Western Women

[Donz]

I had a couple of Thai language teachers at the house when I was writing that post and asked them what they found offensive about Farang women and that is the list they gave me. I really like hairy legs

That's pretty funny considering how many Thai women have hairy legs. I've never seen so many women who don't shave that semi black, obvious, and disgusting (in my opinion) hair around the lower leg as I have in Thailand. One of my pet hates about alot of Thai girls.

You almost never see this in Australia / UK.

You do in winter, dont know about the UK but ive been with a few in Oz.

Plus some girls dont shave the upper thighs as nowone can really see it.

Maybe it's the women you are hanging around as I've never seen nor experienced it???

I don't have an issue with the upper thigh hair if it's light and blond - which it always has been in my experience.

Nah, maybe its the women you hang around

My Thai gf has no hair on her legs, blonde hair is still hair, i prefer NO hair on my womans legs, i also have never met a thai girl with hair on her legs

[bbigman21]

I know it is not fair to bash western women. Because there are a lot of good ones. They problem that I have noticed in American women is that they are passive aggressive. I am stating this simply for typing sake. You cannot be Independant being dependant. It just doesn't work well.

Also from what I see most men can be molded to fit a women well and from what I see and what has happend to me here in America. The women just go from one extreme to another. Even the most giving man has a hard time with that.

[seonai]

I agree with Boo earlier - this topic is really boring. Why care???? Glauka I am sure you are very nice but I am also sure that you and I would not be friends. You really are too argumentative, sorry. Being honest. Don't cry please ....

[sbk]

I know it is not fair to bash western women. Because there are a lot of good ones. They problem that I have noticed in American women is that they are passive aggressive. I am stating this simply for typing sake. You cannot be Independant being dependant. It just doesn't work well.

Also from what I see most men can be molded to fit a women well and from what I see and what has happend to me here in America. The women just go from one extreme to another. Even the most giving man has a hard time with that.

Really? you have experience with that many women? Or are you just generalizing about 150 million people? I mean, after all, all 150 million of them must be all the same, right?

[bbigman21]

I am a human being I have every right to generalize everyone does it

[robitusson]

I know it is not fair to bash western women. Because there are a lot of good ones. They problem that I have noticed in American women is that they are passive aggressive. I am stating this simply for typing sake. You cannot be Independant being dependant. It just doe.sn't work well.

Also from what I see most men can be molded to fit a women well and from what I see and what has happend to me here in America. The women just go from one extreme to another. Even the most giving man has a hard time with that.

True. It's wanting the cake and eat it too.

[Glauka]

I agree with Boo earlier - this topic is really boring. Why care???? Glauka I am sure you are very nice but I am also sure that you and I would not be friends. You really are too argumentative, sorry. Being honest. Don't cry please ....

well. If you want to be honest you first need to learn how to be honest. Look why do you think i want to know that you think we can´t be friends? We are not friends and we have never been. We are members of a forum who has share some opinions that´s all.

And anyway friendship is not based in being too argumentative. For me friendship is based on something else, but sincerely Seonai i am not going to tell you what things are important for me for a friendship, because the above comment to me seems mean, out of place, and without any base. Yes i am argumentative but for you that´s more important than to be nice...that´s fine. I am many things apart of being too argumentative...so it seems to me (based on your post) that you are very shallow. Do you know if I am the kind of person who will listen to you if you need to ? Do you know if I am the kind of person who will help you without asking if you need to? Do you know if I am person who you will share some interest? Do you know if i am a person whose company is nice?

No Seonai i am not going to cry because I don´t need people like you in my life.

Honesty is not saying whatever cross your mind without thinking if you can hurt somebody or not. Honesty is to say your opinion or feelings when they are going to be contribute to some aspects to the people life...like other points of views or is going to resolve a problem between you and the person you are being honest to. No Seonai your honesty is not important to me.

So from now on you can keep your honesty to yourself.

[Donz]

ive only been with 2 asians, the rest were western chicks, some where bitches but alot were nice chicks and i have a great relationship with them. My 1st asian gf was a total bitch which i made her hit the road pretty quickly.

It all comes down to personal experiences.

Every chick is different and have there own minds, yeah sure they all complain alot but thats how they are.

It depends on the chick, not the race

[Ulysses G.]

My 1st asian gf was a total bitch

Sounds like just my type!

[bbigman21]

Glauka,

So tell us what it is you expect from a Partner?

[seonai]

Sorry Glauka, you are out of your depth here. Don't tell me i need to learn to be honest when I just said i was being honest!!!!! Please!!!!! You believe very much that YOU have the right to say what you want here on this forum, and therefore so do I.... within reason of course. I feel I made a small comment and you have totally over reacted - to the point of sending me a PM to the same effect!!!!!

Come on, we are all humans, we can all manage to live together on the planet, but we are all different. Finally, one thing I am not..... is shallow!!!!!!

Peace Glauka, peace,

Seonai

Edited March 30, 2006 by seonai

[Patsycat]

I hate being called a chick, makes my hackles rise..

[udon]

I hate being called a chick, makes my hackles rise..

I don't blame you, but bear in mind, the writer is only 16.

Usually a sign of ignorance, I'm surprised the word "sheila" wasn't used.

It's in the same catagory.

[Guest endure]

I hate being called a chick, makes my hackles rise..

I don't blame you, but bear in mind, the writer is only 16.

Usually a sign of ignorance, I'm surprised the word "sheila" wasn't used.

It's in the same catagory.

According to Donz's profile he was born in 1980 - that makes him 26 not 16. He obvioulsy hasn't met the right woman yet else he wouldn't still be using the word 'chick'

[udon]

According to Donz's profile he was born in 1980 - that makes him 26 not 16. He obvioulsy hasn't met the right woman yet else he wouldn't still be using the word 'chick'

Oh. Silly me. I missed his D.o.B

My apologies Donzo!

Back to the topic.

[Glauka]

I agree with Boo earlier - this topic is really boring. Why care???? Glauka I am sure you are very nice but I am also sure that you and I would not be friends.

This is being rude not honest

You really are too argumentative

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this is judgemental not honesty.

sorry

if you were sorry you will have not said in the first place. Sorry is used when you did not like what you said or did and you don´t want to do it again.

Being honest

well if you say so, for me you are just rude and careless

Don't cry please ....

this is sarcams not honesty

Sorry Glauka, you are out of your depth here. Don't tell me i need to learn to be honest when I just said i was being honest!!!!! Please!!!!! You believe very much that YOU have the right to say what you want here on this forum, and therefore so do I.... within reason of course. I feel I made a small comment and you have totally over reacted - to the point of sending me a PM to the same effect!!!!!

Come on, we are all humans, we can all manage to live together on the planet, but we are all different. Finally, one thing I am not..... is shallow!!!!!!

Peace Glauka, peace,

Seonai

Seonai I know who am I. Do you think i over reacted? That´s ok. I don´t care what you think anymore. full stop. You are not shallow? that´s ok. I just don´t care...before I never though it so...now is not something that i want to find out....

And again:

Honesty is not saying whatever cross your mind without thinking if you can hurt somebody or not. Honesty is to say your opinion or feelings when they are going to contribute to some aspects to the people life...like other points of views or is going to resolve a problem between you and the person you are being honest to. No Seonai your honesty is not important to me.

So from now on you can keep your honesty to yourself.

Edited March 30, 2006 by Glauka

[Glauka]

Glauka,

So tell us what it is you expect from a Partner?

What i want

1.honesty

2.self respect and respect to me

3.love and caring

4.support

5.open mind

6."Don´t you worry glauka things will be better,we can do it my love"

7.optimism

8.lots of kissing and holding hands...

9.knows lots of stories that he can tell me before i fall a sleep.

10.SENSE OF HUMOR!!!...LAUGH, LAUGH AND LAUGH TOGETHER

[bbigman21]

Glauka,

So tell us what it is you expect from a Partner?

What i want

1.honesty

2.self respect and respect to me

3.love and caring

4.support

5.open mind

6."Don´t you worry glauka things will be better,we can do it my love"

7.optimism

8.lots of kissing and holding hands...

9.knows lots of stories that he can tell me before i fall a sleep.

10.SENSE OF HUMOR!!!...LAUGH, LAUGH AND LAUGH TOGETHER

That isn't quite what I meant. I did not say all western women just some It is ok to want those things but the problem with some western women is they want to be independant but are not and far from it

[Glauka]

Glauka,

So tell us what it is you expect from a Partner?

What i want

1.honesty

2.self respect and respect to me

3.love and caring

4.support

5.open mind

6."Don´t you worry glauka things will be better,we can do it my love"

7.optimism

8.lots of kissing and holding hands...

9.knows lots of stories that he can tell me before i fall a sleep.

10.SENSE OF HUMOR!!!...LAUGH, LAUGH AND LAUGH TOGETHER

That isn't quite what I meant. I did not say all western women just some It is ok to want those things but the problem with some western women is they want to be independant but are not and far from it

I misunderstood you...so define independant

[Donz]

I hate being called a chick, makes my hackles rise..

I don't blame you, but bear in mind, the writer is only 16.

Usually a sign of ignorance, I'm surprised the word "sheila" wasn't used.

It's in the same catagory.

According to Donz's profile he was born in 1980 - that makes him 26 not 16. He obvioulsy hasn't met the right woman yet else he wouldn't still be using the word 'chick'

Sorry ladies, im 25 not 26 just yet. Trust me ive met the perfect lady

[Donz]

I hate being called a chick, makes my hackles rise..

I don't blame you, but bear in mind, the writer is only 16.

Usually a sign of ignorance, I'm surprised the word "sheila" wasn't used.

It's in the same catagory.

Whats wrong with sheila, thats a great aussie slang.

I want to say more but your a mod dam i wish i was that young again

[bbigman21]

Glauka,

So tell us what it is you expect from a Partner?

What i want

1.honesty

2.self respect and respect to me

3.love and caring

4.support

5.open mind

6."Don´t you worry glauka things will be better,we can do it my love"

7.optimism

8.lots of kissing and holding hands...

9.knows lots of stories that he can tell me before i fall a sleep.

10.SENSE OF HUMOR!!!...LAUGH, LAUGH AND LAUGH TOGETHER

That isn't quite what I meant. I did not say all western women just some It is ok to want those things but the problem with some western women is they want to be independant but are not and far from it

I misunderstood you...so define independant

Look some women not all I am sure there are still some here in the west, but the problem seems to be some women want to be equal but the still want you to do everything for them. How is that equal?

[mark45y]

As the lady judge looked sympathetically at my soon to be ex wife and said, “Honey are you sure you don’t want anything else” I did not feel very equal.

[Boo]

still want you to do everything for them. How is that equal?

Define everything. Feed them, wash them, wheel them around? Maybe you are meeting the wrong women?

[robitusson]

As the lady judge looked sympathetically at my soon to be ex wife and said, “Honey are you sure you don’t want anything else” I did not feel very equal.

Doubtless ahe said "I'll have my cake and I'll eat it too thanks".

[sbk]

As the lady judge looked sympathetically at my soon to be ex wife and said, “Honey are you sure you don’t want anything else” I did not feel very equal.

Well mark45y, if the story of your life as posted in the Ladies forum is anything close to reality (or even not that close) seems to me your wife needed all the sympathy she could get

[mark45y]

As the lady judge looked sympathetically at my soon to be ex wife and said, “Honey are you sure you don’t want anything else” I did not feel very equal.

Well mark45y, if the story of your life as posted in the Ladies forum is anything close to reality (or even not that close) seems to me your wife needed all the sympathy she could get

Touché sbk. So you don’t feel too bad for them, wife number two got two homes, one on the beach and remarried and now has a 3000 square foot garage to house their 6 automobiles and they live in a gated estate with the yacht parked in a canal by the back door. They rent out my beach house for three grand a week in season. I like the guy though he bought my daughter a new Porsche when she graduated from college.

Wife number three got a new four bedroom ranch house on a quarter acre and all of the equity in the place and my citrus orchard and my truck. I really liked the truck.

I feel like it is my contribution to making western women equal at least in a financial sense.

[Boo]

I think the point is your story doesn't leave you in a totally blameless light so you can hardly blame "western women" for living in a society that awards compesation to scorned wives.

[mark45y]

I think the point is your story doesn't leave you in a totally blameless light so you can hardly blame "western women" for living in a society that awards compesation to scorned wives.

I am not bitter towards the legal system or the ex wives. I paid my money and took my chances.

I am the last person in the world to paint myself as blameless. I spent a very impressionable period of my young life in Thailand. I left and returned to the states when I was 23.

I didn’t know it then but now I realize what happened. I didn’t fit in culturally when I returned to the West.

Ex wife two and three are both wonderful western women but I should have stayed in Thailand.

Thailand does not have the same effect on everyone as it had on me. It was a combination of my young age and the events that were happening in South East Asia when I was here the first time. It was like a narcotic. In the two years I lived here I had lived ten years of life.

[sbk]

Not blameless, no I never got the impression you thought you were blameless.

Full of excuses, on the other hand.....