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2 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

Men who use women, taking advantage of innocence

Those 90 women should all still love you then...or not?

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6 minutes ago, IsmeUno said:

The problem is that he cannot. He made bad choices and is 'stuck' in the middle of nowhere. Merely fantasising about another life somewhere else.

The poster could just be a robot on autopilot yanking your chain and dragging you along through the discussion forum.

2 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

Yes, really. I've always treated women as equals, and given more than I've received. Look at who I was talking about and maybe you'll understand my statement.

Are you referring to the statement of it being easy for you to meet women after paying a couple of times for a '<deleted>' as you "looked after your body"?

Was that around the time you were treating women as equals or did that happen later?

Note that you are still paying.

2 minutes ago, novacova said:

The poster could just be a robot on autopilot yanking your chain and dragging you along through the discussion forum.

No one is yanking my chain. I enjoy a bit of banter. The poster in question goes off on long winded rants and takes himself way too seriously. Real life is stranger than fiction and he is strange. 😊

2 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

Will someone tell him I am still waiting for him to answer the simple questions of how he can stay here without a retirement visa or work permit? And that my girlfriend's age has no bearing on anything on this forum, and like everything else, is none of his business. Tell him also, that we've all listened to all his thousands of assumptions, lies and exaggerations and it's the reason why I don't interact with unstable characters anymore.

@fredwiggy Do you not realise that your act of sending messages through third persons, real or imaginary, are classic signs of a mind disorder? It seems that you are unable to cope. Once might be novel and amusing. But you have been prolonging this behaviour for quite some time. You are acting like someone who appears to be emotionally damaged. Your 'friends' here should sit you down...

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37 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

He's jealous as my parents actually raised me instead of letting me be like a wild animal loose on the female population.

3 failed marriages

90 failed relationships

So now you blame your parents. Maybe or is their fault. The narc gene runs in the family.

6 minutes ago, IsmeUno said:

No one is yanking my chain. I enjoy a bit of banter. The poster in question goes off on long winded rants and takes himself way too seriously. Real life is stranger than fiction and he is strange. 😊

I reckon in real life he is reserved and does not speak like he does on here.

3 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

It's a bit tragic people trying to compete with each other with temples

I had to respond, Just had to. I'd pay money to not visit another temple and my previous visits are in the single digits.

3 hours ago, Rockyroad said:

I travel around and she comes along. If I hired p4p it would cost the same or more. She befriends the guesthouse and motorbike renters so we get Thai prices. Plus she is a nice person. I havent met a better woman.

Guesthouses......how very quaint. I prefer 5 star accomodations.

2 minutes ago, EVENKEEL said:

Guesthouses......how very quaint. I prefer 5 star accomodations.

So you stay in them 120 days a year? Wow that is impressive.

3 minutes ago, EVENKEEL said:

Guesthouses......how very quaint. I prefer 5 star accomodations.

Something wrong with guesthouses and supporting small business?

Notice how he comes back witht the same exact type of lines he has for the last several years, in all 10 of his personalities? Again assuming I'm paying for a girlfriend and he doesn't, being that Don Juan syndrome. This explains how he's been............Don Juan syndrome" (or Don Juanism) is a colloquial term for a pattern of serial seduction and hypersexuality where a man pursues a constant stream of new partners to mask deep-seated insecurities, often abandoning the woman as soon as emotional intimacy is established.

It's a deep rooted mental illness, developed watching his father doing the same with whoever, and it trickled down into his persona. He talks like he is good to women, but has told us of an 11 year relationship with the same woman here (how does he stay here so long without a work permit or retirement visa?), and then says many women take him out for dinners where they pay, which means he's at the very least dating other women while his woman is home alone.

It's all part of his NPD personality. Constant assumptions, twisting of the truths others say, deflections and gaslighting, along with trying to enlist the flying monkeys in his defense.One actually bragging about "rooting" his woman until he gets bored, then onto another. No girlfriends but conquests, likely paid for.

I had figured him out as soon as he lost an argument with me years ago, then followed suit, changing usernames, being banned in all of them, and warned in this one numerous times, using the same comebacks time after time, hoping others will fall for his enlistment. No one here has besides the usual troll, yet they insult each other constantly when no one responds to them.

Notice how troll #1 follows his lead, two imbeciles of a kind, neither smart enough to see what many members have been saying, along with those bans and warnings, and the impossibly negative score. One is smarter than the other, but not much, as they're both too ignorant to know they've been busted all along.

Watch for their replies, cut and paste from years ago, and even the same in this topic alone, as the only ammunition they both have is that learned behavior since being neglected and or abused in childhood. By the way, I won't respond directly to a moron any longer, as it's like arguing with a child. This from the following link explains his behavior to many here....".React with rage or contempt and try to belittle other people to make themselves appear superior."...........https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/narcissistic-personality-disorder/symptoms-causes/syc-20366662.

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9 minutes ago, IsmeUno said:

Do you not realise that your act of sending messages through third persons, real or imaginary, are classic signs of a mind disorder?

And you're "well adjusted" ?

5 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

So you stay in them 120 days a year? Wow that is impressive.

That's silly, no I have a seaside villa I stay most of the year.

4 minutes ago, IsmeUno said:

Something wrong with guesthouses and supporting small business?

I have a certain standard for myself and family. I haven't stayed at a guesthouse in maybe 15 yrs. Since before my child was born.

2 minutes ago, EVENKEEL said:

I have a certain standard for myself and family. I haven't stayed at a guesthouse in maybe 15 yrs. Since before my child was born.

Oh your a good man, I remember when you rescued me from that disaster view talay 2b

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7 minutes ago, EVENKEEL said:

That's silly, no I have a seaside villa I stay most of the year.

You sound very gay.

11 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Notice how he comes back witht the same exact type of lines he has for the last several years, in all 10 of his personalities? Again assuming I'm paying for a girlfriend and he doesn't, being that Don Juan syndrome. This explains how he's been............Don Juan syndrome" (or Don Juanism) is a colloquial term for a pattern of serial seduction and hypersexuality where a man pursues a constant stream of new partners to mask deep-seated insecurities, often abandoning the woman as soon as emotional intimacy is established.

It's a deep rooted mental illness, developed watching his father doing the same with whoever, and it trickled down into his persona. He talks like he is good to women, but has told us of an 11 year relationship with the same woman here (how does he stay here so long without a work permit or retirement visa?), and then says many women take him out for dinners where they pay, which means he's at the very least dating other women while his woman is home alone.

It's all part of his NPD personality. Constant assumptions, twisting of the truths others say, deflections and gaslighting, along with trying to enlist the flying monkeys in his defense.One actually bragging about "rooting" his woman until he gets bored, then onto another. No girlfriends but conquests, likely paid for.

I had figured him out as soon as he lost an argument with me years ago, then followed suit, changing usernames, being banned in all of them, and warned in this one numerous times, using the same comebacks time after time, hoping others will fall for his enlistment. No one here has besides the usual troll, yet they insult each other constantly when no one responds to them.

Notice how troll #1 follows his lead, two imbeciles of a kind, neither smart enough to see what many members have been saying, along with those bans and warnings, and the impossibly negative score. One is smarter than the other, but not much, as they're both too ignorant to know they've been busted all along.

Watch for their replies, cut and paste from years ago, and even the same in this topic alone, as the only ammunition they both have is that learned behavior since being neglected and or abused in childhood. By the way, I won't respond directly to a moron any longer, as it's like arguing with a child.

You are a proven phony. Using google for images and won't say how old she is. Of course you pay her. You are a 69yo man. No woman who is 40 dates old unless they pay.

10 minutes ago, EVENKEEL said:

That's silly, no I have a seaside villa I stay most of the year.

Expect more of the same he just posted to you.

3 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Expect more of the same he just posted to you.

Poor Fred begging for friends online. Not man enough to be honest.

17 minutes ago, EVENKEEL said:

I had to respond, Just had to. I'd pay money to not visit another temple and my previous visits are in the single digits.

The wife is a temple addict and I couldn’t even begin to count the number of temples she’s dragged me to and as of late she’s got four new ones on the list between now and the 17th between here and Phrae.

4 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

Poor Fred begging for friends online. Not man enough to be honest.

Almost dinner time, time to limber up and take a squat at the dinner mat. Bon appetit

18 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

And you're "well adjusted" ?

Well he didnt threaten to call the cops on someone so he is more normal than you.

2 minutes ago, novacova said:

The wife is a temple addict and I couldn’t even begin to count the number of temples she’s dragged me to and as of late she’s got four new ones on the list between now and the 17th between here and Phrae.

Mine loves them. I just turn it into an adventure. Pick scenic ones on a hill or near a beach. Get some exercise at the same time. In in a city do a walking tour.

It is a better experience than watching tv or sitting in a bar.

21 minutes ago, EVENKEEL said:

I have a certain standard for myself and family. I haven't stayed at a guesthouse in maybe 15 yrs. Since before my child was born.

Small hotels and GHs have lots of charm and family run. 5 star hotels are sterile and boring. The only thing that is good is a nice buffet.

10 minutes ago, novacova said:

The wife is a temple addict and I couldn’t even begin to count the number of temples she’s dragged me to and as of late she’s got four new ones on the list between now and the 17th between here and Phrae.

That's true love there.

24 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Notice how he comes back witht the same exact type of lines he has for the last several years, in all 10 of his personalities? Again assuming I'm paying for a girlfriend and he doesn't, being that Don Juan syndrome. This explains how he's been............Don Juan syndrome" (or Don Juanism) is a colloquial term for a pattern of serial seduction and hypersexuality where a man pursues a constant stream of new partners to mask deep-seated insecurities, often abandoning the woman as soon as emotional intimacy is established.

It's a deep rooted mental illness, developed watching his father doing the same with whoever, and it trickled down into his persona. He talks like he is good to women, but has told us of an 11 year relationship with the same woman here (how does he stay here so long without a work permit or retirement visa?), and then says many women take him out for dinners where they pay, which means he's at the very least dating other women while his woman is home alone.

It's all part of his NPD personality. Constant assumptions, twisting of the truths others say, deflections and gaslighting, along with trying to enlist the flying monkeys in his defense.One actually bragging about "rooting" his woman until he gets bored, then onto another. No girlfriends but conquests, likely paid for.

I had figured him out as soon as he lost an argument with me years ago, then followed suit, changing usernames, being banned in all of them, and warned in this one numerous times, using the same comebacks time after time, hoping others will fall for his enlistment. No one here has besides the usual troll, yet they insult each other constantly when no one responds to them.

Notice how troll #1 follows his lead, two imbeciles of a kind, neither smart enough to see what many members have been saying, along with those bans and warnings, and the impossibly negative score. One is smarter than the other, but not much, as they're both too ignorant to know they've been busted all along.

Watch for their replies, cut and paste from years ago, and even the same in this topic alone, as the only ammunition they both have is that learned behavior since being neglected and or abused in childhood. By the way, I won't respond directly to a moron any longer, as it's like arguing with a child. This from the following link explains his behavior to many here....".React with rage or contempt and try to belittle other people to make themselves appear superior."...........https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/narcissistic-personality-disorder/symptoms-causes/syc-20366662.

Let's look at this as a logical progression. Since you tell us that you never lie nor assume, the description above cannot relate to anyone that you haven't met or do not know intimately.

Taking you at your word, this makes it likely that you are describing yourself.

Ninety women and three marriages according to your own words. Is that what you saw growing up?

If not, then your theory doesn't hold water, does it?

Anyone who has been paying attention will see how you leak information about your real character.

How it was easy for you to meet women, as you looked after your body. Your words. 90 women you claim attracted to you and you are accusing others of Don Juanism.

Three failed marriages, but yet insisting that you treat women right. Paid for companionship in the beginning and still doing so fifty three years later.

You've just created a fantasy around yourself that doesn't hold up to public scrutiny. Some people here suspect that the covert narcissist resides in your home.

33 minutes ago, EVENKEEL said:

I have a certain standard for myself and family. I haven't stayed at a guesthouse in maybe 15 yrs. Since before my child was born.

Neither have I, but I've had some great and memorable times in them and certainly wouldn't look down my nose at anyone for following in my footsteps.

4 minutes ago, IsmeUno said:

Let's look at this as a logical progression. Since you tell us that you never lie nor assume, the description above cannot relate to anyone that you haven't met or do not know intimately.

Taking you at your word, this makes it likely that you are describing yourself.

Ninety women and three marriages according to your own words. Is that what you saw growing up?

If not, then your theory doesn't hold water, does it?

Anyone who has been paying attention will see how you leak information about your real character.

How it was easy for you to meet women, as you looked after your body. Your words. 90 women you claim attracted to you and you are accusing others of Don Juanism.

Three failed marriages, but yet insisting that you treat women right. Paid for companionship in the beginning and still doing so fifty three years later.

You've just created a fantasy around yourself that doesn't hold up to public scrutiny. Some people here suspect that the covert narcissist resides in your home.

He calls people teenagers but posted 2 images of blow up dolls that only a teenage mind would do.

Poor Fred never grew up. Dropped out of school age 16yo and never progressed mentally. Read a bunch of silly books after 50 failed relationships then had another 40.

But they were all narcs not him according to his teenage level mind.

Notice the same responses, jumbled a little but saying the same things? Deflections, assumptions and exaggerations once again. Limited minds speak limited words.The reality of this is that I've never lied. Thinking I have is that deflection persona, looking to demean because he's already so low there isn't anywhere else to go. I tell I paid for 2 hookers and he thinks it's continued, while he's cheated on his main "girlfriend" with locals anyone could easily purchase. That's the Don Juan coming through. Don Juan uses women, as he does, but girlfriends come and go for everyone, as do one or many night stands, where it's mutual. Proven wrong every time but too dense to stay away. Limited mind again.

The other screwball originally said, after I mentioned I've been with about 100 women, that it's not normal to have more than 3 or 4, in his Harrisfan personality. Then he comes out and says he's "banged" hundreds of women. Wouldn't that be quite the hypocrite there? Then he comes back with the same teen comments that I dropped out of school, when I've explained to him, in all 9 aliases, that I graduated high school then went on to being certified three times in kinesiology and nutrition. There's that poor memory, or just the troll mind. Now we'll wait a few moments, so they can both come back with the same things, which will either be another assumption, lie or exaggeration. Limited minds.

Rocky, take a look at your reputation here, and see who's the loser in life, and take your simpleton friend with you, even though he's likely a few IQ points higher than your average score.

And watch now, since I'll ignore the children, and see how they go after others soon enough, or eventually each other.

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28 minutes ago, IsmeUno said:

Let's look at this as a logical progression. Since you tell us that you never lie nor assume, the description above cannot relate to anyone that you haven't met or do not know intimately.

Taking you at your word, this makes it likely that you are describing yourself.

Ninety women and three marriages according to your own words. Is that what you saw growing up?

If not, then your theory doesn't hold water, does it?

Anyone who has been paying attention will see how you leak information about your real character.

How it was easy for you to meet women, as you looked after your body. Your words. 90 women you claim attracted to you and you are accusing others of Don Juanism.

Three failed marriages, but yet insisting that you treat women right. Paid for companionship in the beginning and still doing so fifty three years later.

You've just created a fantasy around yourself that doesn't hold up to public scrutiny. Some people here suspect that the covert narcissist resides in your home.

What is it about the number 90 women?

If a man is single for enough years, it does not take much to reach that number. One new date a month. If he gets lucky once a month, 90 women is only about 7–8 years of being single. It is hardly an unbelievable number for a normal man with normal behaviour, needs and decent social skills.

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