Thai Bar Girls

[honeyen]

The truth is that most ordinary thai girls wouldn't look twice at a farang. We're considered ill-mannered and rude.

In relations with BGs you usually get what you give as with every other people: treat them nice and you're treated equally. Don't complain about their interest in the money - I would also stop working if my company stopped paying.

That is so not true! Most of my bf's mates are dating proper Thai ladies* who have very good job, some even earn more than the bf!

It's all depending on how much effort / time the guys are willing to put in.

(BG : less than an hour + no effort + money)

*proper Thai ladies = non-BG (my definition)

In relations with proper girls, you usually get MORE than you give!

[The Gentleman Scamp]

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[RamdomChances]

did you type all the blah's or just cut and paste

[Coffee Dude]

Women and men speak different languages no matter where you come from or live.

Examples:

Do these pants make my butt look big?

Trans: Do you wanna fight?

Hallooo handsome how are you tomorrow?

Trans: Come buy me a drink.

We never talk anymore.

Trans: I would like a chance to whittle a little more of your manhood away and bring you more in touch with your feminine side.

I love you too much!!

Trans: Thanks!! jing jing no sh*t!!

and maybe

You give me too much!!

Trans: You give me a lot and I realize that, but I have other needs. It would hurt you to know this and I would lose your respect and your money. So this way I can get my money somewhere else and save you your respect even at the cost of breaking your heart.

Mostly just joking.

Coffee!!!

[The Gentleman Scamp]

what a group of ###### you lot are, how many times is this subject gonna be dragged through the dirt.

Ditto. *Yawn*

[CheshireCat]

'The truth is that most ordinary thai girls wouldn't look twice at a farang. We're considered ill-mannered and rude.'

Not quite sure how you can speak for most Thai girls as you put it. I actually find that many are more than willing to date......actually dated a girl from the money exchange recently. Can't speak for them all in general but find the ones I've met to be more than interested. They're not all the same.

Agree with what you say re bar girls. What you give is what you get etc. Don't expect anything else really. Again they're not all the same attitude wise. Some I know do genuinly like individuals they've been with and easily forget others.

[wolf5370]

The truth is that most ordinary thai girls wouldn't look twice at a farang. We're considered ill-mannered and rude.

Mmmmm, first post then Burger. Now there's a surpise.

Actually, seems to be the opposite from all the converstaions I've had with Thais.

Maybe we just mix with different classes of Thais, who mix with different classes of Farang?

Most Thai girls I have talked to (as friends not on the pull or in a bar somewhere chatting to the 'night staff') make the choice of farang over Thai for completely different reasons. Not money - plenty of ruey Thais, Chinese etc too - but because they often feel farang are more faithful and take a more caring attitude to the him/her and their kids. They choose the opposite way, simply because they are not attracted to farang - colour, body hair, size, habbit, culture, smell etc.

This is obviously my personal understanding from what I have learned from many years of socialising Thais (and marrying one). It is subjective, but nethertheless, my personal generalisation!

[loong]

Can I ask why bargirls?? I understand some men have had a decent relationship with them and some even marriage, but i mean is it easier to just go to a bar and buy drinks for a girl and take her out to whatever what about regular thai girls that don't work in bars??

I am trying to understand I mean some threads i read it seems like men come from all over to bed or hang out with bargirls I understand the attraction but is it easier to hook up or easier with a regular thai girl??

I also understand some men get a hard time from women in their own country's I am in the US and I have had it happen to me when i wasn't dating an asian girl.

Maybe i'll never find out the real truth why men go after bargirls espacially when their are beautiful thai girls that don't work in bars

When Farang first come to Thailand they are intoxicated by the beauty and apparent friendliness of the bargirl. Even when you get to know better this memory stays with you. Note, everyone refers to them as bargirls. Very rare people call them prostitutes, but this is what they are.

Farang can have some sort of conversation with a bargirl albeit in Tinglish.

Unless a farang can speak Thai he is unlikely to be able to connect with most non-bargirls.

A regular Thai girl will not be at all impressed with the way the farang presents himself. Baggy shorts, gigantic beer belly not always smelling so sweet. Look at most Thais, they would not dream of dressing as scruffily as most Farang.

Learn Thai, dress smartly, be polite and you will be able to form a relationship with a regular Thai girl.

[parallaxtech]

Right on the money! Bar girls, prostitutes, sewer rats, whatever you refer to them as, are not representative of the hard-working decent Thai women. However, it is difficult/impossible for a farang on holiday for one week who spends most of his time in a pub, to have a chance at one of these. BG are the McDonalds or Hertz women - quick and convenient. Just be mindful of the aftereffects or like a rental car, drive and forget. By the way I have lived on Koh Samui for years and don't acknowledge bar girls. I date a lovely young Thai girl who is a chef and never asks me for money. For farangs looking for regular Thai women, watch the Thai men who laugh at farangs for paying money, some of them beat their girlfriends, most of them cheat, and very few make a living wage, but the women love them to death. As they say, if a Thai woman loves you she will never ask for money. So take the simple test to see if you have a decent one and don't offer her any cash. For those on holiday, it's cheaper than what you would get back home, plus it smiles and says thank-you for a job well done or even not done. Just remember you are fishing in the sewer, so catch and release.

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