Does My Cat Really Love Me?

[Familyonthemove]

I took in a stray kitten last year and she sits on my lap each evening as we watch TV together and curls up on my bed each night to sleep. She very cute and seems fond of me, but there's a big age difference, she's around 8 and half months old and I'm 67. Do you think she only stays with me for the cat food and plastic mice?

Also, recently her family have been coming around to my house at night and meowing loudly outside my door. Should I feed them or will this cause more problems in future?

Edited January 25, 2011 by Familyonthemove

[robblok]

I think you hit the nail on its head if there was no food and shelter she would be gone. You can of course feed the family but that means you will have to keep doing it. They will come back untill the food is gone then they will find a new farang to milk.

[robblok]

However if you were to take a DOG then you are more likely to find love. Age difference does not matter that much, a sleek young kitten will take advantage of you but an old DOG will be forever gratefull and protect you

[bkkjames]

However if you were to take a DOG then you are more likely to find love. Age difference does not matter that much, a sleek young kitten will take advantage of you but an old DOG will be forever gratefull and protect you

Yea but I would much rather play fetch with a young bitch than an old one.

[Familyonthemove]

However if you were to take a DOG then you are more likely to find love. Age difference does not matter that much, a sleek young kitten will take advantage of you but an old DOG will be forever gratefull and protect you

.... but dogs can't play pool. And I'm a cat lover

[Moonrakers]

Send her out to contribute. No reason why she can't bring some mice and rats home herself.

[mstribling]

I think "cat" is code for "Wife/GF" Sorry OP just joking. Seriously, your cat is an animal and does not love you.

[nocturn]

I think "cat" is code for "Wife/GF" Sorry OP just joking. Seriously, your cat is an animal and does not love you.

wow, aren't you a literal fellow. American perchance?

[robblok]

However if you were to take a DOG then you are more likely to find love. Age difference does not matter that much, a sleek young kitten will take advantage of you but an old DOG will be forever gratefull and protect you

Yea but I would much rather play fetch with a young bitch than an old one.

I have to agree with you there but then its all about the playing and not the love.

[Moonrakers]

I think "cat" is code for "Wife/GF" Sorry OP just joking. Seriously, your cat is an animal and does not love you.

wow, aren't you a literal fellow. American perchance?

It's the OP's fault.

He should have written "THIS IS AN ANALOGY" in big flashing letters. This is Thaivisa after all.

[mstribling]

Yes. I get it

[OxfordWill]

She's clearly only into you for the whiskers, take it away and see how long she stays around!

Cheapest lesson you ever learned- don't meet your cats on the street! If you don't like it you can walk. TIT. Vote with your feet.

Prepare for the stray apologists...

[ignoramus]

If she licks you, she appreciates you, and your largesse. Do you require more? Dogs want [need] a pack leader, not a buddy. Puhhlease let's not discuss lerve, far too complicated a subject. More comments from dumbass cat-haters please. I'll get back to you.

[Ulysses G.]

As long as my pussy puts a lot of effort in pretending to love me, that is good enough.

[naboo]

Start bringing home Tesco Value cat food. Continue to give her all the love and affection and she may start finding some good protein from the fields around to supplement your basics. If she sticks around she probably likes you.

Alternatively, just stop feeding her altogether and see if she can fend for herself. Still give her the love and affection you have for her, and if she loves you she'll stick around.

If with either of the above she heads off into someone else's house to receive a nice plate of Whiskers, you've got a lovely cat on the surface, but a deceitful one inside.

Cats are easy to figure out really, its just a question of whether you want to know their true feelings. In my experience, go for one that's a bit rough looking (you don't need to get an old dog though) that nobody else will take in. She'll come back to you no matter what.

Edited January 25, 2011 by naboo

[lannarebirth]

No, your cat doesn't really love you. She's just using you, same as mine does to me. Sadly, I've got 8 1/2 years into this relationship instead of 8 1/2 months. Cats! What can you do?

[lannarebirth]

If she licks you, she appreciates you, and your largesse. Do you require more? Dogs want [need] a pack leader, not a buddy. Puhhlease let's not discuss lerve, far too complicated a subject. More comments from dumbass cat-haters please. I'll get back to you.

But she's got such a bumpy tongue it sends chills up my spine. I think she's just like my cow (who's got an even bumpier tongue), and only licks me for the salt she can get.

[swissie]

I think "cat" is code for "Wife/GF" Sorry OP just joking. Seriously, your cat is an animal and does not love you.

wow, aren't you a literal fellow. American perchance?

It's the OP's fault.

He should have written "THIS IS AN ANALOGY" in big flashing letters. This is Thaivisa after all.

This could turn into one of the funniest posts here ever. As long as ANALOGY is the funny piece ! Cheers.

[Beetlejuice]

I think the OP is extremely lucky.

I`ve never found any stray pussy wandering in my back yard.

[ballpoint]

My cat truly loves me for who I am, but then again it is half Chinese and comes from a good area of Bangkok

[phaethon]

[MJP]

Get a dog, cats don't love anyone but themselves.

[IanForbes]

The trouble with a nice little pussy is it grows up to be a big cat and take over your favorite couch

And you've got to be careful of the shaved pussy, and especially in Thailand. They are very dangerous creatures.

[MidoriApple]

Come on, OP asked about his cat, not a Thai girl...

How can we suspect in cat's love?

sitting on your lap? Rarely seen this.. usually come meow..meow when he/ she is hungry only..

woww.. such a lovely cat you have, op.

[Boo]

ballpoint

My cat truly loves me for who I am, but then again it is half Chinese and comes from a good area of Bangkok

PMSL, I nearly choked on my cup of tea when I read this. classic

[endure]

Cats never love you. They say they do but they eat all your whiskas, drink all your milk and talk about you to their catmates when you're not around. Even worse they sneak out and crap all over your lawn

[MidoriApple]

I think she does.

[Boo]

and you sometimes here about cats prowling around behind trusting owners backs with some local tomcat

[Huey]

Well the problem is to many guys come here and try to be like this man:

When really and truly it's so much more fun to be like this one:

[Patsycat]

I don't care what you lot say about cats.

I love my cat

And he loves me, sometimes. When he wants to.