billSMITH Posted January 30, 2014 Share Posted January 30, 2014 (edited) However I would add that maybe the OP would be better off without the business, if one can call it that. One guy agrees with me.....lol. It aint a legit business! Please read my critique of what kind of girl accepts these deals. Surely not middle class chicks. If op want to canoe up-stream wo a paddle - please do so. Its freaking comical. I could be wrongbut this whole deal has bargirl imprints all over it................lol. Noodle shop.....................lol. Op want to be knight in LOSING MONEY armor. OK so be it. Whats even sorrier is that guys are defending the indefensible. Edited January 30, 2014 by billSMITH Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post transam Posted January 30, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted January 30, 2014 However I would add that maybe the OP would be better off without the business, if one can call it that. One guy agrees with me.....lol. It aint a legit business! Please read my critique of what kind of girl accepts these deals. Surely not middle class chicks. If op want to canoe up-stream wo a paddle - please do so. Its freaking comical. Op want to be knight in LOSING MONEY armor. OK so be it. You are a derogatory troll...........Gawd 'elp us.............. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wym Posted January 30, 2014 Share Posted January 30, 2014 (edited) you know what they say - Bigamy is defined as one wife too many - but then so is monogamy!! for those not doing it right maybe and "bigamy" only applies to the legally registered marriages, not Thai style. Edited January 30, 2014 by wym Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wym Posted January 30, 2014 Share Posted January 30, 2014 (edited) It aint a legit business! Please read my critique of what kind of girl accepts these deals. Surely not middle class chicks. If op want to canoe up-stream wo a paddle - please do so. Its freaking comical. Op want to be knight in LOSING MONEY armor. OK so be it. Not "legit" how? And I don't see any post by you worthy of the term "critique". What makes you think "middle class to hi-so" is better than peasant farm girl? To each their own, I wouldn't go near anything but the latter myself. And finally it's his money to spend how he likes, as long as he can afford the (small) losses - maybe it'll even make a bit of profit for his teerak who knows - but in any case none of your business to be so asininely judgmental!! Edited January 30, 2014 by wym 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Water Buffalo Posted January 30, 2014 Share Posted January 30, 2014 I am sorry. I don't understand the dilemma. Do nothing. If she doesn't cheat, the guy will get bored and move on. If she does cheat, let her have him and you move on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mmh8 Posted January 30, 2014 Share Posted January 30, 2014 someone stated it already in diffeent way, keep your enemies close, well I guess its two way sword. If this copper speaks good english just ask him what he wants. Be straight up, find out what he wants, why he is there, I know that if police are called for a robbery they will keep coming back to check security as long as they are paid, I am not sure if this is legitimate or not but that is the case, once a year. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sirchai Posted January 30, 2014 Share Posted January 30, 2014 my question is.. is he able to arrest me for no reason when i am in thailand? is he able to make it difficult for her shop if she does not welcome his approaches? What are our rights against police as citizen or tourist? Anyone we can turn to if we encounter dishonest policemen No cop will arrest you for no reason. Only if he'll find a few kg of Jaba in your luggage... Seems that your girl friend had told him that you're not really her boyfriend. You don't have any rights if a few police officers accuse you let's say you'd molested an animal... If he'd really do inappropriate things to her, she'd be able to let him know to piss off in her language/ body language. You should think why would this woman love you? Because you're a cow, that can be milked? The Thai way of solving such a problem, but only if he'd really do weird stuff would be to teach him a lesson. It's cheap and works well. Other members might be able to let you know how that works. Or you just have a chat with your sweet girlfriend <deleted> she's doing with you.... The "well mannered" cop wouldn't shop up every day, if she wouldn't like it. Or does she have a uniform fetish. ( No joke an American friend's wife tried all coppers of a town that belongs to Sisaket area) Rethink your situation, other mothers also have pretty daughters. - Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dotpoom Posted January 30, 2014 Share Posted January 30, 2014 "I new this would happen one day..!! darn... " Like I always say,..... "We create our own future by what we focus on". Try focusing instead on her business doing well and making her happy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transam Posted January 30, 2014 Share Posted January 30, 2014 my question is.. is he able to arrest me for no reason when i am in thailand? is he able to make it difficult for her shop if she does not welcome his approaches? What are our rights against police as citizen or tourist? Anyone we can turn to if we encounter dishonest policemen No cop will arrest you for no reason. Only if he'll find a few kg of Jaba in your luggage... Seems that your girl friend had told him that you're not really her boyfriend. You don't have any rights if a few police officers accuse you let's say you'd molested an animal... If he'd really do inappropriate things to her, she'd be able to let him know to piss off in her language/ body language. You should think why would this woman love you? Because you're a cow, that can be milked? The Thai way of solving such a problem, but only if he'd really do weird stuff would be to teach him a lesson. It's cheap and works well. Other members might be able to let you know how that works. Or you just have a chat with your sweet girlfriend <deleted> she's doing with you.... The "well mannered" cop wouldn't shop up every day, if she wouldn't like it. Or does she have a uniform fetish. ( No joke an American friend's wife tried all coppers of a town that belongs to Sisaket area) Rethink your situation, other mothers also have pretty daughters. - But, in this case the BiB guy can call immigration and state OP is working, if he wants to get rid of the OP. Lets be careful out there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wym Posted January 30, 2014 Share Posted January 30, 2014 my question is.. is he able to arrest me for no reason when i am in thailand? is he able to make it difficult for her shop if she does not welcome his approaches? What are our rights against police as citizen or tourist? Anyone we can turn to if we encounter dishonest policemen No cop will arrest you for no reason. Only if he'll find a few kg of Jaba in your luggage... Seems that your girl friend had told him that you're not really her boyfriend. You don't have any rights if a few police officers accuse you let's say you'd molested an animal... Yes of course. Yes of course. None No That's right But in practice all this isn't likely unless you're projecting and imagining it all causes it to manifest. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jubes Posted January 30, 2014 Share Posted January 30, 2014 Here's what you do if someone hasn't already suggested it, if he's only interested in your missus then set up a day where he comes in and she has taken the day off, get one of the other staff to say she has gone for her monthly check up at the hospital cause she is terminally ill or some b.s to that effect, that usually makes them run for the hills and hopefully he feels sorry enough not to try and sting you for any cash. That should buy enough time at least to keep the b.s going an you could go anywhere with it, how big is your imagination? You could do this or not.…....maybe I've being in los to long an starting to think like people whose country were in but as the old saying goes, when in rome Sent from my Nexus 7 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wym Posted January 30, 2014 Share Posted January 30, 2014 very bad karma to lie like that, how'll you feel if it happened? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Puccini Posted January 30, 2014 Share Posted January 30, 2014 ... everytime he comes to shop,.he ask her to call me.. and wants to speak with me.. however he is well mannered. ... It must be quite expensive for your friend to call you abroad every time this customer wants to speak with you to practise his English. What country does she have to call for this? Does she use a mobile phone and once the connection with you is established she hands it to the customer so that he can talk to you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChiangraiTony Posted January 30, 2014 Share Posted January 30, 2014 You can listen to whomever you like to believe but from where I sit in Thailand if a police try to act nice but at the same time try to hit on your GF (Thai style), I would avoid him. Do not go out with him, do not buy him a drink, do not give him money. He is fishing! He's trying to catch you by asking questions. If he knows you're out of town and he keeps coming to see her after awhile she may or may not like his sweet talk. It is possible that she will have a relationship with him and eventually give him what he wants (money, sex) but the reality is that you make her life more comfortable by helping her so unlikely she would give that up. We know of a Thai girl giving money and whatever to a policeman BF. She gets it's from her foreigner BF. If you're a foreigner and not living here and not with her most all the time, and if you don't speak THAI with her and don't really know her ways and culture then anything is possible with her and another THAI guy that can show power, speak sweet and make her feel he can protect her. What do you think she will do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
metisdead Posted January 30, 2014 Share Posted January 30, 2014 Troll posts attempting to inject derogatory slurs into the topic have been removed. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sirchai Posted January 30, 2014 Share Posted January 30, 2014 (edited) Here's what you do if someone hasn't already suggested it, if he's only interested in your missus then set up a day where he comes in and she has taken the day off, get one of the other staff to say she has gone for her monthly check up at the hospital cause she is terminally ill or some b.s to that effect, that usually makes them run for the hills and hopefully he feels sorry enough not to try and sting you for any cash. That should buy enough time at least to keep the b.s going an you could go anywhere with it, how big is your imagination? You could do this or not.…....maybe I've being in los to long an starting to think like people whose country were in but as the old saying goes, when in rome Sent from my Nexus 7 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app Please tell me that you were joking. You can’t be serious. I wouldn’t make such “jokes” as too many “girls” here do have various diseases, without even knowing it.. Don’t watch too many Star Trek movies, dude and try to grow up.- Edited January 30, 2014 by sirchai Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sirchai Posted January 30, 2014 Share Posted January 30, 2014 my question is.. is he able to arrest me for no reason when i am in thailand? is he able to make it difficult for her shop if she does not welcome his approaches? What are our rights against police as citizen or tourist? Anyone we can turn to if we encounter dishonest policemen No cop will arrest you for no reason. Only if he'll find a few kg of Jaba in your luggage... Seems that your girl friend had told him that you're not really her boyfriend. You don't have any rights if a few police officers accuse you let's say you'd molested an animal... If he'd really do inappropriate things to her, she'd be able to let him know to piss off in her language/ body language. You should think why would this woman love you? Because you're a cow, that can be milked? The Thai way of solving such a problem, but only if he'd really do weird stuff would be to teach him a lesson. It's cheap and works well. Other members might be able to let you know how that works. Or you just have a chat with your sweet girlfriend <deleted> she's doing with you.... The "well mannered" cop wouldn't shop up every day, if she wouldn't like it. Or does she have a uniform fetish. ( No joke an American friend's wife tried all coppers of a town that belongs to Sisaket area) Rethink your situation, other mothers also have pretty daughters. - But, in this case the BiB guy can call immigration and state OP is working, if he wants to get rid of the OP. Lets be careful out there. Or they just "find" a bag of speed in his stuff, placed there by the coppers. Then he'd pay good money, the cop could still get him arrested and the new couple would have some money for their honeymoon.Nothing is impossible. I'm trying to avoid friendships with cops- . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jubes Posted January 30, 2014 Share Posted January 30, 2014 Here's what you do if someone hasn't already suggested it, if he's only interested in your missus then set up a day where he comes in and she has taken the day off, get one of the other staff to say she has gone for her monthly check up at the hospital cause she is terminally ill or some b.s to that effect, that usually makes them run for the hills and hopefully he feels sorry enough not to try and sting you for any cash. That should buy enough time at least to keep the b.s going an you could go anywhere with it, how big is your imagination? You could do this or not.…....maybe I've being in los to long an starting to think like people whose country were in but as the old saying goes, when in rome Sent from my Nexus 7 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app Please tell me that you were joking. You can’t be serious. I wouldn’t make such “jokes” as too many “girls” here do have various diseases, without even knowing it.. Don’t watch too many Star Trek movies, dude and try to grow up.- that's exactly why it would work, sucked you in didn't it. As for the rest if bib was trying hit on my girl I'd do everything thing in my power to stop it. As you said he's well mannered, well the f&%k is he hitting on your missus? You talk about him likes he good bloke, a real good bloke won't straight up disrespect you like that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VINCENT2012 Posted January 30, 2014 Share Posted January 30, 2014 Be nice to the policeman, invite him out when you go drinking. If you're a reasonable person (happy, calm, generous, etc) he won't screw you over and you'll be able to count on him if you have problems with other people. thats exactly what i would not do. he is using the uniform and his power to impresionate the girl and it does work, i am sure of it. in the countryside where i live thai men when they like a girl does really insist until they get her, like a hawk and his prey, it is hawfull how persistent and patient they can be....it is kind of proud also ....very diferent as us in the modus operandi ! best thing in that case to avoid perhaps a confrontation one day, is to close the shop and open in a diferent zone without saying anything to nobody. or tell your girl friend to do her job......! good luck anyway! good day and good night Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deavenger Posted January 30, 2014 Author Share Posted January 30, 2014 ... everytime he comes to shop,.he ask her to call me.. and wants to speak with me.. however he is well mannered. ... It must be quite expensive for your friend to call you abroad every time this customer wants to speak with you to practise his English. What country does she have to call for this? Does she use a mobile phone and once the connection with you is established she hands it to the customer so that he can talk to you? we use line ..Sent from my SM-N9005 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ppmacready Posted January 30, 2014 Share Posted January 30, 2014 Be nice to the policeman, invite him out when you go drinking. If you're a reasonable person (happy, calm, generous, etc) he won't screw you over and you'll be able to count on him if you have problems with other people. How long have you ''spent'' in Thailand? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ppmacready Posted January 30, 2014 Share Posted January 30, 2014 Be nice to the policeman, invite him out when you go drinking. If you're a reasonable person (happy, calm, generous, etc) he won't screw you over and you'll be able to count on him if you have problems with other people. How long have you actually spent in Thailand? Or is this reply a joke? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loles Posted January 30, 2014 Share Posted January 30, 2014 Ah Amigo, other solution, you try to find his wife and if she is enough pretty do pay attention to her .... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loles Posted January 30, 2014 Share Posted January 30, 2014 Be nice to the policeman, invite him out when you go drinking. If you're a reasonable person (happy, calm, generous, etc) he won't screw you over and you'll be able to count on him if you have problems with other people. How long have you ''spent'' in Thailand? I guess not more than 72 hours .... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sunsandsurf Posted January 30, 2014 Share Posted January 30, 2014 (edited) He could have multiple interests. 1. Interested in your girlfriend. 2. Interested in you: - To see if you're working illegally at the shop. - to see if you're doing something else illegal. - to see if he can use you to blackmail your girlfriend for money or something else than a man might want. 3. Just to be generally aware of what is happening in his area 4. Maybe he wants to know you then use you for something in the future either positive or negative. I would advise her to be nice the way any Thai person would know how to be nice to a policeman. And get people on her side including neighbors family and friends. Edited January 30, 2014 by sunsandsurf Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
robhufton Posted January 30, 2014 Share Posted January 30, 2014 does she deliver No, just chicken and pork 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sirchai Posted January 30, 2014 Share Posted January 30, 2014 I'm not scared to go eye to eye ..we are missing the plot..my qn what the authority of police officer. . Sent from my SM-N9005 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app None, as long as YOU do not lift a finger in the shop. Even cleaning your own cup could be considered "working" without a work permit.- Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
billSMITH Posted January 30, 2014 Share Posted January 30, 2014 Lets hand it to the girl. She got a fool to buy her a business! She must be doing something right. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Sayonarax Posted January 30, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted January 30, 2014 Lets hand it to the girl. She got a fool to buy her a business! She must be doing something right. Yesterday you were ranting on about buying your bargirl a business for $5,000.. Be quiet before you look like more of fool... 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sunsandsurf Posted January 30, 2014 Share Posted January 30, 2014 best thing in that case to avoid perhaps a confrontation one day, is to close the shop and open in a diferent zone without saying anything to nobody. Sad, but true. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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