45 Year Old Vs 25 Year Old

[falang1969]

Ok my life has come to something to ask for advice here!

1. I am 45 male

2. She is 25 girl

3. I have been around the block

4. Lived in Thailand 8 years and have heard, known of ALL the horror stories and more!

5. Done the lot and lost the lot (well not all) but you get the idea!

6. Me, previous relationship with Thai bar girl 6 years, nothing bad, I live here 95% of the year, just grew apart from each other.

Ok, that's out of the way, before I get the usual TV abuse!

No, not a troll!

Ok I will continue.....met a girl, known her for a few months, started online, then Skype, then met, etc normal gal, works in a factory, cute (as you would expect) and she is an only child and is just a normal girl, not a bar girl, in fact she has probably never even seen a girly bar!

Been out with her a few times, cool girl, university educated and not into Thai men, only one Thai BF in last 5 years, works all the time like a dog for peanuts...normal income, relatively poor family who owns a farm.

She says age not important (English language maybe 40%) but easy to communicate with my 25% Thai language skills.

So, what I want to hear from is older (not whoremongers) TV members who have met and had a successful relationship with a girl a lot younger than themselves!

No alarm bells ringing at the moment and taking everything at face value.

So....is it possible?

[smokie36]

First post eh?

Uni educated and working in a factory?

Hmmmmm!

[falkan]

get girl that makes the same amount you get a month, then atleast you can share on everything and you never get bored dating poor girls? i notice some hi-so girls takes better care of you then poor issan-girls..

[RakJungTorlae]

Anything is possible, you are the master of your own destiny.

[Beechboy]

I think the age difference will be a problem ........... you're too young.

[wooloomooloo]

First post eh?

Uni educated and working in a factory?

Hmmmmm!

Why shouldn't she be working a factory? Not all graduates skip out of university in to well-paid careers. No different to the UK.

A very tunnel vision and slightly unfair.

[wooloomooloo]

get girl that makes the same amount you get a month, then atleast you can share on everything and you never get bored dating poor girls? i notice some hi-so girls takes better care of you then poor issan-girls..

Equally as poor a post as the previous. Your chat up lines commences 'how much money do you earn?'?.

What else do you notice?

[falang1969]

First post eh?

Uni educated and working in a factory?

Hmmmmm!

Oh please....a new profile been on here years.....she is an analyst testing samples of milk...remember 25 years old...not going to be in the advanced stages of her career! Also, a uni eductation here does not give you direct access to the best jobs...have you seen some of the Uni's here???? Lol

Here is the first one....well done!

[falang1969]

First post eh?

Uni educated and working in a factory?

Hmmmmm!

Why shouldn't she be working a factory? Not all graduates skip out of university in to well-paid careers. No different to the UK.

A very tunnel vision and slightly unfair.

Very good, top of the class! I know many Uni educated kids in the UK working fork lift trucks! You are someone with an ounce of reality! Thank you.

[falang1969]

Next......

[NeverSure]

There truly are women in every culture who prefer an older man. Pick your reason - stability, maturity, wild oats all sewn, and more. But they are the minority when it comes to 20 years.

There truly are younger women who will marry an older man for money. See Donald Trump. Be sure the money doesn't run out.

Prefers farang to Thai men? I think that's largely the same scam as prefers older men. Prefers money maybe. I think most Thai women would prefer a Thai man every time if he had money. Many have a Thai boyfriend brother the whole time.

Sorry, I'm cynical. Don't bet the farm on it or invest all you have.

[HardenedSoul]

Don't want to rain on the OP's parade but

university educated and not into Thai men

Is that what she told you or what you're assuming?

[falang1969]

get girl that makes the same amount you get a month, then atleast you can share on everything and you never get bored dating poor girls? i notice some hi-so girls takes better care of you then poor issan-girls..

Is that the best you have got? I also notice that some Hiso girls just sit in front of a mirror or phone all day taking pics of herself! Waiting for Mr Rich Thai to take care of her! No she is not your "normal" poor Issan girl! Lives nowhere near Issan (not that there is anything wrong with an Isaan girl!) In fact, dated one a few months ago who owned her own English school worked in the UK for a few years and worked hard to get where she is today, a successful business woman earning 500k a month and employing around 10 staff, 27 years old and spoke perfect English and passionate about it...was she Hiso? Not at all!

[falang1969]

There truly are women in every culture who prefer an older man. Pick your reason - stability, maturity, wild oats all sewn, and more. But they are the minority when it comes to 20 years.

There truly are younger women who will marry an older man for money. See Donald Trump. Be sure the money doesn't run out.

Prefers farang to Thai men? I think that's largely the same scam as prefers older men. Prefers money maybe. I think most Thai women would prefer a Thai man every time if he had money. Many have a Thai boyfriend brother the whole time.

Sorry, I'm cynical. Don't bet the farm on it or invest all you have.

Very true...but are Thai men are sooooo faithful and honest that a Falang is not a viable alternative for some 'educated' girls?! Yes no there is no older brother....yet? Don't worry I will be looking out for him, if there is one! I will not be betting on the farm....you have read my initial post? Been there, got the T-Shirt a long time ago! Lol

[Sun Tzu]

There truly are women in every culture who prefer an older man. Pick your reason - stability, maturity, wild oats all sewn, and more. But they are the minority when it comes to 20 years.

There truly are younger women who will marry an older man for money. See Donald Trump. Be sure the money doesn't run out.

Prefers farang to Thai men? I think that's largely the same scam as prefers older men. Prefers money maybe. I think most Thai women would prefer a Thai man every time if he had money. Many have a Thai boyfriend brother the whole time.

Sorry, I'm cynical. Don't bet the farm on it or invest all you have.

Yes because all girls are in love with their Father,Freud called it the Electra complex,the male equivalent is the Oedipus complex!

Edited April 9, 2013 by Sun Tzu

[falang1969]

Don't want to rain on the OP's parade but

university educated and not into Thai men

Is that what she told you or what you're assuming?

Maybe, just maybe, she is looking for an honest older guy, not a 24 year old Thai guy with 3 dicks out to shag whatever he can ....just a possibility maybe?

[falang1969]

get girl that makes the same amount you get a month, then atleast you can share on everything and you never get bored dating poor girls? i notice some hi-so girls takes better care of you then poor issan-girls..

Is that the best you have got? I also notice that some Hiso girls just sit in front of a mirror or phone all day taking pics of herself! Waiting for Mr Rich Thai to take care of her! No she is not your "normal" poor Issan girl! Lives nowhere near Issan (not that there is anything wrong with an Isaan girl!) In fact, dated one a few months ago who owned her own English school worked in the UK for a few years and worked hard to get where she is today, a successful business woman earning 500k a month and employing around 10 staff, 27 years old and spoke perfect English and passionate about it...was she Hiso? Not at all!

And before I get questioned on the 500k, she also did translation work at a ridiculous fee for translating scientific documents with words in the English language even I had never heard of!

[falang1969]

There truly are women in every culture who prefer an older man. Pick your reason - stability, maturity, wild oats all sewn, and more. But they are the minority when it comes to 20 years.

There truly are younger women who will marry an older man for money. See Donald Trump. Be sure the money doesn't run out.

Prefers farang to Thai men? I think that's largely the same scam as prefers older men. Prefers money maybe. I think most Thai women would prefer a Thai man every time if he had money. Many have a Thai boyfriend brother the whole time.

Sorry, I'm cynical. Don't bet the farm on it or invest all you have.

Yes because all girls are in love with their Father,Freud called it the Electra complex,the male equivalent is the Oedipus complex!

An interesting theory...and she is an only child and does seem a little resentful of the fact.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oedipus_complex

[Sun Tzu]

get girl that makes the same amount you get a month, then atleast you can share on everything and you never get bored dating poor girls? i notice some hi-so girls takes better care of you then poor issan-girls..

Is that the best you have got? I also notice that some Hiso girls just sit in front of a mirror or phone all day taking pics of herself! Waiting for Mr Rich Thai to take care of her! No she is not your "normal" poor Issan girl! Lives nowhere near Issan (not that there is anything wrong with an Isaan girl!) In fact, dated one a few months ago who owned her own English school worked in the UK for a few years and worked hard to get where she is today, a successful business woman earning 500k a month and employing around 10 staff, 27 years old and spoke perfect English and passionate about it...was she Hiso? Not at all!

And before I get questioned on the 500k, she also did translation work at a ridiculous fee for translating scientific documents with words in the English language even I had never heard of!

Like 'True story'?

Edited April 9, 2013 by Sun Tzu

[falang1969]

get girl that makes the same amount you get a month, then atleast you can share on everything and you never get bored dating poor girls? i notice some hi-so girls takes better care of you then poor issan-girls..

Is that the best you have got? I also notice that some Hiso girls just sit in front of a mirror or phone all day taking pics of herself! Waiting for Mr Rich Thai to take care of her! No she is not your "normal" poor Issan girl! Lives nowhere near Issan (not that there is anything wrong with an Isaan girl!) In fact, dated one a few months ago who owned her own English school worked in the UK for a few years and worked hard to get where she is today, a successful business woman earning 500k a month and employing around 10 staff, 27 years old and spoke perfect English and passionate about it...was she Hiso? Not at all!

And before I get questioned on the 500k, she also did translation work at a ridiculous fee for translating scientific documents with words in the English language even I had never heard of!

Like 'True story'?

Sorry mate, you have lost me on that one! Maybe, you should play Scrabble with her? Then you can judge...as you lose!

So, is there anyone out there who has had a successful relationship with a 20 year age gap?

Edited April 9, 2013 by falang1969

[NeverSure]

There truly are women in every culture who prefer an older man. Pick your reason - stability, maturity, wild oats all sewn, and more. But they are the minority when it comes to 20 years.

There truly are younger women who will marry an older man for money. See Donald Trump. Be sure the money doesn't run out.

Prefers farang to Thai men? I think that's largely the same scam as prefers older men. Prefers money maybe. I think most Thai women would prefer a Thai man every time if he had money. Many have a Thai boyfriend brother the whole time.

Sorry, I'm cynical. Don't bet the farm on it or invest all you have.

Very true...but are Thai men are sooooo faithful and honest that a Falang is not a viable alternative for some 'educated' girls?! Yes no there is no older brother....yet? Don't worry I will be looking out for him, if there is one! I will not be betting on the farm....you have read my initial post? Been there, got the T-Shirt a long time ago! Lol

Are the "older" falangs in Thailand all that hot themselves? IMHO most come here for the girls. I can tell you a lot of stories of unfaithful or downright scamming farangs.

Here are some girls who like only older farangs.

Edited April 9, 2013 by NeverSure

[falang1969]

There truly are women in every culture who prefer an older man. Pick your reason - stability, maturity, wild oats all sewn, and more. But they are the minority when it comes to 20 years.

There truly are younger women who will marry an older man for money. See Donald Trump. Be sure the money doesn't run out.

Prefers farang to Thai men? I think that's largely the same scam as prefers older men. Prefers money maybe. I think most Thai women would prefer a Thai man every time if he had money. Many have a Thai boyfriend brother the whole time.

Sorry, I'm cynical. Don't bet the farm on it or invest all you have.

Very true...but are Thai men are sooooo faithful and honest that a Falang is not a viable alternative for some 'educated' girls?! Yes no there is no older brother....yet? Don't worry I will be looking out for him, if there is one! I will not be betting on the farm....you have read my initial post? Been there, got the T-Shirt a long time ago! Lol

Are the "older" falangs in Thailand all that hot themselves? IMHO most come here for the girls. I can tell you a lot of stories of unfaithful or downright scamming farangs.

Here are some girls who like only older farangs.

"IMHO most come here for the girls"...correct, but not all. And that IS Number One 1 bar!

Edited April 9, 2013 by falang1969

[NeverSure]

Hey, no offense intended. I enjoy it when someone comes to ThaiVisa for relationship advice in the first place.

You'd probably get better advice from a group of bar girls.

[wooloomooloo]

So, is there anyone out there who has had a successful relationship with a 20 year age gap?

Of course. What do you want to know, falang1969? In fact, don't ask.

Make your own mind up. Insecurity is all part of the process.

You'll either get along, or you won't.

Take a very deep breath and consider your feelings.

Edited April 9, 2013 by wooloomooloo

[NeverSure]

Are the "older" falangs in Thailand all that hot themselves? IMHO most come here for the girls. I can tell you a lot of stories of unfaithful or downright scamming farangs.

Here are some girls who like only older farangs.

"IMHO most come here for the girls"...correct, but not all.

I agree. There are some wonderful and faithful fathers and husbands among the farang group. What a lot of people miss is that there are some very good Thai husbands too.

I still contend that all things being equal, a Thai woman will prefer a Thai man or at least an Asian man. I believe the farang offers something more than perceived faithfulness to most Thai women who choose them. I think the Thai woman is hoping for a better life including financially, MOST of the time.

[falang1969]

So, is there anyone out there who has had a successful relationship with a 20 year age gap?

Of course. What do you want to know, falang1969? In fact, don't ask.

Make your own mind up. Insecurity is all part of the process.

You'll either get along, or you won't.

Take a very deep breath and consider your feelings.

I think that is my best option in this instance! They have never let me down in the past! Was just interested to know if anyone had had an experience good or bad (excluding the usual Bar girl scenario) of such an age difference.

[wooloomooloo]

I think that is my best option in this instance! They have never let me down in the past! Was just interested to know if anyone had had an experience good or bad (excluding the usual Bar girl scenario) of such an age difference.

You're looking for a tale of bad experience, falang?

There's many and I was scared to death when I met my wife.

I was looking for someone like my wife, found her, then was petrified. Was a strange period of my life.

Didn't last long and made a decision based on my experience of our relationship.

[NeverSure]

So, is there anyone out there who has had a successful relationship with a 20 year age gap?

Of course. What do you want to know, falang1969? In fact, don't ask.

Make your own mind up. Insecurity is all part of the process.

You'll either get along, or you won't.

Take a very deep breath and consider your feelings.

I think that is my best option in this instance! They have never let me down in the past! Was just interested to know if anyone had had an experience good or bad (excluding the usual Bar girl scenario) of such an age difference.

There was a fairly recent thread with lots of guys talking about good long term relationships. I can't find it. Maybe someone can.

There are lots more threads contrary to that though.

[Beetlejuice]

Dear Mr Farang1969.

You claim to be 45 years old. So surely you must have some experience with women and have done the rounds by now?

So why are you asking us? What sort of answers are you looking for?

You`re probably big enough and ugly enough to make your own judgements and just like the rest of us peasants on here, whatever you do, you do at your own risk and discretion..

[JLCrab]

You mean I've kept reading all this and you're never going to tell us why things did not work out with the 27 year-old 500K per month non-HiSo Isaan girl?