9 minutes ago, wil iam not said:

Silly answer Rocky. Do you actually have the Recent Viewers page open side by side with the main posting page, and look to see if the two co-ordinate?

Scroll down the page. It lists who is viewing the topic. If there's only 1 other name for 2 minutes either side of an emoji it's him. If there are 3,4,5 names but the same common name 7 days it is him. Not rocket science. You can tell by the previous negative comments in the weeks prior anyway.

7 minutes ago, BilllyGOAT said:

Don't think you are his type, Susan, or anyone's type for that matter. That's why you can't find a partner. So don't get your hopes up.

Obviously you don't have a gf. Who would date a weirdo like you?

1 minute ago, Rockyroad said:

Scroll down the page. It lists who is viewing the topic. If there's only 1 other name for 2 minutes either side of an emoji it's him. If there are 3,4,5 names but the same common name 7 days it is him. Not rocket science. You can tell by the previous negative comments in the weeks prior anyway.

Oh really?

1 minute ago, novacova said:

Oh really?

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30 minutes ago, wil iam not said:

Well spotted. And yes, it is 6.5% ABV, and only Bht 54 a can. Federbrau is my second choice.

20 minutes ago, Off Piste said:

Heading to Rimping this evening for a small sample, twice the power of my Singha lights...........

Quite a few 7/11 stock Tapper but not all. A couple of branches near Thapae Gate @Off Piste stock it. I've never looked in Rimping.

No strong aftertaste which you sometimes get with the higher ABV beers so a couple of cans in the evening watching a movie is perfect.

1 minute ago, BilllyGOAT said:

Not to mention the boredom means you end up putting in a lot less effort, so it becomes perfunctory with an emphasis on getting it over with. Not a great situation for either party.

I agree for 'small age gap' relationships common in the West, but the asymmetric relationships more common in Thailand can change this dynamic.

47 minutes ago, wil iam not said:

I see you quote my name. For your info, AN is open whenever my PC is turned on, which is almost always. So how can you see if it is me, or another member, as there is no time connected to the emoji click.

8 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

Sorted. Look above.

Yes I do apologise for not noticing the Blue heart emoji. It still does not identify who put it there.

1 minute ago, BilllyGOAT said:

Not to mention the boredom means you end up putting in a lot less effort, so it becomes perfunctory with an emphasis on getting it over with. Not a great situation for either party.

It depends on how long you can sustain the crush factor.

For many, not long. It’s down to your temprement.

In week 16, my GF sexts me a handful of times a day. We’re both willing to put the work into it to keep the big balloon inflated.

16 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

Probably more fun at times but it is over quick. A pussy pie after a movie is pretty good.

Yeah I'm sure, not done that for a while because like i say it gets boring with a wife and girlfriend. A similar experience can be had with thaifriendly girls, one girl who came over really liked Ace Ventura, hadn't seen it before, their humour

1 minute ago, Rockyroad said:

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Why isn’t novacova on the list?

6 minutes ago, BilllyGOAT said:

Not to mention the boredom means you end up putting in a lot less effort, so it becomes perfunctory with an emphasis on getting it over with. Not a great situation for either party.

Very true, you probably just become friends where sex is a chore, i better idea keep girls you like as friends and have sex with the others

Edited May 23May 23 by scubascuba3

2 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

Probably less than 10k,

Less than 10K for 10 STs? That's impressive. Less than 1K per unit. Those are nineties prices. Well done!

1 minute ago, Kinnock said:

I agree for 'small age gap' relationships common in the West, but the asymmetric relationships more common in Thailand can change this dynamic.

Having a gf to travel with has advantages. You pay the Thai price on things instead of the farang price.

1 minute ago, wil iam not said:

Yes I do apologise for not noticing the Blue heart emoji. It still does not identify who put it there.

You can always just assume the blue heart is from me.

Specifically, do you have any pictures of your wife in a two piece bathing suit?

6 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

In week 16, my GF sexts me a handful of times a day.

You're still in the honeymoon phase. Talk to me in another 5 years, that's often the rapid drop off point, assuming you're still firing regularly at 78.

3 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

Having a gf to travel with has advantages. You pay the Thai price on things instead of the farang price.

Those 10 baht coconut savings really add up.

But then there’s her daily holiday girlfriend rate

So call it 2000 by a day to get the cheap coconut.

And he wonders why he’s a near hobo, scratching around for a “value” hut.

1 minute ago, BilllyGOAT said:

You're still in the honeymoon phase. Talk to me in another 5 years, that's often the rapid drop off point, assuming you're still firing regularly at 78.

Trade her in for a new one. Gfs are like cars. Only good for 5 to 10 years.

6 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

Very true, you probably just become friends where sex is a chore, i better idea keep girls you like as friends and have sex with the others

Fully agree. I've even been hassled in the past for not keeping up with my bedroom chores. Done with that now.

People say that P4P sex lacks intimacy because it's commercial, which often is the case, but so does GF sex once you've done it every which way with the same partner a few hundred times. After a few years it already starts showing signs of becoming a slog.

Edited May 23May 23 by BilllyGOAT

2 minutes ago, BilllyGOAT said:

You're still in the honeymoon phase. Talk to me in another 5 years, that's often the rapid drop off point, assuming you're still firing regularly at 78.

Bleak? Def.

Thanks for reminding me to front load the sex.

she just me an emoji of a kneeling woman. And she doesn’t do yoga.

Good signal or bad?

Or just let Wil I Am’s hot wife decide?

1 minute ago, Prubangboy said:

Those 10 baht coconut savings really add up.

But then there’s her daily holiday girlfriend rate

So call it 2000 by a day to get the cheap coconut.

And he wonders why he’s a near hobo, scratching around for a “value” hut.

I work in the west. Make $140 an hour. Thailand is just a playground.

Not tied down by visas or gf. I could find a new one in 2 weeks.

16 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

Do you have any pictures of your wife in a bathing suit?

15 minutes ago, Kinnock said:

I agree for 'small age gap' relationships common in the West, but the asymmetric relationships more common in Thailand can change this dynamic.

I’m not convinced. A lot of relationships in Asia involve an age gap that favors the man, and most of them still follow the same trajectory over time. One of the biggest libido killers is moving in together and constantly being around each other. Sharing space means being exposed to all the unglamorous realities of daily life, bad breath in the morning, the odor of bodily functions, menstruation cycles, all of it. Not trying to be crude, just realistic.

In my view, the best way to keep things exciting longer is to maintain some space and see each other no more than a few times a week and avoiding all those inglorious moments, rather than being together nonstop.

Edited May 23May 23 by BilllyGOAT

1 hour ago, Kinnock said:

It shows who's browsing that particular thread, not who's online.

The mods can see who is giving negative responses, and if you think you have a stalker, they can check it for you.

15 minutes ago, wil iam not said:

I see your hair colouring is natural.

13 hours ago, Gary The Git said:

The absolute mad bit is that most foreign blokes in Thailand, living in houses they paid for out of their own pocket, do not actually own the bloody things.

Yes, I my case I paid to have OUR house built, 14 years ago, and I enjoy living here. I shall probably kick it before her, so it will be hers anyway.

1 hour ago, scubascuba3 said:

The more you pay the more they dislike you, some guys paying their fake wives and girlfriends 50k-100k.

Sometimes it's once only, other times twice, others multiple times, i go with the flow, the girls get jealous if i pick someone else, stupid I know, not unusual for it to lead to fights.

I don't think paying an upcharge makes them into you, only in a fake way, they either like you or they don't

You should charge them, ask them to pay you and take the woman who is willing to pay the most ?

2 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

I see your hair colouring is natural.

No, can you not tell that it came out of a bottle? That applies to both of us.

At least I still have a good headfull.

Edited May 23May 23 by wil iam not

17 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

Trade her in for a new one. Gfs are like cars. Only good for 5 to 10 years.

Yep playing the trade-in A game: Over time, only the man gets older, but the women he's with never do.

Hard to imagine the fly sheet still rising up the mast if you are bunking with women close to your own age as you near the half century mark. Bless those geezers who can still fire up the rockets for a GILF.

Edited May 23May 23 by BilllyGOAT

2 minutes ago, wil iam not said:

No, can you not tell that it came out of a bottle? That applies to both of us.

At least I still have a good headfull.

I was being sarcastic. Your hair is black like hers lol

Try the bald monk look.

6 hours ago, Prubangboy said:

There was a funny bit on Reddit about how Passport Bros bragging about imaginary GF's always claim she's a dentist.

Think about it, Dentists are men 95% of the time in Asia. And a woman dentist would have likely married a Thai guy fellow dentist back in college who's cheating on her by now

And yet, the number of sub par Joe Blows claiming to have dentist GF's defies all math.

Why don't they claim to be dating brain surgeons? I would.

Again, people have agency. They are not drugged, only have their hands moved around on a bank loan to buy a house.

They may in fact see some self interest in investing into a relationship. Like Britman2 and other posters here do.

If I'm with my partner for 2 years, I can see buying that little house on the river I put up of pictures of. If she put in even 20%, I would be very surprised.

We provide, they make a home and give us sex. Many here have failed to get that 300,000 year old memo.

Funny, I have only ever had women dentists in Thailand! A lot were stunners and few should have been retired! My niece, yes, a stunner, is a dentist and a good one, say my teeth.

As for family, if the in-laws have health problems, you do everything possibly to raise that money just like any family anywhere. Thank Goddess mine are a healthy 87.