How important is quality sex to you when choosing a partner?

[atyclb]

If this is how you leave them when you're finished, then by god it must of been good foe both of you, 555image.jpg

You might want to take your sweetheart to the hospital for "fecal incontinence" evaluation

Edited March 19, 2014 by atyclb

[atyclb]

A womans 3 favorite animals

1 a tiger in the bedroom

2 a Jaguar parked in the driveway

3 an ass(donkey) to pay for the first 2

[larsjohnsson]

Ohh, you so big, I love you long time!

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I love you long time is from a movie. Women in Thailand don't say that.

I don't know what this poor woman was smoking as I don't recollect meeting a Vietnam lady that talked like that. Ya ba started a long time after the Vietnam war as I remember it.

No in Thailand they say: I love you, no shit!!

[AlexRRR]

havent you ever heard of teaching them, if they dont know or have never been shown what do you expect. It is pretty easy to do, if you show her how to enjoy it herself and not just jump on and do the busines and jump off leaving her high and dry she will pick it up. Some women just lie there and this totally kills any passion(probably men that do the equivelent), if they get to enjoy it they will adjust they way they react, just try taking your time, talk to her about it and show here exactly how good it can be. When I was young it was just a matter of getting my rocks off but as you grow older and marry you learn that feelings play a big part and start to make sure your partner gets just as much enjoyment as you, maybe with a lot of happy endings she will really take to it.

This is my whole point….yes, I could teach her but if the sexual desire for any partner is completely absent on her part, what can teaching accomplish? I only ask this because I genuinely care about her and I need a partner who doesn't make me stray to the bar.

That's a big problem I have in Thailand. I don't put the effort into a relationship that I would back home because I know if she's not willing to put out, I can just buy great sex for 1000 baht.

In this case, she's beautiful and intelligent but she even admits she has a problem with no sex drive and always had the same problem in past relationships.

I don't know if I take time, can she change or is this something set from birth and no amount of time will fix the lack of desire. She said all the time she's alone, not once has she even contemplated touching herself which sort of tells me she just doesn't have the required libido for holding off the bar girls in a long term relationship.

I wouldnt couldnt tolerate a situation like that but you are in luck, a mate of mine 30 ys ago brand new marriage had very low libido, with a push from his new wife he had hormone injections well thats what they called it, it did the trick, best you discuss this with your partner if shes willing go to your doctor im more than sure there is something for her, i mean there is Viagra for men.

If she cares for you i would think she would want to give it a try, as for your ability to keep the relationship without straying because of a lack of sex your in denial, of course she could agree for you to get your rocks off with some hooker when needed, would she?

[belg]

did someone forget

you hansom man

[smileydude]

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One's definition of quality sex probably differs. To me its important that I'm able to give my partner the big "O" and if I give her several even better but this depends on the chemistry we have between each other more then either ones prowess. It doesn't have to be porn star gymnastic stuff but more importantly being able to please each other. I would feel very bummed out if she had to fake it but I bet a lot of women do because their partners are not paying enough attention to what she likes rather focusing on himself.

A lot of men have lost their libido's or have erectile dysfunction (ED's) because they've lost or never found that chemistry with their GF/wife.

Whats the big O ??

Orgasm

Thanks...thought it was Oranges.

Think I remember a girl having one of them once.

Actually the chinese consider giving oranges as a gift as a sign of wishing good health, so maybe a big orange would work for a chinese girl? On the other a hand I could see the effectivness of a lot of big oranges stringed together. Edited March 19, 2014 by smileydude

[SinCityGr8One]

This is why you should try the goods as soon as possible, who wants to have bird that's a crap ride?

They say one should never squeeze the goods until you have paid.

Same-Same when Mr. Wiffle told the shoppers, "Please don't squeeze the Charmin!"

[Escapologist]

"For normal guys, could you accept a partner for a long term relationship if she was boring and uninspiring as a lover yet very good in all other aspects of the relationship?"

It depends on you. If sex is important to you then an abstinence will eventually force you to become either unhappy or unfaithful. Maybe an alternative is to enjoy a platonic relationship with her and to have a secret affair or casual sex elsewhere? I realise that these boards become infected by heirs to Christ when this type of thing comes up but that's what I did and, I believe, doing so has prolonged the most meaningful friendship of my life. Definitely not a black and white issue.

[Incobart]

Maybe a interesting poll suggestion for the website ..

Would I leave my partner if sex is bad ?

* I have a good sex relation but would leave her if sex not satisfy me,

* I have a good sex relation and would not leave her if sex not satisfy me

* My sex relation not satisfy me, but I have a lovely partner

* I don't have a relation for long time

[arunsakda]

Ohh, you so big, I love you long time!

I love you long time is from a movie. Women in Thailand don't say that.

I don't know what this poor woman was smoking as I don't recollect meeting a Vietnam lady that talked like that. Ya ba started a long time after the Vietnam war as I remember it.

That movie, FMJ, was made entirely on a set at Canary Wharf, London, Most of the actors were from London, so I'm thinking the lady was talking with a London accent.

Summer filming outdoors in London. No wonder none of the actors appear warm.

[smotherb]

This is why you should try the goods as soon as possible, who wants to have bird that's a crap ride?

They say one should never squeeze the goods until you have paid.

I quite disagree with whomever "They" are. Would you make any major purchase without trying it out? Even property and buildings, I want to check inside and out and preferably be there at all hours--don't you drive a car, try on a pair of shoes, put on a suit, etc., ad infinitim.

Now, if sex is the only thing she can do, she does not qualify either. Whatever is important for you, should be part of any lasting relationship--if it's not a part, it's not going to last.

How do you try out a bullet?

By firing it, of course.

[thailiketoo]

They say one should never squeeze the goods until you have paid.

I quite disagree with whomever "They" are. Would you make any major purchase without trying it out? Even property and buildings, I want to check inside and out and preferably be there at all hours--don't you drive a car, try on a pair of shoes, put on a suit, etc., ad infinitim.

Now, if sex is the only thing she can do, she does not qualify either. Whatever is important for you, should be part of any lasting relationship--if it's not a part, it's not going to last.

How do you try out a bullet?

By firing it, of course.

When you go to the store to buy bullets do you shoot them before buying?

[Scarpolo]

In my opinion there really is not way out except just try to be satisfied with what you got. Otherwise you gotta cheat on your family with whores, which just sounds awful. I mean, sex with whores is bad even when single. I really don't believe any guy who says he enjoys sex with a rent-doll. It ruins the essence of sex.

But that's what makes this part of the world so wonderful - the many grey areas, where you avoid the explicit sex workers, but can still easily find a "gifted amateur" bed mate on a more or less transactional basis.

Sure it's nicer with a deep and meaningful long-term relationship, but as so many point out the bloom is off the rose in the strictly physical department all too soon, plus all the other headaches make it hardly worth while to many.

Here you can design your own best-of-all-possible-worlds scenario to your own specs rather than having to fit the more limited menu of configurations back home.

im a woman but im still going to comment. surely for both men and woman if the sexual par of the relationship is boring then the relationship will fizzle out i mean youd start looking somewhere else no matter what sex you are.

But there's no need to throw out the baby with the bath water. The long-term financial/companionship/true-love partnership can continue to thrive while either or both partners is free to have fun with relatively superficial play-dates outside.

Just need to carefully design/negotiate the ground rules, and of course it takes a lot of trust and ongoing communication, not saying it's easy but ultimately very rewarding.

gifted amateur?

[Scarpolo]

Ohh, you so big, I love you long time!

I love you long time is from a movie. Women in Thailand don't say that.

I don't know what this poor woman was smoking as I don't recollect meeting a Vietnam lady that talked like that. Ya ba started a long time after the Vietnam war as I remember it.

That movie, FMJ, was made entirely on a set at Canary Wharf, London, Most of the actors were from London, so I'm thinking the lady was talking with a London accent.

sounded black to me

[StreetCowboy]

Ohh, you so big, I love you long time!

I love you long time is from a movie. Women in Thailand don't say that.

I don't know what this poor woman was smoking as I don't recollect meeting a Vietnam lady that talked like that. Ya ba started a long time after the Vietnam war as I remember it.

That movie, FMJ, was made entirely on a set at Canary Wharf, London, Most of the actors were from London, so I'm thinking the lady was talking with a London accent.

sounded black to me

Great actors sound the part

[soalbundy]

give us all a break, discover the joys of masturbation

[Craig351]

As some have said their is a balance you need the package!

But just straight out answer to the question sex for me has to be good

I have had both, she was so boring I lost interest which I have never done before or after

My wife now, wow mind blowing no man could ask for more the shock is she is good at everything else

I have never been happier

[belg]

As some have said their is a balance you need the package!

But just straight out answer to the question sex for me has to be good

I have had both, she was so boring I lost interest which I have never done before or after

My wife now, wow mind blowing no man could ask for more the shock is she is good at everything else

I have never been happier

does she by any change have any younger sisters with same abilities

[Craig351]

Hmmm actually she dose

And they are both hot and cute

I know she can cook, wash is clean and is a good girl even still a virgin as far as I know

About the wild bedroom details sorry I cant help you there haha

Just between us and no one else!!

I'd love to test her out but no chance there can only dream

[Showbags]

If you send me her details...I'll let you watch via skype.

[kevvy]

when you are really "in love" there is no bad sex with your wife .

When you're married, there's hardly any sex at all.

Then you are married to the wrong young girl.Or to the wrong girlfriend

[Scarpolo]

when you are really "in love" there is no bad sex with your wife .

When you're married, there's hardly any sex at all.

Then you are married to the wrong young girl.Or to the wrong girlfriend

no sex, no marriage

clean house, not so important

ironed shirts, even less important (nice, but not important"

a naked kitten who knows how to kiss, priceless

Edited April 19, 2014 by Scarpolo

[thailiketoo]

no sex, no marriage

clean house, not so important

ironed shirts, even less important (nice, but not important"

a naked kitten who knows how to kiss, priceless

Not so in Thailand. Sex and laundry about the same price. Good sex everywhere. Good laundry not so many.

[LaraC]

no sex, no marriage

clean house, not so important

ironed shirts, even less important (nice, but not important"

a naked kitten who knows how to kiss, priceless

Not so in Thailand. Sex and laundry about the same price. Good sex everywhere. Good laundry not so many.

[kevvy]

[BngkkB]

I was in a bar one night and a girl walked up and sat down next to me. She looked at me and told me she loved me. I told her how can you love me, you don't even know me? She said she had been watching me and loved me.

I asked her if she knew what love was? Before she could answer I went on to explain to her that love was the feeling that came over ones whole body 3 seconds before they cum.

I then asked her if she really loved me?

Her reply; "Not Yet, but soon"

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[Scarpolo]

I was in a bar one night and a girl walked up and sat down next to me. She looked at me and told me she loved me. I told her how can you love me, you don't even know me? She said she had been watching me and loved me.

I asked her if she knew what love was? Before she could answer I went on to explain to her that love was the feeling that came over ones whole body 3 seconds before they cum.

I then asked her if she really loved me?

Her reply; "Not Yet, but soon"

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did she know any other words?

[JDGRUEN]

My expectations are not finding a wife who provides mind blowing 'jungle' acrobatic sex, rather that she has a real interest and can engage in sex with a bit of enthusiasm - that she wants to give and receive sexual satisfaction. And that sex will be available on a reasonably frequent basis ... even twice a week would be acceptable if it were only for a short term.

Unfortunately some Thai women do not seem to have an interest in the physical sexual act. Worse is when they don't tell you - but fake it for two months... then all of a sudden it becomes a problem. But of course the problem can be a manufactured one when the wedding date is not set, the sin sod (sot) is not high enough or the house investment is not large enough. Amazing how those concerns and disappoints result in a physical / mental aversion to having sex with her Farlang boyfriend / husband. In those cases it is called creating leverage to get a promise for a 'date', for the sin sod amount or for just how much is going to be put into the house. Then when the leverage fails to produce the desired result - the physical / mental aversion becomes a convenient obstacle to continuing the relationship and she encourages going separate ways.

[LaraC]

My expectations are not finding a wife who provides mind blowing 'jungle' acrobatic sex, rather that she has a real interest and can engage in sex with a bit of enthusiasm - that she wants to give and receive sexual satisfaction. And that sex will be available on a reasonably frequent basis ... even twice a week would be acceptable if it were only for a short term.

Unfortunately some Thai women do not seem to have an interest in the physical sexual act. Worse is when they don't tell you - but fake it for two months... then all of a sudden it becomes a problem. But of course the problem can be a manufactured one when the wedding date is not set, the sin sod (sot) is not high enough or the house investment is not large enough. Amazing how those concerns and disappoints result in a physical / mental aversion to having sex with her Farlang boyfriend / husband. In those cases it is called creating leverage to get a promise for a 'date', for the sin sod amount or for just how much is going to be put into the house. Then when the leverage fails to produce the desired result - the physical / mental aversion becomes a convenient obstacle to continuing the relationship and she encourages going separate ways.

Frankly, a thai woman who is with a man she finds attractive and who has the ability to fire her up, is going to (generally) enjoy sex.

However, if she is with a not too attractive man who is badly out of shape and/or much older than her, with the charm of a baboon..then chances are shes going to "suddenly" become less interested in sex once the sin sot etc has been paid.

Think about it...

Edited April 20, 2014 by LaraC

[thailiketoo]

I thought about it. Oh, so the sin sod is the last occasion that a wife asks for money in Thailand?

Perhaps men in other countries marry for sex. I don't think that is the case in Thailand.

Most of the liaisons I am familiar with involve some kind of business transaction. For example marriage to cement a financial partnership or to get grandmother to stop worrying about no grandchildren to carry on the family gold shop or whiskey business.

Thailand is a country of off the grid small businesses and a ready supply of management and labor is always a prime concern. Marriage is one way of keeping the family enterprise going.

Edited April 20, 2014 by thailiketoo