Virginity - Dignity Or Lack Of Opportunity

[Jimmy in Bangkok]

Good call Daleyboy

[mich]

I have been wondering for the last few months about this.

Virginity - a matter of dignity or lack of opportunity.

I have been having sex for last six and half years now and had few women in my life. I had only virgin girl. My current GF is a girl who was not virgin when I met her. She had had sex with 1/2 guyz before she met me.

I really wonder and sometimes I become furious because I love her so much and I want to marry her. But it seems that her loss of virginity is a matter that will bother me for all my life.

Although, she is too much honest and loyal to me and she has had sex 3/4 times only (she refuses to tell any details. according to her its something, she is too much ashamed of). According to her she has had sex because of the guy lied to her that he is single and as soon as she knew that he is married, she left her immediately. BTW she lost her virginity to that guy.

Its too difficult to figure it out whether she was really willing to have sex and whatever she has done with that guy.

P.S. THIS IS THE REAL STORY AND IS QUOTED FOR YOUR COMMENTS. IT HAPPENED TO ONE OF MY GOOD FRIEND

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[mich]

Sorry everyoneI am am trying to get used to how this thing works, but honestly this guy is a real moroon

[Gazza]

but honestly this guy is a real moroon

There's plenty of them around, beleave me.

[meom]

Sorry everyoneI am am trying to get used to how this thing works, but honestly this guy is a real moroon

Why?

[ajarnmark]

I have been wondering for the last few months about this.

I have been having sex for last six and half years now and had few women in my life. I had only virgin girl. My current GF is a girl who was not virgin when I met her. She had had sex with 1/2 guyz before she met me.

Although, she is too much honest and loyal to me and she has had sex 3/4 times only (she refuses to tell any details. according to her its something, she is too much ashamed of). According to her she has had sex because of the guy lied to her that he is single and as soon as she knew that he is married, she left her immediately. BTW she lost her virginity to that guy.

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6,5 years, 1/2 guyz (trans'ls ?), 3/4times ( 75% of what ?) - pretty wierd...

are you a muslim, so virginity is so important for you ?

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1/2 = 1 or 2 guyz, 3/4 times = 3 or 4 times.......

yeah its pretty weird for me too

maybe that guyz is muslim, I am not sure, as I told you that this happened with one of guy I know..... its not me

[ajarnmark]

Two points ....

1.. After reading the OP again it seems this is a statement from a "friend"

2.. I think markajarn is female

Can you please confirm markajarn

totster 

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hey totster

1. yes, u r true, this happend to one of the guy I know..... and not with me..... of course

2. u r wrong, I m a guy.... 100%

Cheerz

[majush]

If he is not a muslim, he is an Indian... My country is full with such weird kids...

[Totster]

2. u r wrong, I m a guy.... 100%

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he he... I wasn't sure because you had posted in a "girls" get together thread....

totster

[daleyboy]

2. u r wrong, I m a guy.... 100%

he he... I wasn't sure because you had posted in a "girls" get together thread....

totster

Whats going on tots? Have i entered the twilight zone?

[Totster]

2. u r wrong, I m a guy.... 100%

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he he... I wasn't sure because you had posted in a "girls" get together thread....

totster

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Whats going on tots? Have i entered the twilight zone?

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Based on previous posts I was wondering whether he was in fact a she... he has posted and said he is definately not a she.

totster

[siamesekitty]

I'm guessing the OP is a Thai guy, and the couple he describes is Thai, maybe in their twenties and in college (or working age, early thirties at the most)

I don't find the problem really strange, rather reflects a double standard that a lot of Thai guys have. It's fine for them to be "playboy" and have sex with their girlfriends, but when they're looking to settle down they somehow expect their future wives to be pristine white, untouched virgins. A statement like "I don't want the woman who will be the mother of my children to have been tainted by other guys" is not uncommon.

Unrealistic expectations by the guys, yes. Unrealistic situation in Thai society, no.

Before I get a whole bunch of comments regarding how "Thai culture is not as conservative as all the Thais and Thailand-loving farangs make it out to be", just keep in mind that in general society, the conservative premarital-sex-is-a-no-no attitude is still prevailent (even if in their private lives they do get down and dirty themselves).

[sadman]

I have been having sex for last six and half years now

I'm impressed. I don't normally last more than an hour - less if I've been on the lash.

[opothai]

I have been having sex for last six and half years now

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I'm impressed. I don't normally last more than an hour - less if I've been on the lash.

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i hope my mrs dosn't read this

i keep telling her that when i get older it will ast longer, but she tells me i am old