you be any diff if the luck was more on your side? If I had more options, I too would be more picky. I am picky anyway. 

 

I get about a 50% match rate to anyone I swipe right on (in the less popular 58+ cohort). So call it 50 left swipes a day and maybe 2 right swipes a day.

 

That means about 8 to text with for a while in a given week. 4 will just be non english speaking dead wood. 2 will ghost. One I will be moderately into enough to suggest a pub meal.  The other one will be someone that I just can't talk myself into.

 

What is the qualification process to get that plane ticket? For a pub green curry, they only have to be able to converse a bit, not just toss back their own interview questions.

 

I accept that 3/4's of the dates are going to a one and done. So that means about a year spent to cruise through a dozen possible pre-vetted candidates, which would likely yield up a reasonable partner.

 

It's too much work and psychic energy. And I want to travel and do self-development. And I like my life.

 

But I have 2 friends who viewed it as job like above and are in love in decent relationships. Mutual attraction is always hard to come by, and no guarantee of anything.

 

And the pace inherent in apps dating means you have to decide fast. I realized I don't  want to do that process. Which  is a shame, because it really is the only game in town these days.

 

As always some excellent points. You really do have to decide fast. Timing is very important. I had a Filipina whom I strung along for 6 years, without committing fully. Obviously in the end she bailed. To this day I think of this one that got away. So yes, timing is quite crucial. You can't drag it out too long.

 

I also would say I'm extremely picky, usually, though not always. It starts with looks of course. If she's over 55 kilos she's already outside Tier 1. If she's under 160, she's outside Tier 1.  I'm looking for 8s, 9s and 10s.

 

If she has tattoos, she's out. Like I said, Pattaya, Patong or Ko Samui, Ko Phangan and places like this, if she lives there, she's out.

 

Then I look at the photos. This is most important. If she only put up 1 photo, she's out, because she's lazy, a fraud or not serious.  If her photos show the Kremlin, Eiffel Towerr, or Dubai any foreign country that is not in Asia, she's out, as she's either been spoiled and pumped by a foreigner, or is a whore.

 

Obviously if the photos are in a bar, playing pool, etc, its another easy way to weed out sex workers. If she puts up nightlife pics, she's out, not my lifestyle anymore.

 

If she puts up only face pics, she's out as she's most likely fat. She has to put up face and body pics.

 

Age, I used to look for 18 to 25, but now am restricting to 18 to 23, as I have too many girls to handle already. 

 

Then the text. This is also important. If she writes she wants a man to support her, she's out, only wants financial aid. If she writes "no sex talk", obviously she's out, you don't want a prude. If her text is generally aggressive, boss bitch or rude, I don't even bother with her.

 

So basically the girl who gets the ticket has passed the above tests, and also subsequent video call, texting vetting where I go into more detail with her. Ask about her family, exes, job, and generally gauge her interest. If it's all satisfactory she can hop on a plane.

 

Of course, sometimes, when I see a girl who writes that she's bisexual, into Shibari and BDSM, I may contact her regardless of any of the above, just for a quick encounter, but for a serious candidate the above applies. 

 

Needless to say, even wiith those stringent criteria, it's still a process to keep vetting and many don't make it at some point later.

 

Of course, if I was more fortunate, and I'd meet a 10, that's not had many foreigners, not many thais, pumping her, who can speak good English, comes from a good family, has good character and is great in bed, then yes, it would change everything. But I've not found such a unicorn as yet. So I have to continue wading through the mud.

 

But I really think you make your own luck. With the number of girls I'm seeing eventually a good candidate will come through. Just a matter of time.

 

 

What a sad character...ordering up girls like Grab Food and hoping to find someone who will actually love and respect him. There is no chance @Cameroni They are interviewing for a job and if a better prospect comes along, they will bail. Just like before. You just don't have what it takes. You'll be constantly checking her phone.

It's so obvious. These girls don't ever spend a single baht on you, because you are their employer, not their life partner.

You are obviously acting like a kid in a candy store because likely in real life you couldn't even pick up fleas. 😊

You are just the ATM and you know it. Dangling the prospect of a regular income to the girls. One day you are going to have to be honest with yourself and decide that you will just have to pay the going rate to keep someone around and you'll just have to admit that you are lonely. Not having a partner or even person around that you can fully trust is a real rollercoaster ride. "Loving without trusting, you get frostbite and sunstroke" Enjoy.

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12 hours ago, JakeC said:

So, I'll bow out since this isn't the thread for me. Enjoy.

 

 

12 hours ago????....and still going at it.....5555

2 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

 

 

Of course, sometimes, when I see a girl who writes that she's bisexual, into Shibari and BDSM, I may contact her regardless of any of the above, just for a quick encounter, but for a serious candidate the above applies. 

 

wcan speak good English, comes from a good family, has good character and is great in bed, then yes, it would change everything. But I've not found such a unicorn as yet. So I have to continue wading through the mud.

 

But I really think you make your own luck. With the number of girls I'm seeing eventually a good candidate will come through. Just a matter of time.

 

 

Man, I am trying to manifest from the universe a Shibari Korean 9 for you.

 

The whole good girl patriarchy thing here, plus curiosity and artiness not exactly being encouraged in women, presents a highl barrier to kinky or even horny hot sex. The high libido trad wife is a contradiction in terms.

 

So yeah, if I fell in with one of those unicorns, it would change everything for me too.

 

Is it worth the mud-wading and the hopium it takes to keep staggering on?

 

Our difference may be down our age diff. I have no time left for the dance of 7 veils.

 

But yeah, you will eventually evolve your process and then as you say, make your own luck,

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