I asked a few months back about a fit to fly certificate for my (now 95 years young) neighbour.

Sadly, due to his age and failing health, a realisation has set in, for him and his family, that staying here for his final days may be his better option.

Right now his family are funding full time care in his own condo, but are now contemplating if a care home would be a better option.

Can anyone recommend any places local to Pattaya? And, if possible, approximate costs for a live in resident in one of these facilities, if they even exist here.

I'm not 100% sure of his actual medical state, but I think he's just frail from age with no major conditions, and no sign of dementia.

Given you have said he is in good health for his age, and still is of sound mind, have you considered actually asking him what his wishes are?

I got this straight from AI ...

AI Overview

Old folks homes and assisted living facilities in the Pattaya area range from 20,000 to 90,000+ THB ($550 to $2,500+ USD) per month, depending on the level of medical assistance required and housing style. 

Costs for popular options near your location in the Sattahip/Pattaya region include:

• Pattaya Senior Home: Starts around 10,000 to 25,000 THB per month, depending on whether you are in a shared or private room. They specialize in rehabilitation and full-time caregiving. 

• Pattaya Nursing Home: Prices start at 25,000 THB per month for standard care. They offer 24-hour medical, palliative, and dementia care. 

• Difference Residence: A premium retirement and independent living community near Bang Saray that starts around 20,000 THB per month for a 40-square-meter apartment, ranging up to 60,000 THB per month for large villas. 

• JB Age Care Pattaya: Offers specialized nursing and senior living communities located in the Nong Pla Lai area. 

• Namthip Nursing Home: Known for a quiet oasis setting near Mabprachan Lake with 24/7 English-speaking nurses. 

Could you tell me a little more about your situation?

• Are you looking for independent living or assisted medical/memory care?

• What is your monthly budget?

I can provide tailored recommendations and facility contact details.

1 hour ago, KhunHeineken said:

Given you have said he is in good health for his age, and still is of sound mind, have you considered actually asking him what his wishes are?

We had a good chat this morning actually, and he said ideally he would fly back with his daughter, then stay in a care home near her in the US.

He's also well aware he could have issues flying (3 separate flights) so is almost resigned already to seeing out his days here.

His daughter flew in a few days ago and is trying to find somewhere for him, and I said I would try to help.

1 hour ago, chickenslegs said:

I got this straight from AI ...

AI Overview

Old folks homes and assisted living facilities in the Pattaya area range from 20,000 to 90,000+ THB ($550 to $2,500+ USD) per month, depending on the level of medical assistance required and housing style. 

Costs for popular options near your location in the Sattahip/Pattaya region include:

• Pattaya Senior Home: Starts around 10,000 to 25,000 THB per month, depending on whether you are in a shared or private room. They specialize in rehabilitation and full-time caregiving. 

• Pattaya Nursing Home: Prices start at 25,000 THB per month for standard care. They offer 24-hour medical, palliative, and dementia care. 

• Difference Residence: A premium retirement and independent living community near Bang Saray that starts around 20,000 THB per month for a 40-square-meter apartment, ranging up to 60,000 THB per month for large villas. 

• JB Age Care Pattaya: Offers specialized nursing and senior living communities located in the Nong Pla Lai area. 

• Namthip Nursing Home: Known for a quiet oasis setting near Mabprachan Lake with 24/7 English-speaking nurses. 

Could you tell me a little more about your situation?

• Are you looking for independent living or assisted medical/memory care?

• What is your monthly budget?

I can provide tailored recommendations and facility contact details.

I'm not fully aware of his medical situation so I cannot answer what extent of care he needs.

Likewise, I'm not sure of the current costs to the family for his current care at home.

From Gemini

Because they do not have dementia, the focus should be on places that prioritize independent or assisted living, active socialization, and privacy, rather than locked memory-care units.

Here are the top reputable options in and immediately around Pattaya that cater specifically to western foreigners:

Top Residential & Assisted Living Options

1. Homerly International Senior Living (Pratumnak / Jomtien area)

This is widely regarded as one of the top premium choices for Western expats. It leans heavily into a "resort style" feel rather than a clinical hospital vibe, making it ideal for someone who wants to maintain their dignity and independence.

The Vibe: High-end, serene, and social.

Why it fits: They offer distinct tiers ranging from Independent Living to Assisted Living. Because the resident is cognitively well, they can participate in their robust schedule of daily activities, social excursions, and communal dining without feeling restricted.

Care: 24-hour registered nurses, an on-site physiotherapy clinic, and weekly doctor visits are built into their standard packages. They also fully handle visa/immigration paperwork.

2. The “DIFFERENCE” Senior Economic Residence (Bang Saray)

Located about 25 km south of central Pattaya near Khao Chi Chan and Silverlake, this is a massive, beautifully landscaped village-style park designed specifically for retirees.

The Vibe: An active, independent retirement village.

Why it fits: It explicitly avoids looking or feeling like an "old folks' home." They have a deliberate policy of hiring younger staff to keep the energy lively. It is entirely wheelchair/mobility accessible (using electric golf carts to get around), and residents live in private apartments, villas, or terrace houses.

Care: It operates like a luxury gated community with a 24-hour medical clinic on-site, a central restaurant, and daily shuttle buses into Pattaya or nearby beaches for independent outings.

3. JB Age Care Pattaya (Nong Pla Lai)

Located just on the outskirts of Pattaya city, this is a smaller, much more intimate, family-run senior living community.

The Vibe: Cozy, homely, and quiet.

Why it fits: If a large resort feels overwhelming for a 95-year-old, JB Age Care offers a much smaller resident-to-staff ratio. They cater to both independent seniors and those who need physical assistance. The grounds feature private walking paths and a peaceful fishing pond.

Care: Full assistance with daily living, physical therapy equipment on site, and comprehensive visa/hospital network support.

4. Pattaya Nursing Home (Central Pattaya / Jomtien)

A long-standing, purpose-built international care center.

The Vibe: More traditional care facility, but modern and clean.

Why it fits: They have private single-story villas and single rooms designed with "universal design" (no steps, easy accessibility).

Care: While they do handle heavy medical recovery (stroke, bedridden care), their private bungalows offer a solid balance of 24/7 nursing availability while letting an independent minded person have their own space.

Important Considerations for a 95-Year-Old in Pattaya

Proximity to Hospitals: Ensure the chosen location has a direct pipeline to the major international hospitals in the area (Bangkok Hospital Pattaya or Pattaya Memorial). Homerly and Pattaya Nursing Home are exceptionally well-positioned for this.

Private Duty Alternative: If this gentleman or lady prefers to stay in their own condo or house, another highly viable option in Pattaya is hiring full-time, English-speaking live-in caregivers through an agency like Ayasan Care. At 95, sometimes staying in familiar surroundings with 1-on-1 care is preferred over moving into a facility.

6 hours ago, Johnlkuk said:

He's also well aware he could have issues flying (3 separate flights) so is almost resigned already to seeing out his days here.

Odd that issues with flying would keep a man who is

9 hours ago, Johnlkuk said:

just frail from age with no major conditions, and no sign of dementia.

First class tickets for him and an attendant would do it, no? But then he probably prefers Pattaya, or maybe his daughter prefers he stay here as well.

In any case, from what I've read the nicer care homes are up north in the CM vicinity. He might want to have a look-see if his health permits and decide where he wants to be.

95 years and still no serious mind or health issues? The man's a champ.

7 hours ago, Johnlkuk said:

We had a good chat this morning actually, and he said ideally he would fly back with his daughter, then stay in a care home near her in the US.

He's also well aware he could have issues flying (3 separate flights) so is almost resigned already to seeing out his days here.

His daughter flew in a few days ago and is trying to find somewhere for him, and I said I would try to help.

If he wants to go back home, they might look at having a rest stop during the overseas flight of 24 hours or more. Flying is hard for anyone overseas, as it usually takes 24 hours total time, so if they can stay in the first stop for a day or more before the final connecting flight it would be less stressful for him. This explains more.............

Booking a Stopover: You can book a stopover as part of a single ticket, often for the same price or a small additional fee. Many airlines, especially in hubs like Dubai (Emirates) or Singapore (Singapore Airlines), offer packages that encourage this to visit another city along the way.

• Stopover vs. Layover: A layover is generally under 24 hours and usually means staying inside the airport, whereas a stopover is a planned break (often 24+ hours) that lets you leave the airport, check into a hotel, and explore.

• Baggage and Security: Unlike a short layover, a stopover often requires you to collect your luggage at the first stopover city and re-check it when you return to the airport to continue your journey.

• Customs and Immigration: On an international ticket, you will typically pass through customs at the first point of entry (the stopover city).

Alternative Options:

• Self-Transfer: You can book two completely separate one-way tickets, creating a long stop in the middle. However, you are responsible for retrieving luggage and re-checking it, and if the first flight is delayed, the second airline is not responsible..

Edited July 9Jul 9 by fredwiggy

Speaking as someone who might need this service soon it likes we have some great options locally at @ 30,000 a month. Why would anyone want to back to the UK/USA.

2 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

From Gemini

Because they do not have dementia, the focus should be on places that prioritize independent or assisted living, active socialization, and privacy, rather than locked memory-care units.

Here are the top reputable options in and immediately around Pattaya that cater specifically to western foreigners:

Top Residential & Assisted Living Options

1. Homerly International Senior Living (Pratumnak / Jomtien area)

This is widely regarded as one of the top premium choices for Western expats. It leans heavily into a "resort style" feel rather than a clinical hospital vibe, making it ideal for someone who wants to maintain their dignity and independence.

The Vibe: High-end, serene, and social.

Why it fits: They offer distinct tiers ranging from Independent Living to Assisted Living. Because the resident is cognitively well, they can participate in their robust schedule of daily activities, social excursions, and communal dining without feeling restricted.

Care: 24-hour registered nurses, an on-site physiotherapy clinic, and weekly doctor visits are built into their standard packages. They also fully handle visa/immigration paperwork.

2. The “DIFFERENCE” Senior Economic Residence (Bang Saray)

Located about 25 km south of central Pattaya near Khao Chi Chan and Silverlake, this is a massive, beautifully landscaped village-style park designed specifically for retirees.

The Vibe: An active, independent retirement village.

Why it fits: It explicitly avoids looking or feeling like an "old folks' home." They have a deliberate policy of hiring younger staff to keep the energy lively. It is entirely wheelchair/mobility accessible (using electric golf carts to get around), and residents live in private apartments, villas, or terrace houses.

Care: It operates like a luxury gated community with a 24-hour medical clinic on-site, a central restaurant, and daily shuttle buses into Pattaya or nearby beaches for independent outings.

3. JB Age Care Pattaya (Nong Pla Lai)

Located just on the outskirts of Pattaya city, this is a smaller, much more intimate, family-run senior living community.

The Vibe: Cozy, homely, and quiet.

Why it fits: If a large resort feels overwhelming for a 95-year-old, JB Age Care offers a much smaller resident-to-staff ratio. They cater to both independent seniors and those who need physical assistance. The grounds feature private walking paths and a peaceful fishing pond.

Care: Full assistance with daily living, physical therapy equipment on site, and comprehensive visa/hospital network support.

4. Pattaya Nursing Home (Central Pattaya / Jomtien)

A long-standing, purpose-built international care center.

The Vibe: More traditional care facility, but modern and clean.

Why it fits: They have private single-story villas and single rooms designed with "universal design" (no steps, easy accessibility).

Care: While they do handle heavy medical recovery (stroke, bedridden care), their private bungalows offer a solid balance of 24/7 nursing availability while letting an independent minded person have their own space.

Important Considerations for a 95-Year-Old in Pattaya

Proximity to Hospitals: Ensure the chosen location has a direct pipeline to the major international hospitals in the area (Bangkok Hospital Pattaya or Pattaya Memorial). Homerly and Pattaya Nursing Home are exceptionally well-positioned for this.

Private Duty Alternative: If this gentleman or lady prefers to stay in their own condo or house, another highly viable option in Pattaya is hiring full-time, English-speaking live-in caregivers through an agency like Ayasan Care. At 95, sometimes staying in familiar surroundings with 1-on-1 care is preferred over moving into a facility.

Really helpful, thank you.

I've caught Gemini out before on a couple of things, but if these places actually exist then that is a good selection to start with. Thank you.

I'll forward this info to his family so they can look further into it.

25 minutes ago, henryford1958 said:

Speaking as someone who might need this service soon it likes we have some great options locally at @ 30,000 a month. Why would anyone want to back to the UK/USA.

Being near family would me my thought.

Plus I see he is so isolated here.

He only has Thai company (carers, cleaner etc) , so totally lacking conversation/mental stimulation.

I imagine his caring bills at home are somewhere near (or even beyond) the figure you quoted, so to pay a similar amount and be in a better atmosphere should, I imagine, do wonders for his well-being.

It's whether these circa 30k a month facilities exist, and where they are we are trying to find out.

Of course, once a shortlist is drawn up, he can be taken to visit them and see if they appeal.

52 minutes ago, Johnlkuk said:

Really helpful, thank you.

I've caught Gemini out before on a couple of things, but if these places actually exist then that is a good selection to start with. Thank you.

I'll forward this info to his family so they can look further into it.

It can be annoying when the Gemini gets them wrong so maybe introduce them to Gemini so they can discuss direct

21 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

It can be annoying when the Gemini gets them wrong so maybe introduce them to Gemini so they can discuss direct

I'm doing exactly this.

I've sent his daughter a link to this thread so she can see the info first hand.

Then the options can be gone through one by one to find somewhere suitable.

10 hours ago, Johnlkuk said:

We had a good chat this morning actually, and he said ideally he would fly back with his daughter, then stay in a care home near her in the US.

He's also well aware he could have issues flying (3 separate flights) so is almost resigned already to seeing out his days here.

His daughter flew in a few days ago and is trying to find somewhere for him, and I said I would try to help.

Is it possible the daughter can escort him home, possibly with a night or two stop over to break up the travel?

Is returning by cruise ship an option, with the daughter escorting him?

2 hours ago, henryford1958 said:

Speaking as someone who might need this service soon it likes we have some great options locally at @ 30,000 a month. Why would anyone want to back to the UK/USA.

Unless this man is going to be on Medicaid with his care paid by the government, I can't imagine finding any kind of facility in the USA that would only charge $1,000 a month or so. They simply don't exist. Fifteen years ago, in the Midwest US, my Dad's wife's care in a nursing home was $7500 a month. Nine months later, when my Dad needed it, the monthly bill was $9,500.00. Depending on the length of stay, those charges can add up.

If "skilled nursing care" isn't necessary and he could get by with an assisted living facility, he might be able to find something in the neighborhood of $4K a month. Still, that much more than it would cost in Thailand.

On 7/9/2026 at 10:59 PM, Johnlkuk said:

We had a good chat this morning actually, and he said ideally he would fly back with his daughter, then stay in a care home near her in the US.

He's also well aware he could have issues flying (3 separate flights) so is almost resigned already to seeing out his days here.

His daughter flew in a few days ago and is trying to find somewhere for him, and I said I would try to help.

Good quality care homes in the US cost between $10,000 and $15,000 a month. And there is little assistance available. I would stay here.

My Thai wife had a massive stroke 21 yrs ago in Houston. She was left paralyzed on her right side and has expressive aphasia, trouble speaking. She is slightly mobile with a leg brace and cane. We left US 7 yrs ago for here. Forked out for business class EVA air one stop Taipei. 2.5 hrs there then direct to BKK. Wheelchair assist from end to end. All told from end to end was about 21 hrs. Wasn't bad and the flight crew were exceptional in how they treated her. My only issue was getting her to the IAH airport, at check in the wheelchair was waiting and from then it was only hard for me to keep up with the chair and the guy pushing it. We are not rich, but that was worth it. 2 business class tickets one way IAH - BKK was 5200 USD at the time. We are both in our 70's now. Unless the guy is very well off using USA as St Peters waiting room would be hard. Its not a nearly as good as it used to be.

On 7/10/2026 at 7:14 AM, henryford1958 said:

Speaking as someone who might need this service soon it likes we have some great options locally at @ 30,000 a month. Why would anyone want to back to the UK/USA.

As a Us citizen who cannot afford a working middle class retirement in the USA, I figure on going up the chimney here in Thailand. Fortunately, I think my Thai Wife and stepdaughter will take care of me until my exit, stage left. while currently apropos to myself, I am appreciative to those who have provided the listings. Several years ago when I was alone, I had made a list and visited sites here in Chiang Mai. I contemplated a place allowing a private accommodation but with help available if needed. Finacially doable in Thailand, not so in USA.

Edited July 11Jul 11 by wwest5829

On 7/9/2026 at 9:28 PM, chickenslegs said:

I got this straight from AI ...

AI Overview

Old folks homes and assisted living facilities in the Pattaya area range from 20,000 to 90,000+ THB ($550 to $2,500+ USD) per month, depending on the level of medical assistance required and housing style. 

Costs for popular options near your location in the Sattahip/Pattaya region include:

• Pattaya Senior Home: Starts around 10,000 to 25,000 THB per month, depending on whether you are in a shared or private room. They specialize in rehabilitation and full-time caregiving. 

• Pattaya Nursing Home: Prices start at 25,000 THB per month for standard care. They offer 24-hour medical, palliative, and dementia care. 

• Difference Residence: A premium retirement and independent living community near Bang Saray that starts around 20,000 THB per month for a 40-square-meter apartment, ranging up to 60,000 THB per month for large villas. 

• JB Age Care Pattaya: Offers specialized nursing and senior living communities located in the Nong Pla Lai area. 

• Namthip Nursing Home: Known for a quiet oasis setting near Mabprachan Lake with 24/7 English-speaking nurses. 

Could you tell me a little more about your situation?

• Are you looking for independent living or assisted medical/memory care?

• What is your monthly budget?

I can provide tailored recommendations and facility contact details.

No idea why this was downvoted. Gives the OP somewhere to start. I'd visit each of these places until you find one that you think would be magic for him. He's picking Pattaya to be close to you? What about his family ties abroad, would they just never see each other again this life?

On 7/9/2026 at 10:59 PM, Johnlkuk said:

We had a good chat this morning actually, and he said ideally he would fly back with his daughter, then stay in a care home near her in the US.

He's also well aware he could have issues flying (3 separate flights) so is almost resigned already to seeing out his days here.

His daughter flew in a few days ago and is trying to find somewhere for him, and I said I would try to help.

Okay, confused. Is "here" Thailand???

On 7/10/2026 at 9:35 AM, KhunHeineken said:

Is it possible the daughter can escort him home, possibly with a night or two stop over to break up the travel?

Is returning by cruise ship an option, with the daughter escorting him?

This thread is great fun and I'm really glad to old boy is even considering this. Okay, so where does his family live, here or there?

Another OP wrote of isolation in a care home here. I think many of the other guests will be foreigners, too. Almost every Thai speaks rudimentary English. And why would he not learn Thai to keep the mind sharp?

In fact, this 76-year old would go to have a visit when you let us all know his details!

13 hours ago, spidermike007 said:

Good quality care homes in the US cost between $10,000 and $15,000 a month. And there is little assistance available. I would stay here.

It's not just the cost, it's the ambiance. Thais love their elders.

1 hour ago, wwest5829 said:

As a Us citizen who cannot afford a working middle class retirement in the USA, I figure on going up the chimney here in Thailand. Fortunately, I think my Thai Wife and stepdaughter will take care of me until my exit, stage left. while currently apropos to myself, I am appreciative to those who have provided the listings. Several years ago when I was alone, I had made a list and visited sites here in Chiang Mai. I contemplated a place allowing a private accommodation but with help available if needed. Finacially doable in Thailand, not so in USA.

Your post beat me to it.

I think many members take for granted that they will pass before their Thai wife, most probably due to an age difference, but members should have a plan for later in life should the Thai wife pass before them, and these care homes may figure in that plan.

42 minutes ago, KhunHeineken said:

Your post beat me to it.

I think many members take for granted that they will pass before their Thai wife, most probably due to an age difference, but members should have a plan for later in life should the Thai wife pass before them, and these care homes may figure in that plan.

My Thai GF is 23 years younger than me, I think I am pretty safe.

Are you still maintaining your position Australian OAP recipients living in Thailand are subject to a 32.5% tax, or has the light finally dawned?

3 hours ago, unblocktheplanet said:

This thread is great fun and I'm really glad to old boy is even considering this. Okay, so where does his family live, here or there?

Another OP wrote of isolation in a care home here. I think many of the other guests will be foreigners, too. Almost every Thai speaks rudimentary English. And why would he not learn Thai to keep the mind sharp?

In fact, this 76-year old would go to have a visit when you let us all know his details!

I don't see how your post is relevant to my post, which you quoted.

From the OP: "he said ideally he would fly back with his daughter, then stay in a care home near her in the US."

1 hour ago, Lacessit said:

My Thai GF is 23 years younger than me, I think I am pretty safe.

Have you never heard of cancer, motorbike accidents etc etc.

Also, depending how long you live, the Thai GF may not be physically capable of looking after you. Eg. lifting you.

The rest of your post is off topic. Post it in the Australia Forum.

From my personal experience as I have been caring for a friend 74 but condition is 90 plus, in Pattaya for over a year. If he hadn't sold everything and time permit to get him in a home back in the U.S. I would.

Majority of the places in big emergency can't handle the emergency even general medical checkup have to be arrange at hospital and if private his age unless they have deep pockets will get soak.

Because 3 legs if he can travel as mentioned get him a first class ticket if they haven't given up their Medicare benefits he will be well look after in my opinion.

There is one of the best located in Pattaya claim called Homerly, one can Google and get information.

Good luck

5 hours ago, KhunHeineken said:

Have you never heard of cancer, motorbike accidents etc etc.

Also, depending how long you live, the Thai GF may not be physically capable of looking after you. Eg. lifting you.

The rest of your post is off topic. Post it in the Australia Forum.

Yes. I have had four cancers.

My Thai GF has a family. I am part of that family, a respected elder. She will have plenty of help.

10 hours ago, Lacessit said:

Yes. I have had four cancers.

Yet, you think it impossible she could be diagnosed one day.

10 hours ago, Lacessit said:

My Thai GF has a family. I am part of that family, a respected elder.

😂 😂

10 hours ago, Lacessit said:

She will have plenty of help.

You are kidding yourself.

1 hour ago, KhunHeineken said:

Yet, you think it impossible she could be diagnosed one day.

😂 😂

You are kidding yourself.

My Thai GF has a vested interest in keeping me alive for as long as possible. So does her family, who would step in if she went before me. Statistically improbable, given the fact I am already past the average life expectancy of an Australian male.

Whether her family will help has already been put to the test a couple of times.