Thai ladies who propose via email .. what to think

[DaveYo]

Bud, listen up.  Thai ladys can go two ways with you.  

Remember three things please before you are told to hop to the jewelry store.   Number one, most women in Thailand are very poor.  Ok, so without a doubt being a foreigner means this to them $$$$$$$$$$.   Secondly, without really knowing who this girl is or what she is made up and about, lock your money into that visa card and memorize your pin.  Third, go SLOW and watch and observe and be alert.  They will be so excited with hopes up in the sky the first week being with you.  Let that Blow over OK.  The first week there, sleep by yourself, and kindly send her home at night.  You don't know whom your dealing with and Thais are indeed sneeky.  Don't believe me?  Ok be with them and now they speak Thai to someone, do you know what they are talking about?   It could be a million things.

I don't know how long you staying there, but to really start getting to know this person takes about 30 days minimum.  Most will put up the good front and side of them easy for 2 weeks.  After that they let their guards down a bit, and start making slips here and there etc.   By the 4th week they are pretty much used to you and now you will begin to see who they really are daily or nightly.

So keep your hands in your pants, respect the thai women, be friendly and smile and all the while in the meantime be suspicious of them by watching and observing them and listening.  OK  Don't make any hasty decisons because they pressure you for this and that.  Just go SLOW.

After that then you be the judge.   Good luck to you.

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[Bud Zumwalt]

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To you all,

I have made a slight change in my airline arrangements, the itineracy, I will not be arriving at BKK Airport as previously stated. This is my note to my friend in Thailand, she is really so nice ..

Latest email and written in replies,

Axxxx, dearest ..

When you start your travel? {Bud says}I have a slight change in plans, I will be flying straight into Saigon first, my stay in Saigon will be short. So do not bother going to the airport, I will be calling you from the hotel when I arrive, so we can meet. It should only be a matter of a short time longer than expected .. I hope you understand my change is necessary .. I need to take care of a little business in Saigon first .. please be patient .. I would enjoy meeting you when in the best possible appearance .. {She says} Axxxx packed my cloths already for stay with you at hotel and hospital.{Bud says} I definitely will call you once in Bangkok .. be patient .. patience is a virtue .. {She said} See you on xth October at airport. not on the xth but soon after .. wait for my call .. please ..

Peter or Bud

Unfortunately I am very busy and can not produce many replies at this time.

[SoCal]

Going to Saigon first? Other penpals?

[Bud Zumwalt]

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To So Cal,

Actually I do not have any under tow;however, seems Mr. Vietnam, my neighbor here in Flordia, who may different in views than I, sent me an entire web site full of beautiful Nam ladies, he has a very beautiful wife from Nam. Right now I am not in the mood for any more pen pals. I am not a butterfly, and chose not to collect them.  It has been a long time since Nam in 1970-72, and I just need to touch base again, memories and this time not being shot at.  Additionally,

To Dave Yo,

Your comments throughout this entire web site are very informative and never short, I took the advise your gave me and figured out I needed to come up with a plan to keep her out of my room till I see, know her better, I feel that I should meet her but not at the airport, perhaps the time in Nam will work to my advantage in more ways then one, since she cannot snag me, I will meet her, it will be my time and my way, that is the plan, my plan, not hers. Dave Yo thank you for your well taken advise.

Bud

[Bud Zumwalt]

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The lastest email including Bud's answers, this one is must reading ...

Axxxx dearest,

Thanks for you telling me about the delay in your trip.{Bud says} It is not much of a delay, I just will visit their Vietnam Immigration people and look at some other social economic details, just a few days, you see right now it is my opinion that farangs are no longer wanted within Thailand by some of your people and their government, so a smart man always checks his options before he decides, now Saigon is only a 15 minute flight from where you live, so I will be with you soon .. {She says}I am never too bored to meet you.{Bud says}I realize you do not get bored easily, and unless your actually turn out to be the biggest con on God's Green Earth, and out too fleece Bud for all he's worth, I will not be bored with you either ..

{She says} I wish you are happy about your work in Saigon. {Bud says}it is kind of work, no play, no ladies, I am not a butterfly .. {She says} I always understand you.{Bud says}one of the few that do .. {She says} Please tell me about your trip via email because I have some problems about listening to English via phone which may cause wrong communication between us. {Bud says}OK, I will find an interpreter to speak for me, when I see you I will have computer software, so when I type in what I have to say, it will show you in Thai language .. communication not a problem for us .. do not worry about it .. {She says}I’m waiting for you. {Bud says} I  am really interested in you, I am sometimes amazed with you .. I think since it is my objective to find a long term lady, even if I have to travel from Vietnam to see her or stay with her .. it is for the best we just do not meet, then head straight to the hotel, really Arlee you must realize that to fast into the bed does not show well for long term possibilities .. so this way is best .. right??

Peter or Bud

[PattayaEx]

<font color='#000000'>bud, show her what a gentleman you are and book her into her own room.</font>

i say BANG her quick and make like a bird................