<deleted>.. you what? Read post 29 again, please.

LOL, yeah and read your quote in my last post.........

redrus

hey dude.... I can´t be held responsible for the content of your posts, quotes or otherwise.... Hurmmph...!

hey dude.... I am responsible for the content of your posts, quotes.... Hurmmph...!

Yeah yeah.........

redrus

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Right, I{m off for a beer instead.

Aye, fair nuff. Thyis example wasn´t my story, and I lived no where near them, so only saw them as my customers in my bar (kid´s don´t come into my bar much, and are not allowed in at night, but I and the village sort of saw it developing as it was being wrapped up (Ie: Cop cars everywhere and people in hanbdcuffs and stuff. And Undoubtebdly, yeah, Daley, I{d know if it was my moment to make that decision.

Daleyboy hasn't posted in this thread,.......

redrus

I aint getting involved............

Guys who claim benefits fraudulently are directly affecting you and your kin.

When / if it's time to be paid yourself there might not be any money left for you.

Anybody foolish enough to disclose or brag about benefit fraud deserves to be stitched up for it.

Everybody has their reasons for wanting to remain in the Kingdom, but i have no time for those maggots who want to do it explioting others.

These two blokes sound like the typical chancers that are all over the place in Thailand. Be a better place without them.

All i will say, is i used to work as a bailiff collecting money from people who claimed benefits fraudulently, and i got great pleasure from emptying their houses when they couldn't pay.

The way i saw it, i was collecting money which belonged to me,money they had stolen from me,i pay my taxes to keep these scrotes, and when someone steals from me, then they have to pay, one way or another

You have to do what makes you feel right

All i will say, is i used to work as a bailiff collecting money from people who claimed benefits fraudulently, and i got great pleasure from emptying their houses when they couldn't pay.

The way i saw it, i was collecting money which belonged to me,money they had stolen from me,i pay my taxes to keep these scrotes, and when someone steals from me, then they have to pay, one way or another

You have to do what makes you feel right

Thats different... doing your job is not the same as grassin' someone up...

Live and let live is your best policy (OP) I reckon...

totster

What does that mean, to "grass"? I am unfamiliar with that term. Is it the same as ratting on someone or telling a person when someone else is doing something wrong?

Yep , a rat , a stool pidgon , snitch , same same but not different .

My advice , live and let die .

Live and let live is your best policy (OP) I reckon...

totster

Agree with Tots. Live and let live. If it's not my business I won't make it my business. Otherwise I would have been a copper in life.

But this is not quite the scenario related by the OP, who seems to have some relations of sorts with these two dubious characters. Part company would be my advice, as already suggested by many posters. And if they had some sort of grip on you that would make that impossible then I'd abide by UG's advice - to grass only in self defense.

Thanks for the advice, but I am still unsure.

A grass is wrong, I know that.

Who wouldn't grass a paedophile though? I guess everyone has their boundaries.

What about a guy who raped his wife?

A guy who hit his wife?

A guy who psychologically abused his wife? etc

Where is he limit?

I've been fraudulant myself in the past. I am willing, and been meaking ammends for my mistakes but haven't paid back all yet. Hypocrite?

The guy claiming the dole has a family here, what would happen to them, not that I really care.

I really don't want to be a grass, but as someone suggested only in self-defense sounds right.

But, for the last few years I've been 'trying' to live my life honestly and do the correct moral things.

I'm going to do nothing - I have a family myself and I wouldn't want them to be in any danger. I don't give a fcku about myself, and have no fear of any retribution. Why open a can of worms? I'll hope someone else grasses them up.

It's selfish I know, but why risk any sleepless nights.

No one is getting physically injured in these instances of Neeranam's and I have no doubt (or I would like to think so at least) that we would all 100% unhesitatingly 'grass' were anyone doing so.

I really don't want to be a grass, but as someone suggested only in self-defense sounds right.

Actually, when you only do it when it's a benefit to you I think it's worse.

If you think it's important enough then do it, if you aren't that worried by it then don't. This "Being a grass is always wrong" stuff is just immature high school crap. If you think that something is so seriously wrong that you feel it's your duty to speak up then do it and don't be afraid. Or you can take some action yourself as I suggested before and give the person a chance to think twice about their own actions. If it's not serious enough for you to do either of the above then you've already wasted too much time worrying about it.

cv

Thanks for the advice, but I am still unsure.

A grass is wrong, I know that.

Who wouldn't grass a paedophile though? I guess everyone has their boundaries. (THERe IS NO CHOICE IN THIS ONE)

What about a guy who raped his wife? (SLAP HIM)

A guy who hit his wife?(SLAP HIM)

A guy who psychologically abused his wife? etc(SLAP HIM)

Where is he limit?

I've been fraudulant myself in the past. I am willing, and been meaking ammends for my mistakes but haven't paid back all yet. Hypocrite?

The guy claiming the dole has a family here, what would happen to them, not that I really care.

I really don't want to be a grass, but as someone suggested only in self-defense sounds right.

But, for the last few years I've been 'trying' to live my life honestly and do the correct moral things.

I'm going to do nothing - I have a family myself and I wouldn't want them to be in any danger. I don't give a fcku about myself, and have no fear of any retribution. Why open a can of worms? I'll hope someone else grasses them up.

It's selfish I know, but why risk any sleepless nights.

IMHO, in this case, don't get involved.

redrus

I really don't want to be a grass, but as someone suggested only in self-defense sounds right.

Actually, when you only do it when it's a benefit to you I think it's worse.

If you think it's important enough then do it, if you aren't that worried by it then don't. This "Being a grass is always wrong" stuff is just immature high school crap. If you think that something is so seriously wrong that you feel it's your duty to speak up then do it and don't be afraid. Or you can take some action yourself as I suggested before and give the person a chance to think twice about their own actions. If it's not serious enough for you to do either of the above then you've already wasted too much time worrying about it.

cv

To me, credit card fraud is - somewhat - a victimless crime and I would not feel comfortable ruining someone's life for something so unimportant.

Violence, rape, murder, true pedophilia, these are things that I would not hestitate to call the police about.

Don't get involved. There are too many illegal ways to get back at you if they decide you were attacking them, and they've already shown they have either poor judgment or no scruples.

I'm with the guys who are wondering why you maintain any contact with them at all.

"Steven"

I once came between a friend and her ex-beau during one of their arguments. Next thing I knew I had a revolver pressed in my gut. Walk away and let them sort their own lives out.