Further to my study of the UK ‘rape gang’ phenomenon, there is another aspect we need to consider.

Even at toddler age, girls want to try on their mother’s lipstick and high heels. We laugh and call it cute. 

By the age of five, they can be dancers, models, actors, competitive sports, all of which require an adult outlook. They are showered with attention and flirted at. Touched. They like it. 

Thai temple fairs often have reviews of these little girls, usually tweens in skimpy outfits. Beauty pageants for children, tweens, teens.

And then comes the brassiere. Every tween wants to be fitted for a bra even when there’s nothing there.

All kids want to be seen as grown-up, sophisticated. Young teens start wearing sparkly eye shadow, a little blush. Even before they really have any idea what sex is (except for the mechanics of porn), they want to look sexy.

Girls and boys can’t determine fantasy from reality. Boys expect every girl to be ready for sex and girls think dropping to their knees is foreplay.

What makes them vulnerable, though, is more emotional than a paint job. They want to be loved, they crave attention, affection and when a boy or man starts to lavish it on them, they soak it up like a sponge.

Of course, boys, and men, basically <just> want to get into girls’ pants. The girls really don’t know what those feelings are but they still respond to them. Touching a boy and being touched is new, exciting.

Today’s role models are celebrities and girl groups wearing next to nothing. Girls copy not only the dress but the attitude. Brooke Shields was 15 when nothing came between her and her Calvins. If you're telling me she wasn't sexy, you've got nothing in y our pants. And rap is equally to blame for skewed values.

Before 16, it’s called rape. And if there is a significant age difference, I agree that it is.

So what do we do with the pretty birds and the bees who are eager to sting them? By the time they’re teenagers, many girls are out of control even with a solid family.

According to friends of mine, some of whom have daughters, many are sexually active by the age of 13, and in some circles girls who are not active at that age are scorned in the 7th grade. That's an America anyway, which is probably one of the most morally bankrupt countries in the world.

3 minutes ago, spidermike007 said:

That's an America anyway, which is probably one of the most morally bankrupt countries in the world.

Is it more bankrupt that in Thailand, families send their daughters to Pattaya to engage in prostitution with older Western men just to cover basic expenses due to the lack of a social safety net? Or is it more bankrupt then Thai men fathering children and then abandon them without taking responsibility for their support?

46 minutes ago, spidermike007 said:

According to friends of mine, some of whom have daughters, many are sexually active by the age of 13, and in some circles girls who are not active at that age are scorned in the 7th grade. That's an America anyway, which is probably one of the most morally bankrupt countries in the world.

In 2008 in Cornwall I was teaching highschool, just before letting my class (age 14) into the classroom a group of 14yo girls were discussing if they let their boyfriends have a£&l sex with them.

2 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

In 2008 in Cornwall I was teaching highschool, just before letting my class (age 14) into the classroom a group of 14yo girls were discussing if they let their boyfriends have a£&l sex with them.

Did you manage to tap into any of them ?