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What's he deal with Thai people and ghosting ?

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Frankly, I'm just sick and tired of trying to figure out what might be in the Thai mind. It's just exhausting. After 16 years I am finally content to retreat to my home in the village where there is peace and order and just leave all the chaotic noise on the outside. What is the big urgency about assimilating into the culture? I try my best to minimize any interaction with Thais because it nearly always winds up with my being "triggered". We all have to find our path to peace in this world, and for the most part, I have found mine. I am happily married and have a great relationship with my two adult step kids and their spouses. That is the extent of my "social foundation", and that is enough for me. To each his own! 

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  • A disgusting comment! Hopefully the Thai people will go together and sue you for defamation, as you deserve it.

  • Possibly avoiding confrontation, or did not really want to do the planned activity in the first place - and too shy to say so.

  • It's a real problem. In Thailand you always have to confirm the day before.   <removed>    

On 12/11/2025 at 4:22 PM, Aurelien said:

Aka not following through with plans previously verbally made ...  Be it girlfriends / dates or friends... There seem to be this tendency of 'quieltly ghosting' rather than speaking simply and directly to the person. 

You need help to answer this? Most people prefer to avoid confrontation. Ghosting means they are not interested or they have changed their mind, and it saves having to tell you directly. There is nothing specifically Thai about this behaviour. It's actually a polite way of saying no.

On 12/11/2025 at 5:28 PM, Cameroni said:

 

It's a real problem. In Thailand you always have to confirm the day before.

 

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I don't care who it is, if the person I've arranged to meet doesn't confirm the day before or on the morning of our meeting, or, if I haven't already confirmed, then I assume they've forgotten about it, or had something else come up that is more important, or more fun.

I say yes to just about every request to meet (from friends), but I never check if I'm actual available on that day/time; and if the meeting is too far into the future (like 2 weeks away), I'm almost 100% going to forget, or something more fun is going to come up. 

 

2 minutes ago, Freddy42OZ said:



I don't care who it is, if the person I've arranged to meet doesn't confirm the day before or on the morning of our meeting, or, if I haven't already confirmed, then I assume they've forgotten about it, or had something else come up that is more important, or more fun.

I say yes to just about every request to meet (from friends), but I never check if I'm actual available on that day/time; and if the meeting is too far into the future (like 2 weeks away), I'm almost 100% going to forget, or something more fun is going to come up. 

 

 

Yah, you really need to confirm dates in Thailand. If you don't, they will actually do it, as they too will have experienced people not showing up for a date.

 

It is more of a problem here.

2 hours ago, Freddy42OZ said:

I don't care who it is, if the person I've arranged to meet doesn't confirm the day before or on the morning of our meeting, or, if I haven't already confirmed, then I assume they've forgotten about it, or had something else come up that is more important, or more fun.

I also want a confirmation, and I tell them if they are ten minutes late I'll assume they're not coming and will leave without them. Back in my college days if the teacher was ten minutes late, students could leave with no negative consequences...that still works for me.

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