28 minutes ago, FellforitBkk said:

Just to make the point: this post is not for older men over 60's etc. they will mostly be more forgiving and they plan to move to Thailand to live with the girl. Older men probably wont care as much.

This post is maily for younger folks  (30-59) to not make the mistake of finding someone and attempting to take them to your own country.

You need to invest years before you do that.

 

 

This should be on a poster at arrivals at Suvarnabhumi airport.

14 hours ago, FellforitBkk said:

Just to make the point: this post is not for older men over 60's etc. they will mostly be more forgiving and they plan to move to Thailand to live with the girl. Older men probably wont care as much.

This post is maily for younger folks  (30-59) to not make the mistake of finding someone and attempting to take them to your own country.

You need to invest years before you do that.

I could not agree more, time is our ally, not their ally and that's one of the reasons why they are often times pushing the timetable. We need to push back, any man with self-respect and self-esteem is just not going to allow himself to fall for the games. 

 

The problem is that many men come here and they're desperately vulnerable on an emotional level, the women know that, and some of them really take advantage of that, and the number of tragic stories I've heard is countless. 

10 hours ago, spidermike007 said:

I could not agree more, time is our ally, not their ally and that's one of the reasons why they are often times pushing the timetable. We need to push back, any man with self-respect and self-esteem is just not going to allow himself to fall for the games. 

 

The problem is that many men come here and they're desperately vulnerable on an emotional level, the women know that, and some of them really take advantage of that, and the number of tragic stories I've heard is countless. 

Warning About Thailand Girl Scams (My Experience)

I think the girls are getting smarter (the girls, not the guys). Looking back, I realize I fell for it—even though she never directly asked me for anything.

She told me her ex-boyfriend from Taiwan sends money each month for her kids, so she was fine. But then things started happening:

1. Cat Emergency
   She said her cat had an emergency because the ex hadn’t sent money yet. I told her I don’t send money online, but I could help when I came to Thailand. She said “okay” and then sent me a picture of her dead cat.

2. Daughter in Trouble
   She said her daughter got caught in some scam and had to pay 20,000 baht. She sent me a picture of herself and her daughter at the police station—but never asked me for help.

3. Broken Air Conditioner
   She sent me photos of herself sweating, saying her AC was broken—but didn’t ask me for money.

4. Broken Water Heater
   She mentioned her kids couldn’t shower anymore because the water heater was broken—but again, didn’t ask for help.

5. Watermelon Business Scam
   She told me she and a friend were scammed for $5,000 while selling watermelons. She said, “Don’t worry, I can handle it,” and didn’t ask me for money.

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This all happened between April and June 2025. There are more examples, but I wanted to share these to show how I fell into the trap of wanting to be the “white knight” to rescue my supposed true love.

I helped her with situations 2, 3, 4, and 5, but not with the cat story (#1). Ironically, when she said “don’t worry, I don’t need help”, that’s exactly when I ended up offering money.

I’m too embarrassed to admit how much I gave her in just five months, but let’s just say the $5,000 wasn’t all of it.

6 minutes ago, FellforitBkk said:

Warning About Thailand Girl Scams (My Experience)

I think the girls are getting smarter (the girls, not the guys). Looking back, I realize I fell for it—even though she never directly asked me for anything.

She told me her ex-boyfriend from Taiwan sends money each month for her kids, so she was fine. But then things started happening:

1. Cat Emergency
   She said her cat had an emergency because the ex hadn’t sent money yet. I told her I don’t send money online, but I could help when I came to Thailand. She said “okay” and then sent me a picture of her dead cat.

2. Daughter in Trouble
   She said her daughter got caught in some scam and had to pay 20,000 baht. She sent me a picture of herself and her daughter at the police station—but never asked me for help.

3. Broken Air Conditioner
   She sent me photos of herself sweating, saying her AC was broken—but didn’t ask me for money.

4. Broken Water Heater
   She mentioned her kids couldn’t shower anymore because the water heater was broken—but again, didn’t ask for help.

5. Watermelon Business Scam
   She told me she and a friend were scammed for $5,000 while selling watermelons. She said, “Don’t worry, I can handle it,” and didn’t ask me for money.

---

This all happened between April and June 2025. There are more examples, but I wanted to share these to show how I fell into the trap of wanting to be the “white knight” to rescue my supposed true love.

I helped her with situations 2, 3, 4, and 5, but not with the cat story (#1). Ironically, when she said “don’t worry, I don’t need help”, that’s exactly when I ended up offering money.

I’m too embarrassed to admit how much I gave her in just five months, but let’s just say the $5,000 wasn’t all of it.

 

Check in the mirror.........see if there's anything tattooed on your forehead.

Just now, Will B Good said:

 

Check in the mirror.........see if there's anything tattooed on your forehead.

Yup : "Dummy" I see it now

14 hours ago, FellforitBkk said:

Yup : "Dummy" I see it now

 

Cheers for taking that in a good spirited way.

On 9/20/2025 at 9:34 PM, FellforitBkk said:

Warning About Thailand Girl Scams (My Experience)

I think the girls are getting smarter (the girls, not the guys). Looking back, I realize I fell for it—even though she never directly asked me for anything.

She told me her ex-boyfriend from Taiwan sends money each month for her kids, so she was fine. But then things started happening:

1. Cat Emergency
   She said her cat had an emergency because the ex hadn’t sent money yet. I told her I don’t send money online, but I could help when I came to Thailand. She said “okay” and then sent me a picture of her dead cat.

2. Daughter in Trouble
   She said her daughter got caught in some scam and had to pay 20,000 baht. She sent me a picture of herself and her daughter at the police station—but never asked me for help.

3. Broken Air Conditioner
   She sent me photos of herself sweating, saying her AC was broken—but didn’t ask me for money.

4. Broken Water Heater
   She mentioned her kids couldn’t shower anymore because the water heater was broken—but again, didn’t ask for help.

5. Watermelon Business Scam
   She told me she and a friend were scammed for $5,000 while selling watermelons. She said, “Don’t worry, I can handle it,” and didn’t ask me for money.

---

This all happened between April and June 2025. There are more examples, but I wanted to share these to show how I fell into the trap of wanting to be the “white knight” to rescue my supposed true love.

I helped her with situations 2, 3, 4, and 5, but not with the cat story (#1). Ironically, when she said “don’t worry, I don’t need help”, that’s exactly when I ended up offering money.

I’m too embarrassed to admit how much I gave her in just five months, but let’s just say the $5,000 wasn’t all of it.

 

Where and under what circumstances did you meet her?

19 hours ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

 

Where and under what circumstances did you meet her?

Thai Friendly she said she has not met anyone else before and she was just attracted to me because I looked like a "good guy"  🤪