chumleywon Posted June 27, 2013 Share Posted June 27, 2013 I'd just like to ask the OP...Where are you from? You seem to type out perfect spelling and perfect "pigeon" style thai/english. Are you from an english speaking country? If so, please speak to the forum in your native tongue...things could get lost in the pigeon. It always makes me crazy when people who speak english as their first language speak to me like I'm Thai. No GOOD! Make me crazy to much! Sorry if I'm of base but this could help you with your communications here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transam Posted June 27, 2013 Share Posted June 27, 2013 I'd just like to ask the OP...Where are you from? You seem to type out perfect spelling and perfect "pigeon" style thai/english. Are you from an english speaking country? If so, please speak to the forum in your native tongue...things could get lost in the pigeon. It always makes me crazy when people who speak english as their first language speak to me like I'm Thai. No GOOD! Make me crazy to much! Sorry if I'm of base but this could help you with your communications here. Eh . Must point out Your English is not top notch. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lostmebike Posted June 27, 2013 Share Posted June 27, 2013 Is this topic for real? Is this middle school? Just be a man and write her a note... "check yes or no".... but seriously. ... man up bro. Sent from my GT-I9500 Man the **ck up dude! Got to agree though, has the man ANY experience with the lovelier sex??? Read the signs and go with them! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iancnx Posted June 27, 2013 Share Posted June 27, 2013 Troll for sure! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lostmebike Posted June 27, 2013 Share Posted June 27, 2013 @realenglish1 'I met my finance in a restraurant. She was shitting with a group of 10 woman. She smiled at me so I went over and gave her my telephone number' Now there's a thought! One wouldn't know where to look upon entering an eating establishment only to witness 10 Thai ladies defecating on the floor! I know the Thai's like to squat but c'mon! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iancnx Posted June 27, 2013 Share Posted June 27, 2013 Quote: // I never asked from a girl before, // My limited experience of persons where English is second language would suggest that ASK is more likely than ASKED. ..... Might be wrong, as I am not TEFL . So OP what's it to be next? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hellodolly Posted June 27, 2013 Share Posted June 27, 2013 Get some exoerience.. take lots if girls out to est and be friends then see what developes. Thsis sre normally always up for some food! You are going to have to learn that the customs are different here than back home and you are correct in asking for advice. The first thing you should do is as others have suggested ask her if she has a boy friend, I find it odd that the owner would spend so much time talking to one customer. Or are you reading more into it. If all else fails Take the other girls to the restaurant she owns. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donnie Brasco Posted June 27, 2013 Share Posted June 27, 2013 The woman is using you to practice her English skills. She is using you to maintain and perhaps upgrade her flirtation skills. She is also using you to show off the English skills to her friends. She is using your sessions to prove to herself that she's still got it. She's got you as a regular customer. Her gifts are a submission/compliance gambit; she'll wind down her end of that if there's ever any sex between you and you'll liquidate and then escalate your contributions. Other advice is spot on. Thai women are purposefully obvious. If they are interested they will let you know in no uncertain terms. Thai women are as "full-on" about being women (and pursuing the attention and security that women traditionally want) as men in general are about t*ts and @$$ and chasing tail. Only problem here is that they are FAMOUS for creating drama between themselves and old boyfriends. Upon learning there is a hapless farang around an old boyfriend may renew his interest in her. So yeah, you might want to abandon your maidenly reserve and grill her about all her boyfriends. As in: Do you have a boyfriend at this time? (Then) Have you ever had a boyfriend before ? And finally, would you like to try a bit of farang charcuterie and all the amuse geuelle action that accompanies it. (You know sweet cheeks, all that nasty Internet stuff you've giggled about with your friends here but that Thai boys won't do :-) 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post crazykopite Posted June 27, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted June 27, 2013 God this has to be a wind up cannot believe that someone wants to know how to date a Thai woman can I suggest that the quickest way would be to open your wallet and let all your credit and atm cards fall out so she could help you pick them up, from what I hear it works every time !!!!!!!!!! 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jojodontyouknow Posted June 27, 2013 Share Posted June 27, 2013 I swear I have the greatest laughs checking out the posts on this site. Thanks to all of you!!! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lucjoker Posted June 27, 2013 Share Posted June 27, 2013 if she hags herself out of love ,you know for sure she was in love, but you still dont know if it was you ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Louisblackbird Posted June 27, 2013 Share Posted June 27, 2013 I got that T shirt Be patient it'll be worth it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misterphil Posted June 27, 2013 Share Posted June 27, 2013 I met my finance in a restraurant. She was shitting with a group of 10 woman. She smiled at me so I went over and gave her my telephone number. She was doing what? Shitting with a group of 10 women? LOLSounds like he gatecrashed a hens night. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cobra1 Posted June 27, 2013 Share Posted June 27, 2013 Heay namporn do you want a shag or not if not she a lesbian Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anon999 Posted June 27, 2013 Share Posted June 27, 2013 Respectable Thai ladies like the man to lead. So don't be backward in coming forward. Maybe she is not really interested in going to an eatery, find out what she would like to do/see. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MZsolt Posted June 27, 2013 Author Share Posted June 27, 2013 Hi Everybody, first: I'm not troll, and my post is not a joke. Maybe is a bit stupid, can not say that is not - but I never meet with this problem before. About asking directly Bf: yes, I will do, but anyway, before I live in many countrys, and never needed to do this - if something worked, than needed nothing to ask, and was enough few days to get results. About my first post: the question was just that I found strange that I get almost 1 gift/ week from a woman, and after she refuse my invitation. In all my life was this rule before: - gifts, smiley, etc. = will be something, - just smiley talk = nothing, just a bit flirting. Fir this situation I get just 2+1 explication: - 2: see my first post, - 1: what told here other people too: she has no this kind of interest. Zsolt Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnotherOneAmerican Posted June 27, 2013 Share Posted June 27, 2013 (edited) Just ask her to go to a short-time hotel with you. "by (rawng ram) maan root dui gan dai mai" Edited June 27, 2013 by AnotherOneAmerican 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
F4UCorsair Posted June 27, 2013 Share Posted June 27, 2013 Message me with her restaurant address and cell 'phone number and I'll do the ground work for you. Seriously!! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoshowJones Posted June 27, 2013 Share Posted June 27, 2013 Maybe she wants to find out how rich you are. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MZsolt Posted June 27, 2013 Author Share Posted June 27, 2013 (edited) Possum, sometimes she use Mercedes, or Porshe, but I allways go there with motobyke. From that reason I mentioned this on my first post as a possible reason - if in this thai families is a bit other a possible dating with a farang? Edited June 27, 2013 by MZsolt Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoshowJones Posted June 27, 2013 Share Posted June 27, 2013 Its easy to tell if she likes you. Just tell her your intentions Say I like you and I want to know you Do you have a boyfriend. Is she says no Then the door is opened I met my finance in a restraurant. She was shitting with a group of 10 woman. She smiled at me so I went over and gave her my telephone number. I then said I speak Thai but do you speak english she said yes. Then I said give me your telephone number. She smiled and said "for what" I said so I can invite her out to dinner. To make a long story short we are engaged and are to be married November 9th. What I am trying to say is you are the man and Thai woman like us to take control of a situation so man up and tell her you really like her She is probably careful because she is not interested in a one night stand so I would make your intentions known to her and see what happens The worst is she sounds like a nice lady she will let you down softly if she is not interested but knowing Thai woman Go after her like you are tryng to catch that big fish and dont give up unless she says GET LOST Its That simple I met my finance in a restraurant. She was shitting with a group of 10 woman. She smiled at me so I went over and gave her my telephone number. She was doing what? Shitting with a group of 10 women? LOL Can't she go to the toilet? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post mikemac Posted June 27, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted June 27, 2013 I believe the op is either a troll or the village idiot of whatever ban he lives in. @ realenglish1 - Either change your forum name to suit your writing style or think about eating at a different restaurant. And if your missus was indeed doing what you said she was doing I hope the piece of paper you wrote your phone number on was very long and soft. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sirchai Posted June 27, 2013 Share Posted June 27, 2013 Buy her some crisps ! And clean the restaurant tables for her + 1 Clean some tables, where customers just had left their mess. Throw the tablecloth at her ,that will break the ice.... Then she'll smile at you and you can buy some sweet stuff for her.- Always works well.- Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lostmebike Posted June 27, 2013 Share Posted June 27, 2013 Just ask her to go to a short-time hotel with you. "by (rawng ram) maan root dui gan dai mai" Classy 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoshowJones Posted June 27, 2013 Share Posted June 27, 2013 I believe the op is either a troll or the village idiot of whatever ban he lives in. @ realenglish1 - Either change your forum name to suit your writing style or think about eating at a different restaurant. And if your missus was indeed doing what you said she was doing I hope the piece of paper you wrote your phone number on was very long and soft. Have you ever tried writing on toilet paper? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lumply Posted June 27, 2013 Share Posted June 27, 2013 I met my finance in a restraurant. She was shitting with a group of 10 woman. She smiled at me so I went over and gave her my telephone number. Laugh of the day! Love it 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sirchai Posted June 27, 2013 Share Posted June 27, 2013 (edited) I'd just like to ask the OP...Where are you from? You seem to type out perfect spelling and perfect "pigeon" style thai/english. Are you from an english speaking country? If so, please speak to the forum in your native tongue...things could get lost in the pigeon. It always makes me crazy when people who speak english as their first language speak to me like I'm Thai. No GOOD! Make me crazy to much! Sorry if I'm of base but this could help you with your communications here. Eh . Must point out Your English is not top notch. Agree with transam. A pigeon is a bird, usually grey in colour, which has a fat body. Pigeons often live in towns. Seems you don’t. Pidgin is a simple form of a language which speakers of a different language use to communicate. Pidgin is not anyone's first language. Nor is English yours, I’d guess. Do you really speak to the forum, as I prefer to write? No good is not good and makes me too much crazy. Sorry, capitalizing words would definitely help yourself to communicate here. Please shit in your own nest. - Edited June 27, 2013 by sirchai Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emdog Posted June 27, 2013 Share Posted June 27, 2013 Good advice about asking if she has bf etc. However may i advise that ALL of your bs sensors be on full power to read body language, tone, etc. Lying is much higher valued that truth here, and goes double for "saying what you want to hear". I cannot stress this enough! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andre0720 Posted June 27, 2013 Share Posted June 27, 2013 Typically, a Thai girl will like a man more easily if she has something financial to gain from the relationship. (Oh darn I am getting in trouble 555) Depends on her age. Seems to me that women past their thirties and financially independent are quite comfortable living by themselves. Actually, I met quite a few women who claim they are now too old for a relationship, (beautiful 35 to 40 year old women), or claim they are too busy at their work. They are beautiful, and appear to be by themselves. Of course at that age, many have had enough of relationships, because of experience with Thai men. So how old is she? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thailampang Posted June 27, 2013 Share Posted June 27, 2013 After 3 years in this country and now happily married, I can tell you that In Thailand you can ask EVERYTHING to a woman...It is normal..and she will ask EVERYTHING to you.....and you do not have to believe in her and she may not believe in you...that's normal too here...But...be sure she is not married. Ask. Even if she is not happy with her marriage and she is looking for a "change", you may get into a BIG trouble dating a married woman. If she is given you presents, she may be interested in you. If she accept a date with you, it is normal that she wills ask you if she can shows up with a friend, at least for the first date. If she shows up alone, or if she accept another date and she shows up alone...it is all yours....but...do not touch her in public. You can ask her to visit your home and probably she will accept....sooner or later... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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